Activties For Module 3 (BSA I-1)
Activties For Module 3 (BSA I-1)
Activties For Module 3 (BSA I-1)
4. He suggests that the self has two divisions: the I and the me. (2pts)
GEORGE HERBERT MEAD
My mother used to tell me stories about myself when I was between the
ages of 2-3 years old. She says that I would like to grab the microphone and
sing in front of the television, imitating Jolina Magdangal. Sometimes,
because it has been my father’s hobby to play some cha-cha and disco,
whenever I hear the music, I would go straight up our dining table right away
and dance copying his moves. I can relate this to Mead’s first stage of the
self, specifically the preparatory, whereas according to him, children at this
stage imitate the people around them, especially family members with whom
they see, watch and interact daily, enswathed with bare innocence and hardly
understands the meaning of his or her words and actions.
2. How do you think the sense of self is achieved in our present society
wherein consumption has been the main organizing element? Focus
your discussion on Baudrillard's theory on the impact of postmodernity
on social life.
Sadly, nowadays, people tend to blind themselves with things that they
believed to be important; material things. They ought to mask themselves in
order to please the people around them and to reach the Everest-like high
standards of the world. According to Baudrillard, consumption structures the
postmodern society. Today, to live is to consume. Everything is up for
consumption. And life is organized around commodities. The price tag has
been the basis of achievement and self-identity. Expensive phones and
gadgets, jewelries, bags and shoes, there’s a lot to be named. People tend to
purchase a lot of stuffs that they don’t necessarily need, but only do so
thinking that it is only the way to be accepted.
I, myself is guilty to be one of them. Who wouldn’t really want to show off
these things if you know that you’ve worked hard for it? But then, If I am to
ask, the best way to really achieve the sense of self is to always be who you
are, what you really want to see for yourself and not what others wanted to
see. Authenticity is the very key. If you only free yourself and avoid the
watching eyes of the society, you will feel free and less burdened knowing
that you are happy and contented. In addition, I believe that there is nothing
wrong with purchasing and investing over things we want to spend our
pennies with. But we should always remember to that there is something
more important to invest on, faith and relationship with the Creator. “Set your
mind on things above and not on earthly things.” (Colossians 3:1 NIV)