Gideon discusses the differences between low and high emotional intelligence when dealing with difficult situations. Those with low emotional intelligence will blame others to avoid responsibility for their own shortcomings. They have trouble understanding and empathizing with other people's emotions. In contrast, those with high emotional intelligence can correctly read a situation. They empathize with others and communicate effectively by expressing their own emotions in a clear manner, even if feeling upset. Emotional intelligence is not determined by genetics, but can be improved over time through practice and effort.
Gideon discusses the differences between low and high emotional intelligence when dealing with difficult situations. Those with low emotional intelligence will blame others to avoid responsibility for their own shortcomings. They have trouble understanding and empathizing with other people's emotions. In contrast, those with high emotional intelligence can correctly read a situation. They empathize with others and communicate effectively by expressing their own emotions in a clear manner, even if feeling upset. Emotional intelligence is not determined by genetics, but can be improved over time through practice and effort.
Gideon discusses the differences between low and high emotional intelligence when dealing with difficult situations. Those with low emotional intelligence will blame others to avoid responsibility for their own shortcomings. They have trouble understanding and empathizing with other people's emotions. In contrast, those with high emotional intelligence can correctly read a situation. They empathize with others and communicate effectively by expressing their own emotions in a clear manner, even if feeling upset. Emotional intelligence is not determined by genetics, but can be improved over time through practice and effort.
Gideon discusses the differences between low and high emotional intelligence when dealing with difficult situations. Those with low emotional intelligence will blame others to avoid responsibility for their own shortcomings. They have trouble understanding and empathizing with other people's emotions. In contrast, those with high emotional intelligence can correctly read a situation. They empathize with others and communicate effectively by expressing their own emotions in a clear manner, even if feeling upset. Emotional intelligence is not determined by genetics, but can be improved over time through practice and effort.
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I…I…I don’t know what to do.
I’m feeling very nervous, or anxious, or scared, and
whatever this feeling is! I don’t know whether I have to do this or do that. PLEASE ! Why am I like this? Have you ever ended up in this situation? you just constantly felt you’re on the edge of a cliff. Taking a step forward or backward nor the choices that are useful to you. We always talked about EQ and IQ. In this situation, do you know which we needed the most? Is it EQ? Or IQ? None of it. My name is Gideon. Today, I'll be figuring out with you what the power of emotional intelligence(EI) is. Recently I watched a video from Youtube. It’s about Dr.Ivan Young giving a speech about What emotional intelligence is. He said: Of course you would think that emotional intelligence is being aware and having clarity about your feelings in the feelings of other people when you’re in the midst of a set of circumstances or a situation. But the truth is emotional intelligence goes far beyond having clarity about people, its clarity about situations. I couldn’t agree more. In this speech, I’m going to talk about how people with high and low emotional intelligence individuals react to situations. Right now, imagine on your left side is the low emotional intelligence version of Gideon, on your right side is the high emotional intelligence of Gideon. He got low grades on his final group project. “It’s Jason's fault ! he always attends class late, can’t you see he didn’t pay any concentration to the project? It’s him that’s why we get these low grades!”. “It’s okay. It’s just we didn’t work hard enough to earn the result that we desired. Take this as a lesson to work harder in the next project. I believe we can get better grades”. As you can see, low emotional intelligence individuals use that as a defence mechanism to avoid their shortcomings and flaws, they tend to address every single fault of themselves to others. By making themselves as the victim and others as the perpetrators, they may feel a sense of righteousness and superiority. Other signs that they have emotional outbursts. Why? Low emotional intelligence individuals may have difficulty with comprehending the emotions of others, which can make it grinding for them to empathise and connect with others. However, high emotional individuals knew how to read the situation correctly. It’s already upsetting to get a lower grade. High emotional intelligence individuals know how to empathise with others. They are able to put themselves in someone else’s shoes and try to communicate effectively. They are skilled at expressing their emotions in a clear and concise manner. Sometimes even though they feel mad they will not express it on others. That's where the distinction between low and high emotional intelligence people. To recapitulate, you may ask, is it emotional intelligence individuals determined by genetics or innate abilities. Neither. Emotional intelligence can be improved over time through intentional effort and practice. It actually can be shaped. Individuals that are expert with their emotions, but also in the process of getting better at it, will find it easier to also handle the emotions of others because they have a different understanding.
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