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Reader 39 S Digest IN 11 2021
Reader 39 S Digest IN 11 2021
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CONTENTS
Features 86
78 my story
48
drama in real life
Born This Way
The Woman Who A transwoman’s life of
Wrestled a Cougar
cover story extraordinary resilience.
BRAIN GAMES THAT Confronted by a young
and dangerous feline
by dhananjay chauhan
REALLY WORK during a routine outing
Recent research proves with her five daycare 94
more than ever that wards, Larrane Leech bonus read
puzzles and twisters leapt on to the wildcat, Finding Gobi
keep your mind sharp. hoping against hope that
by sari harrar
How two outsiders
she could do enough to
found their way into
protect the children.
each other’s hearts.
by mary murray
60 by dion leonard
with craig borlase
health
Knocking Out
Diabetes
How to control, and
68
even reverse, this
common disease.
by anita bartholomew
68
photograph by mathieu génon
interview
Appealing to Our
Better Nature
Author Amitav Ghosh
discusses his call to
forge a better, more
harmonious world.
by shreevatsa nevatia
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10 Over to You it happens news from the
only in india world of medicine
24 The Gift of the 44 The Latest on
Conversations Gob, a Hollow Stroke Recovery,
big idea Heist and a How Overwork
14 Lessons in Giving Family Fraud Lowers Lifespan
by naorem anuja by naorem anuja and a New Way
good news to Slow Down
18 Wheeling into the Better Living Prostate Cancer
Future and the
Power of Play 32 Remind Your
by ishani nandi
smile
Manners
by karen stiller 40
20 Inter-Purr- health
Sonal Com- 36 COVID-19 and
Meow-Nication the Road Ahead
by dr chandrakant
by your cats/ lahariya
cassie barradas
13 things
points to ponder
40 24-Karat
22 Greta Thunberg,
Nuggets
Thomas Merton
about Gold
and Pico Iyer by emily goodman
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studio
Culturescape 123 William
interview with Dalrymple’s
anuradha roy Celestial Dancer
110 The Way of the World by shreevatsa nevatia
by sukhada tatke
me and my shelf
rd recommends 124 Rahul Raina’s
118 Films, Watchlist, Top-10 Reads
Books and Music Humour
review Brain Games 12
122 Decoding the Humour in Uniform
126 Brainteasers
Burari Mystery
by jai arjun singh
127 Sixy Sudoku 17
129 Word Power Modern Romance
131 Quiz 46
132 Quotable Quotes All in a Day’s Work
67
Laugh Lines
NOTE TO OUR
READERS 76
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wanting to speak with
OVER TO her parents because
YOU
she had been taught
about condoms!
Notes on the Notwithstanding our
September issue Health Minister’s de-
sire to ban sex educa-
tion in schools we
must make it a
Lets Talk About Sex compulsory subject.
Hopefully the New Ed-
Dr Tanaya Narendra’s excellent piece shows the ucation Policy will en-
ground reality of sexuality education (a better term sure that, and help
for sex education) in India. Both in medical educa- educate and protect
tion and regulation, sexual health is one of the most thousands of children
neglected. Currently, there is no specific post-gradua- and create well in-
tion course in India to become a sex therapist. Most formed adults. And
sexual disorders are attended by a psychiatrist, urolo- with 600 million of us
gist or a gynaecologist. With sexual health not even on the internet, social
being discussed in the MBBS curriculum, how can media can certainly
we expect primary-care physicians to address the help spread the word.
Krishan Kalra,
sexual health of the population? This lack of experts
Gurugram
also confuses patients about where to seek care.
Disorders related to female sexual health continue
How to Keep Your
to be sidelined and are rarely touched upon even Heart Young
in the post-graduation course of related specialities. With age, the human
It’s time India revised its medical curriculum to help heart too grows old
address the sexual health of the people. and some changes
Dr Ankit Chandra, New Delhi are indeed irreversible.
Dr Ankit Chandra gets this month’s ‘Write & Win’ prize of ₹1,000. —EDs
The only viable plan is
to leave no stone un-
The anecdotes shared by Dr Narendra shows how the turned to keep it fight-
lack of sex education clearly has a serious effect on the ing fit. But that’s easier
health of our children and causes grievous damage to said than done, espe-
our human capital. We must learn from countries cially in today’s highly
like the Netherlands. While visiting a Swedish friend, competitive world,
back in 1987, in a village near Gothenburg, their eight- where managing stress
year-old girl came back from school, blushing and is no easy task. Apart
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from the tips listed in winning the Global hooks, bits of lace, a
the story, we should Teacher’s Prize. His silver anklet, a thimble
compulsorily take care story is a lesson on why and odd knick-knacks.
of our obesity and hy- privatization of educa- For hours I would im-
perlipidemia as well. tion must never take merse myself in a world
Dr Sunil Chopra, place. Ranjit, himself, of possibilities, stringing
Ludhiana admitted that it is be- buttons, making neck-
cause he teaches in a laces or odd little toys.
The Unkindest Cut Zilla Parishad school In retrospect, I realize
Reading The Unkindest that he got the freedom how it fuelled my cre-
Cut reminded me of my to transform the life of ativity, paving way for
own tonsorial experi- his countless students. my current vocation.
ences! I have progres- In a private school he The story has inspired
sively lost hair from would not have enjoyed me to put together a
1958, and during my the freedom to tailor his box of my own and
bachelor days would methods to the local start filling it with but-
enjoy a massage and context. Moreover, not ton-sized memories.
the pleasurable move- all families can afford Sunanda Satwah,
ment of the precious private school expenses. Mumbai
little on my head. With His story is a reminder
marriage and more hair- that some of India’s best The Day the World
loss (the two unrelated, teachers are from gov- Came to Town
I rush to state), Mallika, ernment institutes. Such a reassuring tale
my spouse, became my anirban banerjee, of human bonding in
hairdresser and remains Burdwan the face of adversity.
so to this day. She is our One can hardly ima-
tailor, civil engineer, ad- A Life in Buttons gine the mental state
ept at all of these avatars The story struck a of passengers stranded
besides being the perfect nostalgic chord. When in their grounded planes
hostess and chef for de- I was a little girl, on days for days while coming to
cades! We both enjoyed I was taken ill, mother terms with the enormity
the humour and hu- would let me play with of the World Trade Cen-
manity of this column. her cookie tin. Pulling tre tragedy. The relent-
Dr N. Gopalakrishnan, the lid off that round less efforts of the people
Bengaluru time-tainted brown tin of Gander is a wonderful
container, was like en- example of the kindness
From Sir, With Love tering a magical world— of strangers.
Congratulations to full of colourful beads, Bhushan Chander
Ranjitsinh Disale on buttons, sequins, dress Jindal, Mumbai
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Humour in
UNIFORM
BIG IDEA
LESSONS IN
GIVING
Teaching children how to give may just
result in a more compassionate world
by Naorem Anuja
T
here is little to deny that giving to India’s hinterlands prompting
is the currency of compassion a change in its name from The
and kindness, but it is in Joy of Giving Week to the more
the act of giving that we receive relatable DaanUtsav.
something far more valuable—a The Reading Revolution, part of
f u l l , h a p py h e a r t . D a a n Ut s av, the 2021 chapter of this festival of
started in 2009, celebrates just that. fellowship, is an effort to include
Unlike most philanthropic campaigns children as active participants in the
geared to achieving certain specific act of giving. Says 38-year-old Ashish
metric-driven goals, this annual Shrivastava, founder of Shiksharth,
week-long festival that runs from 2 to one of the host organizations of this
8 October—celebrates the joy of giving initiative, “The idea driving Reading
by creating a platform through which Revolution was to explore how can
millions in India from all walks of life children celebrate giving, primarily in
come together to donate whatever rural and tribal areas. People, mostly
they can—skills, resources, time—to see them as beneficiaries and never
help those less privileged. Such has as contributors. We believe we could
been its impact that it has travelled change that narrative.” Shiksharth
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The Reading
Revolution
enables children
to experience
the joy of giving.
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Labourers of Love
I’ve come across so
many of the same
people on dating
apps over the years
that I’ve started to see
them as co-workers.
— ANNE SUNDELL, writer
(left) twitter @sselvan; facebook (happy hyderabad cycling club); (right) youtube
a paper boys, and realized that they have
Better Planet
to spend a lot on repairs. An initiative
like Project Diya helps them im-
mensely,” adds Selvan.
Wheeling into the Future
The Power of Play
urban living In a bid to steer cities to- community Two decades ago, pickup
wards more sustainable goals through autorickshaw driver Dinesh Kumar T
the use of bicycles for inner-city trans- began to notice the youth in his village
port, BYCS, an Amsterdam-based social of Payambra, Kerala, falling deeper into
enterprise has created a ‘Bicycle Mayor’ the downward spiral of alcohol addic-
programme wherein local cycling en- tion. To help combat a grim fate, he
thusiasts across the world drive their found a way to help drive change in
message at the local level. Hyderabad’s community adolescents and guide
‘mayor’, Sanathana Selvan has now ini- them to a better a path through sports.
tiated Project Diya, in which volunteers In 2001, he converted part of his own
collect and refurbish of old, discarded land into a volleyball training centre
bicycles for new users. “The whole idea and started the Volley Friends Sports
looks at reworking these damaged cy- Centre. Since then, the centre has
cles and giving them to those in need launched four national level and six
like paper boys, vendors, etc. who use it state level players as well as took their
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one, besides a gym and an office,” says cial Park in British Columbia, Can-
now 49-year-old Dinesh. ada, Kuljinder Kinda and his four
friends were alarmed to discover
Taking the High Road that two men had slipped off a
education Like millions of migrants, rockface and fallen into a pool be-
Vishnu Teli left his home in Kudal Man- low a large waterfall. Calling the
gaon in the Konkan region to work in emergency services for help was to
the Brihanmumbai Municipal Corpora- no avail with no network coverage
tion in Mumbai, 100 km away, to make in the area. The friends, however,
a life for himself and his family. But his came up with a plan—make a rope
own experience of watching his father
lose his job due to a labour strike at a
textile mill had left an indelible mark
on him. If only educational prospects
were better in his hometown, the peo-
ple of his community could strive for
more stable livelihoods.
Determined to help others realize a
better future, Teli and his three daugh-
ters spend weekends and holidays,
teaching the children of blue-collar la-
bourers in the Konkan region. With
jobs in finance, insurance, banking and
IT proliferating with the times, the fam-
ily conducts classes in English, Math
out of their turbans—and pulled
and in competitive service exams.
off an amazing rescue. “We were
“After long hours of working in their trying to think how we could get
fields, children found little time for them out, but we didn’t know
free classes. But we convinced their how to,” said Kinda, an electrician
parents about the importance of edu- from Punjab. “We walked for about
cation, which led to better enrolment 10 minutes to find help and then
Its the only way to change the lives of came up with the idea to tie our
the rural poor,” says Vaishnavi, Teli’s turbans together.”
elder daughter.
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POINTS TO PONDER
The way that news organizations have lost our gatekeeping powers to
technology platforms, which have made facts available, has rippled
through our society. … this is a recognition of the importance of facts
in any shared reality. With journalists holding that line. This
recognizes not only how difficult it has been to continue doing
what we used to do—the job of holding power to account.
Maria Ressa, journalist, Nobel Peace Prize winner, 2021
We can no longer let the people in power decide what hope is.
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Dissents speak to a future age. It’s not simply to say, ‘My colleagues are
wrong and I would do it this way’ ... that’s the dissenter’s hope:
That they are writing not for today but for tomorrow.
Ruth Bader Ginsburg, American lawyer and jurist
Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone
from left: alamy
won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning.
You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here
on earth. You are here to risk your heart.
Louise Erdrich, author
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It Happens
ONLY IN INDIA
made it worth their Past Life-Present Woes certain instinct for en-
while with a crisp note Running afoul of rhyme terprise. For two rival
of their own. Said the or reason, Rajkumar educators aspiring to
message left behind: Yadav, a deputy engi- the same school princi-
“If there wasn’t any neer for MGNREGA pal’s post in Bihar’s East
money in the house, projects in Madhya Champaran district,
you shouldn’t have kept Pradesh asked that he matters came to blows
it locked, collector.” be excused from work while displaying this go-
Such injustice, indeed. as he had chanced getter spirit. Furthering
Source: ndtv.com upon divine revelations their individual bids to
of his past life. Follow- the job, Shivshankar
Family Fraud ing his “spiritual awak- Giri and Rinki Kumari
Mr Tejpal Singh, a ening”, he wrote to the went to the district edu-
resident of Bijnor, panchayat CEO. His cation department to
Uttar Pradesh, received request: Getting Sun- submit documents of
a text message from his days off as he wants to their qualifications,
son, Sushant’s phone spend the day reading when the duo began
one day. Sushant, it said, the Gita and go door- arguing. When the ver-
took a loan of `1,50,000 to-door seeking alms, bal blows felt lacking,
and had returned only in order to ‘erase ego’. matters were quickly
`75,000. If the remaining As far as leave appli- elevated to the physical
amount wasn’t repaid cations go, the spirit plane. Grappling and
soon, junior would be in of this particular one is general fisticuffs broke
a lot of trouble. Fraught definitely novel, but it out between Shivsankar
with panic and despair, wasn’t enough. Pat came and Kumari’s husband,
Singh rushed to the po- the CEO’s reply: it is out who even tackled Giri
lice station to report him of ego that people want in the wrestling classic,
missing. The twist: Delhi to spend Sundays as per ‘guillotine choke’. May
police found Sushant, their own wish and this we suggest some lessons
safe and unharmed. ego needs to be de- on conflict resolution?
But, upon interrogation stroyed at its root. So, Source: ndtv.com
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BETTER LIVING
Remind
Your How to navigate friends,
family and social outings
in a vaccinated world
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Better Living
didn’t pine for quite so much. This is have people over again, she advises.
important information to have and it “Put a nice piece of salmon on the
can help us create some new priorities. grill,” she says, by way of an example.
“When everything was mediated by “There’s no need to make salmon
phone or video chats, who did I hear Wellington.” Ordering takeout for you
from? Who did I want to hear from?” and your company from your favourite
asks Sharon Ramsay, a registered mar- restaurant is also officially okay.
riage and family therapist in Toronto.
“Who regularly nourishes us, and could TAKE TIME NOW TO
we maybe pour into those relationships REFLECT AND RECORD
a little bit more?” Relaunch your social During the pandemic, Nafissa Ismail
life with those friends first, says Ramsay. finally took the piano lessons she never
had time for. Sharon Ramsay purchased
EMBRACE NEW FORMS beautiful stationery and regularly
OF VISITING AND mailed letters to friends and relatives. I
ENTERTAINING tried yoga, and found I loved it.
When we do meet again with our social Eventually, life will start to pick up its
circles, whatever their new shape, we pace, and if we’re not careful, we might
may also discover we’re no longer as find ourselves running around in cir-
interested in our old go-to activities. cles once again. “One of the gifts of the
The pandemic has taught us that we can pandemic has been to reconsider how
enjoy a visit with a friend by taking a we live,” says Ramsay. “Some folks
walk together or by sitting on opposite might have taken to walking and
ends of a park bench, eating sand- cycling. Is that a habit you want to con-
wiches we brought from home. Simple tinue? What have been the splashes of
can be good, and that can remain true joy in the cesspool of the pandemic?”
as we move forward. Ismail suggests sitting down with a
Lucy Waverman, cookbook author piece of paper and making an actual list
and a food columnist for The Globe of the practices that brought some hap-
and Mail, believes that smaller scale piness during what might have been
hospitality will continue for some time, one of the most difficult experiences of
and she says that’s just fine. “It has to our lives. Don’t forget the good things
do with exhaustion in general and spe- we’ve learned, she advises. It’s okay to
cifically exhaustion with cooking,” says rest and to keep doing the hobbies we
Waverman, nodding to one of people’s discovered during lockdown. “We don’t
favourite lockdown activities. “I like need to constantly please others,” she
cooking but I’m fed up with it myself.” says. “It was a good life lesson to realize
Keep it simple, at least as you start to it’s okay to slow down.”
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HEALTH
COVID-19
and the
Road Ahead
The long-awaited victory may
be closer at hand than ever
By Dr Chandrakant Lahariya
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I
ndia’s experience of a ferocious India’s COVID-19 vaccination drive has
second wave of COVID-19 accelerated and by now, nearly 80 per
through April and May 2021 cent of the eligible adult population
won’t soon be forgotten. But has received at least one shot of the
since then, the number of cases has COVID-19 vaccines.
steadily declined. By mid-October, the
daily count of new cases came down Should We Expect a Third Wave?
to around 15,000—the lowest since With high sero-prevalence and in-
the start of the second wave in the creasing vaccination coverage,
country. This is a relief for everyone. epidemiologically speaking, the prob-
While the pandemic is far from ability of a third nationwide wave of
over—in India or the world—there COVID-19 in India is low. However,
seems to be a glimmer of light at the state- and district-specific smaller
end of the tunnel. waves are possible till the pandemic
Public-health experts and epide- is declared as over. Without confirmed
miologists have reached a consensus knowledge on how long immunity after
that as long as the SARS-CoV-2 virus is natural infection or vaccination lasts, it
circulating in any part of the world, is important we continue all possible
there remains a possibility of the emer- COVID-appropriate precautions.
gence of new variants, which can fuel a The long festive and holiday sea-
fresh wave. The practice of handwash- son has started in India. Globally,
ing, face masks and physical distancing in the last 21 months, we have wit-
in public places along with full vacci- nessed that soon after festivals, sport-
nation are the proven ways to prevent ing events or any instances involving
infection and reduce transmission. large gatherings of people, a rise of
A devastating second wave in India fresh COVID -19 cases occurs. With
also meant that a large proportion of approximately one-fifth of India’s
the population was infected and devel- adult population still susceptible and
oped natural immunity, as was noted unvaccinated, this could easily fuel a
in the fourth nationwide sero-preva- new wave. While most vaccines are
lence survey conducted by the Indian safe and effective, vaccination does
Council of Medical Research in June– not result in absolute immunity: a
July this year. The survey estimated that few vaccinated people are still at risk
nearly 68 of every 100 Indians above of disease. Even antibody forma-
the age of six years had developed an- tion is not a guarantee of protection.
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Health
stay with humanity for the forseeable with post-COVID or long-COVID con-
future. With increased vaccination ditions, should not ignore their symp-
and other public health measures, toms and seek timely medical advice.
COVID-19 cases will decline but we The pandemic has taught us a few les-
cannot expect case-loads to reach zero sons. First, consistent good health prac-
anytime soon. A number of countries tices is the best protection from any
such as Singapore, New Zealand and disease, COVID-19 included. We should
Australia that once planned and imple- all pledge to adopt a healthy lifestyle.
mented ‘zero-COVID’ strategies have Second, responding to public-health
since abandoned them. crises require citizen and community
Experts now agree that a realistic participation for effective implemen-
strategy is to achieve a low number of tation of countermeasures. We need
COVID-19 cases through high vaccina- to keep doing our bit to ensure India’s
tion coverage and adherence to public victory against the pandemic. Third,
health measures. Once the number of
vulnerable individuals falls, transmis- WHILE THE WORST OF
sion and the number of daily cases will SEEMS TO BE OVER, WE
decline. At that point, the disease can MUST STILL REMAIN
be considered endemic. The decision VIGILANT AND RESPOND
on when the pandemic should be con-
sidered over will be taken by the expert QUICKLY TO FUTURE
committee formed by the World Health SPIKES IN CASES.
Organization. COVID-19 has not turned
endemic in India, yet. vaccines are proven public health tools
and citizens can contribute by tackling
Preparing for the Days Ahead vaccine hesitancy and convincing every
While the worst of COVID-19 in India eligible person to get vaccinated.
seems to be over, we must remain vigi- The day when the pandemic will be
lant and respond quickly to any future declared as over, is not very far. The
spike in cases. Adherence to COVID- only way forward, is together.
appropriate behaviour and adults get-
ting fully vaccinated remain key. Until Dr Chandrakant Lahariya, a medical
both doses are received, unvaccinated doctor and epidemiologist, is the
or partially vaccinated people should Executive Director of Foundation for
avoid large gatherings. Taking care of People-centric Health Systems, New
mental and social health, eating and Delhi. His forthcoming book Pause is
sleeping well as well as keeping fitness an Opportunity: The Transformative
levels high will help support us during Potential of Schools Re-opening in
the critical months ahead. Individuals India is scheduled to release in 2022.
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13 THINGS
2
Contrary to
24-Karat Nuggets popular belief,
biting on gold is
About Gold not a reliable way to
tell whether it’s genu-
scyther 5 /getty images (gold nugget)
1
Pure gold is so ductile (translation: stretchy), though many champs
a mere 28 grams of it can be drawn out into chomp down on their
a thread 80 km long without breaking (at prizes, Olympic gold
which point it also would be too thin to see). If medals haven’t been
you did this to all of the existing gold in the world, made from that metal
it would wrap around the earth 11 million times. since the 1912 Summer
5
Games in Stockholm. Gold has been only one president
Modern gold medals used in medicine has ever been inside
are mostly silver; those for millennia. The the vaults: Franklin
from the 2016 Games ancient Romans made Delano Roosevelt, the
in Rio contained only dental bridges out of it, same president who
1.2 per cent gold. a practice they learnt effectively took us off
from the Etruscans. For the gold standard in
3
the Nobel Prize much of the 20th cen- 1933. (The United
medal is still made tury, doctors reduced States didn’t fully
of gold, though their rheumatoid arthri- abandon it until 1971.)
it was downgraded tis patients’ pain and
8
in 1980, when it went swelling with intramus- Most of the
from 23 karats (24 is cular injections of gold world’s gold is
pure) to an 18-karat compounds that have now mined in
core coated in 23-karat anti-inflammatory China. The country
gold. The gold in each properties. Today, some overtook South Africa
medal is worth about oncologists use gold for total historical gold
$8,000 (`6,00,700). compounds to shrink production in 2017. But
cancerous tumours. the world’s largest gold
4
A naturally crystal—an extremely
6
yellow element, The term ‘bullion’, rare geometric forma-
gold changes which refers to tion that can appear
colour when mixed gold bars or coins on gold specimens—
with other metals, ready to be traded, weighed 7.7 ounces
which also gives it comes from the Latin and was found decades
added strength. White word for ‘boil’. That’s ago in Venezuela.
gold contains nickel or how to remove gold’s
9
palladium. Rose gold impurities—at a mere Among the more
gets its hue from cop- 2,856 degrees C. surprising—and
per. There’s even green unpleasant—
7
gold, which has silver The U.S. Treasury sources of gold: treated
and sometimes zinc currently holds sewage. In 2015, after
or cadmium. To deter- 147.3 million analyzing sewer sludge
mine how much gold is ounces of gold bullion. from local treatment
in any piece, divide the About half of it is stored plants, researchers at
karat content by 24 and at Fort Knox, a stash Arizona State University
multiply by 100. The that’s worth more than concluded that the sew-
resulting percentage is $130 billion. Security age produced each year
the amount that is gold. at Fort Knox is so tight, in a city of a million
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people includes, on Space suits and space- a disappointing find,
average, $2.6 million craft are coated in gold it is often discovered
[`1,94,59,817] worth to reflect harmful infra- near sources of real
of gold and silver. red radiation from the gold, so a miner who
sun. Any instrument stops digging once he
10
We have NASA wants to keep finds a piece of pyrite
already ex- cool gets a gold coating may be the real fool.
tracted about as well (since radiation
13
80 per cent of the is also a great source of Don’t go look-
world’s 2,44,000 mine- heat). This includes the ing for a pot
able tons of gold. Ocean James Webb telescope, of the precious
waters and seabeds the world’s most power- metal at the end of a
contain about 20 mil- ful space telescope, set rainbow. One version
lion more tons, but this to be launched later of this legend is more
treasure remains largely this year. of a cautionary tale:
untouched because of When a poor Irish
12
the prohibitive costs to Pyrite, the husband and wife
tap it. But the biggest mineral better pull the last carrot out
trove is in outer space. known as fool’s of their garden, they
One asteroid alone gold, has fooled many, catch a leprechaun
(called 16 Psyche) has a including the famed dangling from it. The
few hundred quintillion English seaman and leprechaun agrees to
dollars’ worth. founder of the James- grant all their wishes
town colony, Christo- if they find his pot of
11
But so far, we’ve pher Newport, who gold at the end of the
only brought sailed a shipload of it rainbow, leaving them
gold to space, to London in the 1600s. to forever chase a
not taken any from it. Although pyrite can be fictitious fortune.
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G
BRA I N
M
E
T HAT
S REALLY WO R K
Researchers know more than ever about
how puzzles and twisters keep your mind sharp
(Hint: Start with games that are tough!)
By Sari Harrar
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2
line of boxes. The red
numbers indicate the
3 total number of cells
the path passes through
4 in both its vertical and
horizontal lines.
in neuroimaging allows
researchers to study
how the brain reacts
to all sorts of outside
s t i mu l at i o n , e d g i n g
5 them closer to understand-
ing how noggin challengers work.
5 “We’ve known for many years that
physical exercise keeps our bodies
strong,” says Gary Small, MD, chair
of psychiatry at Hackensack Univer-
sity Medical Center and former di-
6 3 4 rector of the Longevity Center at the
CHALLENGE: Path Finder Semel Institute for Neuroscience and
Human Behavior at the University of
WHY IT MAY WORK: We use visuo-
California, Los Angeles (UCLA). “And
spatial skills constantly, for instance, now scientific evidence suggests that
when navigating the grocery store, mental exercise keeps our brains
using a map, or figuring out how young and limber too.”
to use a tool. In a recent study from Exercise really is the key word. To
Japan’s University of Tsukuba, peo- get significant cognitive benefit, you
ple who did visual-reasoning exer- need to tackle a variety of word, num-
cises regularly for several weeks ber and spatial-reasoning puzzles, and
improved their thinking skills. they need to be tough. Does Brigham’s
PLAY IT: Draw a path that leads from sudoku habit really deserve the credit
one of the maze’s openings to the for her powerful memory? Perhaps.
other. The path can move up, down, But for the activity to be really effective,
left, or right but not diagonally and you have to up the difficulty level pretty
can pass through any cell only once. consistently. Our brains are pretty
The black numbers tell you how smart. They adjust to problem-solving
many cells the path passes through patterns quickly and easily slip into a
in that single horizontal or vertical kind of automatic pilot. That default
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mode— researchers call it the low- That said, the challenges don’t have
dimensional manifold—is great for to be the kind of high-tech, person-
helping us take care of daily business, alized games that Tom Brady uses.
such as folding laundry or catching For instance, a sudoku fanatic could
a ball, without having to figure out benefit by switching things up and
each time how to do the task. But low- trying a game called Latin square, in
dimensional challenges aren’t tough which players shade squares in the
enough to grow your brain. “Choose grid rather than inserting numbers.
challenges that make you think A few years ago, 60 women and men
harder,” says University of Sydney neu- in Australia completed Latin squares
roscientist James Shine, PhD. “I know as part of a study. As the puzzles grew
that’s not easy. It’s uncomfortable and more difficult, with fewer clues in
frustrating. We make mistakes. Stress each grid, players slowed down and
hormones kick in—and that’s actu- made more mistakes. That’s when
ally helpful for getting your brain onto Shine and his team discovered some-
new routes. Learning happens when thing surprising: The players’ brains
you feel a little uncomfortable—in had made a shift. “More regions of
that zone where you get some things the brain got involved, especially in
wrong, but it’s not so difficult that you the prefrontal cortex, an area involved
can’t get anything right.” with problem-solving, judgment and
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Kent Brody, a 73-year-old attorney Friends, an app that lets you play a
from the Chicago area, exemplifies Scrabble-like game online with other
the game-player who incorporates his people. He hopes his puzzle habits
habit into a full life. By 6:30 a.m., he is will help forestall age-related thin-
hard at work on the New York Times king and memory declines that have
mini crossword puzzle with a cup of affected others in his family. “Every-
coffee and Mozart playing on the smart one has moments when they can’t
speaker in his study. “I do three or four come up with a name, but I want to
puzzles a day—from the New York avoid bigger problems,” he says.
Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los A word about fun: While specific
Angeles Times and other places,” says games seem to tickle specific parts
Brody, who has competed 15 times in of our brains, researchers have long
the American Crossword Puzzle Tour- touted the more general benefits that
nament. “I do it for fun, not for the cut- come from giving the mind an enjoy-
throat competition,” he says. able time-out. “You have to play be-
He also relishes the head-spinning cause it is relaxing and enjoyable, and
difficulty of cryptic crossword puzzles, it challenges you at the same time,” Dr
a type popular in the United Kingdom Small says. “There are neurochemical
that features very challenging clues. changes involved in every mental ex-
“The feeling of accomplishment is perience. A positive mood is better for
wonderful when you get that aha mo- brain health. In contrast, depression
ment and see the cleverness of the and stress increase risk for cognitive
person who constructed the puzzle,” decline. That’s why, when playing
he says. Brody also enjoys Words with a game, you have to ask yourself, Is
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found
on land
in animal
kingdom
is attached
by a stem
goes
underwater
dementia. Stark thinks that exerci- crossword puzzle won’t do for you
sing the hippocampus could counter- what putting yourself in a new en-
act these things. He’s seen something vironment can,” he says. “Humans
similar in studies on mice and other didn’t develop a whole hippocampus
animals that play with new toys and memory system to sit on a porch
and then experience a boost of chemi- playing crossword puzzles.”
cals that carry signals from one brain Perhaps, but that doesn’t mean
cell to another. your preferred puzzle isn’t helping
There’s good news and bad news you. Truth be told, there is consid-
related to these findings. The good erable debate in the world of neuro-
news: “Even just carefully looking biology about what does and doesn’t
around you at everything in a room, work to grow our brains. “People
at where objects are placed in rela- don’t respond to physical exercise
tionship to one another, can help. programs or diets in the same way.
So can getting outdoors and going We have evidence they don’t respond
to new places,” says Stark. The bad to brain challenges in the same way
news: “The New York Times Thursday either. One type of game or training
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with brain-training games slashed risk better made volunteers’ brains func-
for the thinking and memory declines tion more efficiently. “There was less
that lead to dementia by 25 per cent activity in certain areas,” he says. “The
compared to a control group in a 2015 brain didn’t have to work as hard.”
Finnish study. Participants in the study, In fact, Dr Small suggests that if you
called FINGER (Finnish Geriatric Inter- find yourself debating whether to
vention Study to Prevent Cognitive Im- spend the next 20 minutes taking a
pairment and Disability), also boosted walk or playing a brain game, you
memory by 40 per cent and increased should choose the walk. Physical ac-
mental processing speed by 150 per tivity can help keep the arteries that
cent. An American version of the study, deliver oxygen and fuel to your brain
called U.S. POINTER, is underway at sev- cells healthy and can even promote
eral universities. Cosponsored by the the growth of new brain cells and con-
Alzheimer’s Association, the two-year nections between them. “If you do one
study will involve 2,000 older adults thing to help your brain, I’d say it’s ex-
who don’t have thinking and memory ercise,” he says. “Reducing stress and
lapses but are at risk for declines. getting good sleep and a healthy diet
Dr Small agrees that an all-around are also important. Brain games work
brain-health strategy can be power- best as part of a whole package of
ful. In research at UCLA, he found that brain-healthy strategies.” And remem-
just two weeks of eating and sleeping ber: A little fun never hurts.
PUZZLE ANSWERS
2
3 6 7
4 17
2 11
2 4 5
10
2 5 8
5
3 1
1
6 3 4
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HEALTH Reader ’s Digest
Striking new
studies show
how you can
control or even
reverse this
common disease
by Anita Bartholomew
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hen Michael Trailovici of Stuttgart,
Germany, began feeling unusually hun-
gry and thirsty, the 42-year-old editor
didn’t imagine they could be symptoms
of a condition, let alone a serious one.
He didn’t see his doctor.
That was in 1997. Today Michael, now 66, is one among millions
with type 2 diabetes, and 40 per cent of them, like Michael, were
initially unaware they had it. The disease is so prevalent that
the World Health Organization (WHO) calls it an “epidemic”.
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“And if they become more rigid, the researchers divided people with type
insulin receptor embedded in the cell 2 diabetes into two groups. One was
membrane cannot function properly.” put on a completely plant-based diet
In other words, the cells become ‘insu- and the other group was instructed
lin resistant’. to follow the American Diabetes As-
By contrast, says Kahleova, the fats sociation (ADA) diet, which included
in olives, nuts and seeds make the cell animal products. Those on the plant-
membrane more pliable, and as a re- based diet were allowed to eat as much
sult, their insulin receptors function as they wanted. No limits. Those on the
better. Michael committed to eating ADA diet had restricted calories.
healthier foods, substituting whole At the beginning of the study, par-
grains and vegetables for his former ticipants had A1c (glucose) levels of
poor diet choices. He exercised more. 6.5 to 10.5 per cent with an average
After a few months, his blood glucose A1c of about eight per cent. After 22
had come down enough for him to weeks, among those who adhered to
switch from insulin to metformin, a the plant-based diet, with no changes
diabetes medicine in pill form that is in their medication, A1c had been re-
typically used for milder cases. duced by an average of 1.48 percentage
Study after study confirm this rela-
tionship between meat and type 2 dia-
betes. Oddly enough, that still holds
true for leaner meats. A 2017 meta-
DIABETES RISK
analysis of numerous earlier studies FACTORS
found a strong association between
Being overweight or obese
eating any kind of meat, including
or carrying more weight in the
lean cuts, and type 2 diabetes. Mean- abdomen (a waistline of 101.6
while, this and other studies found eat- or more centimetres for a man,
ing whole grains was protective and, or 88.9 centimetres for a woman).
when included in a diet that relied on
fruits, vegetables, dairy and minimizing A diet heavy on sugar, espe-cially
sugar, lowered risk of developing dia- sugar-sweetened drinks;
betes by 42 per cent. processed foods; and/or meat,
There is also research that indicates especially processed meat
that a healthy, meatless diet might also Taking statins
reverse diabetes. In a 2006 study by Family history of type 2 diabetes
Dr Neal Barnard, MD, adjunct Profes- African, Asian, American-Indian,
sor of Medicine at the George Wash- Hispanic or Pacific Islander descent
ington University School of Medicine
in Washington, DC, and his team of
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5.7 5
6.
An AC1 test measures the sugar in your blood. A measurement of 5.7 per cent or
lower is normal; 6.5 per cent or higher indicates diabetes.
points, versus only 0.81 percentage people who ate a mostly vegetarian diet
points for the ADA group. For some on that included unhealthy foods—sweet-
the meatless regimen, their A1c levels ened drinks, fruit juices, refined grains,
dropped to 5.7 per cent and that meant potatoes and sweets—had a 16 per cent
their diabetes was, effectively, reversed. increased risk of developing diabetes.
“A reduction of that magnitude is big- Diabetes is strongly associated with
ger than you would see with typical oral obesity. Being even a little overweight
medications,” says Barnard. can increase the risk. But losing weight,
That’s not to say that all those who early in the disease, can sometimes re-
try veganism will reverse their diabe- verse it, even if you just lose 10 per cent
tes or avoid getting it in the first place. of your weight, where it’s been found
A 2016 study of about 2,00,000 people, to reverse diabetes for up to five years.
age 25 and up, by Harvard researchers What about the low-carb and keto
suggests a possible reason why: it’s not diets that are popular today—can they
enough just to go animal product-free. play a role in managing the disease?
It has to be a healthy diet, too. People Yes—with caveats. Low-carb diets can
who ate a mostly vegetarian diet based sometimes result in rapid weight loss
on healthful foods had a 34 per cent and with it, a reduction in high blood
lower risk of developing diabetes. But sugar. When followed for no more
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than three months, the benefits could The more ailments an older person has
be worth the risks. But for long-term along with diabetes, the greater risk she
diabetes management, such diets can faces from bouts of severe hypoglycae-
increase risk because of the diets’ reli- mia (big drops in blood sugar) that can
ance on animal products. lead to increased risk of heart disease,
falls and bone fractures—even death.
Older Diabetics Take Note Even lesser instances of hypglycae-
mia brought on by aggressive treatment
Everything that’s true for younger peo- can decrease the quality of life while
ple with diabetes—diet and lifestyle—is not offering much, if any, benefit. That’s
also true for age 65-plus diabetics, ex- one reason why older people who have
cept for one very important difference. other serious, chronic conditions are
If you have type 2 diabetes, are older, usually better off trying to keep A1c
and have other serious chronic con- no higher than 8 per cent, says McCoy.
ditions, intensive or aggressive treat- Treatment should be individualized, so,
ment can lead to significant problems. those 65 and over, with no other chronic
conditions, would probably aim for a
A1c of 7.5. But generally speaking, aim-
ABOUT BLOOD TESTS ing for an A1c of 8.0 instead of trying to
keep it lower after age 65 with other ill-
Two different tests are used to
determine the level of glucose nesses leads to better outcomes.
(sugar) in your blood.
Don’t Let Diabetes Win
The fasting glucose test in people
without diabetes should ideally be Today at 65, Michael Trailovici is a trim
lower than 100. If fasting glucose
78 kilos, still needs only metformin, and
is above 125, it signals diabetes.
feels great. And he enjoys a sense of ac-
The A1c test measures the av- complishment, knowing that he took
erage amount of sugar in your control of the disease instead of letting
bloodstream over the past three it control him. If you’re one of the mil-
months. A measurement of 5.7 lions who’ve been diagnosed with the
per cent or lower is normal and at illness, you’ve heard the dire warnings.
6.5 per cent or above it indicates But the good news is how much you are
diabetes.
in control of what happens.
The target for most people under Changing one’s your diet and getting
age 65 with diabetes is less than enough exercise can assure a better,
7 per cent and for younger people, healthier future. And if you’ve only re-
less than 6.5 per cent. cently been diagnosed, lifestyle changes
might even lead to remission.
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LAUGH LINES
Restaurants
drastically over-
I have an idea estimate how
for a hot wings much I care
restaurant: The about which
wings are free, but wood they
napkins cost $100. smoke my
— @lunch_enjoyer bacon over.
— @SLOnans
Amuse Bouche
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INTERVIEW
Appealing
to Our
Better Nature
by Shreevatsa Nevatia
A
mitav Ghosh’s novels— that might even better it. His 2019 novel,
The Shadow Lines, The Glass Gun Island, was a step in that direction.
Palace, the Ibis trilogy—were Earlier this year, Ghosh released
always things of delight. Jungle Nama, the verse adapta-
We savoured his prose while losing tion of a Bengali folktale. Set in the
ourselves in the expanse of the worlds Sundarbans, the book cautioned
he had imagined. It was The Great against human greed and excess. His
Derangement: Climate Change and latest, The Nutmeg’s Curse, employs
the Unthinkable, published in 2016, a scholarly non-fiction framework
that introduced us to a new Ghosh. No to further those warnings. In telling
longer content to simply invent new the story of how Europeans robbed
worlds, Ghosh was urging his fellow the Indonesian Banda Islands of its
writers to join him on a mission—the nutmeg, Ghosh shows us how colo-
forging of a literature that will not just nialism exploited human life and na-
try and understand our reality, but one ture, reducing both to inert resources.
PHOTOgraph by Bandeep Singh
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living anymore. Their protest is a form destructive work. So, the whole division
of environmental protest. Again, it’s between, say, humans and brute nature
the earth hitting back at us. So yes, the is actually also a division between cer-
history of science and engineering is a tain kinds of humans on the one hand
history of unintended consequences. and certain others who were regarded
I think we have to rationally criticize as brutes. The vast majority of those
certain kinds of scientific projects, es- other humans are actually either black
pecially in relation to geo-engineering. or brown or of other races.
At the same time, however, we also What’s in fact so striking is that the
have to accept that science itself has whole idea of the human comes to cen-
changed. And today, there are many, tre, really, on white men. From the 18th
many scientists, especially climate century onwards, the rest of humanity
scientists, who are very aware of these is regarded as essentially brutish. You
issues. So, I think it’s a very nuanced can’t also forget that these ideas were
picture. In any situation, you have to prevalent well into the 20th century. Just
pick the right people, the right allies, look at Winston Churchill—someone
so to speak. And that’s absolutely true held up as this great moral figure. He
in relation to science, too. was constantly referring to Indians as
brutes, as animals. He’d say things like,
You write about how the etymolo- ‘Look at them [Indians] reproducing
gies of words such as ‘brute’ and like rabbits.’ That entire language was
‘massacre’ can help tell stories of completely absorbed, and you would be
subjugation. This made me wonder foolish to imagine that the legacy of that
about the relationship between doesn’t remain. These are very deeply
violence and language. Would there rooted ideas, especially within the
be harm if we didn’t have the words Anglosphere. I think it’s almost im-
to justify the inflicting of it? possible to get these ideas out of vari-
Yes, of course. Violence between hu- ous kinds of cultural and academic
mans has always existed. But I feel a imaginaries. So much of development
word like ‘brute’ or ‘extermination’ economics, etc., is still informed by
does a lot of profoundly damaging and these prejudices.
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Interview
(Left to Right) Aravind Adiga, Sebastian Barry, Amitav Ghosh, Linda Grant, Philip
Henshaw and Steve Toltz—the six shortlisted authors for the 2008 Man Booker Prize
for Fiction in Piccadilly, central London.
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AS KIDS SEE IT
Our nine-year-old con- his pillow the following carve ‘I love you’ on
ducted an experiment day. Eventually, he con- the side of their car.
to prove the tooth fairy fronted us with his sci- — REDDIT.COM
isn’t real. When he lost entific evidence.
a tooth, he kept it under — @ROGUEDADMD My five-year-old daugh-
his pillow and told no ter is convinced she
one for three days. No My daughter wanted to has a superpower.
YASIN OSMAN
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N
udged awake by the morning sun, the
young cougar opened its jaws in a teeth-
baring yawn and stretched its muscular
forelegs. Then it started down the mountainside,
crossed a narrow highway and loped towards
the wide, rushing river. For days, the cougar had
been edging closer to the small lumber village
of Lillooet on the Fraser River, at the edge of the
mountains of southern British Columbia. Now,
after drinking the river’s cold water, the cougar
bedded down again in the nest of tall grass.
On 3 July 1991, the five children in So far, the centre was operating
Larrane Leech’s daycare group were smoothly. But it was too soon to tell
outdoors early, painting bright tempera whether the families she worked for
landscapes under the penetrating sun. would be happy with it. And she wor-
By 10 a.m., it was time to find shade, so ried about being able to care for enough
Larrane decided they would walk down children to make the business pay off.
to the river. “We’re going to pick berries Larrane had known all five children
now,” she announced. in her care since they were infants.
At 44 years old, she had made one of Three were siblings: playful Mikey, age
her dreams come true when she turned two; Jessica, five, the exuberant leader;
her home into a daycare centre. It had and three-and-a-half-year-old Alleshia
taken hard work and determination to Allen, the tough little athlete. Four-
get her certification. After completing year-old Natani Leech, who had long
her coursework in early-childhood hair, was actually their aunt, and
education, she had worked as a volun- Larrane in turn was her aunt. Only the
teer in a daycare centre while holding bubbly toddler Lisa O’Laney, a few
down a job at the local lumber mill and months shy of two, was unrelated
raising three teen sons alone. to them. All were members of Indigen-
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ous tribes clustered around Lillooet, “Mmmmmm, good,” he said, and got
more than 160 kilometres northeast busy plucking more.
of Vancouver.
The children had fallen easily into The cougar cocked an ear towards the
Larrane’s daily routine. A nature lover, birdlike chatter and reflexively sniffed the
she insisted they spend as much time air. Cougars rarely attack people or show
as possible outdoors. Everyone loved themselves, but as towns expanded into
circle time, when they passed around mountainous countryside, there had
a black-and-white eagle feather; the been more and more sightings, espe-
child who held it could then talk about cially in southern British Columbia.
whatever they wanted. At the time, the province was home to
After clearing away the painting some 3,000 of them.
supplies and handing each child an The young cougar was instinctively
empty jar, Larrane called for Pal, versed in hunting strategies: step
her one-year-old part-German shep- silently and downwind through the
herd. Giggling with anticipation, Jes- brush to avoid being heard, scented or
sica and Natani paired off in front. Lar- seen; choose the weakest prey and
rane linked Mikey’s hand with attack from behind, clamping powerful
Alleshia’s, took little Lisa’s in her own jaws on the vital nerves and blood
and said, “Let’s go.” vessels of the prey’s neck.
Larrane’s house stood on a wooded
slope not far up from the mighty LARRANE AND THE children moved
Fraser River. The group made its way slowly from bush to bush. Pal stopped
over the dusty gravel road and then on frequently in the shade, panting. In
to a dirt trail through the trees. The two 20 minutes, the children filled their jars
oldest girls broke into a run through and were almost to the river. Here, the
the tall brown grass at the trail’s edge, ground fell steeply to a cool, shady
Natani’s waist-length hair swaying strip of sand about four metres wide.
back and forth. Larrane and the little “Okay,” Larrane commanded after
ones hurried to keep up. the group clambered down to the
Stopping the children at the first sandbank, “let’s get in our circle.”
berry bush, Larrane pointed to the She could not risk letting a child
long, thin branches bearing clusters of wander off. Suddenly Alleshia jumped
plump, sweet navy-blue fruit. “Look, up and scooted towards the trees.
the berries are all over,” she said. She “Come back, Alleshia,” Larrane called.
helped Lisa find some clusters on the Running after her, she caught up with
lowest branches. Mikey watched, then the child and leant over to help her
tentatively bit into one of the berries. back to the sandbank.
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Now the cougar could see the funny little towards the cougar. Blindly intending
creatures that had been making all the to grab its tail, she shifted aim at the
noise. Automatically, its predatory last minute and seized the cat by
machinery kicked in. These were perfect the scruff of the neck. Tugging once,
prey: small, wiggly and oblivious to any she shook it from side to side.
possible attack. Instantly, the cougar unsheathed its
Stepping over the thick carpet of pine claws and wheeled toward Larrane,
needles, the cat slunk toward the chil- swiping Mikey’s face and Lisa’s, too.
dren, never so much as rustling a leaf or Growling and hissing, it stretched up
snapping a twig. Then it did something high and brought its paws down upon
remarkable, something only a young, the head of the five-foot-one-inch
inexperienced cat would do. It walked woman. As she stumbled backwards,
on to the bank and merely nudged one one paw slipped on to her right shoul-
of the children, the young boy, Mikey, der, the claws grazing her ear.
backwards on to the sand. The rules of
hunting required that the cougar grab LARRANE GRABBED THE
the boy’s head in its mouth and carry
him away. But the young cat paused, BIG CAT BY THE SCRUFF OF
and to remove any hair before attacking
and feeding, it began to lick the boy’s ITS NECK AND SHOOK IT
smooth skin with its rough tongue. FROM SIDE TO SIDE.
LARRANE SENSED THE children sud-
denly go quiet. She looked up to see the This animal was capable of killing
back end of a cat the size of Pal standing her. Although still in its youth, it had all
over Mikey. The cat’s head was down, the teeth and muscle a cougar needs to
out of sight behind its peaked shoulder pull down a victim three times its size.
blades, and its plumped, black-tipped Aware now of the danger, four of the
tail swiped back and forth like a whip. children shrieked and ran behind
Larrane was momentarily frozen by Larrane. Mikey lay still on the ground.
the sight. Now Natani was giggling “Stay behind me,” Larrane screamed
nervously. “Stop licking Mikey’s face,” as she faced the cougar. Acting before
she said playfully, as though talking to she could think, she grabbed the
a house cat. animal’s forelegs and pulled them off
Larrane couldn’t tell whether Mikey her. The cougar’s thrashing forced her
had been bitten; he was silent and back into a crouch. Her soft sandals
hidden beneath the beast. Her mind shifted and slipped in the sand,
racing wildly, she sprang impulsively making it difficult to keep a secure
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stance. Summoning all her strength, instantly on to its feet and darted past
Larrane forced herself back upright, Pal through the brush farther along
still grasping the cat’s thick legs. Then the sandbank.
she thrust her arms forwards and Without knowing it, Larrane had
locked them straight out in front of her. responded perfectly. She had dis-
At the same time, she used her thumbs tracted the cougar from Mikey only
to push the animal’s paws inward to a fraction of a second before it had a
protect herself from being cut. chance to crush the boy’s skull in its
Locked in a deadly dance with the mighty jaws. Then her aggressive
cougar, Larrane felt as though she movements and loud shouting proba-
were watching herself in slow motion. bly scared the animal. Cougar experts
She stared at the animal’s pink tongue say the cats often lose their appetite for
and long ivory fangs. Stepping back and killing when angrily confronted.
forth on its hind legs, the cat let out a
menacing growl as it tried to tug its paws
with their sharp claws away from her. THE COUGAR HAD ALL
“Pal, do something!” Larrane yelled
at the dog cowering on the sand not
THE TEETH AND MUSCLE
three metres away. She felt the muscles TO PULL DOWN A VICTIM
THREE TIMES ITS SIZE.
in her arms, legs and back weakening.
What in the world am I going to do? she
thought. No one will ever find us here,
and if the cat gets away from me, he’ll
surely kill the children. “Just go away Watching the cat retreat, Pal gave
and leave us alone,” she yelled into the chase, barking madly. In one bound,
animal’s face. “Leave us alone, and the cougar leapt halfway up a pine,
we’ll leave you alone.” then climbed to the top, wrapped its
The cougar was now trying a new paws around a branch and hung there,
tactic to break Larrane’s grip. It began looking down at the dog.
thrashing its upper body from side to Larrane rushed to Mikey, who lay qui-
side, and Larrane could sense its immi- etly on the sand. The left side of his face
nent escape. Again acting without any and neck was bathed in blood. But he
conscious plan, she arched her back to was breathing, and his eyes were open so
gather momentum, then shoved for- wide they seemed to bulge from his face.
ward with all her might, thrusting the He’s alive, Larrane thought, gasping
cat directly at the dog and shouting, in relief. But he was eerily still. He must
“Pal, do something!” be in shock, she decided as she pulled
The cougar fell backwards but rolled him into her arms.
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They scrambled up the hill, Lisa still doctors used 20 stitches to repair
crying, Mikey remaining silent. Larrane the cuts on her face and gave both
soon found the two children too heavy children tetanus shots.
to carry and eased Mikey down. He Larrane’s scratch needed only to be
suddenly jolted from his stupor. “Owie, cleaned and left to heal. But the muscles
owie, owie!” he screamed, tears coursing in her arms, back and legs were so sore
down his face. that she had difficulty walking.
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The next morning she felt profound on. Her friends and neighbours
relief when she opened the front door to applauded her strength. And now, she
four of her daycare children—including felt, she could accomplish anything.
Mikey. Only Lisa did not return.
For several days, as they sat in a circle Police and a local conservation officer
passing the eagle feather, the children set out in search of the cat immediately
remained quiet. The pictures they after the attack was reported. Nine days
painted at art time were showered with later, the cougar wandered into Doug
splatters of red. Johnston’s yard, one and a half kilo-
Finally, a week later, Mikey took the metres north of Larrane Leech’s house.
eagle feather in his hand and said, Johnston called his neighbour Dayle
“I had a dream last night.” Turley, who came over with a shotgun
“And what did you see in your and killed the cat.
dream?” Larrane asked gently. In December 1992, Governor General
“I saw an eagle. And he was sitting on Ramon John Hnatyshyn, awarded Leech
my bed. Then he flew over me.” the Star of Courage. And the village of
Larrane smiled. In Lillooet folklore, Lillooet gave her a commendation for
the eagle is a sign of strength, sent by “outstanding bravery”.
ancestors as an assurance that the Leech continued running a daycare
person who sees it will be kept safe. She out of her home for several more
knew the child was beginning to feel years. She passed away on 14 September
secure again. 2020, at age 73.
Larrane felt secure, too. She had met
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BORN
THIS WAY
A glimpse into a transwoman’s resilient
life, both synchronously coveted
and singled out
By Dhananjay Chauhan.
as told to Naorem Anuja
I
often think about the to Chandigarh. My parents
way plants grow. Not named me Dhananjay. I
all stretch upwards, was three when I first told
tall and straight. Some my mum that I wanted to
instead curve, diverge, join in on a kitchen chore.
turn as necessary, reaching I would watch fascinated
out for the space and light as she kneaded dough to
it needs to survive and make rotis for our daily
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That night, once everyone fell asleep, negotiations with adults in my world, a
I tip-toed into the kitchen. The light constant back and forth between what I
was out of my reach, but, scrambling in desired and what I was allowed.
the dark, reached into the large, heavy It is hard to articulate the disso-
container where flour was stored, put nance between my assigned sex at
some into a vessel, poured in water and birth and how I felt as a person. I
stuck my fingers into the soupy mess. I couldn’t explain it and even if I tried, I
had no idea what I was doing, but mim- am not certain you would completely
icked what I saw my mother do every understand. If you were asked exactly
day. It was thrilling. The sound of my how long it took you to grow your hair
tiny hands, slapping against the wet, out, you wouldn’t be able to point to a
unset dough woke her up. Worried that precise timeline. Gender is somewhat
a cat had strayed in, she looked in to similar—rarely a cataclysmic event
check, and found her eldest boy flour- that can serve as identifier of when
soaked, playing house. you started to express who you are.
Gender is socially constructed.
Kids learn boys are this Children are taught what it means to
be male or female and which pronoun
way, and girls cannot goes with what body—constructed
do that, and that is all and ordered in binaries. They learn
that a boy is this way, and girls can-
there ever was, is or not do that, and that is all there ever
even should be. was, is or even should be.
I
was seven, when I told my mother
When I turned five, it was time for I was a woman. I was quickly
my mundan ceremony—a Hindu carted off to a pandit, who as-
coming-of-age ritual where they shave sured my parents that a witch had
a child’s head. This purification ritual possessed me; nothing a quick ex-
is supposed to rid a child of negativ- orcism couldn’t fix. Hot tongs were
ity from his past life, and put him on taken to my body, lashes repeatedly
the right path to development in this inflicted to beat the spirit away, until
life. Girls in my family were excused finally, cowering in pain, I spoke the
this ritual baldness. I was inconsol- words that made them feel better—
able and kept screaming that I was a I’m a boy. I understood that it wasn’t
girl and should be spared. I lost that okay, or safe for me to tell others that
fight but won a different battle—they I, a boy felt like a woman. I began to
let me wear a frock at the ceremony. try and present more masculine but I
My childhood was full of such subtle was deeply unhappy.
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skits during Ramlila celebrations, ducation, I decided, would be
made my heart sing. For once, I could my ticket out. In 1993, I topped
dress-up and put on make-up without Panjab University in my course.
photo courtesy: dhananjay
censure, without being singled out. But I started pursing multiple diplomas,
even these spaces weren’t safe. learning different languages—Russian,
Predators, armed with the ability to French, computer science courses.
sniff out weakness, picked up on my Keeping myself gainfully occupied
vulnerability, my fear of discovery, helped me with my mental health.
knowing full well that the way I car- Learning kept me from completely
ried myself—‘like a girl’—meant I was sinking into an abyss. I had found a few
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friends from the LGBTQI community, price I would have to pay to get home.
and their company saw me through When the bus reached Chandigarh, I
those days. With them I didn’t have to dragged myself to the police station to
control and police how I spoke or how file a report. Skeptical, the cops took me
my body moved. I could drop my guard to a room and began questioning me.
and just be me. They asked me to remove my clothes to
Now an adult, I enjoyed safety show them where I had been touched.
among friends, but danger was never Feeling helpless and terrified of further
far away. One day my group and I at- assault, I decided I didn’t want to regis-
tended a carnival, the sort that shop- ter a report and walked out.
ping malls often organize. There was
N
music and dancing and we joined in o one wanted to acknowledge
the revelry. A little after 9 p.m., I was my trans-femininity, unless it
headed home when a man walked up was to punish both the man
to me and struck up a conversation. He I looked like on the outside and the
had a kind manner and we chatted for woman I was on the inside. I felt de-
a while. It was late, so he offered to give stroyed, attacked at every level. It felt
me a ride, maybe drive around the city like people forgot their humanity as
a bit before taking me home. His friend soon as they encountered me. No one
would bring the car around. I turned ever listened to people like us; we had
him down several times but he insisted. no protection. A lifetime of trauma
Once his friend arrived, he held and pain came simultaneously hur-
my hand and shoved me into the car, tling to the fore. This was no way to
pulled out a gun and threatened to live—like a gaping wound. Thoughts
pull the trigger if I made noise. They of ending it all swirled in my head.
drove me to a hostel in Ambala, where But as I turned that thought over
20 men took turns violating me through and over in my head, I felt a surge of
the night. Trembling, bleeding, devas- anger: Why should I destroy myself?
tated, I was driven to the bus station Why did I have to hide who I was?
and left there at three or four a.m. What was my crime? Being stuck in-
After what felt like ages, a half-empty side a body I was born with, that was
and dimly lit bus stopped and I clam- never my own? For once I would let
bered on to a seat in the back. The con- ‘her’ live instead of hiding her away.
ductor appeared after a while and sat No one would be allowed to hold
next to me, asking for my ticket. I told my true identity over my head like a
him I had no money. I don’t know what weapon, using it to abuse me, hurt me
it was exactly, but he knew it too—I or diminish me again.
wasn’t a straight man. He grabbed my I poured myself into activism and
hand and placed it on his privates—the reached out to people in the LGBTQI
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LAUGHTER
The best Medicine
Upon entering a
store, a man noticed
a big ‘BEWARE OF the man replied. crackers he had
DOG’ sign posted “He doesn’t look begged her for. As
on the door. He con- dangerous. Why do she unpacked the
tinued cautiously you need that sign?” rest of the groceries,
until he noticed an “Because,” the man the boy spread the
old hound asleep on explained, “before I crackers all over
the floor near the put it up, people kept the kitchen table.
cash register. tripping over him.” “What are you do-
“Is that the dog —Startsat60.com ing?” the mom asked.
we’re supposed to “I’m looking for
beware of?” he asked A mother returned the seal,” said the boy.
dan piraro
a worker behind from the supermarket “It says you can’t eat
the counter. and handed her young these if it’s broken.”
“Yep, that’s him,” son the box of animal —Scoutlife.org
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Ê I went to see the doc- ÊWhere the Wild Things Are: Max could have been a
tor about my short-term great and terrible ruler. But he allowed loneliness to
memory problems. creep into his heart and gave up his position of power.
The first thing he did I give this opus 3 out of 5 stars.
ÊGuess How Much I Love You?: Love should be used
was make me pay
only for deceitful means, and Little Nutbrown Hare
in advance.
understands that his father’s love can be used to
—Memesbams.com
manipulate his actions. 4 stars.
ÊCharlotte’s Web: Charlotte should have drained
Tonight’s forecast: dark; that pig for all he was worth. Instead, she made the
continued dark tonight, mistake of choosing to have empathy for the weak
turning to partly light hog. Pathetic. I award this book 1 weak dying star.
in the morning. ÊThe Very Hungry Caterpillar: The ambitious young
—George Carlin, comedian caterpillar eats his way through bigger and more
difficult obstacles and emerges more powerful
than ever. 5 glorious stars.
Reader’s Digest will pay for ÊThe Giving Tree: The boy uses fraud to
your funny anecdote or photo deceive the tree into giving him more and
in any of our humour
sections. Post it to the more of itself. The ends always
editorial address, or email: justify the means. 5 stars.
[email protected] —Pointsincase.com
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BONUS READ
How two
outsiders
found their
way into
each other’s
hearts
By Dion Leonard
with Craig Borlase
from the book
finding gobi
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I
shedding sometimes even 10 per cent t was a sunny day in 1984 in my
of our body weight during these races. rural hometown in Queensland, just
But finishing is one of life’s most one day after my ninth birthday.
rewarding experiences. That morning, I’d finally perfected my
I was 41, and had started doing somersault on our outdoor trampo-
ultramarathons only three years ago. line, and after lunch Dad and I went
I’d run the fabled Marathon des Sa- out with our cricket bats. He taught
bles in Morocco twice, running with me how to hold the bat and hit a ball
1,300 others; the route is through the so hard it sailed beyond our property’s
Sahara in 51-degree Celsius tempera- boundary. That evening, Mom left for
tures. The first time, I placed 108 th ; aerobics class, Dad watched cricket on
the next, I was 32nd. But at my most TV, and I went to bed. Some time later,
recent race, in Cambodia, I’d finished I awoke to, “Dion!”
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constantly while Nan took care of me me to make the meals. Christie and
and my little sister, Christie. Then one I couldn’t do anything right. If we
evening, when Mom and I were in left crumbs around or I didn’t do my
the kitchen, she said out of the blue, gardening chores right, my mother
“Garry wasn’t your dad.” nagged and screamed.
I have no memory of what I replied, “You’re useless!” she’d say. I’d yell
maybe because of the shock. What back, and soon we’d be swearing at
I know is that while everything had each other. Mom never apologized.
changed in one ambulance ride, it took Nor did I.
only four words to rip my heart apart. By the time I was 15, I’d had
I was ashamed of the truth about enough. I said I was moving out, but
myself. My hometown was a small Mom didn’t seem to care. A friend
place with traditional values, and it and I rented a room in a hostel filled
seemed all my friends came from with drifters and drunks. I was still at
perfect families. I didn’t want to be school and pumped gas to pay rent; I
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managed to keep up with my school- they were right. At more than six
work, but my teachers showed no sign feet tall, I weighed 108 kilos, heavier
of caring about how I was coping. than I’d ever been. I didn’t exercise,
I became a pain-in-the-ass loud- occasionally smoked, and had created
mouth, riling the teachers and getting a dent in the sofa where I watched
thrown out of class. At the final assem- sports on TV.
bly, when the headmaster greeted each Then Lucja made some new friends
of us with a friendly word about our who loved running and fitness, and she
futures, he could only say to me, “I’ll be got onto a health kick. When I realized
seeing you in prison.” it wasn’t just a phase, I panicked: the
But when I hit my 20s, life got a lot fitter she became, the greater my risk
better, and I met Lucja. I first tried of losing her. Why would she stay with
running when I was 26 and we were a fat bloke like me?
living in New Zealand. At the time, So I started running, too, and got
Lucja was managing an eco-hotel a lot healthier. For the first couple of
and I was working for a wine exporter. years I ran three or four kms at a time,
Both jobs came with perks such as but then I impulsively bet a runner
crates of wine and great meals out. friend that I could beat him in a half
People told me I was a big lad, and marathon. He was so confident he’d
win that the familiar fear from my
youth—of not belonging—
returned. I trained hard, won
the bet and haven’t looked
back. In fact, my need to prove
myself only became stronger.
A
t the start line of the
Gobi Desert race, I did a
final check that my back-
pack’s straps were snug across
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I should have been feeling confi- by side for a while until a Romanian
dent; my training had prepared me runner, Julian, caught up. The three of
well. But as always happens at the start us traded the lead from time to time,
line, I began thinking the other run- and we ran across muddy fields, over
ners were fitter, stronger. I struggled to bridges, and past villages that be-
ignore that familiar voice: Who am I to longed in another century, I became
think I can do this? hopeful that this race might not be my
The horn sounded, and a crush of last after all. I was flying.
people surged down the middle, want- Back in my yurt that afternoon, I laid
ing to take the lead. I’d put myself wide. down and thought about my perfor-
I didn’t want to trip, and I could maybe mance. I was happy with third place,
get ahead before the course narrowed and there was only a minute or two
and dropped into a canyon. My plan between me, Tommy and Julian. I ate
worked and soon I was behind a fa- some jerky and dozed in my sleeping
vourite to win, Tommy Chen of Taiwan. bag, waking an hour later when my
The rocks were slippery from the dew, tentmates returned from their runs.
and I struggled to keep my footing. A “Whoa! Dion’s back already!” said
twisted ankle would mean a whole lot an American named Richard Henson.
of pain or, worse yet, a ‘Did Not Finish’. I smiled, and congratulated them on
Halfway through the day, I saw a the first stage.
dune towering ahead. It was steep, “Are you here to win?” asked another.
and easily 300 feet high. The sand “Well, I’m not here for fun,” I replied.
gave way with the slightest pressure, Richard laughed. “We got that
falling like weak clay, and I had to use impression. You’re not exactly socia-
my hands on it for extra grip. Tommy ble, are you?”
and I weren’t running up it ; we I laughed too. I liked this guy. “Yeah,
were scrambling. it’s just how I get through these races.”
Up top, we ran along its narrow peak At 6:30 I wandered outside carrying
stretching almost a kilometre. “Look my bag of dehydrated chili. At the fire
at this view!” Tommy shouted. “Isn’t it where water was boiling, I made up
magnificent?” I said nothing. I’m scared the meal. Everyone was sitting around
of heights and had to move cautiously. chatting, but all the seats were taken,
Tommy was surprised when I over- so I crouched on a rock and ate. Af-
took him on the descent. We ran side ter scooping the last traces from the
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bag, I got up to head back to the yurt “You’re cute,” I said softly, “but
and turn in. you’d better be fast if you’re not plan-
That’s when I saw a dog. Sandy co- ning to get trodden.”
loured with big dark eyes and a funny- I looked about; someone had to get
looking moustache and beard, it was it out of our way. “Does anyone know
walking among the chairs, getting up whose dog this is?” I asked as the
on its hind legs and charming runners countdown began. None of the locals
into parting with their precious food. or staff noticed. Nine, eight, seven....
Clever dog, I thought. There’s no I looked down. The dog was still
way I’d feed it. sniffing my gaiters. “You’d better get
away, little doggie.” Five, four....
J
ust before 8 the next morning, I “Go on,” I said, nudging it. But it only
shivered in the cold as I took my took a playful bite of the gaiter, jumped
place on the starting line. The back, then dove in for another sniff.
ground was wet, and the Tian Shan The race began, and as I set off, the
mountains ahead were covered in little dog came with me. The gaiters
dark clouds. We were already at an al- game was even more fun now that
titude of 7,000 feet, and today would they moved, and the dog danced
take us up to more than 9,000. I fo- around my feet as if it were the best
cused only on the challenge ahead; I fun ever. But the last thing I wanted
couldn’t afford not to. Then my con- was to trip over the pooch and cause
centration was broken by laughter and injury to it or myself. I had to stay
a little cheering behind me. focused on keeping pace, so I was
“It’s the dog! How cute!” thankful when, next time I glanced
I looked down and saw the dog from down, the dog wasn’t there.
last night. It was standing by my feet, its The forest fell away as the path
tail wagging, staring at my bright yellow climbed into the mountains. I kept up
gaiters I wore to keep sand out. a six-minute-mile pace, concentrating
Then it did the strangest thing. It on a short stride and quick feet.
slowly looked up, its dark eyes taking in Then I saw something move out of
my legs, then my yellow-shirted torso, the corner of my eye. I forced myself
and finally my face. It looked right into to look down for a fraction of a sec-
my eyes, and I couldn’t look away. ond. It was the dog again. It wasn’t
home. I kept my head in the race and it had kept pace, skipping along as if
pushed on. running 2,500 feet into the sky was the
Suddenly there was a flash of most natural thing in the world.
brown, and the dog was back. Deter- At checkpoints, runners refill their
mined little thing, I thought. bottles and medics ensure we’re okay.
Soon the track became even steeper But this time the dog got far more
and the temperature dropped. The attention, and volunteers took photos.
air numbed my face and fingers, and When I headed out, I expected the dog
the altitude made my breathing tight would stay here in favour of a better
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sinks, it’s easy to get sick from any- he next morning, I stopped
thing you touch. running just 1.5 kms in, cursing
I had a few hours before my 6:30 my stupidity. I’d put on a jacket
meal, so I pulled out some nuts and as it had been cold, but suddenly the
jerky. The dog’s stare into my eyes sun came out. As I stood packing
was unbreakable. With a piece of meat the jacket, Tommy, Julian, and two
others passed. Then one more runner I imagined. Using only my right arm
approached, and I smiled. for balance, I edged forward. I slipped
“Hey Gobi,” I said, using the name more than once, one time going down
I’d given her the night before. “You’ve hard on my left side, getting Gobi wet.
changed your mind?” But she didn’t wriggle. She stayed
She had spent the night curled up at calm, letting me do my job and keep
my side, but once I got to the start line, her safe. There was a moment when
she’d disappeared among the crowd. her face was level with mine that I
I’d been too focused on the weather to swore she gave me a look of genuine
worry about her. But there was Gobi, love and gratitude.
looking up at me as I fastened my bag. I put her down on the other bank and
She was ready to go. So was I. she scrambled up it, shook herself off
Some time later we reached a fast- and stared at me. “You’re ready, aren’t
moving river at least 150 feet wide. you, girl?” I said, unable to stop smiling.
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ays four and five were going line, scanning the horizon. For a mo-
to be gruelling sessions on the ment she stayed motionless, and I
black, hard-packed Gobi Des- wondered whether she’d recognize
ert under a cruel sun. I decided this me. Suddenly she leapt from the rock,
would be too much for Gobi, so she’d a blur of brown fur tearing toward me,
travel to the next camp in a volunteer’s little tongue flapping.
car. I made sure that person was going For the first time that day, I smiled.
to keep her cool and hydrated, but I In the tent, with Gobi curled up at
felt a shiver of worry. Gobi had at- my side, I drifted in and out of sleep.
tached herself so clearly to me; would I was missing Lucja. I relied on her in
she be okay with strangers? Or would so many ways at races. Whenever I be-
she set off on another adventure? came frustrated, she’d take the sting
Day four was brutally hot, with out. One of my favourite memories of
temperatures in the 37-degree range. running with her is our first Marathon
I stayed in front for a long time, but des Sables. On day one, I’d almost
that meant I had to navigate the route quit. But I improved, and as I neared
and suck up the vicious headwind. I the end of the final day, I was happy
missed Gobi biting at my gaiters to I’d place near the top 100. Then, a few
speed me up. My legs felt like con- hundred feet before the finish, I spot-
crete and my head drifted into famil- ted Lucja, shielding her eyes from the
iar thoughts. Maybe I’m all washed up. sun as she looked in my direction.
Maybe coming here has been one big “What are you doing here?” I asked
mistake. By the time Tommy, Julian, when I reached her. She should have
Zeng, and another runner overtook reached this point an hour ago.
me, I was past caring. In the final kilo- “I wanted to finish with you,” she re-
metre, all I wanted was for this whole plied. We crossed the finish line hand
thing to be over. I could imagine Lucja in hand. She could have placed much
telling me to sleep on it, that I’d feel higher, but she chose to wait for me.
better after some rest and food, but I needed Lucja. But today had
another voice was telling me to give t au g ht m e s o m e t h i n g e l s e. I’d
up running completely. missed Gobi, and would miss her
Then I turned the final bend and again the next day. She was a great
saw Gobi sitting on a rock at the finish distraction during hours of running,
and she inspired me. She didn’t know Everyone I asked thought it was more
anything about running technique or likely she was one of China’s count-
race strategy; she was a fighter who less strays. I didn’t want to leave her to
refused to give up. After only two fend for herself, but there was more:
days of running with Gobi at my side, Gobi had picked me, out of so many
I realized I enjoyed watching her little others. From the time she started
legs power through. nibbling at my gaiters, she had hardly
So while day five, almost two mara- ever chosen to leave my side. She
thons long, was even hotter—we’d had trusted me to help her, and given
moved on to the Gobi’s black sand, everything she had to keep up. How
and temperatures soared to 52 de- could I leave her behind?
grees—I kept the lead. And when “You know what?” I replied. “I’m
I really started to struggle, I pulled going to find a way to bring her home.”
my secret weapon from my bag: an I hadn’t spoken to Lucja for a week,
iPod. I’d saved it for a moment when and when I finally got to call her I was
I needed a boost, and my rocket fuel a little nervous. How would I tell her
was Johnny Cash. When that baritone I wanted to bring home a stray dog
filled my ears with lyrics about out- from China?
siders and the kind of men everyone But before I could say much more
writes off, my spirits lifted. He was than hello, Lucja asked, “How’s Gobi?”
singing just to me, calling me to push I was stunned. “You know about
harder, to prove the doubters wrong. Gobi?”
I was utterly depleted as I neared “Yeah! Some of the runners men-
the finish, and there was Gobi, just tioned her in their blogs. Pretty little
like the day before. She dashed out to thing, isn’t she?”
run the last 200 feet with me and we “She is. I wanted to talk to you—”
crossed the finish line together. “You’re bringing her home? As soon
I was on a high. My overall second- as I heard about her, I knew you’d
place podium position was all but want to.”
secure; the final day would be a sym- It wasn’t quite as easy as we’d hoped.
bolic 10 kms, followed by a celebra-
I
tion feast. I had proved to myself that left gobi at the home of a trusted
my running career had some life. volunteer in the regional capital,
“What are you going to do about Ürümqi. Back home, I returned to
that little one?” one of the runners work, and Lucja and I researched the
asked later, pointing at Gobi. steps for bringing a dog to the UK.
It was a good question, one I’d Gobi would have to be quarantined
been asking myself. Did Gobi have four months at Heathrow Airport.
an owner on the edge of the desert? But first, as we learnt from a helpful
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woman named Kiki from WorldCare I felt desperate, but my desire to find
Pet Transport, a Beijing pet-moving Gobi was as strong as any I’d ever had.
service, Gobi would need a rabies test When I landed in Ürümqi, I met the
in Ürümqi followed by a 30-day wait search committee that Kiki had or-
in that city. Then she could fly to the ganized, led by a dog-loving woman
UK for her quarantine—but only from named Lu Xin. They’d been putting
Shanghai or Beijing. To fly to either of up posters and knocking on doors.
those cities, she must be accompanied I was blown away by the kindness
by the person who would be taking of strangers who had jumped in to
her out of China. help. But I couldn’t see how we’d ever
Could we really bring Gobi home? find Gobi in this city of more than
The total cost could be several four million. We’d have to knock on
G
obi had somehow gotten out of drink. Then another.
the volunteer’s home days ear- When Lucja called back, a surge of
lier. Lucja and I agreed: if Gobi sadness flowed out of me, like water
had a chance of being found, I’d have down a drain. All I could do was cry.
to return to Ürümqi. My employers at When at last I caught my breath,
the whisky distiller where I’m a busi- Lucja told me she’d talked with Kiki,
ness manager were very supportive. and they’d agreed we needed local
media coverage. She had arranged a the race, arrived. His work took him
TV interview for the next day. around China, so he offered to help
“Maybe it’ll kick things off, like the search. I didn’t know it at the time,
Daily Mirror did,” she said. but Lucja had asked Richard to look
“I hope so,” I said quietly. “But after me. She knew I was stressed and
Lucja, she could be a hundred kilo- not eating properly. We went for a
metres away.” much-needed run; I’d had my eye on
“You know what I’m going to say, the mountains and Richard helped
don’t you?” Lucja replied. me hand out posters in villages there.
I did. But I wanted to hear it any- Still, I despaired as we searched
way. “Sleep on it. It’ll all look different Ürümqi’s streets daily. I couldn’t stop
in the morning.” doubting our chances, and feeling the
pain of knowing I was losing Gobi.
T
he TV reporter wanted to know We’d followed up on some 30 tips, go-
why a guy living in Scotland ing to see dogs that were nothing like
would come all the way here her, dashing my hopes each time.
to search for a dog, and he knew the On day 14 of Gobi being missing we
search was being led by locals. The got yet another tip. Someone who had
coverage worked; the next day we seen our poster spotted a stray they
had more volunteers, and interview thought was Gobi and had taken it
requests from across China. One sent home. They texted a photo, but it was
a crew to follow me for a live broad- blurry, and the dog had a deep scar on
cast of the search. its head. I was doubtful, but we went
We needed the coverage to help con- to check it out.
vince locals to care about a little dog, We drove to a gated community and
and we did get more tips, though so far parked. I stepped into the house, and
all were dead ends. But I’d have to be suddenly a streak of sandy brown shot
careful with media, especially interna- across the room and jumped up at my
tional outlets; we were advised to never knees. “It’s her!” I shouted, picking the
be critical of the state. If authorities felt dog up and thinking that I’d slipped
China was painted in a bad light—say, into a dream. She was making the
as dog-eating barbarians—we could excited, whimpering, yapping sound
lose their cooperation. One article she’d made when we were reunited at
had speculated Gobi was snatched for the finish line. “This is Gobi!” She bur-
the dog-meat trade. (I dismissed this; rowed into my lap like a puppy.
locals told me the practice wasn’t com- I rang Lucja. “We bloody well found
mon in this region.) her!” I said the moment she picked
On the fourth day, I was excited up. Both of us didn’t say much for a
when Richard, my tentmate from while. We were too busy crying.
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I
couldn’t risk leaving Gobi alone supportive, refusing my offer to resign.
in China again. Also, she must “I guess this is where we start our
have been hit by a car: in addi- new life together,” I told Gobi when
tion to the gash on her head, she had it was decided. She stared back at
a painful dislocated hip and needed me, big eyes locked on mine, just like
photo courtesy of dion leonard
an operation. So Lucja and I decided during the race. I was convinced she
I’d stay. I’d be with Gobi during the was telling me that whatever the next
30 days following the rabies shot, and adventure was, she was all in.
then my little dog and I could do a We relocated to Beijing, where I
three-month quarantine together in rented a small apartment. The rabies
China and avoid her going through test came back negative, and then
four months of that alone in the UK. I Gobi had her hip operation. She was
feared my employers would think I’d up and about just days later. We spent
lost the plot, but they were again fully lots of time outside, walking along
the canal on nice days. Gobi and I It’s my 42nd birthday—the day
soon learnt that the best street-food after Gobi and I arrived home—and
stalls served jianbing, a crepe with the three of us are on our first run
egg inside. We couldn’t get enough together. Gobi turns around, tongue
of those. We even found a cafe where out, eyes bright, chest puffed. She and
the staff didn’t mind us sitting at an Lucja had bonded the moment they
outdoor table; for a city that generally met, and it’s as if she understands
doesn’t allow dogs in taxis or buses, exactly what Lucja had just said.
and has only since 2015 allowed “You haven’t seen anything yet,” I
guide dogs on subways, this was a say, pushing the pace to loosen the
major score. strain on Gobi’s leash. “She was like
Gobi seemed happier than ever, this in the Tian Shan mountains.”
holding her head high, eyes bright. It Gobi is a true climber, and with
was impossible to tell she’d recently every step we take, she’s more alive.
been a stray. Sometimes I’d slip out Soon her tail is wagging so fast it blurs,
to the gym or grocery store, but Gobi her body bouncing with joy.
didn’t like being left alone. Whenever This little dog has changed me in
I returned, she’d spin and sprint and ways I think I’m only just beginning
yelp with pure excitement. I’d pick her to understand. To be trusted so much
up, and a deep calm would fall over by a living creature, and to be on the
her, just like at the river crossing. receiving end of that kind of love and
Life in Beijing got tougher devotion is a powerful thing.
i n Nov e m b e r : t hat ’s w h e n t h e Love. Devotion. Attention.
government turned on the heat Affection. Those all disappeared from
nationwide and pollution worsened. my life for a whole decade when I was
The apartment was a furnace, but I growing up. Now I was getting the
dared not open the windows and let chance to treat someone vulnerable
dirty air in. We couldn’t go for walks. in the way I wanted to be treated back
The end of December couldn’t come then. In many ways, by finding Gobi,
soon enough. I’ve found more of myself.
Finally, though, after four months of Gobi turns again, pulling on the
waiting in China, we could go home. leash, and I swear she’s grinning.
Come on! Let’s go!
“W
o w ! ” s ay s L u c j a a s Lucja and I look at each other and
the three of us charge laugh as we run, enjoying the moment
up Arthur ’s Seat, the we’ve longed for: To be together.
steep grassy mountain dominating
From the book FINDING GOBI by Dion Leonard with
E d i n b u r g h’s s k y l i n e. “ L o o k a t Craig Borlase. Copyright © 2017 by DionLeonard.
Reprinted with permission of Thomas Nelson.
her energy!”
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THE WAY OF
THE WORLD
by Sukhada Tatke
T
he latest novel by author and its meaning expands and contracts
Anuradha Roy, The Earth- infinitely within this span. The potter
spinner, is a marriage of her sees earth in one way, and the father,
two loves: writing and pot- who is a geologist, thinks of it as some-
tery. Set in a past that is relatively re- thing created over millennia. The title
moved from now, it deals with themes in Folded Earth refers explicitly to this
of sectarian violence and religious in- aspect of the planet—that the Himalaya
tolerance, rendering it deeply resonant is quite literally created by the collision
with the world of today. The novel is a of one continent against another. I like
haunting investigation into grief and this sense, in books I read or write, of
loss and the need for creative impulse a dimension beyond the human one,
to rise above it all. Finally,The Earths- more mysterious, unknowable, tran-
pinner is about the fragility of the free- scending all that happens to the char-
doms to live and love the way we want. acters, connecting a gigantic planet
with a little bit of soil from its surface.
This is your second novel with ‘Earth’
in the title. What is your relationship What was the seed for this novel?
with Earth—the planet, and earth— An idea? A character? A theme?
PHOTO: RUKUN ADVANI
the ground beneath our feet? The book began with the horse. I had
That’s such an unusual question. In come across clay horses in my child-
this book, earth can be the small ball hood—they are made in Bankura in
of clay in the potter’s hand that turns Bengal. Later I discovered clay horses
into a bowl, or it can be the planet itself, were also made in parts of south India
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and when I read about the horse in her husband or a potter grieving the
Hindu mythology, I encountered a rich loss of his dream. Are we, as humans,
set of myths about a ‘submarine horse’ condemned to forever remain stuck
that roams the ocean floor. This horse in our silos of grief and losses?
and the clay ones felt connected. I don’t think that humans are con-
demned in that way, and that is not
The Earthspinner is, among other thi- what the novel is about either. As you
ngs, a novel about creativity and the say, many of the characters experi-
battle to keep it alive despite all odds.ence grief and loss. Loss is the other
Is your creative process like that of side of having anything, isn’t it? I think
Elango, the protagonist, loss, in the book, is like
where you give yourself the water that one of the
fully and madly to what characters says forms
you’re creating? limestone—“unnoticed
Without the energy of ob- in warm and calm sea-
session there would be no water from sediments
audacious artistic projects of shells and algae that
and if you don’t feel ob- remain in it as fossils”.
sessed, you might as well What I mean is that
not do it at all—because everyone is altered by loss,
then the odds will certainly it changes your substance,
defeat you. When creating it becomes a part of you,
his horse, Elango is up but you are not a pris-
against all kinds of con- oner to it.
straints—both quotidian, EVERYONE IS
such as the availability of ALTERED BY LOSS, Dog, horse, owl, butter-
clay or the weather—as fly—fauna are central in
well as the more inde- BUT YOU ARE NOT the book. What is your
finable: Is his imagina- A PRISONER TO IT. relationship with them?
tion up to the task? Does I am fortunate enough
he have the strength and persistence to live on a hillside by a forest, so birds
for it? Is it worth doing at all? Will he and animals are a part of my daily
lose heart or faith in his own idea? life. Woodpeckers, babblers, warblers,
These are questions everyone making magpies, all visit to eat from the feed-
things—books or sculpture or pots— ers I fill for them daily. They have vig-
have to confront. orous baths in a shallow bowl of water
kept for them. We use no pesticides,
Grief and loss are at the heart of this so it has a great deal of insect life—
novel—a woman grieving the loss of butterflies, hoverflies, bees and less
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RD RECOMMENDS
Films Archie Yates of Jojo Rabbit fame in Home Sweet Home Alone
ENGLISH: Home Alone the Korean thriller The Dalit rights. Seeing that
films, especially those Terror Live for Netflix. a young tribal man has
starring Macaulay In it, we see news simply disappeared
Culkin, are things that anchor Arjun Pathak after being arrested,
make both Christmases (Kartik Aaryan) receive Chandru tries hard to
and childhoods special. a call from a terrorist find him and bring his
Streaming on Disney+ who says he’ll strike at wife justice. Also star-
Hotstar from 12 Novem- Mumbai’s very heart. All ring Prakash Raj and
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Archie Yates, who had (Suriya), a lawyer who MALAYALAM: Hill Top
announced his adora- comes to champion used to once be a grand
bility in Jojo Rabbit,
plays the lead.
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Books
Desperately Seeking Shah Rukh: India’s Lonely Young
Women and the Search for Intimacy and Independence
by Shrayana Bhattacharya, HarperCollins India
If recent headlines are and Jharkhand, Khan
Scope Out
anything to go by, it offered both recourse
Pride, Prejudice and
seems clear that Shah and escape.
Punditry: The Essential
Rukh Khan’s stardom is Desperately Seeking
Shashi Tharoor (Aleph):
predicated more on Shah Rukh tells the
This book collects the
love than adula- story of how
best of the five million-
tion. Not even generations of In-
odd words that Thar-
the worst of dian women have
oor has published in
scandals can seen in the actor
books, newspapers,
shake it. Shra- the possibility of
magazines and online.
yana Bhattacha- a friendlier mas-
rya can, perhaps, culinity. While,
You Can’t Be Serious
vouch for this. on one hand, it
(Simon & Schuster):
For 15 years, she celebrates the
In this candid memoir,
travelled across India, actor’s extraordinary
Kal Penn writes about
speaking to women 30-year career in Bolly-
his remarkable jour-
who turn to SRK in their wood, it first documents
ney, one that has in-
times of turbulence and the struggles of those
cluded acting, writing,
heartache. In Jor Bagh who love him.
working as a farmhand
and teaching Ivy
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Resolve by Perumal Murugan (Penguin
Hamish Hamilton): Though in possession The Horizon (Harper-
of good fortune (a piece of land), Mari- Collins India): Gautam
muthu is still not able to find himself Bhatia further explores
a wife. He is awkward, inward-looking the themes of freedom,
and desperately lonely. Others might have used this violence and fear in
premise to write a comedy of manners, but Perumal this sequel to his fast-
Murugan, expectedly, uses it to ask larger questions paced, stylish and con-
about agriculture, caste and gender. Translated fident science-fiction
from the Tamil by Aniruddhan Vasudevan, this debut novel The Wall.
novel is comic on the surface, but savage at heart.
Music
TUNE IN
Song: ‘Kudi Nu Nachne De’
Artists: Shilpa Rao ft. Anurag Naidu
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REVIEW
Decoding
the Burari
Mystery
A new documentary
shows some secrets
are always taken Poster for the Netflix docu-series House of Secrets
to the grave
STUDIO
Celestial Dancer
By William
Dalrymple
Digital print on
Photograph, 2021
24 X 17 inches
that became his starting search for The Golden New York is an 11th
point. The Golden Road, Road. Showcased as Chandela sculpture
Dalrymple’s next book, an exhibition in Delhi’s of a celestial dancer.
has taken him back to Vadehra Art Gallery last Much like her improb-
the start of his India month, his photographs able pose, Dalrymple
obsession—artistic of Chalukya temples helps exaggerate her
and cultural leaps the and Pallava sculptures impossible beauty.
country took between are all striking, but — BY SHREEVATSA NEVATIA
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ME & MY SHELF
Ships
How to play:
Determine the position of the
ten ships listed. A square with
wavy lines indicates water
and will not contain a ship.
The numbers indicate how
many squares in that row or
column contain parts of ships.
No two ships touch each
other, not even diagonally.
Example
Star Search
How to play: Example:
Find the stars that
are hidden in some
of the blank squares.
The numbered
squares indicate
how many stars are
hidden in squares
adjacent to it (inclu-
ding diagonally).
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numbers 1 to
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each a) row,
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and d) white
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rectangle.
3 4
Example
5 6
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outlined ar-
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Weird Science
Science has countless branches, many with names ending in -logy
or -ology, meaning ‘study’, from the Greek logos (word). Among the
lesser-known specialties: oology (the study of birds’ eggs), koniology
(dust), dendrochronology (tree rings) and ichnology (fossil footprints). And
for those who really want to get down and dirty, there’s scatology, the study
of ... well, excrement.
QUIZ
BY Samantha Rideout
1. Even during a power outage, food- 8. Every human has wisdom teeth.
crop seeds would remain safely frozen in True or false?
the Global Seed Vault, located where?
9. What’s the biggest wild cat native
2. What is generally considered to be to the Americas?
the first science-fiction film?
10. For what movie did Jordan Peele
3. What major sports tournament receive the Oscar for best original
requires players to dress in white, screenplay, becoming the
to minimize the visibility of first Black screenwriter to
sweat marks? win that category?
6. Anne Bonny and Mary 15. In 2000, Canadian 13. He inspired the idea
Read were notable 18th- psychologists published of ‘short man syndrome’,
century women because of a tongue-in-cheek paper but roughly how tall was
their occupations as what? diagnosing Winnie the Napoleon in reality?
Pooh and his friends 14. Until 2018, what po-
7. Residents of Chumbivil- with disorders. Accor- pular and spicy German
cas, Peru, celebrate Christ- ding to the paper, street food had a museum
mas by challenging each Piglet clearly suffers dedicated to it in Berlin?
other to what? from what?
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