SAMSKARAS
SAMSKARAS
SAMSKARAS
The Vedic understanding is that every aspect of life is sacred. That is why each significant
stage, from conception to cremation OR from womb to tomb, is celebrated as a reminder that
life is a gift from God which should be duly respected and lived according to His wishes.
The nearest English word for samskara is sacrament, related to the phrase 'rite of passage’.
Although the number of samskaras prescribed by various scriptures varies, there are sixteen
that are a consensus among scholars.
Pre-natal Samskaras:
1. 1.Garbhadhana - Conception
2. 2.Pumsavana - Fetus protection
3. 3.Seemanta - Parting of the hair of the wife
Samskaras of Childhood:
1. 4.Jata Karma or welcoming a new soul
2. 5.Naamakarana or Naming ceremony
3. 6.Niskramana or First coming out of house
4. 7.Annaprashana or First feeding of grain to the child
5. 8.Chudakarana or Tonsure
6. 9.Karnavedha or Ear boring
Pre-marriage Samskaras:
1. 10.Vidya arambha or starting of education
2. 11.Upanayana or Thread ceremony
3. 12.Samavartana or holy bath signifying completion of educations
Vivaha Samskara – Marriage
1. 13.Vivaha or Marriage
Post-marriage Samskaras:
1. 14.Vanaprastha (Preparation for renunciation)
2. 15.Sannyasa (Renunciation)
3. 16.Anthyeshti - Cremation
16 Samskaras in brief:
1. Garbhadhana (Conception)
This samskara is performed by parents and consists of fervent prayer for a child in order to
fulfill the obligation to continue the human race.
1. Purification of the mother – to make her eligible to conceive the baby through the spiritual
cleansing of the womb – Kshetra Samskara
2. Purification of the seed – Beeja Samskara
We can call it the conception ceremony. There are certain Do’s and Don’ts during the ‘Ritu’
period of the woman, which are of great psychological significance. The propitious day and
time are fixed astrologically for Garbhadhana and the ritual follows a set pattern. The mantras
uttered in this samskaras are essentially prayers offered to God to help the bride conceive a
good son. The mantras make use of occasional metaphors of joint action. They can be freely
translated thus:
May we produce strong and long lived sons as fire is produced by friction, may he be well
behaved. We are part of God and we shall produce god sons to liberate our ancestors. May we
beget shining, wealthy children. May we donate liberally to the needy and attain moksha.
May God make us fit for conception. Let the evil spirit flee from you. Let your child be free
from defects like lameness, deafness, etc. be you like the divine Kamadhenu, etc.
Procreation is a compulsory duty enjoined on the Hindu to repay his ancestral debt, except
when either or both the partners are functionally unfit.
'Garbha' means womb. 'Dan' means donation. In this sacrament the man places his seed in a
woman.
The Gruhyasutras and Smrutis advocate special conditions and observances for this, to
ensure healthy and intelligent progeny. Procreation of children was regarded as necessary
for paying off debts to the forefathers.
Another reason for having progeny is given in the Taittiriya Upanishad. When the student
ends his Vedic studies, he requests permission to leave from his teacher (see Samskara 14).
The teacher then blesses him with some advice which he should imbibe for life. One of the
commands is:
“Do not terminate one’s lineage – let it continue (by having children)”.
Secondly, we help in choosing an auspicious time for planting the seed, which carries the soul
in to the womb of the mother. This process requires detailed knowledge for the prospective
mother’s monthly cycle, that is, when her menses begin and end. The astrologer then
determines if that particular cycle has the possibility of conception, if so he then chooses the
date and time for performing the Garbhadhana Samskara, the purificatory sacrament of
planting the seed according to religious principles.
This Samskara ensures that conception, instead of being an accident, should be a pre-planned
affair at an auspicious time with religious purity when a husband and wife meet for a definite
object of getting good progeny. This Samskara is said to remove all the impurities related to
conception and reproductive system of female so as to ensure the birth of a lucky, healthy
and religious child.
NAKSHATRAS:
Best nakshatras for conception are: All fixed nakshatras (i.e., Uttaraphalguni, Uttarashada,
Uttarabhadrapada and Rohini), Mrigashira, Anuraha, Hasta, Swati, Shravana, Dhanishta and
Shatbhisha.
THITHIS:
1/2/3/5/7/10/12/13 Thithis are good. Rikta Thithis (4/9/14) 6/8/11, Amavasya and
Poornima should be avoided. One should also avoid Bhadra Thithi.
DAYS:
Wednesday, Thursday, Friday is good. Monday is medium.
Lagna:
Conception Lagna should have benefic planets in Kendras and Trikonas and malefic planets
in 3/6/11 houses. Lagna should be aspected by male planets (Sun, Mars & Jupiter) and Moon
should be placed in odd Navamsha.
Proper Chandra & Tara Bala Shuddhi for both Male and Female should be done.
Note: The first coitus should be done on benefic days, benefic Thithis, benefic Nakshatras,
avoiding first 3 hours of the night in cheerful mood, friendly disposition and good
consciousness.
2.PUMSAVANA (Protection of the fetus):
Pumsavana means samskara performed with the objective of getting a male progeny and to
prevent abortions. After the conception was ascertained, the child in the womb was
consecrated by the Samskara named Pumsavana. Pumsavana was generally understood “that
rite through which a male child was produced.” Vedic hymns recited on this occasion mention
Puman or Putra (a male child) and favor the birth of son. The word Pumsavana is rendered
into English by “a rite quickening a male child.” पमु ान्प्रसयू तॆयेनकममणाततपुंसु वनम् As per Grihyasũtra
(The Grihya Sutras as their name suggests deal with domestic rituals such as conception,
birth, initiation (upanayanam), marriage, death etc.). The Pumsavana Samskara was
performed in the third or fourth month of pregnancy or even later on the day when the moon
was on a male constellation particularly. The pregnant woman was required to fast on that
day. After bath she put on new cloths. Then in the night few drops of the milk or juice of the
banyan tree was poured in to the right nostril of the women with verses beginning with
“Hinraņyagarbha” etc. According to some Gruhyasũtras, if the father desired that his son
should be Viryavan or virile, he should place a dish of water on the lap of the mother and
touching her stomach reciting the verse सवनम्स्पन्प्दतेशििौ. The times of performance ranged from
the second to the eighth month of pregnancy. It was due to the fact that that the symptoms of
conception became visible in the case of different woman in different months. In the case of
woman who have already given birth to children it should be performed in the fourth, sixth
or even in the eighth month of pregnancy. In the first conception, the symptoms show
themselves earlier than in the others. That is why later periods are prescribed in the second
case.
सीमन्प्तॊन्प्नयनुंरथमेगर्भेचतथु मे ाशस
ब्राह्मणानाुंर्भोजशयतवाआशिषॊवाचशयतवा. The significance of the Samskara consisted in its main features. It
should be performed when the moon was on a male constellation. This time was regarded as
favorable for producing a male issue. Inserting the juice of the banyan tree was a device
meant for preventing abortion and ensuring the birth of a male child. In the opinion of
Sushruta the Banayan tree has got the properties of removing all kinds of troubles during
pregnancy e.g., excess of bile, burning etc.
One should insert three or four drops of juice in the right nostril of the pregnant woman for
the birth of a son. She should not spit the juice out. Insertion of medicine into nostrils is a
common thing in the Hindu systems of treatment. Therefore, it’s evident that the ritual
prescribing it was undoubtedly founded on the medical experience of the people. Putting a
dish of water on the lap was a symbolical performance. A pot full of water denoted life and
spirit in the taking every care by the expectant mother, so that the fetus should be healthy
and strong in the womb and abortion may not take place.
Lord of Month of Pregnancy: (Astrologically all the planets become the Lord of month
during pregnancy)
The lord of month of pregnancy should be strong in transit (by placement in exaltation sign,
own sign, friend’s sign or strong navamsha). Lords of various months of conception are
Nakshtras:
Mrigashira, Pushya, Moola, Shravana, Punarvasu, Hasta and all fixed Nakshatras (ie
Uttaraphalguni, Uttarashada, Uttarabhadrapad and Rohini) are considered good.
Thithis: 1/2/3/5/7/10/11/13 thithis of both dark and bright half ie both Shukla & Krishna
Paksha
Days: Male days ie Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday
Lagna: Lagnas and navamshas of male signs (ie 1/3/5/7/9/11 signs) with benefics in
kendras and Trikonas (1/4/7/10/5/9 houses) and malefic in 3/6/11 houses are considered
auspicious.
Proper Chandra & Tara Shuddhi for the pregnant woman is an important requirement.
1. A person’s superiority is not based on the physical body, but by the Viveka-Shakti
2. Moksha has to be attained by the mind alone and so the mind should be fit for Shastra Vicahara,
atma Jnana and so, the Samskara is performed right at the time of formation of this faculty.
It is also a symbolic ritual where the husband makes a boundary in the head of the wife by
parting the hair, Seema – Boundary, Antha – End and so, the limiting line is called
SEEMANTHA – making or parting of the hair in the head.
Nakshtras:
Mrigashira, Pushya, Moola, SHravana, Punarvasu, Hasta and all fixed Nakshatras (ie
Uttaraphalguni, Utttarashada, Uttarabhadrapad and Rohini) are considered good.
Thithis: 1/2/3/5/7/10/11/13 thithis of both dark and bright half ie both Shukla & Krishna
Paksha
Days: Male days ie Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday
Lagna: Lagnas and navamshas of male signs (ie 1/3/5/7/9/11 signs) with benefics in
kendras and Trikonas (1/4/7/10/5/9 houses) and malefic in 3/6/11 houses are considered
auspicious.
Proper Chandra & Tara Shuddhi for the pregnant woman is an important requirement.
The usual preliminaries are done together with the sanctification rite for purifying the house
and the occupants. The other main features of this sacrament are:
1. 1.Production of Intelligence: In this the father feeds the new born child honey and ghee with his
‘anamika finger’ while praying that the child will be intelligent and wise.
2. 2.Longevity: the child is stroked with the recitation of the Vatsapri hymn and a fire ceremony is
done while praying for long-life.
3. 3.Strength, valour and fame: the baby is blessed to be as firm & strong as a stone, as sharp as an
axe (to overcome enemies) and as incorruptible and as popular as gold. The child is handed over to
the mother to suckle with a prayer for protection for both the mother and child.
5.NAMAKARANA SAMSKARA: (Name giving ceremony)
If Jaata Karma is not performed in time it should be performed with Namakarana.
Both Jata Krama and Namakarana should be perforemed on 11th or 12th day of birth or
according to family traditions. If this is done then no specific Muhurtha is needed.
If the above two samskaras are not performed in time, following considerations are necessary
for choosing a proper Muhurtha.
Nakshtras:
NAKSHATRAS:
All fixed Nakshatras (ie, Uttaraphalguni, Uttarashada, Uttarabhadrapada and Rohini), all
moveable Nakshatras (Swati, Purnarvasu, Shravana, Dhanishta and Shatabisha), all friendly
Nakshatras(Mrigashira, Revati, Chitra and Anuradha) and all short Nakshatras (ie Hasta,
Ashwini, Pushya and Abhijit) are considered good for both Jaatakarma and Namakarana.
THITHIS:
1/2/3/5/7/10/12/13 Thithis are good.
To be avoided: Vyatipaat, Baidhriti, Bhadra, Sankratnti day and Rikta Thithis (4/9/14)
6/8/11,
DAYS:
Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday are good.
Lagna:
Lagnas and navamshas of 2/5/8/11/3/6/7/9 rashis, aspected or occupied by benefics, un-
aspected by malefic are considered good.
Second name according to the deity of the month in which the birth took place.
For
Margasheersha – Krishna
Pushya – Anantha
Magha – Achyuta
Vaishaka – Janardhana
Jyestha – Upendra
Bhadrapada – Hari
Ashiwna – Yogisha
Third name according to the nakshatra quarter in which the child is born
Fourth name is popular name, ie the name by which a person will be known. For males the
name should have two or four words and the name of females should consist of three or five
words. The name should be easy to pronounce, pleasant to hear, should differentiate between
sexes and should have good meaning. The name of female child should not be given after a
nakshatra, river, tree, bird, mountain, serpant and should not be ferocious.
Generally mother and child are given bath at the time of name giving ceremony. If name giving
ceremony is delayed due to unavoidable reasons then ‘Sootika Snana’ (mother taking bath to
get rid of the impurities related to child birth) can be performed in a properly chosen
muhurta taking following factors into consideration:
All fixed stars (ie Uttrashada, Uttaraphalguni, Uttarabhadrapada and Rohini), rigishhira,
Revai, Anuradha, Ashiwini, Hasta and Swati stars and Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday are the
best for ‘Sootika Snana’.
Proper Chandra and Tara Shuddhi for the female should be done.
6.Niskramana Samskara:
This Samskara is related to the time when the child first comes out of house in the open. The
time for performance of this samskara varies from 12th days to the fourth month after birth.
It is a common practice to perform this samskara with name giving ceremony. If it is not
performed at that time it can be done in 3rd or 4th month after birth avoiding Tuesday,
Saturday, Rikta Thithis(4/9/14 tithis), Bhadra, Amavasya(new moon day) and malefic yogas.
Shravana, Mrigashira, Hasta, Anuradha, Pushya, Punarvasu, Ashwini, Revati and Dhanishta
stars are considered auspicious. As it is the first journey of child all considerations relating to
Muhurta for journey are also applicable here.
“Shasthi - Pujana”
This is performed on 6th day after birth to please Durga (6th out of ‘Nava-Durgas’ is
Katyayani) for the well-being of the child.
Time for performance: In the 6th, 8th or 10th month for the male child and 5th, 7th, 9th or
11th month for the female child.
Nakshatras: All fixed (i.e. Uttaraphalguni, Uttarashada, Uttarabhadrapad and Rohini), all
movable nakshatras (i.e. Swati, Punarvasu, Shravana, Dhanisth and Shatbhisha), all friendly
nakshatras (i.e., Mrigshira, Revati, Chitra Anuradha), all short nakshatras (i.e. Hasta, Ashwini,
Pushya and Abhijit) are considered auspicious.
Tithis: Avoiding Rikta tithis (4/9/14 tithis) Nanda tithis (1/6/11 tithis) Ashatmi, Amavashya
and Dwadashi (8/12/30th tithis) all other tithis are good. In other words 2/3/5/7/10/13/15
tithis are good.
Days: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday are auspicious for Annaprasna.
Lagna: Avoid Aries, Scorpio and Pisces as lagna. Also avoid lagna of eight rashi from natal
moon sign. All other lagnas with benefics in 1/3/4/5/7/9 houses, malefics in 3/6/11 houses
are considered auspicious. There should be no planet in the 10thhouse and Moon should not
be placed in 1/6/8 houses.
Proper Chandra and Tara Shuddhi for the child is necessary.
‘Bhumi-Upaveshana’ (First seating on earth)
This is related to the time when the child is first seated on earth. This is performed in
5th month after birth when Mars is strong in transit, avoiding Rikta tithis (4/9/14 tithis) and
malefic days, in fixed nakshatras (i.e. Uttarafalguni, Uttarashada, Uttarabhadrapad and
Rohini), short nakshatras (i.e. Hasta, Ashwini, Pushya, Abhijit), Mrigshira, Anuradha and
jyestha nakshatras. Lord Varaha (an incarnation of lord Vishnu) and mother Earth are
worshipped and a cotton thread is tied around the waist of the child and he is seated on the
earth. This samskara is also called Kati-Sootra-dharana (I.e., wearing cotton thread around
the waist). A number of articles cloths, books, tools, pens, toys etc. are put before child and
whichever of these articles he picks up, that is supposed to decide the means through which
he will earn his childhood.
Note: For all the samskaras upto this point (i.e., Annaprasanna) there is no need to consider
combustion of Jupiter and Venus, Bala and Vriddha avasthas of Jupiter and Venus, Jupiter in
Leo, Dakshinayana (Southern course Sun), Kshaya Masa and Adhika Masa. That is even when
these malefic yogas are there, samskaras up to Annaprasana can be performed, but in all
samskaras after Annaprasana the above malefic combinations should be avoided.
8. Karna-Vedha (Ear boring)
Karna Vedha or ear boring is done to facilitate wearing of ornaments. Moreover Karna-Vedha
is said to prevent the child from disease relating to intestines and from swelling of
testicles.
Shankopari ca karnonte
tayaktva yatnena sevaneem
Vyatyasaadva shiraam
vidhyed antravruddhi nivruttaye
Time: Karna Vedha should be done either on 10th, 12th, or in 6th, 7th, or 8th month or in
odd years (3rd, 5th etc.) from child birth (Now a days generally done with Chudakarana or
Upanayana).
Nakshatras: All friendly nakshatras (i.e., Mrigshira, Revati, Chitra Anuradha), all short
nakshatras (i.e. Hasta, Ashwini, Pushya and Abhijit), Shravana, Dhanistha and Punarvasa
nakshtras are considered good.
Days: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday.
Tithis: All tithis except Rikta tithis (4/9/14 tithis) and Amavasya (new-moon-day)
To be Avoided: Khara-masa (i.e. Sun in 9/12 rashis), Tithi Kashya , Harishayana ( From
Ashada Shukla 11 to Kartika Shukla 11) Janma masa(Lunar month of birth), Janma Tara and
even years (2nd, 4th etc.) should be avoided.
Lagna: Karnavedha lagna should have benefics in Kendras, Trikonas, 3rd and 11th houses,
malefic in 3/6/11 houses with 8th house not occupied by any planet. The lagna sign should
preferably belong to Jupiter planet or Venus (i.e. 2/7/9/12 rashis) with Jupiter in lagna,
Proper Chandra and Tara Shuddhi for the child is necessary requirement like it is in all
cases.
For male child Karma-Vedha should start with right ear first and then left ear. For female
child it starts with left ears first and then right ear.
9. Chudakarana or Tonsure
This is also called ‘Choula’, ‘Mundana’ etc. The basic aim of this samskara is to cut the hair for
the first time for getting pleasant personality, good fortune and long life.
paushtika dhirghamanushyam
shucirupam virajanam
kesha shamashru nakhaadinaam
kartanam samprasadanam
After cutting, the hair are either mixed with cow-dung and buried in ‘Goshala’ (a place where
cows, buffaloes and other such animals are kept) or are thrown in river as these hairs are
prone to ‘Abhichara’ or black magic by any person with ill will. A small bunch of hair is left at
the Centre of the head and is called ‘Shikha’.”At the Centre of the head, there is a very sensitive
place and if a person is hit at that place it can cause immediate death. Shikha is kept at that
place to act as a protective guard.” – Sushrutha”.
mastakabya-antaroparishtaath
shirasambadi-sannipato
romavarto adipati
stastrapi sado maranam-sushruta
Time:”Mundana” is considered auspicious in 3rd or 5thyear, but it can also be performed in
7th year or with upnayana samskara. Some learned also consider Chudakarana or Mundana
in first year as auspicious. Even years (2nd, 4th, 6thetc.) should be avoided.
Chudakarana of eldest son or daughter should not be done when Sun is in Taurus. If mother
is having pregnancy of more than five months then mundana of a child of less than five years
age should not be done.
For Chudakarana Solar months of Makara, Kumbha, Mesha, Vrishabha and Mithuna are
considered auspicious.
Nakshatras: All movable nakshatras (i.e. Swati, Punarvasu, Shravana, Dhanistha and
Shatbhisha) all short nakshatras (Hasta, Ashwini and Pushya), Mrigshira, Revati, Chitra and
Jyeshta nakshatras are considered auspicious.
Tithis: 2/3/5/7/10/11/13tithis are auspicious.
Days: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday are considered good.
Lagna: Avoid lagna of Janma Rashi and 8thrashi from Janma Rashi. Take lagnas and
navamshas belonging to benefic planets with benefics in Kendras and
Trikonas(1/4/7/10/5/9 houses) and malefics in 3/6/11 houses. There should be no planet
in 8th house.
Proper Chandra and Tara Shuddhi is necessary: With more importance here is given to
Chandra Shuddhi.
The tithis, nakshatras etc. prescribed for Chudakarana are also auspicious for hair cutting,
shaving and nail cutting. But there is no need of muhurta for these things for persons engaged
in government service, for models, actors, actresses and the like and on special occasions like
marriage, Yagna, death of relatives, on coming out of prison and with permission of King or
Brahmina.
EDUCATIONAL SAMSKARAS:
10. Akshararambha (Introducing the child to alphabets)
‘Akshara’ literally means one not liable to depletion or depreciation and as such becomes a
medium through which if knowledge is transferred it becomes immortal. To introduce the
child to these ‘Aksharas’(alphabets) is there for an important samskara. After worshipping
Lord Ganesha, Guru, Saraswati and family Deity the child is introduced to alpha-bets. The
Guru (teacher of preceptor) sits facing the east and the child sits facing the west.
Ultimately Guru is presented with clothes, ornaments and such other articles and he blesses
the child.
For ‘Atharva-vedis’ Mrigshira, Revati, Hasta, Ashwini, Dhanistha, Pushya, Anuradha and
Punarvasu nakshatras are considered auspicious.
Tithis:2/3/5/10/11/12 tithis of bright half and 2/3/5 tithis of dark half are considered
auspicious for Upnayana samskara. Avoid Ashada Shukla -10, Jyestha Shukla -2, Pausa Shukla
-11, Magha Shukla -12 and sankranti day. All Rikta tithis (4/9/14) and Galgraha tithis
(13/14/15/30/1/4/7/8/9) are avoided.
Days: All days except Tuesday and Saturday are good. For Saamvedis even Tuesday is
auspicious.
Part of the day: Divide the length of the day in three parts. Upnayana is considered
auspicious in first part of the day and in-auspicious in third part of the day.
Lagna: In Upnayana Lagna, benefics placed in Kendra and Trikonas and Malefics placed in
3/6/11 houses are considered good.
Avoid Jupiter, Venus, Moon and Lagna Lord in 6th or 8th house, avoid Venus and Moon in
12th house and avoid malefics in 5th or 8th house.
Full Moon, exalted or in its own house is considered very auspicious in Lagna.
Upnayana Lagna and moon should be in the navamsha of Mercury, Jupiter, or Venus. Moon in
its own navamsha is not considered auspicious except when it is placed in 4th quarter of
Shravana or Punarvasu nakshatras.
Shakha-Swamis are: For Rig-Vedis Jupiter, for Yajurvedis-Venus: for Saamvedis-Mars and
Atharva-Vedis-Mercury. Strong ‘Shakha-Swamis’, day of ‘Shakha-Swami’ and lagna of
‘Shakha-Swami’ are considered auspicious in Upnayana. Moreover the ‘Shakha-Swami’
should be strong in transit at the time of Upnayana. Like for ‘Yajur-vedis’ strong Venus in
transit. Friday and Lagnas 2/7 rashis are considered auspicious in Upnayana.
Moon is considered strong when it is placed in 3/6/10/11/1/7 houses from natal moon
position. It is worse if placed in 4/8/12 places from natal moon. Strength by way of placement
in own sign, exaltation, friend’s sign, exaltation or own navamsha and strength in
Ashtakavarga should be considered. Proper Chandra and Guru ‘Shuddhi’ as explained above
is necessary requirement in Upnayana.
Special: Solar Chaitra (i.e. Sun in Pisces) and Janma Nakshatras (i.e. birth constellation) are
specially considered auspicious in Upanayana.
Vedaramba (Starting learning of Vedas)
This samskara is performed when a person stars learning Vedas. It can be performed with
Upanayana or separately depending upon the age at which Upnayana samskara is performed.
Keshantha samskara can be performed in the same nakashatras, tithis, days and lagnas as are
recommended for Chudakarana samskaras.
Now a day’s people do not perform these samskaras at proper time and in proper manner
prescribed. Even where these samskaras are performed it is done just to complete the
formality without understanding the real meaning and purpose behind the samskaras (like
performing Upnayana just a day before marriage).
Marriage is the only means through which one can pay one’s Pitru-rina (debt of parents) by
giving birth to children and bringing them up. Marriage is considered necessary not only for
sexual satisfaction but more importantly for progeny, for promoting higher human values of
self control and self sacrifice, for proper development of personality and for preventing
corruption in personal life.
Types of Marriages:
In Hindu “Dharma Shastras” eight kinds of marriages are given which are explained below:
1. 1.PAISHACHA VIVAHA – fraudulent rape of a girl when she is sleeping or unconscious is called
Paishacha. It is most condembable type of marriage.
1. 2.RAKSHASA VIVAHA – Forced kidnapping of a girl against her wishes and against the wishes of her
raltives is called Rakshasa vivaha. This type of marriage also lacks natural attraction male and
female and is not condered good.
A modeified verson of ‘Rakshasa’ is ‘Harana’. In Harana, the girl is kidnapped with her consent
while her relieves are not willing. In Mahabharata kidnapping of Rukmini and Subhadra are
examples of this type. According to Manu this type of marriage is permissible for Kshatriyas.
1. 3.GANDHARVA VIVAHA – Modern name of this is love-marriage. When a male and female get
physically attracted towards each other ang get married with consent it is called ‘Gandharva’. The
main deciding factor in this type of marriage is physical attraction and hence stability of such
marriages is doubtful. Moreover, this type of marriage is devoid of religious rites.
1. 4.AASURA ViVAHA – Marrying a girl after paying money to the father or relatives of the girl is called
‘Aasura’, this is equivalent to selling of girl and hence condembable. According to ‘Baudhayana
Dharma Sutra: “A person who sells her daughter for money commits a great sin and destroys the
‘Punya’ or good deeds of seven generations before and after him”.
1. 5.PRAJAPATYA VIVAHA - In this type the male requests to the female’s father and expresses his
wish to get in a time bound agreement with this daughter for giving birth to children and for
bringgin them up so as to pay their debt towards ‘Prajapati’ (Lord of Creation).
1. 6.ARSHA VIVAHA – Femal’s father after getting one or two ‘cow donations’ (Godhana) from male
permitting him to get married with his daughter is called ‘Arsha’. The cow donations are taken for
performance of yajna. In this type also something is taken in consdiration for marriage but that is not
the price of the girl.
1. 7.DAIVA VIVAHA- In this type the father of the girl donates the girl to the Purohita who has
performed ‘Yajna’ for him. The girl is given as ‘Dakshina’. This is not popular now-a-days.
1. 8.BRHAMA VIVAHA – This is the most popular form in which the bride’s father invites the
bridegroom at this place and gets his daughter married with the bridegroom with religious
ceremonies and without accepting anything from the bridegroom. It is in this case only it is pure
‘Kanya Dhana’ (donating the daughter).
Note: Out of the above eight types, ‘Brahma’ and ‘Gandharva’ are more popular now-a-days.
Step-2. Other Doshas or malefic conbinations which should be avoided as far as possible
Step-3. Months, days, nakshatras, thithigs, lagnas and lagna shuddhi for marriage
Post-Marriage Samskaras:
14. Vanaprastha (Preparation for renunciation):
The Vedic culture gives us the understanding that every individual should go through these
As per the four Purusharthas – Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha and the goal of life is to
attain Moksha from this mortal world and live eternally in the Spiritual World with God.
In this phase of life, the individual retires from his occupational duties and prepares himself
for the Moksha.
15. Sannyasa (Renunciation):
To be comfortable in this world, we have to work hard like It is very difficult to study, earn,
get wealth, marry, raise children, etc, at the same to leave everything is also takes lot of hard
work.
1. The way on e has to work hard to create something, one has to work equally hard to let go of
it.
2. The maximum hard work is in sannyasa ashram, for the aim of sannyasa is to try to go inside
and see the effulgent Supreme Spirit that remains hidden there behind a veil.
3. A Sannyasi leaves his family & relatives because he gets involved in the biggest family (which is
the whole world)
4. The second aim of sannyasa is to be involved in the welfare of all people in the external world.
5. He no longer lives his life either for himself nor for his small family, he accepts the duty of
serving God and the entire world throughout his life without any ambiguity
16. Anthyeshti – Cremation:
In Hindu Religion death is not treated as the end of life rather it is treated as a moment when
the ‘Atma’ or ‘Soul’ after leaving the present body will start its journey either for
reincarnation in some new form or for ‘moksha’ (final emancipation). This is the reason
behind the samskaras after death. To give ‘Gati’ (motion) to the departed soul, ‘Gati-kriya’
(process of putting in motion) or cremation is done.