Character Formation Lesson 2
Character Formation Lesson 2
Character Formation Lesson 2
The Philippines is a meeting point for cultures from all over Asia and the Pacific because it has
been a crossroads between east and west and the merging of cultures reflects the country's
culture and its people. It comes from various ethno-linguistic groups that are native to the
islands or migrants from various Asia Pacific regions, Filipinos are the people who are naturally
born to or recognized with the Philippine country.
China, the United States, and Spain mainly influence the modern Filipino identity. Though
Filipinos are racially similar to Malays but in terms of culture they are more like the Spaniards.
Thus, it could be claimed that Filipinos are the most hot-bloodied and brave citizens in the
tropical Asian cultures. Like other countries, the Philippines has its opposing values and labels,
it is believed by the Filipinos that the country have the best values in the world. Though it has
experienced colonization by several countries, but the core values it has gained from the
Filipino ancestors remained intact and are still honoured today like the bayanihan or spirit of
kinship and camaraderie implanted by Malay ancestors and close family ties inherited by the
Chinese ascendants..
POSITIVE TRAITS
1. Hospitality- Hospitality is a trait displayed by every Filipino. characterized by heart-warming
generosity and friendliness exhibited to foreigners and locals alike. Filipinos are well-known for
being hospitable. This is one of the most popular qualities of Filipinos. Most foreigners who
have gone to the Philippines fell in love with the warm hospitality they have experienced while
staying in the country. This is a kind of value system which has existed in the country thousand
of years ago. Good thing is that the hospitality of the Filipinos is not only shown to the
foreigners but to its fellow Filipino as well.
a. When a person visits a friend's house, the host greets him or her with a very warm welcome.
The host will immediately let their visitor sit down and will prepare a meal or a snack plus
drinks for the visitor. The host will insist that the friend not leave the house with an empty
stomach. A host will always make sure you had a great time visiting them.
b. People offer their guest room to visitors if they're going to spend the night.
c. Meals offered to guests are very special. A host always finds a way to prepare great tasting
food that her visitor wants to eat.
2.Respect-This is often observed-not just by younger people but also by people of all ages. In
the Philippines, respect for one's elders is a tradition.
a. Po and Opo These words are spoken by the Filipinos when talking to elders, or in order to
show respect to persons in authority. These Filipino words mean "yes," when answering or
talking to the elders.
b. Pagmamano - Another way of showing respect to the elders when greeting them. This is
done by putting their elders' hands on their foreheads c. Filipinos also show respect at work by
making a bow to their employers.
3. Strong Family Ties and Religions- Filipinos value their families so much that they tend to
keep families intact through the generations. Families go to church and pray together because
their religion is important and creates a strong bond, marking God as the center of their lives.
Filipinos believe in only one God and majority of the population are Catholics. It is a value
system of the Filipinos to pray before eating. going to bed, before the start of the meeting,
conferences of program, gathering, etc. On weekends, most Filipino families make sure to have
quality time together by watching television or eating a family meal, watch movies or going to
beach resorts.
4. Generosity and Helpfulness- Aside from being hospitable, Filipinos are also well-known for
being generous. They share what they have to the people around them even when they only
have little. These could be felt during birthdays, wedding or fiesta (party). When visitors came
to celebrate great tasting special foods are specially prepared for everyone, It is shared by
friends, families or even strangers. When you will be in trouble, Filipinos cannot refuse to help
you. They are always willing to assist you or lend a hand.
5. Strong Work Ethics-Another good thing most Filipinos have is being hardworking people.
They are always willing to work almost the whole day to provide the needs of their families.
Filipino farmers though earning so little but they work harder with not much compensation.
Aside from their regular work, Filipinos always find creative ways to look for other sources of
income like creating a small business from their home where they sell foods and other items for
the convenience of their neighbours.
6. Loving and Caring- Because of their generosity, hospitality and religiosity, Filipinos are found
to be the sweetest and most loving people in the world. It is expressed by both foreigners and
Filipino women that most Filipino men are so sweet and romantic when it comes to love. They
will send their beloved flowers, bring her to a very romantic place, text her sweet quotes and
tell often how special she is to them. Filipino women are also romantic and very caring, which
often makes some foreigners want to marry them. Women tend to prepare dinner before their
husband comes home. They love, and value the relationship, always staying faithful to their
husbands. They love deeply and sincerely.
When Filipinos are facing difficulties and shortcomings they have this attitude of leaving it up to
God to sort things out. An attitude of "What Goes Around Comes Around." Filipinos have a
tendency surrender the future to luck. They have that strong confidence that everything will
work out in his interest without doing anything. Filipinos often accepts bad news or
circumstances without trying to stop or change them. This can sometimes be helpful in
adversity, but it can also keep us from finding ways out of situations. Also, constantly expecting
the worst can get pretty depressing.
2. Mañana Habit (Procrastination)
True blooded Filipinos have the attitude of causing delays in accomplishing things or making
transactions. When not interested or not in the mood, they wait or reserve until tomorrow or
the next day to finish what they are doing or meeting their transactions. However, there are
some Filipinos nowadays who take their time in doing things or in making decisions promptly.
There are some who are habitually late or not showing up at all. There are few Filipinos who are
punctual for social meetings. In fact, it is not expected of them to arrive exactly on time
especially at a party. The "bahala na" attitude is the outcome of the "mañana habit" when the
tasks are left undone. This is usually shown and even expressed by people who do not care
much of what lies ahead and just leave everything in fate.
3. Crab Mentality
This is an attitude of some Filipinos where they tend to push each other down to clear the way
for their own gain. Filipino people with this kind of mentality or attitude try their best to ruin
each other, either by making issues against the other for him to turn out bad to the public or to
the company or organization so that people will gradually put distance and loss their
confidence and trust that eventually result to their replacement.
4. Hypocrisy
This is a trait of the Filipino where criticisms to others' failure to live with the moral standards
of the society are inevitable. In the Philippines morality is highly valued, most of us try to live up
to the standards set by the traditional society. However, as no one is perfect, many of us are
not actually able to sustain these standards. The fear of being an outcast has forced a lot of
people to live a double standard life. To hide our failure in following a norm, we tend to be
condemning those who are caught red handed. A perfect example could be the criticisms faced
by those who become pregnant outside marriage. The sad fact behind this scenario is that
some of these critics could have actually engaged in premarital sex too-only that no proof is
visible.
5. Ningas Cogon
Most Filipinos are very good at the start when doing something. Nevertheless, after a few hours
of days, that excitement to do or accomplish something is lost we and become too lazy to finish
what were have started.
Only in the Philippines that we have the so-called "Filipino time" but not exactly referring to the
Philippine standard time, but then again we use it to refer to the "tardiness" of the persons that
we are waiting or who keeps on coming late to the set time schedule of events. Instead of being
something to be proud of, Filipino time' brings a negative impression to our people. When the
invitation says the program will start at 7pm, it is expected to begin at 9pm. This has not only
caused conflicts in relationships, it also discourages others including foreigners from getting
involved in supposedly productive activities as too much time can be wasted on waiting.
7. Gossiping
Filipinos are fond of talking about others' business. It is not true that only women are into
gossiping. Even men can also be nosy on other people's lives. Secrets are brought out; failures
and flaws are emphasized; and relationships are destroyed. Worse, as gossips are passed
around, they tend to be twisted until the final story becomes too far from the original-thus,
causing more damage.
8. Blaming
Filipinos can sometimes be too self-righteous. When mistakes happen, we do not want to take
the blame, we lack humility to accept our failures, and instead we point at others. This shows
how irresponsible we are on our actions. This attitude destroys team work, and reliability
becomes an issue.
Most Filipinos are insensitive to the needs and situations of others. This could be an outcome of
having too many problems that Filipinos are facing and the tendency is to focus on their own
needs first before others.
Some Filipinos, despite of the understanding of the purpose of laws and ordinances have
inability to observe and follow them. Consequently, crime victimization and accident rate in the
Philippines are constantly rising, poverty is getting more rampant and lifestyle development is
relaxed.
11. Attention Taker
Filipinos are fun and people loving race. Thus, attracting attention is natural for them.
Nevertheless, it is a different thing to be an "epal" or "kapalmuks simply, being an attention
grabber. Sometimes, in our desperate need to be the center of attention, we do things that are
already embarrassing like butting in conversations as a know-it-all or by being scandalous. This
habit is also common to our politicians. Instead of prioritizing their duty to give the best service
to the people, they rather prioritize their thick faces to grab attention that will bring them more
chance of winning in the next election. But thanks to our vigilant netizens, this kind of
politicians earns more shame than fame.
Another habit or attitude that we need to change is our being too proud which usually results
to being oversensitive. If we think highly of ourselves, then we have the tendency to put a wall
around us and that a signboard on our forehead saying, "I must be respected." Therefore, when
someone makes a joke or a not so positive comment about us, we feel like we are not
respected and we get offended. If all people in the country do not know how to accept
constructive criticism, then we can never expect unity.
One of the reasons why a lot of Filipinos live in poverty is because of overspending. Since most
people want to live an elite lifestyle, many resort to social climbing or living beyond their
means. Sometimes, some of us think that as long as we wear designer clothes and shoes, and
we send our children to the most expensive schools, it is alright to be swimming in credits and
loans.
Filipinos' lack of initiative for change is also one reason why our country does not progress. We
keep on complaining against the government and other societal issues. However, we do not do
anything about them. One of our excuses is the lack of faith that our small actions can bring
change. However, the worse reason for this could be our lack of care for what is happening
around us. Common Filipinos also lack courage and confidence. If you can notice it, in
classrooms, churches, or conference rooms, most of us don't like to sit in the front seat.
15. Other Negative Traits
Some Filipino women give birth at an early age 16 (Teenage Pregnancy). Some just don't mind
their own business. Some have many bad habits, like drinking, smoking, etc. Some poor
teenagers engage in prostitution. There are many broken families. A lot of bad words to choose
from which Filipinos just can't avoid saying those. Most Filipinos tend to be with friends most of
the time than to be with their parents.
1. Personalism
2. Familialism
Filipinos are family-oriented. Development programs and projects in the community are
concentrated on the family. Decision on matters is centered on the welfare and best interest of
the family rather than on the betterment and interest of some individuals. The mistakes
committed by a family member affects the credibility and of the immediate members of the
family and relatives.
3. Particularism
Displayed behaviour by the individuals may it be good or bad is blamed against the family. It is
based on the principle that home is the cradle of human personality and character that is, the
product of goodness is always good and those who are moulded in wickedness, will always
show-off badness. Individuals strive to promote their own and their family's interests over
community interests, On the other hand, knowing how to entertain people (marunong
umasikaso ng kapwa) is important. onformity to proper codes of conduct reaps the rewards of
cooperation and assistance; non-conformity is punished by withdrawal of support.
Values Orientation - Is the approach that may influence work or social relationships by persons
relating to objects, events and ideas.
The relational or face-to-face interactions and their resulting responsibilities are called
interpersonal obligations. This is in relation to the value in Filipino cultural orientation, the
personalism. Pakikiramay, pakikisama, bayanihan, and galang are the nature of interpersonal
relationships that are inherent to the pure-blooded Filipino people.
1. Pakikiramay
It is in the Filipino value of going out of the way to help, without being asked, i.e., unsolicited
help.
Regardless whether someone's views are agreeable or not, Filipinos are capable of getting along
with it. Camaraderie, trust, confidence, and loyalty are enhanced and developed by this Filipino
value.
3. Bayanihan
As mentioned in the preceding topics, Filipinos are able to render services and generous
enough to extend help without compensation. -Somebody can request help in time of need
from those to whom it is extended.
4. Galang (Respect)
Filipinos are basically oriented to revere to the opinions of elders, peers, or those in authority,
during important discussions during social encounters. Verbal clash or any sign of extreme
familiarity in public meetings is a sign of disrespect to elders or persons in authority.
End of Lecture No 2