PerDev-Modules-5&6-Q2W5-6 (26pages)
PerDev-Modules-5&6-Q2W5-6 (26pages)
PerDev-Modules-5&6-Q2W5-6 (26pages)
Personal Development
Self-Learning Module
Quarter 2: Weeks 5 & 6
Module 5: The Impact of One’s Family on
Personal Development During Middle and Late
Adolescence
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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
Learning Activity Module
Module 5: The Impact of One’s Family on Personal Development During
Middle and Late Adolescence
Name: _______________________________________________Q2W5
What is it
Look at the picture below. These are the Igorot men of Cordillera playing their gongs
(Ganza) while dancing. This is a typical part of an Igorot wedding celebration. Any group of
people can pick up the gongs and get a dance going and it is all very spontaneous. The elders
as well as young ones enjoy playing the gongs and dancing.
When a man and a woman exchange vow to each other, they enter a sacred union
and lifelong commitment to a life-long partnership. Eventually, they build their own family. A
family is a socially recognized group joined by, marriage, blood or adoption that forms an
emotional connection and serves as a basic unit of society. All families have a set of beliefs,
values, and attitudes that are passed from generation to generation just like the Igorot wedding
celebration shown above.
Having good relationships in the family is important because our mental growth, well-
being, and stability all depend on our family. And it just feels good to be part of a warm and
loving family.
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For a moment, have you ever stopped to think about the legacies of your family? Have
you ever planned to make each family member firmer and gentler with each other so to
develop a good relationship with them?
FAMILY LEGACIES
A legacy is something that is passed on to you from family that has been handed down
for generations including reputation, a heritage and even family property.
An emotional legacy is nurtured by parents. Nurturing takes time and care. Much like
building a home out of brick on a solid foundation so that it can withstand the storms of life. It
takes a lot of time and consistency to give your child a sense of emotional wholeness. Creating
and maintaining an environment that surrounds a child’s fragile spirit with the nourishment
required for healthy growth gives them security and emotional stability.
An emotional legacy endures. It is not quickly forgotten and will last throughout his or
her adult years. When a child reaches maturity, the end of their childhood experiences become
the beginning of their emotional legacy that continues throughout life.
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The Social Legacy
The most appropriate time for social interaction and relationships can be demonstrated
more effectively at home. Children will learn lessons about respect, courtesy, love and
involvement. Thus, modeling as parents play a key role in passing on a strong social legacy.
Children need to gain the insights and social skills necessary to cultivate healthy and
stable relationships as they mature. They must learn to relate to family members, teachers,
peers and friends. Eventually, they must learn to relate to coworkers and many other types of
people.
Respect
Responsibility fostered by respect for themselves
Unconditional love and acceptance by their parents, combined with conditional
acceptance
The setting of social boundaries concerning how to relate to God, authority,
peers, the environment, and siblings
Rules that are given within a loving relationship
A spiritual legacy is all about your relationship with God. Your spiritual legacy is like a
baton to pass on to the next generation even while you live. Your family, friends, classmates,
co-workers and neighbors can grab onto this baton and run with it now and long after your
portion of the race is finished.
Here are five things that predict whether your children will receive the spiritual legacy
a Christian parents desire. Do you:
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On Strong Family Relationships
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7. Establish clear family rules
Make family rules that clearly mention how every member should
behave and treat each other. For example, “We talk respectfully with everyone
in our family,” or “In our family, we help each other no matter what.” Such small
but clear rules can make the family stronger and peaceful.
1. prepare a plan on how to make the family member firmer and gentler with
each other
Code: EsP-PD11/12FSL-IIe11.3
What I Know
Directions: Copy this puzzle on a clean sheet of paper. Then, write a word in each puzzle
piece that you feel or think is related to the given words. Submit your answers to your
teacher for checking/evaluating.
Strong Family
Spiritual Legacy Relationship
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What’s In
Interpretation of Results:
Above 24 = Strong emotional legacy
19 - 24 = Healthy legacy
14 - 18 = Mixed legacy - good and bad elements
10 - 13 = Weak emotional legacy
Below 10 = Damaged emotional legacy
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B. Social Legacy Evaluation
1. Which words most closely resemble the social tone of your family?
1 Cruel and abusive 4 Non-communicative but stable
2 Cutting sarcasm 5 Secure with open communication
3 Chaotic and distant 6 Loving and fun
2. What was the message of your home life with regard to relationships?
1 "Step on others to get your way." 4 “Mind your own business.”
2 "Hurt them if they hurt you." 5 “Treat others with respect.”
3 "Demand your rights." 6 “Put others before yourself.”
3. How were rules set and enforced in your home?
1 Independent of relationship 4 Inconsistently
2 In reaction to parental stress 5 Out of concern for my well-being
3 Dictatorially 6 In the context of a loving relationship
4. Which word best characterizes the tone of communication in your home?
1 Shouting 4 Clear
2 Manipulation 5 Constructive
3 Confusing 6 Courteous
5. How did your family deal with wrong behavior?
1 Subtle reinforcement 4 Severe punishment
2 Accepted in the name of love 5 Discussion
3 Guilt trip 6 Loving, firm discipline
Interpretation of Results:
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3 Fearful 6 Intimate
3. How would you summarize your family's level of participation in spiritual activities?
1 Nonexistent 4 Regimental
2 Rare 5 Active
3 Occasional 6 Enthusiastic
4. How were spiritual discussions applied in your home?
1 They were not 4 To teach
2 To control 5 To influence
3 To manipulate 6 To reinforce
5. What was the perspective in your home regarding moral absolutes?
1 If it feels good, do it! 4 Dogmatic legalisms
2 There are no absolutes. 5 Moderate conservatism
3 Let your heart guide you. 6 Clear boundaries
Interpretation of Results:
Answer the following questions on a clean sheet of paper. Submit to teacher for
checking/evaluating.
1. What were your scores in the emotional, social and spiritual legacy evaluation?
2. How do these scores reflect you home atmosphere?
3. What is the legacy you have received from your parents and siblings?
What’s New
Directions: Write your legacy statement that you plan to give when you start your own family
in the future? You may include in your legacy statement your principles and values, most
important role you played in life, meaningful story from your parents, made you laugh, made
you sad or made you reflect, significant decisions you gave, and what you most want others
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to remember you. You may be creative in presenting your legacy. Do this activity on a clean
sheet of paper and submit to teacher for checking /evaluating.
What’s More
How do you feel about your relationships? Where do you see your relationships going?
Are you happy with your relationships?
Directions: Copy this questionnaire in your Journal. Put a ✔ if your answer is Yes and write
Χ if your answer is No. Then answer the questions that follow. Submit to your teacher for
checking.
Criteria/Relationship Family Friends Partner Organizations
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III. Communication:
a. Do you feel safe to say whatever
you feel?
b. Do you feel listened to when you
communicate?
IV. Roles and responsibilities:
a. Do you feel the division of tasks
is working?
b. Do you feel that both of you are
doing your parts?
c. Do you feel that task allocation
is fair?
d. Is there anything that you want
to change?
V. Activities:
a. Do you feel like you spend
enough time together?
b. Do you feel like you need more
alone time?
c. Do you want to try something
new?
VI. Planning, schedules, and logistics:
a. Are you experiencing any
schedule conflicts you want to
address?
b. Are there financial agreements
that are fair?
c. Do each of you have enough
time to accomplish everything
you want?
Guide questions:
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What I Have Learned
Directions: Take few minutes to reflect and answer the following questions. Write your
answers on a separate sheet of paper. Submit to your teacher for evaluation.
1. What have you learned in this unit about your personal relationships with family,
friends, partner, and organizations?
2. How do you assess the present state of your relationships?
3. What do you plan to do in order to improve and strengthen your relationships?
What I Can Do
Directions: Read the poem entitled A Family Is Like A Circle. Then, answer the questions
that follow.
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who they are and what they do
and how they teach you so you know.
But don't be weary if it's broken
or if through time it's been so worn.
Families are like that -
they're split up and always torn.
Assessment
Directions: On a clean sheet of paper, write an ESSAY regarding the Legacy of your family
to your: a) emotional, b) social and c) spiritual development as an adolescent.
References:
Personality Development. Teacher’s Guide: First Edition 2016 pp. 85 -98
Family Relationship: Why Is It Important and How To Build It? Accessed on September 4, 2020.
https://www.momjunction.com/articles/family-
relationship_00460134/#:~:text=A%20family%20is%20important%20because,all%20depend%20
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on%20our%20family.&text=Children%20brought%20up%20in%20a,good%20and%20bad%20ti
mes%20together.
Images:
Prepared by:
JEANNIEFFER R. DAVID
Master Teacher I
Angeles City Senior High School
Submitted to;
EDGARDO S. NUNAG
EPSvr 1 : EsP
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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
Learning Activity Module
Module 6: Career Development Concepts and Personal Life Goals
Name:__________________________________________________ Q2W6
Section:_________________________________________________ Date: ____________
What is It
(Background Information for the Learner – Key Concepts)
Education plays a vital role in shaping people to succeed. It gives us the opportunity
to become productive member of the society by acquiring all the necessary skills. We learn
how to meet challenges and overcome obstacles. We learn how to be flexible and adapt in
different situation or people we meet. People learn basic norms, rules, regulations, and values
of the society through education. Moreover, high quality education brings positive changes in
life.
Career is the integration of personality with work activities. More than just a series of
tasks or activities within work, career is a sequence of attitudes and behaviors that are
associated with work and that relate to one’s total life experience. Career, then, is closely
linked to life goals since the former can be the means towards achieving the later. Expert
would say that life goals are “internal representation of desired outcomes”. They go on to note
that goals are very helpful trying to understand person – his context and aspiration of the
future.
There are two types of life goals: intrinsic and extrinsic. Intrinsic goals involve “personal
growth, emotional intimacy and community service” while extrinsic goals include “financial
success, physical attractiveness, and social frame and/or popularity.” In understanding these
two types of life goals, experts hypothesized that life goals are those consistent with “human
nature and needs” which means these are things that are essential and absolutely necessary.
On the other hand extrinsic life goals are more influenced by society and culture, involving
“symbol of social status and positive evaluation of other people”.
Researchers conducted in this body of knowledge found that people who are more
preoccupied with intrinsic life goals tend to attain a more satisfied and happy life. They have
“higher levels of self-actualization and vitality, higher self-esteem and mind openness, and
fewer experiences of depression, anxiety, and general health problems.” Those who put
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greater importance on extrinsic life goals, however, are at risk of having deteriorating well-
being if they ignore their innate needs. Experts advice that while extrinsic goals can very
well lead to satisfaction of basic needs, too much preoccupation to it may result in negative
well-being.
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innate characteristics or influenced by the larger society. In choosing a career, personality
plays a very important role because it may dictate which line of work best suits a person. For
instance, a person who enjoys being alone, spending time with very few people, and engaging
in deep and intimate conversations may find jobs that do not require frequent and extensive
interaction with people as more appealing. An example of this may be working in a counselling
center or writing novels or songs. Those who enjoy dealing with people and handling large
crowds may prosper in jobs such as managing a company’s human resources or public
service.
Interests
Closely related to personality is interest. Basically, interest are sets of preferences in activities.
Interest are one person’s likes, things where he tends to spend most of his resources – time,
energy, and money. To demonstrate, there are people who are more interested in dealing with
things rather than with people. They are especially enthusiastic in interacting with machines
and making things work. These people may find a suitable careers as architects, mechanics,
engineers, medical technologies, and the like. Another group of people may be inclined to use
their intuition, mull over ideas, and do things in a more unstructured fashion. These people
may be suited to careers as long as songwriters, writer, designer, or actor. Those who are
more drawn to activities that require adventure, persistence, and risk-taking may find
happiness in careers as entrepreneurs, business executive, and politicians.
Skills
Skills also play a vital role in career suitability and, consequently, success. Skills are basically
a set of competencies a person has. These are mastery over some tasks that are useful in
performing bigger or more complicated jobs. This implies that skills may have started as
interest where a person has spent a significant amount of time to achieve a certain level of
proficiency. For example, a person who has a strong interest in sketching and spends hours
getting better at that task may develop a skill in designing landscapes and even buildings
which may point to a career in architecture. Skills take time to develop. It requires focus and
dedication.
A person’s career choice and life goal are greatly influenced by the interplay of his values,
personality, interests, and skills. His job satisfaction, sense of fulfillment, success at the
workplace, and general well-being may depend on how his choices are aligned with what he
believes to important, his personal disposition, inclinations, and competencies. It is important
to be aware of all of these personal factors to make wise decision for the future.
External Factors Influencing Career Choice
Family and societal expectations
Filipinos place great value in education. Parents strive hard to send their children to school
even if it means using most of their resources for this purpose. For many families, having a
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college graduate can spell the difference between remaining in poverty and enjoying a
relatively comfortable life. When a person graduates, he is expected to land a good
opportunity. Whether expressed or implied, the graduate feels the need to immediately find a
job and start earning to support the family.
With the expectation – and sometimes pressure – from the family and the community, the
graduate is influenced to make career choices that can help improve the quality of their lives.
Many times, the fresh graduate is torn between choosing a career path that is consistent with
his passion but not very financially fulfilling ad one that is more lucrative or profitable but not
necessarily what he truly wants.
Firstborns usually carries the biggest burden. As the eldest child, he bears great responsibility
to look after his siblings to the point of actively supporting them financially, helping the parents
with household expenses.
Trends in employment
Current trends in employment also affect career choices of the fresh graduates. For instance
jobs known to pay higher are more likely chosen by the young people because of its economic
value. That table below shows the highest paying jobs for fresh graduates according to
Jobstreet as reported by Rappler.
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junior technical support representative
There are also available data about industries or field that hired fresh graduates in 2015. It
may be observed that the top three jobs giving the highest average month salaries are IT-
related jobs, those are related to statistics, and legal services.
Further, it is also noted that 57% of jobs for fresh graduates come from the BPO industry
where 6 out 10 jobs in this industry are offered to the newbies.
Field No. of Graduates Hired
Call Center/IT-enables services/businesses Protocol Outsourcing
149.753
(BPO)
Retail/Merchandise 8,131
Property/Real Estate 5,167
Manufacturing/Production 4,388
Food & Beverage/ Catering/ Restaurant 4,030
Banking/ Financial Services 3,676
Construction/ Building/ Engineering 2,759
Telecommunication 2,719
General & Wholesale Trading 1,779
Computer/IT (software) 1,667
Others 77,980
The following table shows the highest paying jobs for employees with work experiences
according to Jobstreet as reported by CNN
Junior Executive position Junior Executive position
(1 to 4 years’ experience) (5 or more years’ experience)
1 IT IT
2 Law/ Legal Services Law/ Legal Services
3 Actuarial/ Statistics Quality Control/ Assurance
4 Costumer Service Finance
5 Training & Development Costumer Service
6 Public relations/ Communication Banking/Financial Services
7 Banking/Financial Services Human Resources
8 Arts/Creatives Training & Development
9 Finance Engineering
10 Marketing/Business Development Marketing/Business Development
It was observed that the field of information Technology (IT) continued its “three-year trend of
providing the highest-paying jobs across all position level.” Further, callcenter or BPOs are on
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the top spot of employers among the above-mentioned industries followed by retail and
merchandise, manufacturing, and production sectors.
Career choices are also influence by current trends in the workplace and job market. For
instance, the boom of nursing and other healthcare professions during the early 2000s brought
forth increased interest in taking college nurses related to them. The trend arched throughout
the years with growing needs from different countries. Another observed trend was the growth
of the information technology (IT) industry where computer savvy professionals where in
demand.
Currently, the businesses process outsourcing (BPO) industry has taken the center stage by
opening thousands of opportunities for fresh graduates regardless of their academic training.
Further, there is also a steadily growing movement to boost the interest of people, especially
the young ones, to engage in businesses or enterprises. This is revolutionary since the current
education system is more prepared toward producing employment-ready graduates rather
than business starters.
(Corcuera, Fidelina A.,Et Al. BPI Shape Personal Development Resources Book.Makati City:
BPI Foundation, 2016)
What I Know
Directions: Take the 10-item Pre-assessment True or False Test. Write the word True if you
find the statement correct and the word False if otherwise. Answers should be written on a
clean sheet of paper. Submit to teacher for checking/evaluating.
1. Adolescents need to explore career options to gain advantage on the road to adulthood.
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2. Choosing a career is one of those important decisions that can change the course of the
life of an adolescent.
3. In choosing a career, one does not necessarily think or consider the kind of people he or
she has to work with.
4. Should an adolescent cannot decide what career to pursue in the future he or she needs
the help of professional career coach.
5. One of the primary considerations in choosing a career is the adolescent’s economic and
financial goals.
6. A serious thought about certain career should be prepared by an adolescent.
7. Career building requires attention to goals, vision, and motivation of the adolescent.
8. Career planning is a lifelong journey. As adolescent journey through life, their workplace,
interests, and attitude will change forcing them to evaluate and adjust their career plans.
9. An honest assessment and evaluation of a teenager’s work style will help them decide a
career to consider.
10. Real life experience in the work environment where teenagers may think they want to
work can help them make up their minds on the career they will pursue.
What’s In
Directions: Cut and paste picture of persons you admired because of their success in their
chosen path/career. Do this on a clean sheet of paper and briefly describe them. Submit to
teacher for checking and evaluating.
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What’s New
Directions: Write at least two related concepts for each factor that affects your career choices.
Do the activity on a clean sheet of paper and submit to teacher for checking /evaluating.
FAMILY ABILITIES/
SKILLS
PERSONALITY ME CULTURE
& INTEREST
CAREER
FANTASIES
Source:http://earlhaig.ca/departments/coop/1Documents/gr%2010%20careers/Career%20W
heel%20Assignment/building_careers.pdf
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What’s More
Directions: Write something about your career wheel. Answer the following questions and
write your answers on a clean sheet of paper and submit to teacher for checking/evaluating.
1. How did you go about naming events, situations, needs and facts about yourself? Were
there challenges in doing this? If so, what are these challenges?
2. Looking at these many facets in your life, which among them do you think are major
considerations when deciding on future career options? Why would you consider these as
a source of great impact?
3. Which are the areas that will really work to your advantage in relation to the career options
that you are considering? How will these impact your choices?
Directions: Write the insights, concepts, ideas or realizations that you have gained from this
lesson on a clean sheet of paper and submit to your teacher for checking/evaluating.
What I Can Do
Directions: Make your Stairway To Success. Write in every stairway your plan or your steps
in achieving your career goal. Do this activity on a clean sheet of paper. Submit to your teacher
for checking/evaluating.
Stairway to Success
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Guide Questions:
Assessment
Directions: This is a personality test, it will help you understand how your personality is
structured and why you act the way you do. Understanding one’s personality is an important
key towards making right career choice. In the table below, mark how much you agree with
the statement on the scale 1-5, where 1-disagree, 2=slightly disagree, 3=neutral, 4=slightly
agree and 5=agree. Write your answer on a clean sheet of paper and submit to your teacher
RATING I… RATING I…
1. Am the life of the party 26. Have little to say.
2. Feel little concern for others. 27. Have a soft heart.
28. Often forget to put things back in
3. Am always prepared.
their proper place.
4. Get stressed out easily. 29. Get upset easily.
5. Have a rich vocabulary. 30. Do not have a good imagination.
31. Talk to a lot of different people at
6. Don’t talk a lot.
parties.
7. Am interested in people. 32. Am not really interested in others.
8. Leave my belongings around. 33. Like order.
9. Am relaxed most of the time. 34. Change my mood a lot.
10. Have difficulty understanding
35. Am quick to understand things.
abstract
11. Feel comfortable around 36. Don’t like to draw attention to
people. myself
12. Insult people. 37. Take time out for others.
13. Pay attention to details 38. Shirk my duties.
14. Worry about things. 39. Have frequent mood swings.
15. Have a vivid imagination. 40. Use difficult words.
41. Don’t mind being the center of
16. Keep in the background.
attention.
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17. Sympathize with others’
42. Feel others’ emotions.
feelings
18. Make a mess of things. 43. Follow a schedule.
19. Seldom feel blue. 44. Get irritated easily.
20. Am not interested in abstract
45. Spend time reflecting on things.
ideas.
21. Start conversation. 46. Am quiet around strangers.
22. Am not interested in other
47. Make people feel at ease.
people’s problems.
23. Get chores done right away. 48. An exacting in my work.
24. Am easily disturbed. 49. Often feel blue.
25. Have excellent ideas. 50. Am full of Idea
Source: http://personality-testing.info/printable/big-five-personality-test.pdf
References
Corcuera, Fidelina A.,Et Al. BPI Shape Personal Development Resources Book.Makati City: BPI
Foundation, 2016
Source:http://earlhaig.ca/departments/coop/1Documents/gr%2010%20careers/Career%20W
heel%20Assignment/building_careers.pdf
Source: http://personality-testing.info/printable/big-five-personality-test.pdf
Prepared by:
JHON MARK M. OCAMPO, SST-II
Bonifacio V. Romero High School
Submitted to:
EDGARDO S. NUNAG
EPSvr 1: EsP
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Answer Key: Module 6
WHAT I KNOW
ASSESSMENT Scoring:
The scores you calculate should be between zero and forty. Below is a description of each trait.
• Extroversion (E) is the personality trait of seeking fulfillment from sources outside the self or in
community. High scorers tend to be very social while low scorers prefer to work on their projects alone.
• Agreeableness (A) reflects much individuals adjust their behavior to suit others. High scorers are
typically polite and like people. Low scorers tend to ‘tell it like it is’.
• Conscientiousness (C) is the personality trait of being honest and hardworking. High scorers tend to
follow rules and prefer clean homes. Low scorers may be messy and cheat others.
• Openness to Experience (O) is the personality trait of seeking new experience and intellectual
pursuits. High scores may day dream a lot. Low scorers may be very down to earth.
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