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December is a month filled with religious significance for so many. Christmas (Dec 24-25) and Chanukah (Nov 28-Dec 6). Christians speak of the light coming into the world at Christmas and Chanukah is the festival of lights when the light was returned to the newly cleansed temple in Jerusalem. So, they have a common connection.
Let's talk about December and what it has in store for you....
1. How much importance do you place on December holidays? Do you plan and prepare? Is that part of the fun for you or would you rather dispense with it?
Plan? What is that? We mainly go with the flow, grin.
2. Food is a big part of the holiday season. Which foods and treats do you most look forward to having?
Cookies, yeah, cookies...as for foods...we tend to keep it simple during the cold months; soups, casseroles and even roasts...not sure about the roasts this year-the costs of food are way up.
3. It is a season for family, friends, guests and giving. Would you write a bit about how it all comes together for you in December?
Come together? My family lives in Florida, his family lives here and they try to plan...and it never happens that way. When we went over for Thanksgiving desert to our nephews, my husband's sister-our nephew's mother was trying to plan (no, that would be bully) into having getting everyone around for a Christmas party. She is an appeaser, anyways...sometimes, you just gotta' let things happen naturally. I might had said that. Just set a time and date and go with it...stop this nonsense of "planning". I might have said that as well. grin. Hey, I have been part of this family for 41 years, I can say what's on my mind, that is my story and I am sticking to it. grin
4. Life changes and traditions alter due to those changes. Has anything changed for you and if so how? If not, would you mind sharing your traditions with us?
We refuse to travel on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.
--Christmas Eve 30+ yrs ago while we were out last-minute Christmas shopping in a snowstorm, we were in an accident when we lived in Hudson, NY (I might had told the story). ANYWAYS, while waiting for the police (the police chiefs gf hit us--and they were in no hurry to get to the scene, let's just keep it real) and such, we walked over to the pizza place. That started a tradition that has remained all these years. Or as my husband has stated all these years, "No bad juju." It's a southern thing (Juju). LOL
--we don't travel and we have pizza for Christmas Eve. This year, I am probably working on Christmas Eve and will bring Pizza home from my employer. Work is only a 5-minute drive...what could possibly go wrong? (Knock on wood-grin)
--if you want to come over for that and Lasagna for Christmas Day, be our guests. We don't mind. We are firm on not traveling...and his sister knows it.
--now, when our son gets his own family, we expect changes...but according to him, he will always come home. Huhuh, his wife and kids might have something to say about that, LOLOLOL and we might have to adjust our lifestyle to suit his family. Until then...we keep with the traditions that started all those years ago. AND the kid goes, "I ain't changing nothing, no bad juju from me. She'll have to go along with it." Ok then...rolling eyes. Gosh, he is in for such a rude awakening, lol.