Be as you wish to seem

Be as you wish to seem
Introduction
We should strive to be authentic and genuine in our interactions with others. It encourages
authenticity and integrity in one's actions and character. The Power of Self-Presentation”. It is an
advice. The statement "Be as you wish to seem" encourages individuals to align their actions
with the image they want to project.
"The Dilemma between Human Aspirations and Actions
Decoding the idea
The phrase encourages individuals to align their actions and inner character with the outward
image they wish to portray. In simpler terms, if you want to be perceived as a certain type of
person—honest, kind, confident, or wise—you must genuinely embody those traits, not merely
pretend
Why one be as they wish to seem
1. Living authentically eliminates the stress of maintaining a false persona
2. Being true to oneself enhances self-esteem and confidence because you
don’t rely on external validation.
3. Authenticity is essential for leader to woo its supporters
4. Authentic-self promotes healthy relationship
5. Genuineness builds trust that helps in social connectivity
6. Genuine soul is a source of inspiration for others
7. Realness facilitates diplomats to cut deal for their country
8. All religions advice man to live authentically
9. Authenticity enhances reputation in society
10.Unauthentic living is considered abhorrent across the globe
Authenticity in the age of social media
Why people present themselves not authentically? (This header is additional)
Social Acceptance: Conforming to societal norms and expectations can lead
individuals to present a false self to fit in and gain acceptance.
Fear of Rejection: People often fear that their true selves may not be accepted,
leading them to hide their authentic thoughts and feelings.
Desire for Status: Inauthenticity can be driven by the desire for power, popularity,
or success, which may require presenting a socially desirable image.
Avoiding Consequences: In some situations, people present themselves
inauthentically to avoid negative consequences or judgment, such as in the
workplace or social circles.
Self-Protection: Concealing vulnerabilities and weaknesses can be a form of self-
protection, preventing potential exploitation or harm in certain situations.
Significance of authenticity
 Perceived as trustworthy and honest
 Forming relation with ease
 Have mental peace
 Lead to fulfilling life
Example
Mala Yousafzai despite Talban threat main authenticity
Prophet Muhammad
Danger/cost of inauthentic life/ Consequences of not following advice
 Be perceived as untrustworthy and manipulative.

 Have difficulty forming close relationships.
 Experience stress and anxiety from trying to maintain a facade.
 Ultimately lead unfulfilling lives.
Example
Politicians: Modi
Clergy:
Challenges in the age of social media

How to be more authentic
 Be honest with yourself and others about your thoughts, feelings, and
values.
 Don't be afraid to be different from others.
 Accept yourself for who you are, flaws and all.
 Surround yourself with people who love and accept you for who you are.
 Responsible use of social media
 Spend time reflecting on your values and goals. What kind of person do you
want to be? What kind of impact do you want to have on the world? Once
you have a clear understanding of your values and goals, you can start to
align your actions and words with them.
 Be honest and authentic in your interactions with others. Don't try to be
someone you're not, because people will eventually see through it. Be open
and vulnerable, and let others get to know the real you.
 Be mindful of your actions and words. Ask yourself if your words and
actions are aligned with the person you want to be. If not, make a change.
 Take action towards your goals. Don't just dream about the person you
want to be. Take steps to become that person.
Conclusion
Quotes
 Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde
 "It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you
are not." - Andre Gide
 Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in
harmony. Gandhi
 "Your time is limited, don't waste it living someone else's life." - Steve Jobs
 The authentic self is the soul made visible." - Sarah Ban Breathnach
 “How many holy word you read, however you speak. What good will they
do you if you do not act upon them?”…Buddha

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