History of Valentines Day
History of Valentines Day
History of Valentines Day
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Specific dates in our calendars signify events that hold a special place for us. On the 14th of
February, lovers unite to share their affection with their romantic partners through gifts, heartfelt
Valentine’s cards, and other passionate gestures. Even though Valentine’s Day is fit for people of
any age because it does not necessarily have to be romantic, it is another reason to express
gratitude and love to our friends and family. It all started with exchanging Valentine’s cards full
of genuine emotions crafted in poems back in the eighteenth century. Nowadays, it has grown
into grand presents like jewelry, candy bars, roses, etc. To answer the question about where the
romantic connotation of Valentine’s Day comes from, we need to dig deeper into the history of
Saint Valentine.
The ambiguity about the identity of the original Saint Valentine, after whom the holiday
is named, leads back to ancient Rome under the reign of Emperor Claudius II. Different stories
tell us about various Valentines residing in Rome at that time. According to one of the narratives,
Valentine used to be a Catholic priest in the third century who resisted the order of the emperor
Claudius as he banned young men from marriage since he found married men to be unworthy in
terms of national military service (Kithcart). The priest strongly opposed the new rule and started
giving holy matrimony ceremonies to young men and women willing to get married. After a
while, Valentine was exposed to wrongdoings and got punished with the death penalty on the
14th of February. That is why we have been celebrating romantic love on the exact Day under the
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name of Saint Valentine, who was sacrificed simply because he loved to see people in love. One
of the first persons to connect Valentine’s experience to romantic love was the Medieval poet
Chaucer. Apparently. Valentine’s story inspired Chaucer to start writing poetry about love.
Christians in the prisons of Rome, after which he got punished and spent years in prison himself.
During his captivity, he fell in love with the woman who often came to check up on him (Combs).
As they got to know each other better, Valentine started to write down his feelings in small notes
for her, always ending them with the phrase - ‘From your Valentine.’ That is why small notes
and cards exchanged specifically on the 14th of February are called Valentines.
Greeks came up with their unique narrative and connected the origins of Valentine’s Day
to the most famous of all gods and goddesses, Zeus and Hera. Ancient Greeks perceived the end
of long winters as Valentine’s season and the 14th of February as the Day when Zeus and Hera
got married. However, assigning their marriage to one of the year’s most romantic days would
not have been the best idea because of their lack of devotion.
In the modern world, most countries have chosen different dates and ways of celebrating
Valentine’s Day. People around the US openly share their love and affection to their significant
others, romantic partners, or distant crushes in the form of sincere greetings and poems on
Valentine’s Cards on the 14th of February. Japanese men and women have separate days to
project their love for one another in February and March (Koyfman). They also tend to make
their Valentines as white as possible, meaning they give each other white chocolate, white roses,
and everything romantic that might come in white. Last but not least, each city has its own date
As we can see, there are myriads of traditions and different approaches to celebrating
Valentine’s Day worldwide. However, what unites them all is our willingness to share our
innermost feelings with the dearest people in our lives. It’s the opportunity to appreciate our
closest friends, parents, and, most importantly, people we romanticize and adore. Whether in
small notes or grand gifts, the most important thing is to make people around us feel loved and
Works Cited
Combs, Sydney. “Valentine's Day Wasn't Always about Love.” Culture, National Geographic, 9
Kithcart, David. “St. Valentine, The Real Story.” CBN.com, 5 Feb. 2021,
https://www1.cbn.com/st-valentine-real-story.
Koyfman, Steph. “14 Things You Probably Didn't Know about Valentine's Day Traditions
day-traditions-around-the-world.