This document discusses self-awareness and the four aspects of self: physical self, spiritual self, social self, and emotional self. It explains that self-awareness involves understanding one's personality, strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions. Developing self-awareness allows one to make changes and see how thoughts and emotions influence actions. The four aspects of self refer to the physical body and image, internal thoughts and values, the self that is shared with others, and connecting with and processing emotions. The document provides ways to take care of each aspect, such as exercise and nutrition for physical self, and meditation for spiritual self.
This document discusses self-awareness and the four aspects of self: physical self, spiritual self, social self, and emotional self. It explains that self-awareness involves understanding one's personality, strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions. Developing self-awareness allows one to make changes and see how thoughts and emotions influence actions. The four aspects of self refer to the physical body and image, internal thoughts and values, the self that is shared with others, and connecting with and processing emotions. The document provides ways to take care of each aspect, such as exercise and nutrition for physical self, and meditation for spiritual self.
This document discusses self-awareness and the four aspects of self: physical self, spiritual self, social self, and emotional self. It explains that self-awareness involves understanding one's personality, strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions. Developing self-awareness allows one to make changes and see how thoughts and emotions influence actions. The four aspects of self refer to the physical body and image, internal thoughts and values, the self that is shared with others, and connecting with and processing emotions. The document provides ways to take care of each aspect, such as exercise and nutrition for physical self, and meditation for spiritual self.
This document discusses self-awareness and the four aspects of self: physical self, spiritual self, social self, and emotional self. It explains that self-awareness involves understanding one's personality, strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions. Developing self-awareness allows one to make changes and see how thoughts and emotions influence actions. The four aspects of self refer to the physical body and image, internal thoughts and values, the self that is shared with others, and connecting with and processing emotions. The document provides ways to take care of each aspect, such as exercise and nutrition for physical self, and meditation for spiritual self.
Self-Awareness - habits - understanding of one's own or - emotions individual personality - needs - having a clear perception of our How Do We Develop Self-Awareness? personality including strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, - be in touch with your own feelings motivation, and emotions - do not deny your feelings - seek feedback from those that you are Self-Awareness Theory close to and trust - in 1972, Shelley Duval and Robert - practice reflective thinking Wicklund developed the idea of - do not allow your feelings to dictate objective self-awareness your behavior - they asserted that at any given - get the most out of performance moment, a person could be self- reviews focused or other-focused - they believed that inward focus involved comparing the self with Human Behaviors Essential for Obtaining Self standards -Success - these standards arise from interactions - an independent nature with the external environment - self-confidence - persistence Why Develop Self-Awareness? - a big imagination - you are able to make changes in the - a thick skin thought and interpretations you make in your mind - it is the first step in creating what you Human Behaviors Essential for Obtaining Self want and mastering your abilities -Success - it allows you to see where your - clarity of self-understanding thoughts and emotions are taking you - clarity of intent so you can make the changes you want - focus How Self-Awareness Makes You More - optimism Effective? - passion - skill development - knowing your strength and weaknesses Johari Window - developing intuitive decision-making - named after the first names of its skills inventors, Joseph Luft and Harry - stress Ingham - motivation - one of the most useful models - leadership describing the process of human interaction - a four paned “window”, divides Key Areas for Self-Awareness personal awareness into four different types, as represented by its four - found within the subconscious and are quadrants tightly woven into the fabric of everyday life Wellness - a value is a principle or quality intrinsically valuable or desirable to you - wellness is achieving one’s full - they are your convictions, your beliefs, potential and your ethics rolled into one - it is self-directed and an ever-evolving process The Basic Values of the Filipinos The Seven Dimensions of Wellness There are sixteen (16) basic Filipino values based on the 1987 Philippine Constitution Social Wellness - this is how a person contributes to Preamble his/her environment and community and how he or she builds better living Derived from the Latin word “preambulare” spaces and social networks which means “to walk before”. It is the prologue of the Constitution. Occupational Wellness - related to one’s attitude about one’s We, the sovereign Filipino people, imploring work and recognizes personal the aid of Almighty God, in order to build a satisfaction and enrichment in one’s life just and humane society and establish a through work Government that shall embody our ideals and aspirations, promote the common good, Spiritual Wellness conserve and develop our patrimony, and - recognizes our search for meaning and secure to ourselves our posterity the blessings purpose in human existence of independence and democracy under the rule of law and a regime of truth, justice, Intellectual Wellness freedom, love, equality, and peace, do ordain - recognizes one’s creative and and promulgate this Constitution. stimulating mental activities as well as expands knowledge and skills while The Filipino Value System sharing his or her gifts with others Emotional Wellness - includes their own unique assemblage of consistent ideologies, moral codes, - includes the capacity to manage one’s ethical practice, etiquette, and cultural feelings and related behaviors, and personal values that are promoted including the realistic assessment of by their society one’s limitations, the development of - rooted primarily in personal alliance autonomy, and the ability to cope systems, especially those based in effectively with stress kinship, obligation, friendship, religion Physical Wellness (particularly Christianity), and - it is met through the combination of commercial relationships good exercise and eating habits, taking - centered at maintaining social harmony, precautions for self-care, and receiving motivated primarily by the desire to be appropriate health screenings accepted within a group throughout our lives Formation of Values Values Development 1. Personal Values - values are deeply held beliefs that path 2. Moral Values our daily decisions 3. Aesthetic Values - how fat, thin, or muscular, we think it is 4. Universal Values 5. Human Values How do we take care of our Physical Self? 6. Social Values 1. Sleep 2. Stretching Philippine Core Values 3. Walking - the way people live their lives as an 4. Physical Release influence of one’s culture 5. Healthy Food 1. Family 6. Yoga 2. Politeness 7. Rest 3. Hospitality 4. Gratitude Spiritual Self 5. Shame - internal thoughts 6. Flexibility, Adaptability, and Creativity - values and moral standards (principle) 7. Loyalty 8. Hardwork and Industry How do we take care of our Spiritual Self? 9. Resignation 1. Time Alone 10. Unity\Bayanihan 2. Meditation 11. Faith and Religiosity 3. Connection 4. Nature 5. Journaling NSTP-CWTS 6. Yoga Nature of Self 7. Sacred Space Self the essential being that distinguishes them Social Self from others, especially considered as the object of introspection or reflexive action - the self that we share with others in social situations Four Aspects of the Self 1. Physical Self 2. Spiritual Self How do we take care of our Social Self? 3. Social Self 1. Boundaries 4. Emotional Self 2. Support Systems 3. Positive Social Media Physical Self 4. Communication - the felt sense of self 5. Time Together - includes the physical body 6. Ask for help - concerned with the image we have of our body Emotional Self - the aspect that helps you connect, Ideal Self process, and reflect on a range of - the ideal self is who you would like to emotions be and it can be influenced by: 1. Ways in which others react to us How do we take care of our Emotional Self? 2. How we think we compare to others 1. Stress Management 3. Social Roles 2. Emotional Maturity 4. Extent to which we identify with other 3. Forgiveness people 4. Compassion 5. Kindness Self-Esteem & Self-Worth - the extent to which you value yourself Proponents of Self-Concept High Self-Esteem – Positive View of Yourself Lewis (1990) – he suggested that the 1. Confidence in your own abilities development of a concept of self has 2 2. Not worrying about what others think aspects. 1. The Existential Self – the most basic 3. Self-acceptance part of self-concept- “The sense of 4. Optimism being separate and distinct from others Low Self-Esteem – Negative View of Yourself and the awareness of the constancy of self” (Bee 1992) 1. Lack of confidence 2. The Categorical Self – having realized 2. Wanting to be/look like someone else that he or she exists as a separate 3. Worrying what others may think experiencing being. Carl Rogers (1959) – he believed that self- 4. Pessimism concept has three different components: 1. Self-Image Major Factors that Influence Self-Esteem 2. Ideal Self 1. Reaction of others 3. Self-Esteem and Self-Worth 2. Comparison with others 3. Social Roles Self-Image 4. Identification - the view you have of yourself Physical Description NSTP-CWTS - it is the physical attributes of a person Personal Development Plan that can be seen by the naked eye Personal Development Plan - a tool used to map out a path towards your version of success Social Roles concept: the creation of a clear development - we are all social beings whose action plan for an individual providing a much behaviors are shaped to some extent more holistic or person-based approach by the roles we play Personal Traits - third dimension of our self-description How do you make a PDP? 1. Set your goals - the rules that we obey are also the 2. Prioritize those goals standard that we set for us to be disciplined 3. Set deadlines - if we disobey a certain rule criticism is 4. Recognize Threat & Opportunities what we may receive. 5. Develop Skills & Increase Knowledge 2. Family Relations and Attitude 6. Support Network - in a large family where we are encouraged to get along with our sibling and other relatives, SMART Goals - ever since at the very young age we - specific were taught how to use “po” and “opo” - measurable in our sentences and to bless the hands or kiss the cheeks of the elderlies to - achievable show respect. - realistic - timed The Social Environment - the society and all surroundings NSTP-CWTS influenced in some way by human The Roots of Filipino Character - includes all relationships, institutions, The strengths and weaknesses of Filipino culture, and physical structures characters have their roots. main components: 1. Social Structures The Family and Home Environment Hierarchical status is evident between the rich main components: minority and the poor majority. 1. Child Rearing Practices 2. Social System Interpersonal Religious High Nurturance People with the same religious beliefs particularly people who have the same - the child is given the love and support religion. that they need for them to grow and to 3. Community Interaction feel loved Building relationships with the community will - the child is provided with opportunities, help us in improving our social skills and means, and support to pursue their building a good bond with the people around goals us. Low Independence Training - the child becomes dependent to their Culture and Language parents - language and culture cannot be - everything is provided to them and separated they might have the high risk of - language is vital to understanding our stressing over simple tasks unique cultural perspectives Over Protection - language is a tool that is used to - some parents use their power too explore and experience our cultures much and use control and coercion to and perspectives that are embedded in ensure that they remain the dominant our culture forces in their children’s lives Colonial Mentality – when they have the Low Discipline preference of anything foreign. Poverty – the state of having an History insufficient amount of money to provide basic needs including food, clothing, and - we are the product of our colonial shelter as well as non-food needs. history, which is regarded by many as The Political Environment the culprit behind our lack of nationalism and our colonial mentality - the Philippine political environment is 1. Spanish Colonization (1565- 1898) characterized by a centralization of power They introduced the Catholic Religion to us. - political power is still very much 2. American Colonization (1898-1941) concentrated in the hands of a few may Introduced Public Schools with the main goal lead to passivity of turning the country into a self-sufficient Mass Media capitalistic democracy. - means of communication used to 3. Philippine Independence (1945-Present) disseminate information to a large Our country was free and independent number of audiences Filipinos then have developed their own - the most common platforms are culture that is shaped from the western newspaper, magazines, radio, television, influences. and the latest is the internet The Educational System Leadership and Role Models 1. School Materials - Filipinos look up to their leaders as role Filipino students as well as their teachers models were forced to use foreign textbooks - one’s behavior can be influenced by because they lack suitable local textbooks. the person that they look up to 2. Dependence on Teacher Some teachers reward well-behaved and NSTP-CWTS obedient students and feel uncomfortable Volunteerism with students who ask questions or have different points of view. Volunteerism - the act or practice of doing volunteer Religion work in community service - the root of Filipino optimism and its - according to the Republic Act No. 9418, capacity to accept life’s hardships it refers to an act involving a wide range of activities, including traditional - instills in the Filipino attitudes the forms of mutual aid and developmental immersion and the existence of afterlife interventions that provides an enabling - we become vulnerable also to being and empowering environment both on victimized by opportunism, oppression, the part of the beneficiary receiving exploitation, and superstition and the volunteer rendering the act, undertaken for reasons arising from socio-developmental, business or The Economic Environment corporate orientation, commitment or conviction for the attainment of the - refers to all the external factors that public good and where monetary and influence buying habits of consumers other incentives or reward are not the and businesses primary motivating factors. - poverty is one of the major struggles in life that results to some Filipino Elements of Volunteerism characteristics In 1980’s, Ivan Scheier defined volunteerism with four elements: Laws supporting Volunteerism 1. The activity is relatively un-coerced. Republic Act No. 9418 (Volunteer Act of 2007) 2. The activity is intended to help. - An act institutionalizing a strategy for 3. The activity is done without primary or rural development, strengthening and immediate thought of financial gain. volunteerism and for other purposes. 4. The activity is work; not play. Republic Act No. 9418 (Youth in Nation Concepts of Volunteerism Building Act) - free will - An act creating the National Youth Commission, establishing a National - aims no financial gain Comprehensive and coordinated - gives benefits to others program on youth development program on youth development, appropriating fund therefor and for Types of Volunteerism other purpose. 1. Formal Structured and supervised. These are long NSTP-CWTS term programs that also involve long term, Good Citizenship Values regular attendance from the volunteers and How do you become a good Filipino citizen? have managers or coordinators. 2. Governance - living in accordance with good citizenship values Volunteers in governance provides leadership - PREAMBLE of the 1987 Philippine and direction to an organization. Helps in Constitution planning and decision-making involved in various aspects of an organization’s operations. Filipino Values 3. Non-Formal 1. Maka-Diyos Non-formal volunteer work is usually done in Faith in the Almighty local communities, in unfunded and unstructured settings. - deep-rooted submission to a divine being, person, or belief system Benefits of Volunteerism - trust and believing are two essentials of faith Mental Health Respect for Life 1. improve self-esteem - expecting that every life is a gift 2. improve one’s well-being therefore, deserve to be born and be 3. gives personal satisfaction given the opportunity to show his/her worth to the society Social Order 1. connects you to people - manifested when situations move in 2. improves your outlook their proper course Career - ensures the citizens: security, peace, 1. work-life balance harmony, and progress 2. skills and leadership enhancement Work - manifested when situations move in their proper course and obligations to every citizen - costumes and traditional values set the Respect for Law and Government standards of behavior in many - to formulate and enforce law communities in the Philippines designated to regulate human conduct Concern for the Family and Future Generation and improve the life of the people - family is the place of refuge, strength, within inspiration, example and source of love Patriotism for today's youth at risk and couples - a person willfully expresses pride and respect towards its country culture 2. Maka-tao achievements and aspirations Love Promotion of the Common Good - strongest force within the human - refers to that conditions that is community beneficial to all or most number of the - provides deeper meaning to the society purpose of human existence Freedom 4. Makakalikasan - free to exercise all the rights and Concern for the Environment privileges of happiness - the environment refers to everything - not absolute since we share social and that surrounds us from the natural physical spaces with other people world or physical structure produced Peace by humans - preference for harmony in all face of the relationship resolves conflicts in a peaceful way NSTP-CWTS Truth - facts corresponding with actual events - admits their mistakes and do something to correct their fault Justice - the principle by which the rationality of actions, conditions, and situations are determined - does not take advantage of everyone 3. Makabayan Unity - being one and in harmony with one another - most important element needed by any society to achieve stability and progress Equality - providing standardized or uniform rights and privileges as well as duties