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    Great Coaching Questions
    Great Coaching Questions
    Great Coaching Questions
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    Great Coaching Questions

    By Nick Howell

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    • Coaching

    • Leadership

    • Questioning Techniques

    • Personal Development

    • Self-Awareness

    • Self-Discovery

    • Mentorship

    • Self-Improvement

    • Magical Realism

    • Trust

    • Procrastination

    • Challenge

    • Wisdom of the Past

    • Communication

    • Self-Reflection

    • Coaching Conversations

    • Creative Thinking

    • Decision Making

    About this ebook

    New to coaching and trying to get your head around what questions to ask, how and when to ask them? Are you more established in your coaching practice and recognise habits and themes to your questioning technique? Or perhaps you are a leader in your business and recognise that your telling, directive approach to people isn't reaping the engageme

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherFCM Publishing
    Release dateJun 3, 2021
    ISBN9781914529030
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    Great Coaching Questions - Nick Howell

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    Introduction

    Watch any news, political programme or interview and listen to the type and nature of the questions asked. What do you notice? What I see, is that generally, people are inherently poor when it comes to formulating questions that are effective, useful and powerful. I hear lots of closed questions; leading, emotive, long questions, statement and agenda-based questions too. Sadly, this is all too often replicated within our organisations as well. People are generally poor at asking good questions. Most people have never received development in how to ask effective, meaningful questions. If questioning skills are weak then this affects the passage of information and relationships and also performance of individuals, teams and organisations.

    To ask the right question is harder than to answer it.

    Georg Cantor, Mathematician.

    Effective questioning and the formation of powerful questions is a learned activity. Learned in the moment and through deliberate reflection. The purpose of effective questions is to raise awareness, develop insight, provide information and promote understanding, in order to enable discovery and learning. Questioning is a fundamental skill for all coaches and leaders, it underpins how they operate and what they seek to achieve for their clients and employees. People new to practicing coaching often struggle to develop meaningful questions in the moment. Instead, they default to more closed questions or recycle similar questions on a regular basis with the same clients. Whilst some of these questions might hit the mark, being able to bring variety, depth, flexibility and quality to questioning is a critical coaching skill. Similarly, whilst experienced coaches will develop their own approaches and repertoire of questions, they too can fall into less productive, stale and unhealthy questioning habits.

    The online Cambridge Dictionary defines a question as simply: ‘a sentence or phrase used to find out information’.

    This is not a unique definition; it is however a one-dimensional and linear way of considering such a powerful tool. If we consider ‘what is a question?’ through a coaching and leadership lens we get a very different and valuable shift in perspective.

    Questions become something quite radical and transformational. In this view, questions transform into:

    Vehicles enabling coaches to develop understanding for themselves and clients

    Keys to unlock client thinking and progress

    Ways of stimulating creativity

    Methods of raising self-awareness

    Approaches to challenging thinking, mindsets, assumptions and behaviours

    Demonstrations of interest from one person to another

    Ways of engaging others in powerful conversation

    In viewing questions like this we also identify and demonstrate how important questions are, not just in coaching but in work generally. The adage, ‘words are powerful, use them wisely’ is well known and we can adapt and apply this phrase to our questions, coaching and leadership. Questions can be very powerful and need to be used very wisely to get the best results for clients and employees.

    It is not the answer that enlightens, but the question.

    Eugene Ionesco, Playwright.

    As coaches, we need to recognise how important it is that we not only consider the types of questions we use with our clients, but also how and when we use them. Nonchalantly asking ad hoc questions has little or no value. Questions based on the coach’s needs and not the client’s, disempower the nature and purpose of questions and will achieve limited results and change for the client. All questions should consider the client or employee’s context, the purpose of the conversation and what will be done with the responses.

    However, good questions don’t just happen. To adapt an Aristotle quote, ‘anyone can ask questions, but to ask the right question in the right way at the right time and for the right reasons, that’s the hard part.’ Those well versed in creating effective questions have achieved this through being conscious of the conversational situation they are in, understanding what they want to achieve, then formulating the appropriate questions. Powerful questions come from deliberate focus and action.

    This compendium serves to promote and enable powerful questioning skills for coaches and leaders.

    Purpose of, and how to use the compendium

    Ask the right questions, if you are going to find the right answers.

    Vanessa Redgrave

    The compendium consists of over 2000 coaching-based questions. It has been created to:

    Develop conversation, thinking and improve the application of questions to coaching conversations and leadership activities.

    Stimulate consideration of the ‘right’ questions asked in the right way, for the right situation and with the right intent, for the benefit of clients or employees.

    Help unblock thinking around questioning and the application of questions.

    Broaden coaches’ and leaders’ own awareness of the array and nature of powerful everyday questions that can be created.

    Challenge and inform questioning practices of coaches and leaders

    Be used as a way of self-coaching. Taking situations and applying questions to them to achieve more awareness and personal change.

    If you’re a line manager or leader who needs to develop your questioning skills, you’ll find this compendium a valuable tool. Helping you develop confidence in question creation, deliver stronger approaches to organisational conversations and use questions as enabling tools for employees.

    The questions in the compendium are primarily self-created. As a Coach, Coach Trainer and Coach Supervisor, I am always looking to understand what questions and lines of questioning work within client-coaching conversations. I work with new coaches to explore and examine their approach to questioning. I understand how impactful their questions can be and what value they add to the client and the conversation. This is all in order to develop good questioning practice. Within coaching qualification supervision conversations, I discuss how to utilise questions in different ways to achieve results with clients. How to reframe and rework questions into more tailored, beneficial and outcome-generating ones. How to translate closed limiting questions, into open and illuminating ones.

    The compendium serves to encourage reflective practice in leaders and coaches by reflecting on conversations and situations and the effectiveness of their questions and approaches. It draws out what learning can be taken from their questioning experience and adds it to the next experience. It considers how appropriate questions were, and how they can adapt or improve questioning techniques. It even reflects on how comfortable they were in asking the questions. The majority of questions and questioning techniques can be tweaked to the coach and client’s style and preferences.

    As coaches we find ways of using language and questions we are comfortable with. Some of the questions detailed you might not normally use, or form in the same way. Perhaps they don’t work with your natural style. That’s ok. You can adapt the questions to your own style and language. It is also worth remembering that whilst some questions might not fit with your style, that style might work with your clients. The coach needs to be flexible to meet their client’s needs and preferences. Over time and reflection, you will learn to recognise what style of questions work best with your clients.

    I have tried to reduce repetition of questions within the different areas to an absolute minimum. Sometimes I believe it is important to show the same question in different scenarios, as in the chapter ‘Stakeholders’ for example. It is equally valid to consider stakeholder-type questions within the ‘Reality’ section of

    GROW

    , or within ‘Systemic questions.’

    Notes on the questions

    The questions are orientated towards work rather than life situations. They are organisationally based but not aimed towards specific organisational situations.

    The questions are presented in a list format, simply for ease of access. The intent is for the coach to consider the client, context and their intent around the questions to choose the best environment for their use. Some books around questioning will describe where and how the questions could be used. This resource trusts in the coach’s and leader’s own judgment to make their own interpretation and application.

    I have grouped questions into logical themes, types and exploration areas which I believe they work well in. There is also a natural flow to these groups, laid out as they might be used in a coaching conversation. I acknowledge you might argue the questions are not true ‘X’ questions. Or, they need to be under a different heading. This reflects our own experiences and interpretations. Similarly, you might believe that there should be categories included which I haven’t. Based on my experience as a Coach and Coach Trainer I created categories which I found naturally or regularly occurred within coaching conversations, but these are not exclusive, nor complete.

    Some of the questions might also seem very similar, however there are deliberately different nuances within some, which on the surface might seem the same.

    There are no ‘why’ questions within the compendium. As a coach, I feel that these types of questions risk being misinterpreted and potentially cause conflict in the conversation. Similarly I have not considered closed questions in the compendium. There is absolute value in well-considered and deliberate closed questions. However open questions will form the majority of a coach’s repertoire. This is where development will be greatest. There are no pure awareness-raising or problem-solving questions directly listed as a book chapter. In effect, all the questions, by their nature contribute to the awareness-raising and problem-solving process for the client.

    Where I have taken questions from other sources, I have cited the source. In some of the questions, alternate options are provided e.g. reports/team/organisation. This is to demonstrate the different contexts which the question can be used or considered. Some of the questions might also be ‘build’ questions and align

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