The Habit Blueprint Workbook PDF
The Habit Blueprint Workbook PDF
The Habit Blueprint Workbook PDF
When you've done that, get a cup of coffee or tea, put on some great
music and start working your way through the steps outlined in the
pages to come.
From that point forward, your job is to trust the process and focus
on showing up every day. If you can do that, you'll be amazed at
the results you'll get.
If you have any questions at all along the way, shoot me a message and
I'll help you out.
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2. Pick just one habit. This is the habit you will be working on:
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Step 2: Start Ridiculously Small
Make your habit so small that you can easily complete it every day
without having to rely on willpower. When I say small I mean really
small. Floss one tooth, do one minute of meditation, take a two-
minute walk — you get the idea.
If you keep going once you’ve completed your small habit on a given
day, by all means go ahead and do it. This is the beauty of the
Zeigarnik Effect.
But do not increase the difficulty of your habit when you're just getting
started. No matter what you want your habit to look like down the
line, focus on establishing the behavior itself first. If you just stick to
this process, your small habit will naturally expand into the bigger
behavior with time.
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Step 3: Build a Chain
Start creating a chain. There are two ways you can do this:
It’s time to put on your white coat and start experimenting. Make your
best guess as to which trigger would work best and then start trying it
out in the real world. If it works — great! If it doesn’t, you can always
change it later.
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Step 5: Create a Reward
Of course, these are just suggestions. If you want, you can combine
several of them or do something else entirely. If it doesn’t feel right to
you, keep trying new ways to celebrate until you’ve found a way that
works for you.
This is not a perfect token economy by any means, but I’m sure you
get the point. What’s important is that you create a list of rewards that
gives you an increasing sense of accomplishment and competence.
My token economy will look like this:
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Step 7: Schedule a Weekly Review
1. Celebrate your wins, big or small, and exchange your tokens for
rewards.
2. Reflect on the days you missed and adjust your habit so you’ll be
likelier to succeed next week.
Make sure you plan it the same way you would do with anything
important. Because this is important, right?
• If you want to read two pages, place the book right where you
usually sit.
• If you want to exercise for five minutes in the morning, put your
workout clothes next to your bed.
• If you want to meditate for two minutes in the morning, put your
meditation cushion in place the night before.
• If you want to eat less, get smaller plates.
• If you want to sleep better, make your bedroom slightly cool and
pitch black.
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Step 9: Make Procrastination Difficult
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Step 10: Surround Yourself With Role Models
Write down the names of 1-5 people you know you should be spending
more time with. If you can’t think of anyone, list out the places, events
or online communities (like the Selfication Facebook Group) where
you can connect with inspiring people. Then take the first step by
immediately reaching out to at least one person.
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1. Your goal - The habit you want to create. This is where you
commit to the tiny daily habit you’ve decided on earlier in this
book.
2. Something at stake - Cold hard cash or your reputation. Or a
combination of both.
3. A referee - The person that will hold you accountable to your
goal. Choose someone who you know will be strict but fair.
Here's an example:
Commitment Contract
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Step 13: Get Accountability
In the last step, you created a commitment contract. Now is the time
to get it into the hands of at least one other person to hold you
accountable. Here are some ideas for how to do this:
Don’t go at it alone. Make sure you have at least one person who is
continually following up on your progress and making sure you’re
sticking to your plan.
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Step 14: Prevent Mental Loopholes
Create specific ’If → Then Mini Actions’ to protect your habit from
mental loopholes. For example:
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Step 15: Plan for Failure
Decide right now that when you’ve missed an attempt to complete
your daily tiny habit, you will focus on the total number of days you’ve
successfully completed rather than the fact that you’ve broken your
chain. Celebrate what went well, forgive yourself for what didn’t and
then get right back into the action.
From this point forward it's all about falling in love with the process
and trusting that it will take you where you want to go. If you keep
showing up every day, tracking your progress and readjusting your
approach every week, the results will inevitably come.
Now, before you get to work on your habit, I'd like to ask you a small
favor. Take a moment to think of three other people who could also
benefit from resources just like this one, and send them the link below
so they can join my newsletter:
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If you take the time to do this, please let me know so I can thank you
personally.
Stay awesome,