Saturday, August 31, 2024

Happiness Challenge Day #31 - A Birthday Visit!

Tomorrow, September 1, is our second oldest daughter's 40th birthday, so today, we took her to lunch to celebrate.  We got to see her, her husband and all of the grand children who are still home, so we had a nice visit with the whole family.  It was a very happy day!




I have enjoyed participating in this daily happiness challenge, and hope that I can continue looking for the positive, happy things that happen every day!

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"Today is a great day to smile and be happy."
~anon.




Friday, August 30, 2024

August Happiness Challenge Day #30 - Friday Night "Date Night"

Although I haven't been perfect about posting moments of happiness every day this past month, I have hung in there to almost the last day.  This happiness challenge has been fun and I am grateful to The Gal Herself at One Gal's Musings and other happy bloggers like Stacy at A Mile in My Shoes for inspiring me to look for the good every day this month.  I'll be back for one more "official" happiness challenge post tomorrow, but now for today's bit of happiness. 

Tonight, after dinner, we went to pick up the Crumbl Cookies we will be taking to our daughter's tomorrow, when we take her to lunch for her birthday (Her birthday is Sunday).  We brought the cookies home, and then decided to go over to the local mall and walk a bit because our usual walking spot (the community rec. center) closes early on Friday night.  We haven't walked at the mall in a while, so it was a nice change, and certainly more interesting than walking the track at the rec. center.  After the mall, we put gas in the car, ran it through the car wash, then stopped at Walmart for a few things.   While our "date night" was just basically a night of running errands, it made me so happy to be with my sweet husband and soulmate chatting about everything and nothing at all.  We got some things done, and enjoyed being together and that, for me, is what happiness is made of. 

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

  • “A happy marriage is a long conversation 
  • which always seems too short.” 
  • ― AndrΓ© Maurois

 

August Reading Roundup

I managed to complete eight books in August, which is pretty good for me.  Here is what I thought of each one.  


1. An Ocean of Courage and Fear  by Jerry Borrowman ****

Genre:  historical fiction

Format:  Audiobook/Deseret Bookshelf +

This is a fictionalized account of the crew of the USS Salt Lake City, a World War II Naval Heavy Cruiser from December 7, 1941 to August 1944.   The battles and events of the war in the Pacific and the Salt Lake City's involvement in then, are based on real historical facts.  Some of the characters in the book were sailors who actually served on the Salt Lake City but other characters were fictionalized, although based on actual people who lived the events that transpired during WWII.  This book was interesting and the storyline moved along, although sometimes, it seemed to jump around too much, leaving some gaps in the plot.  I gave the book 4/5 stars. 


2. Second Class by Batya Ungar-Sargon *****

Genre:  Nonfiction - Sociology/Economics

Format:  Audiobook/Libby Library Loan

In this fascinating and thought-provoking nonfiction book, the author interviews scores of working class Americans and let them tell their stories of the pursuit of the "American Dream" in their own words.  Do they make a living wage?  Do they have the opportunity to own their own home?  Do they have medical care?  What role do unions play in prosperity for working class Americans?  Which political party is most in tune with the opinions and needs of blue collar workers?  Does more education really give someone an advantage in life? As those workers the author interviewed revealed their own experiences and opinions, an authentical picture of  struggles and triumphs in the pursuit of the "American Dream" is revealed.   This is probably a book that everyone should read, especially in this election year.  This is one of my favorite kinds of books because is not at all boring, but actually makes the reader feel like he or she is listening in on a conversation with someone they may know or interact with on a daily basis.   I gave the book 5/5 stars and recommend it to anyone who wants to know what many Americans who keep our nation running are really thinking, doing and working towards. 


3. Understanding Our Evangelical Neighbors by R. J. Mouw & R. L. Millett ***

Genre:  Religious nonfiction

Format: Kindle

This book was another in a series of books published by a Christian publishing house that I do advance copy reviews for.  Other titles in the series include Understanding Our Catholic Neighbors and Understanding Our Jewish Neighbors.  The book was interesting and instructional but because Evangelicals differ so widely in their actual doctrine, practice, and interpretation of  scripture, it felt like I was reading about a group that really didn't exist.  I'm not doubting the faith and sincerity of those who identify as Evangelical, I'm just saying that there is so much diversity that it is hard to pin down specific beliefs and practices, and the book (which was written by an Evangelical scholar) reflects that.  I gave the book 3/5 stars on Goodreads. 


4. The Answer to Anxiety by Joyce Meyer ***

Genre: Christian nonfiction

Format:  Audiobook/Libby Library Loan

This is pretty much typical Joyce Meyer. She has lots of scriptural advice and examples based on her own life.  I usually enjoy Joyce Meyer books, but I listened to the audiobook of this one and the voice of the reader was not calm or soothing at all - more like the voice of an old woman who smoked way too long.  If you can overlook the voice of the reader, this book is a good review of basic Bible principles that help us "fear not" and "cast our cares on God."  I gave the book 3/5 stars on Goodreads.


5. False Flag by Joy Pullmann ***

Genre:  Socio-Political

Format:  Hardbound (own)

I purchased this book, because, as a public school teacher, I am concerned and even alarmed at the number of students and teachers who are becoming "transgender."  I am fairly socially conservative and am very much against surgeries that would mutilate and permanently disfigure and sterilize young people in the name of transitioning to a gender other than their true biological gender. Parts of this book do an excellent job explaining and documenting how "Queer Theory" has gotten such a hold in our society - especially in our education system.  I found much of what I read very troubling, because I have already seen it in the real world where I work as a teacher every day.  Parts of the book, however, were poorly written and seemed to have little to do with the topic of the book.  The right-wing extremist (think Project 2025) ending chapter offered no real and viable solutions and seemed not to even have been properly proofread.  Because of this, 3/5 stars is all I can give this book.  It has some important, well-documented information, which, unfortunately is poorly presented.  


6. Sipsworth by Simon Van Booy ****

Genre:  Fiction

Format:  Audiobook/Libby Library Loan

This book is a lovely story of a lonely elderly woman whose life changes drastically for the better when she finds and adopts a little mouse.  The book is set in England and the narrator of the audiobook had a delightful British accent which made the story come alive. I enjoyed listening to the story in my car and in the classroom during my prep hour.   The story had a rather abrupt ending that left me questioning the final resolution.  I gave the book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  


7. Best Day Ever by Nathan Glad *****

Genre:  Nonfiction biography

Format:  Paperback (own)

This wonderful book was written by a 17-year-old boy who is a student at the high school where I teach.  He also has Brittle Bone Disease, in fact he has the most severe case of this condition of anyone currently living.  Nathan cannot walk and spends his days in a wheelchair.  He is the size of a small child.  His life expectancy is unknown, but he probably will not live into adulthood.  With all of these things and more going against him, Nathan would surely have plenty of reasons to be unhappy, yet he is one of the most happy and upbeat people ever.  His happiness and positive, upbeat outlook is the subject of this excellent little book.  The book is well written and easy to read.  Nathan's positivity is contagious, even through the pages of his book.  As I read about his experiences, I reflected on my own life, counted the blessings that are mine and committed to look for look for the good and stop dwelling on unhappy things.  I gave the book 5/5 stars on Goodreads and recommend the book to everyone!


8.  The United States of Trump by Bill O'Reilly ***

Genre:  Political/Historical/Biography

Last month, I read Kamala Harris' biography, The Truths We Hold, so this month I am giving equal time to her opponent by listening to this audiobook.  Bill O'Reilly, former Fox News personality, wrote the book, which is part Trump biography, part psychological analysis of the former president, part analysis of the 2016 election in which Trump beat Hillary Clinton and part history of the first portion of Trump's term. The book was published in 2019, so it does not cover the 2020 election or its aftermath.  The book fascinating in parts and I feel like I learned a lot about Donald Trump and why he is the way he is. Because the author of the book, is also a friend of Trump's and a former conservative pundit at Fox News, there is a good deal of whining about fake news, the biased press.  O'Reilly is also mildly critical of Trump for some things, but overall the book is not very objective and favors Trump, which is what I expected.  I gave the book 3/5 stars on Goodreads. 

Wednesday, August 28, 2024

Random Happy Things for Days 27 & 28

The things that made me happy during the past couple of days were small and random, but they added up to equal several good and happy days. 

Our church congregation is participating in a service project commemorating September 11.  We are putting together some "care packages" for low income new mothers.  I signed up to donate several tubes of toothpaste for the packages, so I went to the store and bought toothpaste.  It makes me happy that I was able help others in need in even a small way.  

Back in mid-June, on our way to Rexburg, Idaho to see Josh, we met up with my long time blogging friend Barb over at Barb's Blog. We enjoyed a lovely lunch and visit with Barb and her husband. As we were leaving, Barb gave us a gift back filled with honey and honey products from a farm near where she lives. For some reason, I never tried the candy that was in the bag, until this evening.  These little honey candies are absolutely delicious!  I told Charly, we may have to make a trip to Idaho to get some more.  These sweet treats reminded me of a lovely afternoon spent with our friends from blogland Barb and Bob and that made me happy!

Today was picture day at school, and there were technology problems that meant taking student photographs took much longer than it has in past years.  It made me happy that I had some very nice colleagues to chat with while waiting for each student to get through the long line to get pictures taken.   Usually, teachers don't have time for friendly chit chat during the school day.  

I finished this book, Best Day Ever, by Nathan Glad, a 17-year-old student at the school where I teach.  He has Brittle Bone Disease - the worst case of the disease of anyone who is still living.  Nathan wrote this book about being happy, and it is an excellent little book.  Reading it, gave me a lot to think about.  If this young man, who lives in almost constant pain and may not live to be an adult, can find things to be happy about, then so can I.  Finishing this little book helped me make the choice to be happy. 

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"Unhappiness is boring."
~Nathan Glad


Monday, August 26, 2024

Happiness Challenge Day 26 - A Productive Day in the Classroom

Since the school year began, I have felt stressed and overwhelmed.  I was having difficulty staying caught up with grading and lesson preparation.  Taking the first two Fridays of the school year off (one to attend our friend's funeral and one to attend the closing day of BYU Education Week) didn't help.  Today, I had to give a new beginning-of-the-year district reading test to my students.  I was stressing because I didn't know how to set up and administer this online test.  I was so grateful when a helpful colleague walked me through the entire test set-up process, which didn't end up being as difficult and complicated as I feared.  Also, while students took the test (which took most of the class period), I had some time to work at my desk and catch up on grading and planning.  When I left school at the end of the day today, I finally felt like I was getting on top of the workload and that made me happy.

What made you happy today?

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"Being happy never goes out of style."
~Lilly Pulitzer

 

 

Sunday, August 25, 2024

Currently on a Happiness Challenge Weekend

The weather is cooling off.  We had several days of rain last week, and now it looks like we are starting to go into more fall-like weather. 

In my garden I have a big orange pumpkin just waiting for Halloween, several other pumpkins growing and ripening, and a new baby pumpkin just starting to grow.  Many of the flowers in my yard seem to be at their summertime peak. 

I've been reading Just the Nicest Couple, a suspense/mystery by Mary Kubica.  I'm also reading a little book by a student at the school where I teach, Best Day Ever! by Nathan Glad.  Nathan is a 17-year-old student with Brittle Bone Disease, and he is also one of the happiest and most upbeat people I've met!  When I saw his book on  Amazon, I just had to buy it, to learn more about Nathan's story and how he keeps his positive attitude in the face of overwhelming odds.  I also wanted to show my support for him by buying his book.  Last week, I finished another book - a socio-political book called False Flag by Joy Pullmann.  That book is pretty controversial and troubling from a societal standpoint, but you can read my review on Goodreads, and I'll include it in my month end Reading Roundup. 

I've been watching a very interesting documentary on Netflix - Wyatt Earp and the Cowboy War.   On Sunday evenings, we also watched our Scripture Study Youtube class. 


I've been listening to this audiobook from the library, Sipsworth by Simon Van Booy.  It's quite a good story.  I should be finished with it in a couple of days. 

In the kitchen, I made Chicken Broccoli Divan for Sunday dinner.  It was delicious, and we enjoyed the meal. 

Here is the recipe I used.  It is from the Campbell Soup Recipe. It is quick, easy and very good.  Click on the picture to make it bigger.

I have missed some days of the August Happiness Challenge, but here are some of the things that have made me happy over the past few days.  

Charly and I attended the closing day of BYU Education Week on Friday.  I took a personal day and we traveled to the beautiful BYU campus which is about 30 miles south of where we live. We attended classes and heard some amazing, thought-provoking and uplifting lectures. We also had a delicious lunch on campus. Later, our daughter, who also attended Education Week, invited us to come over to her home after classes for a visit, which we did. We enjoyed some time with her and the two youngest granddaughters who were home. Friday was a very good day filled with learning and family connection and that made me very happy! 

Saturday morning, we went to our grandson's football game. 

Our daughter was there with our granddaughters and it was fun to watch the game, and it was even more fun to watch the little girls play and cheer on their brother's team. 


After the game, Charly and I went to lunch at our favorite Asian restaurant. The food there is so good!  Saturday was another good, family centered day and that made me very happy

Sunday, my happiness came from attending church services, talking to friends there, talking on the phone to Josh and getting positive texts from our daughter and son-in-law.  It was a good, happy Sunday.

That's all for now. What made you happy over the weekend?

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"The greatest happiness is 
family happiness."
~Dr. Joyce Brothers










Tuesday, August 20, 2024

Happiness Challenge Day 20 and Tuesday 4 Questions

 
The past week or so, I have felt quite stressed, due to several life situations, including the beginning of a new school year and some extended family drama.  I have done my best to deal with everything, but have felt completely exhausted by it all. This afternoon, I met with my Christian counselor/therapist to discuss some of what is going on and to get some perspective and advice.  My therapist assured me that I have done the right thing is stepping back from the drama and taking care of myself.  While nothing about family drama makes me happy, I felt peace in knowing that I can't fix everything for everyone, and that overall, I am doing the right thing.

Now, here are the Tuesday 4 Questions for this week:

1. What are you best known for in your family or among friends?

I hope that I would be known for being a follower of Jesus, a woman of faith, and a person who cares deeply about others - especially my family and friends.  

2. Were you popular in school?

I was on the school newspaper in high school, and was the editor my senior year.  I was also in the student senate for a while. I had a group of friends, but I wasn't especially popular, nor did I have any desire to be.

3. Would you rather take a drive in the country or shop in town on a day off?

I don't really enjoy shopping.  A drive in the country sounds nice if there was a nice hike at the end.  I don't particularly enjoy driving just for the sake of driving, but I do enjoy road trips to a destination I want to be at. 

4. Are you a member of any societies, clubs or associations or were you at any time?  Did you enjoy them?

As I mentioned above, I was on my high school newspaper staff and loved that.  I was a member of the an honor society (Phi Betta Kappa) in college. Later, I was a member of a professional organization for public relations practitioners. Currently, I am a member of the Utah and Granite Education Associations, which is basically our teacher's union.  I am in the union mainly for the legal protection it affords teachers.  I am also an active member of my Christian church as well as the church's women's organization.  I love being active in my church.

That's all for now.  I'll be back again soon with more entries into the August Happiness Challenge.

Until next time,

😊DebπŸ’–

"Friendship improves happiness by 

doubling our joys and dividing our grief."

~anon.


 

Saturday, August 17, 2024

Happiness Challenge Days 16 & 17

The past couple of days, we have been in Wyoming to attend the memorial service for a friend who died of cancer recently.  Funerals do not generally make me happy, and this one was no exception to that rule, but what did make me happy was a visit we had the night before the service, with the widowed husband and his daughter (who is two weeks younger than our youngest daughter).  We went to our friend's home last night when we arrived in town, and had a nice visit - just the four of us.  Lots of memories were shared and it felt good to be able to be there for this man who had been friends with Charly since the mid-1970s.   I was grateful and happy that we had made the effort to travel to the small Wyoming town where they lived and actually show up for someone who is going through a lot right now.  

After the service on Saturday, we were invited to stay for the simple luncheon provided for friends and family. The food was not fancy, but it was good and nourishing.   It reminded me that we are nourished in life, not only by food, but connections to and relationships with others.  It made me happy that we have had this long-standing, almost 50 year friendship, with this family.

The drive from our home to the town in Wyoming where our friend lived and where her funeral was help is about 2 1/2 hours.  Friday, when we left home, we had beautiful weather for the drive, but on Saturday after the service, the sky darkened and about half of our drive was in a heavy monsoon downpour, which was a little unnerving.  Fortunately, God was with us, and we arrived safely home despite the rain, and that made me happy.  Getting the soaking monsoon rain after a very dry summer is also something to be grateful for and me and my garden are both very happy about that!

While we were driving home, Josh called. You may recall that he attended a big Christian Young Adult conference that our church was sponsoring. The conference ran from Wednesday evening to Saturday afternoon so it had just wrapped up when he called us.  HE LOVED IT!  I had been a little worried that he wouldn't like such a large event, when he tends to be quite shy and reserved, but he said it was great and he was so glad he decided to participate. Hearing his positivity about the conference was one more thing that made me happy today. 

Thanks for visiting.  I hope your weekend is a happy one!

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

  • “They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.” 
  • ― Tom Bodett













 

Friday, August 16, 2024

Happiness Challenge Day 15

If you have read this blog for a while, you know that sometimes, I struggle with depression and anxiety, especially when I am tired, stressed and overwhelmed. Getting ready for and going back to school has made me feel all of those things, and honestly, I have been having a hard time keeping a positive outlook.  This August Happiness Challenge, has come at the perfect time for me and has helped me consciously and intentionally look for things each day that lifted my spirits and made me feel happy and grateful. 

Thursday was challenging. It was a rough and exhausting day at school, and I just didn't feel very good physically (probably lack of sleep as I adjusted back to my school schedule).  I didn't really feel like going to the rec center, but I knew that a little exercise was just what I needed, so after dinner, Charly and I went to the rec center and walked the track.  I often listen to podcasts or Youtubes while I walk. I found a good uplifting Christian Youtube channel that I listened to while I walked, and the combination of the exercise and the uplifting message helped me to choose a more hopeful and happy attitude. 

Did you do anything today to help yourself choose happiness?

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"Happiness is a thing to be practiced,
like the violin."
~John Lubbock




Wednesday, August 14, 2024

Happiness Challenge Days 12, 13 & 14 - Rain, Dinner & a Trip to the Dentist

Here are the things that have brought me happy moments and made me feel grateful in the past three days.

Monday and Tuesday we had some heavy rainstorms each afternoon.  We have had a dry summer and really needed rain, and the storms cooled our temperatures a lot.   Cooler temps and needed rain made me happy and grateful.

This is the delicious BLT sandwich I had on Tuesday night when I went out to dinner with three friends to celebrate one of their birthdays. Spending a couple of hours visiting with friends and enjoying good food made me very happy. 

A trip to the dentist may not usually be a happy event, but going in for a check-up and having no cavities or other problems did me a moment and happiness and gratitude.  I am also grateful for access to good dental care and insurance that pays most of the bill. 

What is making you happy this week?

Thanks for stopping by. See you again soon with more happiness.

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"Whoever is happy will make others happy."
~Anne Frank








Sunday, August 11, 2024

Sunny Sunday Daybook

Outside my window the day is sunny and warm.   It is 95 degrees here now, and the forecast for this week is for more of the same, with possibly some much needed rain on Monday or Tuesday.   This is the view of our front yard from our Ring doorbell camera. 

In my garden, I have flowers of many different kinds, in addition to lots of yet to ripen tomatoes.   I love flowers or all kinds.

In the kitchen, we had fishsticks, popcorn shrimp, macaroni and cheese, potato casserole, fresh steamed broccoli and corn for dinner.  It was all very good.

I'm reading these books, after finishing a book on my Kindle last week.  I started all three books a while back and now hope to move toward finishing them.  

I'm watching Testament The Story of Moses on Netflix. Part drama and part documentary, it is quite good. 

I've been listening to this audiobook, The Answer to Anxiety by Joyce Meyer. 

I'm looking forward to going to the closing day of BYU Education Week.  That will be next week. I already have the day off approved. 

I'm thinking about the beginning of the new school year.  I have two more days of prep, then students return on Wednesday.  Our school has a new principal and our district has a new superintendent.  We also have some policies that will be implemented like no cell phones in the classroom.  It will be interesting to see how that goes.  I will be watching things both in and out of the classroom to help me decide if this last this will be my last school year. 

I'm feeling a little down about the end of summer break.  Honestly, I am not looking forward to going back to school.  Still time marches on, and we must make the best of it. 

I'm thankful that my back has felt somewhat better today.  I have been suffering from what I think is sciatic nerve pain - at least that's how I have treating it.  I got the name of a good chiropractor from a friend of mine at church today, so if he is a "participating provider" in my health insurance, I may be making an appointment to see him with the hope of getting some relief. 

Coming up this week:
Monday & Tuesday - Classroom prep for the coming school year
Wednesday - Students return
Wednesday - Dentist appointment (check up) after school
Saturday - Memorial service for our friend who recently died of cancer

That's all for this week.  I'll be back with more of my daily Happiness Challenge next week. 

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"August is like the 
Sunday of summers."
~anon.






















 

Happiness Challenge - Day 10 & 11 - Garden Happiness!

 

I missed posting about what made me happy yesterday, so I am doing a bit of catch-up today with my daily Happiness Challenge.  I am joining with blogging friends The Gal Herself over at One Gal's Musings,  Stacy at A Mile in My Shoes and Kwizgiver at What if This is as Good as it Gets to look for moments of happiness each day this month. 

Yesterday, I discovered yet another baby pumpkin in my garden for a total for four so far.  This made me happy for two reasons - first, I love watching things grown in my garden and second, if all of these pumpkins mature and ripen, I will have one to give to each of my four Utah grandchildren who are still of an age to carve jack-o-lanterns at Halloween. 

Today, it made me happy to be able to take a walk around my neighborhood after church, before the day got too hot for outside walking.  I especially enjoyed seeing these beautiful Hibiscus flowers in front of a house at the top of our street.  The picture doesn't do them justice, but the flowers are as big as a plate and just bright and lovely.  I want some plants like this for my yard! 

What brought you happiness today? Thanks for stopping by to share the little daily moments of happiness. See you again soon!

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"Happiness held is the seed.
Happiness shared is the flower."
~John Harrigan



Friday, August 9, 2024

Happiness Challenge Day 9 - A Productive Day

After two days of required professional development and training off-campus, I was able to spend all day Friday working in my classroom.  I had some online training to complete and a significant list of things I needed to accomplish today and I was able to finish everything on my list and then some, which made me very happy.  While I don't have everything finished for the first day of school, I made a lot of progress today and I still have Monday and Tuesday to finish everything up before students come back on Wednesday.  

Did anything make you happy today?

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"The best preparation for good work tomorrow,
is to do good work today."
~Elbert Hubbard

 

Thursday, August 8, 2024

Happiness Challege Day 8 - Together in Christ!



Josh left this morning to go back to college. Fall semester doesn't being until after Labor Day, but he was excited to be able to get over 40 a week of work for several weeks before school begins again and he is limited to less than 20 hours a week for his on-campus security job.  He got back up to Idaho safely and he called me this evening excited about a huge Together in Christ Christian Young Adult Conference taking place in Idaho Falls near where he lives.  There was another Together in Christ conference last week here in Utah, but he didn't show much interest in attending.  Imagine how surprised - and happy - I was when Josh called to say that he had decided the conference really did look great (from social media posts) and he wants to attend the event taking place in Idaho next week!   One reason this made my mama heart so happy is that Josh can tend to be shy, reserved and even a little introverted.  I am so pleased that he decided to step out of his comfort zone and attend this event so he can meet others his age and hopefully make some new friends.  I am also happy that he wants to fellowship with other young Christians and build his faith in Jesus. 

What made you happy today?

Until next time,
😊DebπŸ’–

"Happy are those
who take life day by day,
complain very little, and
are thankful for the little things in life."
~anon.