10 Step Guide To Cock Worship

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THE 10-STEP GUIDE TO COCK

WORSHIP

Ladies, just how much do you love


your man’s cock? Enough to get
down on your knees and worship it?
Because that’s exactly what we’re
going to be talking about today – the
sacred art of cock worship.

A lot of people haven’t even ever


heard of penis worship, and many of
those that have make the mistake of
assuming it’s just an overly-
enthusiastic blow job, but the truth is,
it’s so much more than that.

In this article, we’ll be explaining


exactly what cock worship is all about
and showing you how to make sure
your first ceremony is a truly amazing,
arousing experience for you, your
partner, and the beloved cock in
question.
WHAT IS COCK WORSHIP?
Cock worship is the act of showing
excessive amounts of loving attention
specifically to a man’s cock or a strap-
on. With cock worship, many women
(or men) aim to celebrate everything
that is great about their partner’s cock
and help their partner to feel more
empowered, aroused, and dominant in
the bedroom.

Cock worship is something that many


couples can enjoy. It’s an enjoyable
experience for people who like BDSM
and want to reinforce dominant and
submissive roles. It’s also great for
ladies that want to treat their man to an
extra special night that’s all about him
and his cock, and for anyone that wants
to give their partner an ego-boost.
In some cases, the partner being
worshipped doesn’t necessarily even
have to have a cock. The worshipping
partner can instead worship a strap-on
that the couple uses to pleasure one
another. As long as there is a cock that
is being given more attention than it
usually would, it’s classed as cock
worship.

There’s a spiritual element to cock


worship too. In many cases, women go
all out to create a ceremonial-style
environment to worship their partner’s
member and thank it for the pleasure
that it gives or even the fertilizing
properties that it possesses.
BENEFITS OF PENIS WORSHIP –
FOR HIM AND HER
Even if you think you’re not into cock
worship, give it a shot. It has some
great benefits that can really improve
your sex life. Here are the main ones.

 IT HELPS TO BOOST YOUR GUYS


COCK CONFIDENCE
If your man has had other sexual
partners before you, then there may
be some baggage left over from
previous relationships. Even if you are
completely satisfied with his cock, he
may have had bad experiences in the
past that have caused him to feel
insecure or inadequate about the look,
shape, or length of his penis.

Penis worship can help to eradicate


these insecurities and heal any
emotional scars that he has from the
past. It will help him to understand that
no matter how he feels about his cock,
the partner that he loves and adores is
more than happy with the level of
pleasure it provides.

 IT’S A CHANCE TO SAY A MUCH


NEEDED ‘THANK YOU’ TO HIS
PLEASURE STICK
Short of saying ‘that was really great’
after sex, many couples don’t really
talk about how much they enjoy sex
with their partner. Cock worship is a
way to get all of your sexual adoration
out in the open.

If you’re the kind of person that gets


hot just thinking about your lover’s
member, then it’s about time that you
expressed that so that they truly know
how much their cock means to you.
Penis worship may come as a surprise
to many men, as most women never
express their lust and adoration for
the male form in this way.

 IT’S A GREAT WAY TO CONNECT


WITH YOUR PARTNER

If your relationship is becoming a little


stale and you feel that you really need
to reconnect with your partner, then
cock worship could be the way to do it.

When done right, penis worship is a


deeply personal experience, and it
can help guys to realize what they
have been missing in their
relationship. By reminding the guy
how much you appreciate them and
their cock, it could help to inspire a
deeper level of emotional
connection between you.

 IT CAN SPICE UP YOUR USUAL


ROUTINE
Getting bored with the usual routine?
Feel like you’re stuck in a rut doing the
same old things over and over? This is
common for couples, especially if
you’re married or in a long-term
relationship. If you’re feeling this way,
a super different and exciting cock
worship ceremony can be the perfect
way to shake things up.

By reminding your partner of your


adoration for his cock, it may put some
much-needed wind into his sails and
could lead to a healthier and more
exciting sex life for both of you.

 IT’S AROUSING FOR EVERYONE


INVOLVED
Planning out a full cock worship
ceremony takes time, and this build-
up can help to make it super sensual
and arousing when you’re finally
ready to worship.

All of the preparations will mean that


the experience is unique and special,
making it not just arousing for him and
his cock but for the worshipper too.
Now you know a little about the
benefits of penis worship, here’s THE
COMPLETE 10 STEP GUIDE ON
WHAT TO DO.

STEP 1: LAY THE FOUNDATIONS


Cock worship is about focusing on
creating an awesome experience for
everyone, so doing some advanced
planning is definitely a good idea. If
you’re thinking about performing a
penis worship ceremony for your
partner, it’s a good idea to do some
groundwork and find out how they
feel about their own cock.

It’s not uncommon for men to have


hang-ups and insecurities about their
cocks, and this is something that you
should aim to eradicate during the
worship ceremony.
Talk openly with your partner about
how they feel, find out their pain
points, and try to highlight any
insecurities that they have.

If you are armed with this knowledge


ahead of time, you can tailor your cock
worship rituals to help your man to
overcome these insecurities. You
should also try to find out what he likes
when it comes to oral and handjobs.

Maybe he’s a big fan of eye contact,


or maybe there is a particular way in
which he’d like you to be dressed (or
undressed). Whatever it is, try to
include all of his favorite things in the
ritual, and he’s likely to enjoy it much
more.
STEP 2: PLAN THE PERFECT TIME
Once you’ve got some ideas about
things to include in your cock worship
ceremony, you can start to plan the
right time. For a cock worship
ceremony to be really awesome, you
need to have enough time to do
everything you want to.

Penis worship is not the same as giving


a cheeky blowjob before work. Since
the end game isn’t always about
making your partner come, it could
take an hour or more, especially if you
are both enjoying it.

Choose a time when you know that you


will have a lot of time to spare, and you
can be sure that you aren’t going to
have any interruptions. This piece of
mind will allow both of you to focus
fully on the ceremony, and you will
have the luxury to enjoy whatever
happens, no matter how long it takes.

STEP 3: CREATE AN ENTICING


ENVIRONMENT

The environment is extremely


important when it comes to cock
worship. Cock worship is a sensual
practice, and therefore, you should
create an equally sensual environment
for you and your partner to enjoy.

You may find it hard to focus on your


lover’s member if you can see a pile of
laundry in the corner behind him. Be
sure to remove any annoying
distractions from your room before
the ceremony.

As well as this, you should also try to


make the room as sensual as possible
by using accessories, scents, and
candles. Things like silk sheets and
soft blankets feel great on a naked
body and are sure to ramp up the
sensuality of an otherwise average
room.
You should also consider things like
burning incense or scented candles
and dimming the lights.

In addition to ramping up the


sensuality of the environment, all of
these touches will show your man that
you have done everything to make this
experience perfect, and this will
evidence that you are truly dedicated
to worshipping him and his love stick.

STEP 4: GET THINGS STARTED


Once the scene of your cock worship
is set and ready, it’s time to invite your
man in to perform the ceremony. If
you’re surprising your man with the
penis worship, he may be taken off
guard, so give him a chance to get
acquainted with the new and sensual
surroundings.
Simply dragging him in and yanking
his pants down won’t create the
ritualistic and worshipping
environment that you want to.

You can start with a little light kissing,


and then slowly help your man to
undress. Giving a little time for him to
warm up is essential. If you give him a
little time to get into the ceremony,
you’re likely to have a lot more cock to
worship when you get down there too!

STEP 5: BEGIN THE


WORSHIPPING CEREMONY
Once your man is ready and raring to
go, you can begin your ceremony
fully. Get down to the level of the cock
and make sure that you are alert and
enthusiastic about what you see.
The whole point of the ritual is to show
him how much you love and
appreciate his manhood. That means
leaving no stone unturned when it
comes to loving on his private area.

In order to drag the ritual out and


really heighten the experience, start
slowly and work your way up to the
bigger stuff. Focus on each individual
part of his genitalia. His cock, his balls,
his taint, and even his butt if you know
your partner is into that sort of thing.

Lightly touching or kissing the cock


and its surrounding areas is a good
way to start your worship, and it gives
your man a chance to really get used
to the idea of being worshipped.
STEP 6: COMPLIMENT HIS COCK

The next step in the worshipping


process is to compliment his cock.
This is where step one really comes
into play. If you have an idea of what
your man doesn’t like about himself,
you can use this to give you some
inspiration about what to compliment.

And remember, this isn’t a cheap


porn, so just shouting ‘your cock is so
big’ doesn’t really cut it. Remember
that this is supposed to be a personal
and sensual experience to really
build a bond between you and your
partner, so try to think of compliments
that are believable and personal.

When it comes to complimenting, you


can really focus on anything, but just
try to be as genuine as possible. You
can comment on the taste, the length,
the girth, the smoothness, the lumps,
and bumps. Whatever it is that makes
you hot about his cock is what you
should say.
All this praise will help your man to
feel like his cock is the most perfect
member in the world. It will give him
newfound confidence in his naked
form and will counteract any
insecurities that he may have picked
up in past relationships.

STEP 7: INCORPORATE SOME


MASSAGE
Hands are very important in cock
worship, but it can be hard to use them
in the right way. Many people make
the mistake of jerking off their man,
instead of worshipping and
massaging the penis. Although this
rapid action might make your guy
come, it won’t necessarily make the
penis worship more enjoyable.

The benefits of penis worship are very


different from that of a handjob, and if
you accidentally sway into handjob
territory, your worship may be cut
short, and your man may not feel the
full effects.

When worshipping, you should try to


use your hands to massage and
show adoration to the cock instead.
Slow, deep massaging movements
work best for this. You can also
consider involving some essential oils
to make the cock massage that little bit
more sensual. Also, don’t be afraid to
let your hands stray to other parts of
his body too.

STEP 8: GET YOUR MOUTH


INVOLVED
After some sensual build-up, you may
want to get your mouth involved too.
Much like with the massage, steer
clear of doing the same up and down
motions that you would when giving a
blow job. Instead, try some slower
movements that focus on certain
areas of the cock.

You can consider using your tongue to


stimulate the tip of the penis, or
holding the cock in your mouth to feel
it’s fullness.

Also, if you are enjoying the sensations


of his cock in your mouth, don’t forget
to express this. Many men worry that
women don’t really enjoy giving oral,
and this, in turn, makes them enjoy it
less too.
If giving oral is making you feel hot,
be expressive, and tell him why you
enjoy the feel of his cock in your
mouth.

STEP 9: ASK YOUR PARTNER


WHAT THEY WOULD LIKE YOU TO
DO
After being sufficiently worshipped,
it’s likely that your man will be feeling
confident, empowered, and
extremely aroused.

At this point, it’s a great idea to put the


control into his hands and ask him how
he would like you to worship his
cock. He may want you to go back and
repeat something that you already did,
or he may have some crazy idea that
he would like you to try.

Whatever it is, try to be enthusiastic


and accepting, and this will make
everyone feel more comfortable about
exploring new fantasies.

STEP 10: THE FINALE


If your cock worship was super
arousing, you might find that your
partner comes during the worship,
without any aggressive sexual action
required. However, a lot of men will
need a little more vigor to actually
finish off.

If you’re both really enjoying


yourselves, you may want to switch
roles and have him do some pussy
worship. Or if you’re both feeling
super aroused, you may want to move
on to more sexual things to help you
both to climax.
In some cases, you may want to save
this for another time, as penis worship
can be really intense and can leave
you feeling tired. If this is the case,
don’t worry too much, it’s about the
journey, not the destination.
BEST PENIS WORSHIP POSITIONS
Cock worship is intended to be a long
and enjoyable ride for both partners,
so be sure to get the position right, so
you don’t get tired easily. Below are
some of the best positions for cock
worship.

1. THE KNEELING BJ POSITION


How to do it: If you’ve ever given a
blowjob before, you’ll probably have
already done this position. All it
requires is for you to be on your knees
in front of the man, and him to be
standing upright.

What’s great about it: It’s an OG cock


worship position that will leave your
man feeling powerful and in control.
Lots of guys love this position, as it
gives a man a birds-eye view of what’s
going on below, and helps them to feel
powerful in the situation.
2. THE BOSS CHAIR

How to do it:
All you have to do is get the guy sitting
down in a comfortable chair, such as
an armchair, and kneel in front of him.
His cock should be just in the right
place to make worshipping
comfortable for you.

What’s great about it: It allows your


man to be comfortable, and allows you
to get up close and personal with the
cock.

This position is great for penis


worship, as having the guy sitting also
makes it much easier for you to
position yourself close enough to the
cock to perform your worship.

Although the guy will be sitting in this


position, he will still be elevated
above the giver, which will give a
similar sense of empowerment to the
kneeling blowjob position.
3. THE REGULAR BJ POSITION
How to do it: This position is super
easy. You will need to get your man
lying down with his legs apart. You can
then lie on your front between his legs
so that your head is close to his cock.

And don’t forget, have your man prop


his head up with a pillow, so he doesn’t
have to strain to see what’s happening
down there.

What’s great about it: It’s comfortable


and relaxed for both partners whilst
still being super sexy.

Although the Regular BJ Position isn’t


always associated with cock worship,
it’s still something to think about if
you’re planning to worship for quite a
long time. Being on your knees can get
tiring, so moving into this position can
give you a much-needed rest without
disturbing the experience.

4. THE DOCTOR POSITION


How to do it: This position is best
performed on a sofa. Have your man
lie down on the sofa with his head
propped up on the armrest or pillows.
Then, you kneel down at the side of the
sofa and perform your worship.

What’s great about it: It provides the


man total relaxation and allows him
to focus fully on you and your worship.
Again, this position isn’t always
associated with penis worship, but it’s
definitely a great position to try. The
position will give your partner a
feeling that he is being treated to a
relaxing and sensual experience. All
he has to do is sit back, relax, and
enjoy the ride.

PENIS WORSHIP ACCESSORIES TO


HAVE ON HAND
When worshipping your man’s cock,
it’s a good idea to do what you can to
make the experience special, and
that’s where accessories come in.

Accessories can help you to


personalize your penis worship
specifically to your partner, and ramp
up the sensuality of the situation to
send your man into sensory overload.
Below are some great ideas for
accessories you might want to use.
BLINDFOLDS

Blindfolds are a great addition to any


penis worship ceremony. Removing
one of the senses heightens all of the
others, which means your man can
enjoy the smell of the candles and
sensations that he’s feeling to the
fullest.
They also help to add some extra kink
factor to the proceedings, which can
be a good segue into other things after
you’re done worshipping.

SCENTS AND CANDLES

Scents and candles are also a great


way to create a more special
environment for your penis worship.
No couple lights candles and gets
super sensual every time they have
sex, so the candles will help you man
to realize that this is a special occasion,
and help him to really get in the mood.

Scented candles or incense are also a


good choice, as they create a more
sensual environment and give your
man some delicious smells to enjoy
whilst you worship him.

HIS FAVORITES SEX TOYS


Many women perform cock worship to
make their man feel special and loved,
and that’s why gathering up his
favorite sex toys is a great idea. You
can incorporate anything you like in a
penis worship ceremony, and your
man may appreciate you introducing
some of his favorite things such as
cock rings or butt plugs.

Also, consider bringing some of your


own toys to the party too. Penis
worship isn’t all about the guy, it can
be a super arousing experience for the
woman too, so if you’re feeling
particularly horny, you may want to
use your favorite vibrator or dildo to
pleasure yourself as you worship.
LUBE AND ESSENTIAL OILS

Lube and essential oils can spice up


any sexual activity, and it can be
particularly useful when it comes to
cock worship. If you’re considering
anally pleasuring your man as you
worship, the lube is a definite must-
have.

Oil, on the other hand, is more useful


when it comes to the massage section
of the worship ceremony. Oil makes
any situation sexier and more sensual,
but the extra slippiness can also help
to ensure that you don’t experience
hand fatigue too quickly whilst
massaging.

FRESH & SEXY SHEETS AND


PILLOWS
If you’re going to the lengths of
performing a full-on cock worship
ceremony for your man, you should try
to make sure that everything in the
bedroom is just so. This will show your
man the lengths that you have gone to
to make this experience special for
him. Choosing extra sexy sheets is a
great way to do this.

In addition to this, it can also help to


heighten both of your sensory
experiences too. Fresh laundry scents
can be very arousing for many people
and are sure to improve the
experience. Fluffy or silky pillows
that feel great against the skin are also
a nice touch too.

BONUS TIPS
If you’re keen to make sure that your
cock worship is absolutely perfect,
here are some extra tips.

 BE VOCAL
Don’t be afraid to show and tell what
you are feeling during your
ceremony. Although you want the
ceremony to be focused on the cock,
your man will love knowing how his
cock actually makes you feel.

If you feel super wet or into it, don’t


hesitate to make this known. It can only
make the experience more intense
and enjoyable for both of you.

 LOOK INTO HIS EYES

Eye contact really helps to make


sexual experiences feel more
connected and authentic. Guys love to
see their partner’s eyes and
expressions as it helps them to truly
gauge how much they’re enjoying
themselves.
Try your best to look into his eyes
regularly; when you’re not looking at
his cock, of course!

 BE RITUALISTIC
For many people, penis worship is
about harnessing the flow of sexual
energy between two partners. And if
this is what makes it appeal to you,
then include whatever rituals you want
into your worship.

You may even want to practice the


Lingam-heart ritual (Dick massage).
Loosely translated, Lingam is a
Sanskrit word that means ‘wand of
light.’ During the ritual, you place one
hand on the ‘Lingam’ (cock) and the
other on their heart and visualize the
flow of energy between these two
points.
If this is something you’re into, be sure
to do some research into Tantric
practices and massage to learn more.

 WORSHIP REGULARLY
Cock worship isn’t really something
you can do on a daily basis if you want
it to remain a special experience.
However, if you enjoy it, you should try
to do it whenever you have the time.

The benefits go much further than an


orgasm, and regular cock worship
(and pussy worship) in a relationship
can help couples to feel more
confident and enjoy their regular sex
lives much more.

Make It Kinkier, If That’s What


You’re Into
Most of this article has been about
making penis worship sensual and
special. However, there are a fair few
BDSM enthusiasts that love cock
worship too.
If you’re looking to be worshipped by
your sub and you want things to have a
little extra kink factor, then be sure
you include all of your favorite
accessories and maybe some role play
too. Like I said at the start of the article,
penis worship can be great for all
couples, whatever they’re into.

 TALK ABOUT IT AFTERWARDS


Penis worship is quite a niche
practice, and therefore, your partner
may have no idea what it’s all about. If
you both enjoyed the experience, be
sure to chat about it afterward and
learn more about what your partner
enjoyed about the worship.

If your man liked the cock worship,


but you’d like the roles to be reversed,
they easily can be. Pussy worship is
just the same, except the shoe is on
the other foot. So, if you think it’s
something you’d enjoy, be sure to tell
them!
CONCLUSION
Cock worship can be a fun and
extremely moving way to spice up a
relationship, and it can help you give
your man some much-needed
confidence in the bedroom. If you’re
thinking about penis worship,
hopefully, this article helped you to
learn more about this sacred practice.

Also, if you’re an avid worshipper of


the ‘wand of light,’ be sure to tell me
all about your experiences in my DM.

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