D/s - Mistress/slave Contract

"This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement which defines in

specific terms the relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter
termed the slave, or the submissive, and the Mistress (both terms are intended to
be independant of sex). This agreement is NOT legal, but binding. This agreement
must be entered voluntarily, but cannot be broken except under the conditions
stated herein, after which certain precautions shall be taken to protect those
involved".

Aim:

The basis of the relationship with your potential Mistress and your own growth as
Her sub/slave demands complete honesty, relaxed, and focused attention to all
details mentioned. If you are unable to wholeheartedly give this your focused
attention, be honest with this agreement, and do NOT waste My time or yours. Do NOT
leave any ommission, if no, none, or not done, simply state that.

The Contract:

Copy and paste the contract into an email, read thoroughly and email to
"________________". The spacing of this contract does not determine the length of
your agreement. The contract is expected to be returned via e-mail within five(5)
days.

FLR Dominant/submissive Contract

i, ___________ with a free mind, and open heart request of __________, that She
accept the submission of my will unto Her. i ask that as my Dominant,
_______________ takes me into Her care, guidance and encourages growth together in
love, trust, and mutual respect. It is my desire as a submissive/slave to satisfy
Her needs, and desires whenever possible, in hopes that i will be found pleasing to
Her. In order to do so, i offer Her the use of my body, abilities, and purpose.

Further, i ask that as my Mistress, She will accept the responsibility of using my
body for the fulfillment and enhancement of both of our sexual, spiritual,
emotional, and intellectual needs. In order to achieve this, She has unrestricted
use of my body any time, any place, and in front of anyone as She determines
appropriate.

As a Domme, _____________ may bestow upon me any symbol of ownership, including a

collar, as well as any other future marks or tokens She may wish to bestow upon me.
Symbols of ownership are to be a visible reminder of status and will be worn with
pride.
Section One: Code of Conduct

Duties of Servitude

Above all, the primary duty of this submissive/slave/sissy is to please.

Personal Duties:

Attend to the physical and emotional needs of ____________ behave as Her sexual
plaything, offer physical comfort, act in obedience, remain honest and loyal, wait
on the Mistress as desired.

Household Duties:

Cleaning and maintaining the home, laundry, shopping, cooking and baking, running
all errands as needed. Any task assigned should be considered permanent until
further notice. Tasks may be added at any time.

General Behavior

Attitude:

As a submissive, i will show an attitude of respect at all times. Disrespect is a

serious offense and will be punished.

Respect includes:

Manner of speech, promptness, kneeling to serve (when able), proper answers,

obedience, and wholehearted honesty.
Respect and obedience are the two most valuable aspects of attitude that i will
show at all times. Failure to do so will be punished.

Behavior in Private
i shall address ____________ as “Ma'am” or “Mistress” at all available times. i
will pay full attention to Her when being spoken to.
my Mistress is more important than any other activity i may be engaged in with the
exclusion of an emergency.
i will sit, stand, walk, kneel, and lay where, when, and how She desires.

Behavior in Public

i will address my Mistress by Her given name or “Miss” at all times, when there is
not enough privacy to use the aforementioned “Ma'am.”
i will remain within eyesight of my Mistress unless permission is given to do
otherwise. i will be courteous and prompt at all times.
i will dress as ___________ desires. i will do my best to always have a put
together appearance in any social setting where i represent my Mistress.
i will not argue or complain in public.
Training

Training activities will include: domestic skills training, offering of self every
evening on bended knee, proper answers, orgasm control, anal training to increase
my ability to offer every hole as he wishes, learning to present myself as a
submissive full of poise, grace, and beauty in public and private, learning
protocols and rituals throughout this contract on an as-needed basis; any other
training activities as _______________ deems fit.

Orgasm Control

i am to achieve orgasm only by express permission of ___________.

i understand that a submissive’s orgasms are controlled for proper training and
reminding me that, it is with my Mistress's good grace that sexual pleasure is
brought, providing motivation, physical and sexual energy. ____________will allow
me this reward when She desires.

Punishment

Punishment will be given for the following offenses:

Cockiness/rudeness
Disobedience
Incorrectly addressing __________
Failing to properly serve
Achieving orgasm without consent
Any other punishable offense as dictated

Forms of Punishment

Punishments can include:

Spanking, chastity, nipple pinching, humiliation, cropping, hair pulling, whoring

out, orgasm denial, degradation, caning, any other punishment as She sees fit.

Punishments are intended as full and complete penance for offenses. Punishments
should always fit the crime, and would be executed with full understanding that
once over, the issue is over.

Section Two: Limits of D/s Contract

Limits of submissive

Hard: ____________________________

Soft: _________________________________
Safety

Safe words for the duration of the contract will be the same in public and private
settings. _______ will indicate an immediate stop to all activities. ______ will
indicate an approach to the limits of play.

Section Three: Submissive’s pledge

i will do my best to serve my Mistress. I will work hard to correct any

insecurities or inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve
_____________. i will grow as a person. i will maintain honest and open
communication. i will reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without fear of
judgment or embarrassment. i will bring You any wants and perceived needs of mine.
i will be the very best sub/slave possible. i will work to uphold our M/s
relationship at all times. i will not hold any mistake against You.

my surrender as a submissive/slave is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of

me will demean me as a person, and in no way diminish my own responsibilities
towards making the utmost use of my potential. In recognition of my family
obligations, i know nothing will be required of me that will in any way damage or
harm me or interfere with the performance of my duties as a loyal sub/slave.

This i, ____________ do entreat with lucidity and the realization of what this
means, both stated and implied, in the conviction that this offer will be
understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem, devotion and the love in which
it is given.

Should either of us find that our aspirations are not being well served by this
agreement, find this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to
cancel, either me, __________ nor ____________ may do so by verbal notification to
the other in keeping with the consensual nature of this contract. We both
understand that cancellation means a cessation to the power exchange dynamic
indicated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of the relationship
as friends, lovers, and spouses.

Upon cancellation, each of us agrees to offer the other his or Her reasons and to
assess the new needs and situation openly. This agreement shall serve as the basis
for an extension of our D/s relationship, committed to in the spirit of loving and
consensual Dominance and submission with the intention of furthering self-awareness
and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both lives.

Section Four: Signatures

This contract is valid from this day of signing until this date ________________,
and at that, it may be renewed or renegotiated if the Dominant and/or submissive is
of that interest.
i offer my consent of submission to ____________ under the terms stated above on
this, the ______ day of ___________ in the year . x___________ (Signature of
submissive)

i offer My acceptance of submission by _________________ under the terms stated

above on this, the _____ day of __________ in the year . x___________ (Signature of
Dominant).

_________________

"When you get married, you have to legally sign a document attesting to your
decision to be married. The legal document can come in many forms but most have a
brief section about what each party declares for the union, how they will treat
each other and how commitment will be displayed (change of names usually).

In a D/s relationship, it is not unfamiliar to also draft a contract in which to

declare your intentions with each other. These are not required, of course, and
some people will proclaim the invalidity of these documents to anyone who will
listen.

I feel that the creation of a contract has some very useful and valuable importance
to a growing relationship".

___________________

Date

________________________

Dominant's Signature