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Monday, July 20, 2009

Bye Sweet Dog

Last night our sweet, sweet dog died surrounded by his family petting him. We knew he was old and were expecting it but you still never are ready when the time comes. His time came after he had been outside investigating the yard one last time. He came into the house and pretty much laid down and passed away within 15 minutes. His heart just gave out.

Here he is this past March helping his Daddy do yard work. The wind was blowing a bit.
We got Bunky from a friend who rescued him when he had been abandoned by neighbors who had abused him. The night we picked him up, he immediately bonded to our younger daughter. She has posted different poses of him on her blog.
We were not in the market at that time for another dog because we had a chocolate lab at home but we couldn't turn him away because he was too cute. Also, he looked like my mother-in-law's dog so that made him special to my husband because his mom had just died a few months earlier.
Bunky and Baby (the lab) bonded instantly. They really loved each other. Bunky bounced and bounded everywhere. He loved to nip playfully at Baby's heels so Baby would chase him. It kept Baby active. Both dogs were generally taken for a walk around a couple of blocks each night by two persons but sometimes by only my husband.
When the lab died, we were concerned that Bunky would mourn his loss but instead he relished the fact he was an "only" dog. He got all the scraps from the table without having to share with the big dog.
He had a very gentle personality and was extremely grateful for attention. I think it goes back to being abused. However, even after having him over 12 years, he would sometimes flinch a bit if he wasn't expecting you to pet him and it surprised him to see your hand approach. It hurt us to wonder what he had lived through prior to coming to our home.
Look at all his hair! We never had him professionally groomed although he would have looked adorable. Taking him in the car was traumatic. When he went to the vet, he shook until we got back home. We thought good looks were not worth the price it would have cost him emotionally so he got home hair cuts by me. Some were much, much better than others.
This is one of the last walks our Bunky got to take with his Daddy. Bunky dearly anticipated that each evening. He and my husband played a game. The leash would be dangled and the dog would dance on his hind legs and bark. Then they would bound out the door together. it was obvious as summer approached that even walking down our hill and up was stressing the dog's energy level. He would pant just walking around the yard.

Even though I prefer cats to dogs, I loved this little man. He was the best dog we have owned in our (almost) 33 years of marriage. Bunky has left a tremendous hole in our heart and a huge emptiness in our house.

Will we get another dog? Probably - - - - but not yet. First our emotions have to quit missing Bunky before we have a desire for another canine. And yes, we know it was just a dog but he was a family member who loved us deeply and we loved him, too.

Who thinks there are animals in heaven? Do we know if we will ever see our pets again? I can't give you a definite answer to the second question but in Randy Alcorn's book Heaven, he talks about earth being a mirror of heaven and expects all created beings will be found there. I won't argue or expound but am thankful that our pets can give us a little "heaven on earth" for a while. The heartache of their passing is a small price to pay for the unconditional love they give us before that.

Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the air, and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them. And whatever Adam called every living creature, that was its name. Genesis 2:19

4 comments:

Amanda said...

I really like your post. I didn't expound in my post because I didn't want to cry the whole time I was typing. I'll have to get some of those pictures from you later. I don't have them.

Unknown said...

So sorry about your dog. I know that can be very sad.

Caribbean Cindy said...

I am sorry, too, for your loss, Lynda. I am sorry to not be a dog lover but I can honestly say Bunky was REALLY cute! I've been asked by youth if their pets will be in Heaven and I don't know either but it won't surprise me at all if a loving Heavenly Father does that!!

Laura said...

So very sad Miss Lynda...I know how much you all loved him. What a wondeful post. You are more than welocme at any given time to come by the shop and love/play with the doggies :)