Effective Communication Skills
Effective Communication Skills
Effective Communication Skills
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“In 2000 AD and beyond instead of
traditional factors of production –
land, labour and capital, knowledge
and technology will become the
critical factors. The winners will be
the economies with the necessary
skills and the losers will be nations
who lack them.”
- Peter Drucker
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“People cannot be developed; they can only
develop themselves. For while it is possible
for an outsider to build a man’s home, an
outsider cannot give the man pride and self-
confidence in himself as human being. Those
things a man has to create in himself by his
own actions. He develops himself by what he
does; he develops himself by making his own
decisions by increasing his understanding of
what he is doing, and why; by increasing his
own knowledge and ability, and by his own
full participation – as an equal in the life of
the community he lives in”.
Julius Nyerere
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Communication may not save us, but without
communication we will not be saved.”
William F. Berkeley
PERFORMANCE =
Individual X Work X Organisation
Attribute Effort Support
(Capacity to (Willingness to (Opportunity
Perform) to Perform to Perform)
Individual Attribute
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CHARACTERISTICS OF EXPERIENTIAL
LEARNING
* LEARNING IS BEST CONCEIVED AS A
PROCESS, NOT IN TERMS OF OUTCOMES
MOTIVATE PEOPLE
1. TO MAKE MONEY 2. TO SAVE MONEY
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A TYPICAL EXAMPLE OF
COMMUNICATION DISTORTIONS
Operation Halley’s Comet
A Colonel issued the following directive to his
Executive Officer:
CULTURAL CONTEXT
ORGANISATION:
POSITION, JOB,
INTERPRETATION REWARDS,
PUNISHMENTS
PEER GROUP:
COMPETITION, STRESS,
CLOSURE POWER
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COMMUNICATION PERCEPTION
1. HOW I SEE MYSELF
2. HOW I SEE YOU
3. HOW I THINK YOU SEE ME
4. HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF
5. HOW YOU SEE ME
6. HOW YOU THINK I SEE YOU
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HOW TO ORGANISE YOUR PRESENTATION
It is a good idea to start by developing
objectives. Once this is done you need to assess
AVOI the audience thoroughly. You must complete these
steps before you separately brainstorm the main
D points and the sub-points of your presentation. If
THIS it’s a persuasive presentation, then you also must
decide what the benefits are. You then gather
factual information and prepare an outline of your
presentation. Also prepare any visual aids,
handouts and notes you will need. And don’t
forget to practise!
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Effective Speaking
“The man who can think and does not know how to express what he
thinks is at the level of him who cannot think”
-Pericles
1. Dr Paul Rankin of the Ohio State University – People are spending
75% of their working time in verbal communication. Of this :
9% in writing
16% in reading
30% in speaking, and
45% in listening
(- 1927 study)
2. Three factors in speech
- The speaker
- How he speaks
- What he speaks
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3. Developing the speaking skill
- A sense of urgency
- An understanding of the benefits
- Basic principles
- Sufficient practice based on these principles
- Forming positive habits
- Continual self-development
- ABC theory of driving skill
4. Nervous tension
- personal experience
- interviews
- printed materials
- letters & questionnaires
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- broadcasts, etc.
e. Making an outline (A plan of action)
f. Converting thoughts into words
g. Preparation for effectiveness
8. Conviction
RKS/NAARM/2004
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EFFECTIVE PRESENTATION TECHNIQUE
1. GIVE YOUR LISTENERS TO HELP THEM FOLLOW YOUR IDEAS
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BE A LEADER
Level 5 Executive
Level 5 Builds enduring greatness through a paradoxical
combination of personal humility plus professional will.
Effective Leader
Level 4 Catalyzes commitment to and vigorous pursuit of a clear
and compelling vision; stimulates the group to high
performance standards
Competent Manager
Level 3 Organizes people and resources towards effective and
efficient pursuit of predetermined objectives
Do it
Do it and report periodically
I Intend to
Make recommendation
Ask
Wait until told
Source : The 8th habit by Stephen R. Covey 2004, N.Y. Simon and Schuster
SIX WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU
PRINCIPLE 1
BECOME GENUINELY INTERESTED IN OTHER PEOPLE.
PRINCIPLE 2
SMILE
PRINCIPLE 3
REMEMBER THAT A PERSON’S NAME IS TO THAT
PERSON THE SWEETEST AND MOST IMPORTANT SOUND
IN ANY LANGUAGE
PRINCIPLE 4
BE A GOOD LISTENER. ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO TALK
ABOUT THEMSELVES.
PRINCIPLE 5
TALK IN TERMS OF THE OTHER PERSON’S INTERESTS.
PRINCIPLE 6
MAKE THE OTHER PERSON FEEL IMPORTANT AND DO
IT SINCERELY.
Source: Dale Carnegie/How to Win
Friends and Influence People, 1982
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GET WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF
LIFE
- Robert Megarvey
We all have dreams
Here’s how to make them come true
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Take Time
Take time to think;
It is the source of power.
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