Irwin 2012
Irwin 2012
Irwin 2012
Abstract
Qualitative research has generated important insights into the intersection of social
class, parental values and children’s experiences of education and their role in the
reproduction of inequalities. There has been less analytic engagement with parents’
expectations and aspirations regarding their children’s future occupations. Such
expectations and aspirations have attracted much research and policy interest.
Typically, analyses have been quantitative and focused on outcomes for children.
Whilst parental expectations are deemed very influential for children’s future occu-
pational outcomes, there is relatively little evidence on the shaping of such expec-
tations, or the ways in which future work and occupations are discussed between
parents and children. This article reports on an analysis of parents’ ideas about their
children’s future occupations and the contexts in which these ideas accrue meaning.
Drawing on primary data from interviews with parents we explore diversity within,
as well as across, social classes. First we explore parents’ expectations and aspira-
tions for their children’s future occupations. Secondly we consider how parents see
their own role in shaping such futures. The evidence highlights the salience of
parents’ own biographies and class backgrounds in shaping their orientations to, and
manner of engagement with, their children’s futures. Thirdly we briefly explore how
parents’ expectations and engagement with their children play out in class differ-
entiated ways as their children approach early adulthood.
Keywords: aspirations, children’s futures, employment, occupations, parents’ expec-
tations, social class
Introduction
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Research design
‘Family contexts, class and parenting values’ was run as an extension project
of Real Life Methods (part of the ESRC National Centre for Research
Methods).1 The project was designed to research parents’ values and ideas,
their experiences and perceptions of their role, and their expectations for
their children’s education and future work. Research on family, schooling and
inequalities tends to focus on working-class or middle-class experiences. There
has been less evidence relating to those in the ‘missing middle’ (cf. Byrne,
2005). It was crucial to the project reported on here to allow for cross-class
comparison, to provide a basis for exploring internal class diversity, and to
include the ‘missing middle’.
In 2008 the authors ran a self-completion questionnaire survey of parents
with children involved in organized activities (for example, sports activities
run through local authority leisure centres, community football teams or dance
activities, and a local chess club). This allowed us to achieve a sample that was
suited to our interests in cultural capital and concerted cultivation (cf. Lareau,
2003), and was also a productive and effective practical strategy for securing an
extensive sample of parents across a wide spectrum of socio-economic circum-
stances. In all, 564 questionnaires were completed. A good representation of
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Josie on holiday, told us that she wants to do law and she wants to go to
Edinburgh. Cos she looked on . . . the internet to where she could do law
and so . . . when she was eight [she] has been planning, she wants to be a
barrister.
She was only tiny. . . . ‘What’s a paediatrician?’ I said, ‘It’s a doctor that
looks after children.’ So if you’d have asked her in the past, she’d say she
wanted to be a paediatrician.
Julia continued the story which revealed the importance to her of holding high
expectations for her daughter:
. . . somebody had said that . . . I think they’d said, ‘Why don’t you work in
a nursery?’ . . . and I remember being incensed about that, why did they put
that into her head, cos it’s almost like at the bottom level? . . . I was think-
ing, well you’re taking away from that bigger dream . . . Anyway, so we sat
down and . . . I [said] to her, ‘Well, you can be whatever you want to be’.
Middle-class parents not only held high expectations but talked to their
children in ways that might encourage ideas of ‘suitable’ jobs. In addition they
often reflected positively on the value of university being ‘normalized’ in their
children’s environments. For example, Julia again, although typical of a
number of middle-class parents:
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And my nieces are all at university now as well, so she’s around young
people now that are at university, and that’s all they talk about, you know,
so it’s kind of like, she’s got that thing buzzing around her that that’s where
they’re all at.
Yeah, he absolutely loves science. You know, and, he now talks about
himself going to university and . . . he’s got his own aspirations to go to
university, whereas, I would never have, never have believed it, he would
want to go to university. (Barbara, full-time homemaker, married to police
constable, on her 13-year-old son)
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How do parents see their role in shaping their children’s future occupational
opportunities? Cruising, pushing or nudging to a hoped-for future
How their children will fare as adults was extremely important for all parents,
and all articulated their hopes for their children’s futures. However, they
appeared to perceive themselves to have very differing roles, as parents, in
facilitating such hoped-for futures. Some conveyed their desire to provide the
right context, and to encourage their children in a variety of ways. In contrast
some parents appeared to be centred on their children’s futures and conveyed
a belief that they themselves could make a significant difference by their own
actions and interactions with their children. These parents were particularly
driven and determined for their children to succeed educationally and in their
future employment. This was central to their accounts of how they saw their
role as a parent and recurred throughout the interview. It was partly related to
how they saw their children’s attributes but what became evident in analysis of
the data across cases was an association between parents’ own backgrounds,
and the role they accorded to their own drive and determination in shaping
their children’s future occupational opportunities. Being very centred on
encouraging their own children to succeed in their education and in future
work (at whatever ‘level’) often overlapped with experiences of upward
mobility. It was also commonly associated with parents feeling that they them-
selves had not been encouraged or supported in this way by their own parents.
This was construed by some parents as a consequence of ‘the times’ in which
they grew up, and by others as an aspect of poor parenting. They were deter-
mined to do things differently for their own children. Such parents described
their own intensive levels of input in seeking to motivate their children in their
school work and in encouraging them to think about their future occupations.
They often saw this as part of the emotional support they provided for their
children. Within the literature on class and parenting this ‘future focus’ and
pushing children to do well is often associated with a middle-class ethic (eg
Walkerdine et al., 2001; Vincent and Ball, 2007), so it is important to recognize
that it is manifest across a much wider population.
We initially discuss diverse middle-class orientations to children’s future
occupations. Some writers have emphasized anxieties amongst middle-class
parents concerned about their children ‘falling’ from a middle-class position,
and investing in or cultivating their children in ways which will help secure
their future success (eg Vincent and Ball, 2007). In our sample we were more
likely to see confidence amongst middle-class parents than we were to see
indications of anxiety. Some were very confident about their children’s future
when we first interviewed them and maintained this confidence even in the
depths of economic recession in 2011:
I mean I sort of, I’ve got this sort of arrogance for them that thinks ‘oh
they’ll be good at something. There must be something they’ll be good
at’. . . . And I think they’re, I think they’re all relatively driven, so they
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Julia, cited earlier, was very keen for her daughter to have high occupational
aspirations and she was very oriented to encouraging her daughter to achieve.
She related this to her black British identity and a linked determination that
her children’s success should confound racist stereotyping, and also to her own
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Such limits to perceived efficacy may reflect experiences of things not turning
out entirely as hoped. Mike, for example, went on to talk of his older daughter.
He was extremely excited she was at college when we first met him. When we
re-interviewed him he explained she was now in a junior service job:
You want your kids to, to do better than what you did. I never got any
qualifications cause I had a kid at fifteen . . . So all us lives we’ve pushed for
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our kids to do better than us. So sometimes it ‘urts, when you think, you
know, [my daughter] could have done a little bit better.
Steph also was a lone mother. She had two children, worked in a public sector
welfare job, and lived in a disadvantaged neighbourhood. She described
herself as ‘mixed race’. She left a college childcare course at 16 to have her first
baby. She too was very centred on her 10-year-old son’s future, determined to
encourage him, and through the interview she emphasized the importance of
him getting on in his school work and later occupation. She believed she could
make a difference to his future, and recounted her hopes:
. . . And then he were gonna be, he were gonna be a locksmith, cos that’s
what his dad does, and I were like, ‘You don’t need a qualification to be a
locksmith, so I would like you to pick something that you actually need a
qualification for’ . . . I’d like him to aim higher than a locksmith . . . I want
. . . him to go into a job that he can work up in.
Her perception of her own pivotal role in seeking to facilitate this outcome
was evident throughout the interview in which she returned to ways in which
she encouraged her son, tried to motivate him to do well at school, and sought
to get him to focus on his future. This emphasis aligns with the role she accords
to determination in her own biography, and the value of planning ahead:
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I think having a child really young has been, . . . as mad as it sounds it’s been
a positive step in my life, for me to turn it around and get to where I am now.
Erm, so I think if I’d have had that little bit of a push, then I wouldn’t have
needed a child to . . . do that. And I would have . . . maybe had a better job
or . . . a bit more of a planned future. Whereas . . . me future hasn’t been
planned. It’s all depended on what circumstances have happened.
The parents who were pushing their children were more commonly
mothers, although not uniformly so. Jack, a sign fitter, had been encouraged by
his parents to leave school at 16 and started work as a window cleaner. He
hoped his oldest daughter, aged 12 (and his other children) would in future go
to university and related this to his feeling he had under-achieved due to his
inauspicious start:
I’m hoping that she’ll [go to] University and the lot . . . ‘cause she’s, she’s
very intelligent. But it’s her choice. Yeah so if she dun’t wanna do it, I’ll try
and talk her back into it [laughs] . . . I never had it.And I wish I had’ve done.
I think it’d have changed me as a person. And maybe [it could change] their
outcome.
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children, as their own actions intersect with other features of context and
opportunity which they and their children will confront, an issue to which we
now turn.
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cations as a pre-school teacher she worked as a dinner lady. She had in the past
started an arts degree but dropped out of the course. When she was initially
interviewed and her son was 14, she imagined he might become a PE teacher.
In her second interview she explained that her son, now 16, had just completed
his GCSEs. He had not been motivated by school work until uncomfortably
late on for Nicky (‘He didn’t see the point, couldn’t wait to leave . . . but I think
he realized in that last year ‘oh my goodness, what have I been doing for the
last couple of years. I really need my GCSEs’). He had just applied to join the
army. His parents have agreed to this:
Nicky sought to channel her son’s interests and capacities in a direction which
would secure the best long-term outcome as she saw it: specifically one involv-
ing ongoing training and a future career. She adapted her ideas and support
engaging pragmatically with her son’s interests, and saw ongoing training as
the key to a successful employment future, and like many others she saw this
ongoing education (‘disguised’, for her non-academic son, as training) as an
ethic. Nicky exemplifies the sentiment across parents in intermediate and
working-class circumstances and with older children, that they would only
sanction a departure from full-time education if it were to fit a career-oriented
work plan.
Living in a context of quite significant disadvantage, Jenny (who we intro-
duced earlier in the paper) had two children, a son in his early teens and a
younger daughter who had a learning disability. She worked part time as a
sales assistant, but spent much of her time caring for her daughter, and her
husband had a driving job at an abattoir. She felt her son needed to be much
more motivated. She was a parent who felt let down by her own parents,
indeed her mother had been quite abusive. Jenny was very determined to
provide her children with a very different environment and to support, encour-
age and motivate them. Jenny’s husband died about a year before we inter-
viewed her again. She had experienced other complex difficulties, some linked
to his death and some not. Her son was 16 at the second interview. His low
motivation at school had dipped further after his father’s death, and Jenny
described the regimented displinary regime at school as being particularly
unhelpful to him. He had unsuccessfully tried to secure an apprenticeship and
was currently seeking to do a diploma course at a local college, in vehicle
accident and body repair, having struggled to obtain his GCSEs. Jenny felt her
son ‘will just, he’ll, he’ll plod along. And he’s got the brains but he just don’t do
it . . . And that’s the frustration but I can’t make him’. In a context of severe
constraint Jenny felt frustrated by her son’s lack of ambition and drive and not
able to intervene in shaping his future beyond seeking to encourage him in
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Conclusion
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Across classes there was a range of ways in which parents engaged with their
children’s futures. Some gave accounts which suggested they were centred on
this, and determined to help engender a particular kind of occupational future
for their children. For other parents securing a certain kind of future for their
children was much less dominant in their accounts. Amongst this grouping
parents were (in the case of middle-class contexts) more assured about their
children’s future opportunities or (in the case of less advantaged contexts)
conveyed a perception of more limited scope in shaping their children’s futures.
Therefore whilst different styles of engagement with children’s future options
‘cut across’ classes, they remained strongly marked by class circumstance. Those
who were very centred on their children’s futures tended to be parents who had
either been upwardly mobile or who felt they had been under-supported them-
selves by their own parents. Class mobility, and biographical experiences of
being parented, were important in shaping how parents oriented to their chil-
dren’s futures and their perceptions of their own role in facilitating positive
futures. Our evidence also suggested a gendered component to this as it tended
to be mothers who more fully described experiences of being under-supported
when they were young, and in turn they were amongst the most determined in
actively seeking to shape their children’s futures.
How parents are situated, and the resources they have available, are crucial
to analysing how beliefs and actions develop over time. In our final examples
we considered the attitudes of three parents confronted by similar dilemmas of
motivating their children, but in very different class contexts. Drawn from an
analysis of our second wave of data, these cases exemplified how expectations,
and styles of engagement with children, evolved over time and reflected the
material contexts in which they were embedded, and the very different classed
resources which underpinned or compromised parental hopes and strategies.
There has been much talk over recent years amongst politicians and policy-
makers about raising aspirations, a discourse of voluntarism which positions
success and failure as an outcome of individual desire and actions (cf. Gillies,
2005; Gewirtz, 2001).We have explored examples of how parents’ expectations
and aspirations, and forms of interaction with children, are embedded within,
and shaped by, classed contexts. Nevertheless, from individual social actors’
perspectives, individual agency is the locus of hope and future prospects. Our
interviewees were hopeful for their children’s futures and the majority mani-
fested an individualized understanding of motivation, achievement and result-
ing opportunities, an understanding which current government rhetoric and
policy around social mobility and aspiration echoes and, arguably, reinforces.
Our evidence shows very clearly how parents’ assumptions, expectations and
aspirations are inseparable from the material social and economic contexts in
which they are embedded. Successive governments’ rhetoric about raising
aspirations decontextualizes the hopes parents hold for their children. It
implies that constraint for disadvantaged young people can be overcome by
action at the level of families. However, the evidence suggests that there is no
general shortage of ambition, indeed aspirations will almost certainly outstrip
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Notes
1 Real Life Methods was a node of the ESRC NCRM 2005–08; ESRC grant 576255017. ‘Family
contexts, class and parenting values’ was designed and run by Sarah. Sharon was employed short
term as a research assistant, contributing to data collection and analysis.
2 The extension project funding allowed for a survey and a small pilot qualitative project which
we subsequently expanded.
3 The authors shared the interviews equally in wave 1, both interviewing similar numbers across
different class backgrounds. In wave 2 Sarah undertook the majority of interviews. There were
no unusually complex ethical issues arising. We sought consent from parents to contact them
again, to ask if we might re-interview them as their children got older, and all consented.
4 All interviews were digitally recorded, and transcribed. Interviewees’ names have been changed.
5 We have classified interviewees as falling within class locations primarily on the basis of their
occupations, using standard National Statistics Socio Economic Classification tables (Rose and
Pevalin, 2005). However, we have supplemented this with an assessment of people’s means
based on their neighbourhood context and housing situation.
6 Evidence from our wave 2 interviews run in 2011 indicated that, amongst middle-class parents,
such aspirations had not been deflected by the prospect of fees increases in 2012.
7 Lisa was interviewed in 2011 as a ‘pilot’ for the wave 2 interviews, although she had not been
interviewed previously.
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