Isn't that how all the fairy tales start?
When I hear those words, I always want to snuggle down and listen, knowing the story will probably have a princess, a witch or evil character of some sort, a hero...generally a prince and some dreadful choice that must be made which will appear to be impossible. And sometimes talking animals....enchantments and spells. For some reason, it's comforting to me to know all this will be following those four words.
When I was young, I read the most fantastic things....but I was an incredibly practical child. Can you believe that? It's hard for me to even believe! I was very quiet, shy, a terrible bookworm, my favorite color was blue and I didn't really care for dolls or clothes or anything like that. (My sister, the personal investigator, is always trying to figure out how I ended up being the exact and total opposite...to the core....of how I started out.) I believed animals could talk, but the whole princess thing was lost on me. Somewhere along the squiggly-snarled line of my life, I started embracing whimsy, so....
This morning, I watched the royal wedding. And woke my daughter up to watch the royal wedding. And told her about the other two royal weddings I watched when I was younger. And, yes, a tiara will be worn today to honor and commemorate the occasion.
And the truly astonishing thing is that I do sort of find the whole thing very wonderful!
There still are princesses! And princes! And they still ride off in carriages with all the pomp and fluff that they did in the fairytales I read. There are still crowns and white gloves and titles and...yes....witches that show up in garden hats. (Disguises, you know...)
I know there's no such thing as happily ever after. Both of the royal weddings I watched in my youth ended sadly. I dearly hope this one will not.
There are many who scoff today's event...mumbling and grumbling about it, upset that their regularly scheduled programming has been interrupted and stating that all the money put toward the wedding could've been used for some other purpose that would save countries and feed the hungry. Of course. But here's my thing: we are daily bombarded with news of war, famine, disasters that boggle our minds, crime and awfulness that I don't want to write of. Today, there was a prince who married a girl who may someday be his queen. They are young and beautiful and happy, and they rode to the castle in a carriage drawn by white horses. And for an hour or so, I was about 6 years old, believing that there would be a happily ever after. I really needed that.
Once upon a time...
*Incidentally, tomorrow Maggie and I will be going to Miles City for High Tea with the Princesses, a special time that little girls can go in their fanciest dresses and do girly things for awhile at the Ursuline Convent. Even dance with their favorite fairytale princess! I don't know who's more excited, her or me....we're both going to wear our prettiest dresses and be as elegant as we can be. I'm getting tummy tickles just thinking of it!