What’s
been happening?
(Clicking on the photos enlarges them - usually . . . )
The days and weeks and months pass so quickly and when I look
back I can’t see that anything much has happened. So, what has been happening?
In February and August of 2016, after years of increasing
immobility and pain, Barry had two knee replacements. The result is that he is
taller and can do so much more now. He was a very good patient and did all his
exercises assiduously. His physiotherapist was extremely good and got the
measure of him very quickly, recognising his very competitive spirit, and warning
advising him not to overdo things.
In February last year, 2017, Susannah treated us to a trip to Tromsø
in Norway to see the Northern Lights. If proof were needed of the success of
Barry’s knee operations, it was provided by that holiday. We went out at night
into the fjords to see the Lights and Barry stood for several hours, filming
them. The next day we went out again, in the hope of seeing orcas and humpback
whales, though the majority had left the area, and again Barry stood for
several hours taking photographs. We saw a couple of orcas and one humpback.
Aurora Borealis, Tromso
In the summer, Susannah and I went to Lucca in Tuscany. She
was going to a friend’s wedding and I was going to look after Frankie. However,
Frankie didn’t come with us in the end. It was very hot!
Villa Cheli, Lucca, Tuscany
Italian wall lizard
In August, our eldest grandson, Callum, came to live with us.
He is on a year’s work placement from university. It’s lovely to have a young
man in the house and beneficial for Frankie to have another good male role
model. We see a lot of his girl-friend, Kat, too.
Callum and Kat at the helm of Appaloosa.
In September Frankie started full-time school. As he had been attending
pre-school in the same school since he was three, the staff and facilities were
familiar to him. However, quite naturally, he was a little anxious and wanted
to know if there would be toilets there! The uniform was a challenge for him. No
longer was it a case of pulling on a tee-shirt and trousers. Now he had to
manage shirt buttons. I have watched my husband countless times as he strains
and contorts to fasten the wretched top button. Although Frankie had practised
fastening buttons before term started, he could not manage the top button and
found it frustrating. In fact, the thought of undressing and dressing affected
his enjoyment of school and there were several occasions when he said, ‘I don’t
like swimming/PE/school.’ It passed, of course, and now he is proud that he can
get undressed/dressed quicker than his peers. Like his grandfather, Frankie is
very competitive.
First day of school - so many clothes!
The watchword in our house is, ‘Practice makes perfect’ and so
it proves with many things. Frankie asked me the other day why I could write so
quickly and I told him it was because I’d had lots of practice.
We hosted Christmas 2017, the first time we’ve done that for
several years. Bethan and Robert and Charlie came, with Lolly, of course. It
was fun and we were so well-organised, unusually for us, that we could have eaten
lunch at 11.30. Susannah, a dedicated vegetarian, was in charge of vegetables
and I was responsible for cooking the meat. The thing that delayed us and made
us laugh was part of the vegetarian element. The Brussels sprouts were not
ready! Even so, we ate at 1.00 which was just as well as small children cannot
wait long for food without becoming fretful.
Charlie and Frankie
On the animal front the Labradors keep us busy and make us go
out. We may sometimes be reluctant but the rewards are many, not least seeing the
joy of our dogs playing. We both use walking poles as the ground we cover is rough
and full of ruts and roots and often extremely muddy.
Retrieving sticks
The cats are six in number. We have our three Ocicat brothers,
who will be six this year. Susannah’s much loved and characterful Abyssinian,
Cleopatra, known as Pats or Patricia, died in 2017. Susannah already had two
Somali brothers (Somalis are long-haired
Abyssinians) and now has a tiny, exquisite Abyssinian female, Zula, who was
one year old on 1st February. The cats adore the dogs, Bertie in
particular, and you may be sure that if you are making a fuss of a dog you will
soon be joined by one or more cats.
Zula
All the animals love Callum and pile onto and around him and
also Kat. I think they respond positively to youth!
Callum with four dogs and two cats
So there you have it. We have done very little other than look
after our family. We are older but not much wiser and still look to the future
though with less optimism about our lovely country. Politicians of both main
parties, at least those in the headlines, the ‘leaders’, prove their
incompetence almost daily. MPs of all persuasions demand that more money should
be thrown at whichever problem is causing the most unease at any time. That is
not the answer but it impresses the voters . . . maybe. Plus ça change!