The Self Concept
The Self Concept
The Self Concept
Indranil Mutsuddi
What do we mean by the Self
The self refers to the conscious reflective personality of a person.
It is learned
It is organized, and
It is dynamic
Keep believing in urself
Self-concept is learned
Self Concept gradually emerges in the early months of life and is
shaped and reshaped through repeated perceived experiences,
particularly with significant others.
Self-concept is learned: Implications
Because self-concept does not appear to be instinctive, but is a
social product developed through experience, it possesses
relatively boundless potential for development and actualization.
People generally avoid tasks where their self efficacy is low, but
will engage in tasks where their self efficacy is high.
Low self efficacy can lead people to believe tasks are harder
than they actually are and this often results in poor task planning,
as well as increased stress.
People with high self efficacy often take a wider picture of a task
in order to take the best route of action. People with high self
efficacy are shown to be encouraged by obstacles to greater
effort.
• On the other hand, people with low self efficacy see their
lives as somewhat out of their hands.
Factors affecting self efficacy
Experience:
"Mastery experience" is the most important factor deciding a
person's self efficacy. Simply put, success raises self efficacy,
failure lowers it.
being praised
being listened to
being spoken to respectfully
getting attention and hugs
experiencing success in sports
or school
having trustworthy friends
Self-esteem is largely
developed during an
individual’s childhood
Low Self-Esteem
Is Unfairly Harsh:
Be Reassuring:
"People said they liked my
"Wow, they really liked it! Maybe it
presentation, but it was nowhere
wasn't perfect, but I worked hard on
near as good as it should have
that presentation and did a good
been. I can't believe no-one noticed
job. I'm proud of myself. This was a
all the places I messed up. I'm such
great success."
an impostor."
Be Specific:
Generalizes Unrealistically:
"I did poorly on this one test, but I've
"I got an F on the test. I don't
done O.K. on all the homework.
understand anything in this class.
There are some things here that I
I'm such an idiot. Who am I fooling?
don't understand as well as I
I shouldn't be taking this class. I'm
thought I did, but I can do the
stupid and I don't belong in
material-I've done fine in other
college."
classes that were just as tough.
The Inner Critic's Voice: Your Rebuttals:
Catastrophizes:
"She turned me down for a date! I'm Be Objective:
so embarrassed and humiliated. No "Ouch! That hurt. Well, she doesn't
one likes or cares about me. I'll want to go out with me. That
never find a girlfriend. I'll always be doesn't mean no one does
alone."
Step 2: Practice Self-Nurturing
Practice Basic Self-Care
Plan Fun & Relaxing Things For Yourself.
Reward Yourself For Your Accomplishments
Remind Yourself of Your Strengths & Achievements
Forgive Yourself When You Don't Do All You'd Hoped
Self-Nurture Even When You Don't Feel You Deserve It
Step 3: Get Help from Others
Ask for Support from Friends/Peers
Get Help from Teachers / Trainers & Other Helpers / Facilitators
Talk to a Therapist or Counselor