Welcome To The Passover Seder
Welcome To The Passover Seder
Welcome To The Passover Seder
In the northern hemisphere, Passover (or Pesach in Hebrew) coincides with the
beginning of spring: a time for renewal, rethinking, rebirth. We throw open the
windows of our houses, we sweep away winter's grit and dust. The story of
Passover is a story of liberation and new beginnings: what better time to rethink
our own liberation than now, as new green appears?
Seder means “order” in Hebrew and Yiddish. The Passover seder is a dinner
theater, and the Haggadah is the script. Each year we tell the story of the liberation
of the Jewish slaves from Egypt, or the mitzrayim ("the narrow place"). Passover is
naturally the highlight of the year for leftist Jews. It is a festival both of celebration
and of mourning and struggle. The seder takes us through the story of the
oppression and the liberation of our ancestors. We are invited to rejoice in our
freedoms, while holding close the stories of those who are still not free and the
ways in which we are still not free, ourselves.
May our Passover seder be joyous and soulful. May it have moments of loudness
and moments of quiet. May it create a space to feel the pain of our own oppression
and that of others, and may it create a space to celebrate the liberation we have
won, and the liberations we will win. May our seder lean on the past and branch
out into the future, but may it be rooted in the present. May it be diasporist. May it
be revolutionary. May we all live in a better world next year, free from
oppressions, and may we all work to create that world. May this Passover spring
give us the insight and courage to create ourselves anew.
Fuck Israel. Free Palestine. May we continually work to liberate our Jewish rituals
from Israel and Israeli settler colonialism. May the celebrations and hopes towards
liberation at this table reach the struggle in Palestine.
CANDLELIGHTING
Lighting the candles marks the beginning of Passover, moving us from the
franticness of our daily lives to focus on our festival and our community. Candles
symbolize an end of winter, a beginning of spring, and a long history of struggle
against oppression. We must join with all oppressed peoples, honoring both our
differences and our need to work together for the future. Lighting these candles, we
create the sacred space of the festival of liberation; we sanctify the coming-
together of our community.
All say the blessing: Blessed is the spirit of freedom in whose honor we kindle the
lights of this holiday, Passover, the season of Freedom. Blessed are you, Adonai,
who sanctifies us with your commandment to kindle the holiday lights.
This festival is about celebrating not only physical but also spiritual freedom not
just for historic Jewish people but also for our personal selves today, and for all
people, everywhere.
We can see the story as more than about our freedom from physical bondage but
also as a spiritual pilgrimage from darkness into light that we must all try to make
over the course of our lives. Its shape is that of a dramatic and miraculous narrative
and it is important that the excitement and wonder of the story itself, the events
that happened on that night which it makes it different from all other nights, should
not be lost sight of. The rejoicing that ends the night is possible only if the events
that came before are fully realized- the pain of struggle and the difficulties and
excitement of the deliverance.
So tonight’s service should not only end in celebration of our freedom but give
each of us an opportunity to reflect upon our personal life’s journey in attempting
to move out of darkness into light. This means thinking about what we understand
now that we had not known before or had forgotten or had neglected or had
misunderstood.
In the words of Leviticus (19:34) “Love the stranger as yourself, for you were
once strangers in Egypt.”
KIDDUSH
The Kiddush (a blessing said over wine) sanctifies not the wine but the holiday.
We call the holiday “z’man khayrutaynu” or “the time of our liberation.” The
Torah commands us: Remember the day of your Exodus from Egypt.” The sweet
juice of the grape is a symbol of our joy of liberation, and in sharing this festival
with our family and friends. Let us drink from our first cup together.
All say the blessing: Blessed are you, Adonai, the Eternal, determiner of the
universe, who creates the fruit of the vine.
ELIJAH’S CUP
In ancient times, the doors of the house were shut tight on the night of the tenth
plague. Blood marked the doorposts. However, in modern times, the doors are
opened wide in expectation and hope. This night is, as the Torah calls it, the Night
of Watching, in expectation of great changes for the better.
In the ninth century BCE, a farmer arose to challenge the domination of the ruling
elite. In his tireless and passionate advocacy on behalf of the common people, and
his ceaseless exposure of the corruption and waste of the court, Elijah sparked a
movement and created a legend which would inspire people for generations to
come.
Before he died, Elijah declared that he would return once each generation in the
guise of a poor or oppressed person, coming to people’s doors to see how he would
be treated. By the treatment offered this poor person, who would be Elijah himself,
he would know whether the world had reached a level of humanity making them
capable of participating in the dawn of ha’oylam ha’ba (the messianic age, aka
revolution). He is said to visit every seder, and sip there from his cup of wine.
The ha’oylam ha’ba is in our hands every day; we bring it closer by organizing,
caring for the most vulnerable, and caring for ourselves.
Now, we open the door to see if Elijah is there. If he is, let him in!
We raise Elijah’s cup and toast together: to the end of capitalism, to anarchism,
and to the future!
Point to the Green Vegetable and say: What is this green vegetable on our seder
plate?
This salt water on our seder table is a reminder of the tears shed by our ancestors
enslaved. The Jewish people lay dormant in slavery until they won their liberation
and were led out into the springtime. As individuals, liberation is often experienced
as a gift of new options, a sudden expansion of possibilities. However, the fresh
taste of newfound freedom symbolized by Karpas is still mingled with memories
of bitterness, the salt water of tears.
Before we eat it, we say together: This saltwater is the bitterness of oppression
and enslavement. This karpas reminds us of our own power to resist, revolt, renew,
regrow, and rebuild.
Systems of oppression break our world in so many ways large and small. They
shatter bodies, families, communities, sometimes whole nations. As we break the
matzah now, we ask ourselves: how do we benefit from the perpetuation of
oppressive systems? What are we willing to do about it? And where might we
start? What is broken can never be what it once was. But it can be repaired.
All say: This is the bread of affliction which our ancestors ate in the land of Egypt.
Let all who are hungry come and eat. Let all who are needy come and celebrate
Passover with us. Now we are separate; next year may we be together. Now we are
oppressed; next year may we be free.
Tonight we celebrate our liberation from Mitzrayim, “the narrow place.” But
narrow places exist in more ways than one. Let this holiday make us mindful of
internal bondage which, despite outward freedom, keeps us enslaved. Let this
holiday make us address the ways we uphold and allow the violence of oppression
and create narrow places for ourselves and others.
This year, let our celebration of Passover stir us to shake off these chains. Our
liberation is in our own hands.
A STORY ABOUT SEDERS
In the traditional haggadah, without introduction or explanation, the following
account is related:
A tale is told of five rabbis: Akiba, Yehoshua, Eliezer ben Azarya, Eliezer, and
Tarfon, who were holding a seder in the town of B’nei Brak, and talked about
Pesach until dawn broke, when their students had to interrupt them saying,“Rabbis,
it is morning and time to recite the morning shema! (prayer).”
Context is everything. This story takes place during the rule of the Roman emperor
Hadrian, who ordered that the Temple be moved so he could put a temple to
Jupiter on the Temple Mount. In the year 123 of the Common Era, a guerilla
insurgency began, which resulted in a crack-down by the Roman authorities.
B’nei Brak was the headquarters of the rebellion against Roman occupation, a
rebellion of which Rabbi Akiva was a leader. Because of rebel activities, the
Roman authorities had forbidden gatherings of Jews, on pain of death. The seder
described in this passage was used not only as a chance to discuss the liberation
from Mitzrayim—but also to plan a strategy of resistance against Roman
occupation. The students were standing guard, ready to caution the rabbis to
disband at daybreak, lest they be caught.
This tale may be read as an encouragement to become so joyfully immersed in the
seder that we don’t notice the passing of time…and it may also be read as a story
of how one liberation begets another. Celebrating our freedom can be a radical act.
It was Rabbi Akiva, after all, who famously answered the query, “Which is better,
study or action?” with the response, “Study—if it leads to action.”
THE EXODUS
A story in seven short chapters
1. Once upon a time our people went into galut, exile, in the land of Egypt.
During a famine our ancestor Jacob and his family fled to Egypt where food
was plentiful. His son Joseph had risen to high position in Pharaoh’s court,
and our people were well respected and well-regarded, secure in the power
structure of the time.
2. Generations passed and our people remained in Egypt. In time, a new
Pharaoh ascended to the throne. He found our difference threatening, and
ordered our people enslaved. In fear of rebellion, Pharaoh decreed that all
Hebrew boy-children be killed. Two midwives named Shifrah and Puah
defied his orders. Through their courage, a boy survived; midrash tells us he
was radiant with light. Fearing for his safety, his family placed him in a
basket and he floated down the Nile. He was found, and adopted, by
Pharaoh’s daughter, who named him Moshe because min ha-mayim
m’shitihu, from the water she drew him forth. She hired his mother
Yocheved as his wet-nurse. He survived to adulthood, and was raised as
Prince of Egypt.
3. As he grew, Moses became aware of the slaves who worked in the
brickyards of his father. When he saw an overseer attack a slave, he struck
the overseer and killed him. Fearing retribution, he set out across the Sinai
alone. God spoke to him from a burning bush, which though it flamed was
not consumed. The Voice called him to lead the Hebrew people to freedom.
Moses argued with God, pleading inadequacy, but God disagreed.
Sometimes our responsibilities choose us.
4. Moses returned to Egypt and went to Pharaoh to argue the injustice of
slavery. He gave Pharaoh a mandate which resounds through history: Let my
people go. Pharaoh refused, and Moses warned him that Mighty God would
strike the Egyptian people. These threats were not idle: ten terrible plagues
were unleashed upon them. Only when his nation lay in ruins did Pharaoh
agree to our liberation.
5. Fearful that Pharaoh would change his mind, our people fled, not waiting for
their bread dough to rise. For this reason we eat unleavened bread as we take
part in their journey. Our people did not leave Egypt alone; many others
went with them. From this we learn that liberation is never for us alone, but
for all, and that our struggles for freedom are always interconnected.
6. Pharaoh’s army followed us to the Sea of Reeds. We plunged into the
waters. Only when we had gone as far as we could did the waters part for us.
We mourn, even now, that Pharaoh’s army drowned: our liberation is
bittersweet because people died in our pursuit.
7. To this day we relive our liberation, that we may not become complacent,
that we may always rejoice in our freedom and struggle for the freedom of
others.
Midrash teaches that, while watching the Egyptians succumb to the ten plagues,
the angels broke into songs of jubilation. God rebuked them, saying “My creatures
are perishing, and you sing praises?”
Before we drink to our liberation, we mark how the suffering diminishes our joy.
As we recite each plague, we spill a drop of wine—a symbol of joy—from our
cups.
Tonight we have acknowledged our ancestors. We vow that we will not allow their
stories, their experiences, their wisdom to fade. These are our legacy, which we
will study and teach to our friends and children. The task of liberation is long, and
it is work we ourselves must do.
ENOUGH – DAYENU
What does this mean "Dayenu - it would have been enough?” Surely no one of
these would indeed have been enough for us. Dayenu means to celebrate each step
toward freedom as if it were enough, then to start out on the next step. It means
that if we reject each step because it is not the whole liberation, we will never be
able to achieve the whole liberation. It means to sing each verse as if it were the
whole song—and then sing the next verse.
Had God:
Brought us out of Egypt and not divided the sea for us—Dayenu
Divided the sea and not permitted us to cross on dry land—Dayenu
Permitted us to cross on dry land and not sustained us for forty years in the desert
—Dayenu
Sustained us for forty years in the desert and not fed us with manna—Dayenu
Fed us with manna and not given us the Sabbath—Dayenu
Given us the Sabbath and not brought us to Mount Sinai—Dayenu
Brought us to Mount Sinai and not given us the Torah—Dayenu
For all these, alone and together, we say—Dayenu
All say the blessing: Blessed are you, Adonai, the Eternal, determiner of the
universe, who creates the fruit of the vine.
Baruch atah Adonai,
eloheinu ruach ha’olam,
borei p’ri hagafen.
MATZAH
Why do we eat matzah? Because during the Exodus, our ancestors had no time to
wait for dough to rise. So they improvised flat cakes without yeast, which could be
baked and consumed in haste. The matzah reminds us that when the chance for
liberation comes, we must seize it even if we do not feel ready—indeed, if we wait
until we feel fully ready, we may never act at all.
All say the blessing: Blessed are you, Adonai, who brings forth bread from the
earth. Blessed are you, Adonai, who sanctifies us with the commandment to eat
matzah.
The Egg symbolizes creative power, our rebirth, and the spring.
The Shankbone represents the sacrifices we have made to survive. Before the
tenth plague, our people slaughtered lambs and marked our doors with blood:
because of this marking, the Angel of Death passed over our homes and our
firstborn were spared. Pesach, the name of tonight’s festival, means “passed-over.”
The Charoset, a mixture of apples and nuts and wine, represents the bricks and
mortar we made in ancient times, and the new structures we are beginning to build
in our lives today.
HILLEL SANDWICH
When the Temple still stood, the sage Hillel originated the tradition of eating
matzah and maror together, combining the bread of liberation with a remembrance
of the bitterness of slavery. In following his example, we create a physical
representation of the holiday’s central conflict.
THE ORANGE
Many believe the orange on the seder plate comes from an urban legend that goes
like this: a woman asked her Rabbi, “Rabbi, when would it be appropriate for a
woman to lead the Passover seder?” The Rabbi laughed and scoffed “A woman can
lead the seder when there is an orange on the seder plate!” insinuating that a
woman has no more right to be teaching Judaism than an orange, a symbol
unconnected to the story of Passover, has a right to be on the seder plate.
This story isn’t true. The orange actually comes from Susannah Heschel, professor
of Jewish Studies at Dartmouth, who added the orange to the seder plate in
recognition of those who are marginalized in the Jewish community, including
queer and trans Jews. She refutes this story and asks us to think about what it
means that the most popular understanding of the orange attributes its origin to a
man and erases queerness and transness from the picture entirely.
An amalgamation of both its true history and legend, the orange now sits on the
seder plates in many Passover seders, sometimes to denote that a woman is doing
the important work of leading the seder. Other times, the orange represents
transformation, feminism, queerness and transness, subversion, and the
experiences of Jewish people who have been marginalized by tradition. The orange
tells us it’s okay to change our traditions and rituals to be more liberatory and to fit
our spiritual needs of today. Its interpretation is always expanding.
The juicy sweetness of the orange is meant to remind us of the vibrancy of the
Jewish community, while the segments stick together as part of a whole but are
also capable of standing alone. The seeds, which represent intolerance and hate, are
bitter and are spit out in repudiation.
THE OLIVE
The olive on our seder plate is for solidarity with and freedom for Palestine. The
olive tree is a universal and ancient symbol of hope and peace. The destruction of
Palestinian olive trees by Israeli settlers and the Israeli army is just one example of
the way that the state of Israel systematically denies Palestinians of their rights,
their sovereignty, their livelihoods, and their land.
There is great irony and injustice in celebrating Jewish freedom and (in the words
of a Zionist seder) the Jewish people’s “deliverance into the land of Israel” while
Palestine remains occupied. Let the olive on our seder plate remind us to renew our
commitment to liberation, from where we stand on Turtle Island to Palestine, and
to refuse to allow our Jewish rituals to uphold Israeli settler colonialism.
This olive on our Seder plate reminds us to ask ourselves, as Rabbi Brant Rosen of
Jewish Voices for Peace says: “How will we, as Jews, bear witness to the unjust
actions committed in our name? Will these olives inspire us to be bearers of peace
and hope for Palestinians — and for all who are oppressed?”
Tonight, we reject the state of Israel, and we remove it from our gathering and
denounce it in our prayers – as while the state of Israel exists, liberation and safety
for Palestine and for Palestinian people cannot happen.
Instead, we end with the sentiment of the words, from before Yerushalayim was
co-opted by the state of Israel. May we achieve wholeness and be at peace in the
coming year. May we resist oppression and violence in all of its forms. May we
fight for and achieve our collective liberation at last.
We say together: Now we are separate; next year may we be together. Now we
are oppressed; next year may we be free.