STOP LOVING HIM 25.

Try this if you want to know if he is a

LOVE YOURSELF provider type: SCRIPT: [“I wanna ask
you something. I don’t know if you'll
Be smart!
be able to handle that but you’re
💋💋 cute”. (STOP RIGHT HERE AND
💕
Feel free to copy this on your notes!!!
SIGH. HIS REPLY WOULD BE LIKE
Sprinkle, sprinkle!
‘TELL ME’) then proceed with [“Some
men find it offensive. Before I take a
SHERA’s ADVICE
man seriously I need to know if he
1. Don’t tell him what bothers you, show
can provide for me. It’s not something
him.
that I demand but I just have to know
2. No man will truly love you. Fall in love
because that’s what i like”]
with yourself and find a man who’s
26. When he asked, “What are you
gonna treat you the best.
doing?” Reply with: “so much, I
3. To make him commit, act like you
cannot wait to tell when I see you” —
never want commitment.
so he can plan dates with you.
4. Have something that he can’t have
27. Make him feel appreciated: Say,
(your body. don’t give in easily until
“Thanks baby, what would I ever do
you are getting what you want).
without you”
5. Create temptation.
28. Go to classy vacations.
6. Stop being needy.
29. Let him talk more and actively listen
7. Be his type (check his followers you
30. Call his name often
can see what type of girls she’s
31. Choose healthy foods when you go
attracted to).
shopping in the grocery
8. Be extra feminine.
32. Never speak wanting marriage
9. Match his energy.
33. Say, ‘Oh, I’m still single’ (enchant him
10. A man’s currency: energy, time,
with your voice)
money ..
34. Call his parents by their last name. If
11. You don’t need man’s approval.
they are rich don’t compliment
12. You don’t need to follow up.
material things, compliment
13. Play dumb.
something about her/him
14. Let him be the man, they love hero
35. Focus on yourself, don’t look at
moments.
everyone else.
15. Be his peace he doesn’t need to
36. Do not start doing more until he’s
compete with.
doing more.
16. The best way to see how man feels
37. Do not allow man to enjoy you until
about you is to do nothing
your problems are solved.
17. No option is not an option.
38. If he offers something, make sure to
18. Live in style not in tears.
get it that day.
19. If you act shocked when he cheats,
39. If you don’t have the power to make
you’re stupid.
him spend, then you have no power
20. Do not emotionally get attached to
over him.
him.
40. You cannot be shy. Closed mouths
21. Heal your bank account.
don’t get fed.
22. Stop catching feelings and start
41. If you have to start chasing a man, he
catching common sense.
doesn’t want you. The ball would be
23. You are the representative of that man
on his court.
24. Let your love be unconditional but let
42. Men like toxic women. They get
your presence be conditional.
bored of nice women. (sassy, smart,
hot woman)
43. Don’t listen to whatever they say. be loud, speak in a softer voice, don’t
Stick to your plans. ask for extra ranch.
44. Why do you think men want to be 54. Work on your hand movements -
women? It’s because we are the make them fluid
price. Women are precious like gems. 55. Always make sure any man that you
45. DO THIS if the guy is expecting sex end up with seriously whether in
after giving you a gift? [pause for a relationship or marriage loves you
second, raise your eyebrow and say:] more always.
“Well, I am not kind of girl” [pause 56. Men find it attractive when you can
again] “but it is tempting but I’m not match their game. If they can’t fool
that kind of girl. Do you want the gift you, they can’t have you, therefore
back?” you are more interesting.
46. If you are acting scared, like you have 57. When the man starts asking you
no power over him, like you are not a interview questions, pretend you got
woman or seductress, nervous, ADD - change the subject (ex. oh, this
scared to ask for gifts, scared to play place is so beautiful)
a game, then you're gonna feel 58. The best way to get a man to fall in
obligated to someone you have love with you is to get detached. Get
nothing to feel obligated for. them to spend a lot of time with you
47. Always remember you are the most and make them fall for you but you
powerful piece. Why are you not never fall for them. Never
playing like you cannot do it? 59. When you’re at the bar. Stop smiling
48. What if someone finds the other one? like you are in a Colgate commercial.
Say it’s your crazy ex that won’t leave Do a sexy, sexy sensual smile. That’s
you alone. the look they need.
49. In your feminine sensuality, use your 60. If you’re aware of how men think and
unseen three forces: SOUND (baby what they really want from you, you’d
voice), SMELL (forest perfume), be ruthless too. (Shera recommended
THOUGHT (think what you want and books to read: Ho Tactics and Man
you’ll be vibrating, think that you are Don’t Love Like Women by G.L.
feminine, that your are beautiful, that Lambert) — Ps. I finished reading Ho
are the best thing he won’t ever get) Tactics and it’s a game changer.
50. REALEST TRUTH: The truth will not PLEASE READ
set you free. It will only make you 61. There is something that rich people
mad. Controlling your emotions set have more than people with less
you free. money and that’s arrogance. As a
51. You are not looking for a young man. woman, if you have an attitude with a
You are looking for a seasoned man little bit of arrogance, they will respect
that can impress you. you more. If you cower or feel like you
52. Men like chemistry. They don’t care don’t belong, if you’re confident is low,
what you are talking about. They are they can smell that a mile away. Men
not even listening to you. If you make will put you automatically in a
them feel good about themselves, category. IT’S ALWAYS THE
that’s all they want. ATTITUDE AND CONFIDENCE. (i
53. How to be more feminine and less don’t need you, you need me — type
intimidating: FIRST OF ALL YOU of attitude)
SHOULD LOOK FEMININE: you 62. No one's gonna look up for you.
cannot wear pants all the time, don’t You’re a grown woman. You should
speak slang or ebonics, you can’t look out for yourself and be smart.
curse, you must smile, always smell They don’t care what you think about
good, you cannot stink, you must not men. They don’t value your opinion.
 63. Stop suffering. You ain’t losing him,
he’s losing you.

PS: I’ll keep adding….