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performing its duties. 0n the other hand, a communication style relates to the way people interact
with each other verbally or even nonverbally (Adler, Rodman, & DuPré, 2016). It involves the
combination of both language and nonverbal cues and is the meta-message which defines how a
listener receives and interprets verbal messages. When communicating with each other, you
decoding-receiver.
Various communication styles are used across a wide range of areas in our day-to-day
activities (Guffey, & Loewy, 2012). Having to understand the style of the person you are
communicating with determines the difference between getting your message across and getting
it across well. In this context, I shall focus on the following key areas:
The Mediators
introverted. Most of them like marinating on questions so they will not give answers directly. To
connect with them effectively; you need to keep your tone of voice at discussion level while
verbally communicating, start a conversation with a warm and friendlily greeting, be patient and
The Analyzers
These are people considered perfectionists and task-oriented and are suspicious of others.
In such a setting you may find them answering a question with another question (Rost, &
Candlin, 2014). To communicate with them, you must choose the words you use very wisely
avoiding terms such as “Let me offer you some advice.” make all the points understood before
The Socializer
You may find the setting of your communication being livelier. They like talking and a
loud enough. Are also considered friendly to people and very social. To effectively communicate
with them; allow time for interaction, put details down in writing, have a fast pace in your speech
The Aggressor-Asserter
There is a setting of a CEO attitude. They are direct and blunt in their communication
making you know where you stand (Tyagi, 2013). To ensure that your communication is
effective; be brief, straight and succinct, use a fast and quick pace, avoid lots of details, look
Before starting to talk, planning your message is very necessary. It requires one to take
some time and figure out what exactly you want to say and why you want to say it (Broadbent,
2013). This helps avoid conveying information that is not needed and saving on listener’s or
reader’s mind too. Planning what you say takes some steps; understand your objective, your
audience, plan what to say. Keep it simple and straightforward since good communication needs
After having a clear idea of what you want to say, create a clear, well-crafted message.
You have to decide how exactly you will put your words across as you take the responsibility of
conveying a message that is clear and concise (Geissler, Edison, & Wayland, 2012). One is
required to consider how your audience will perceive the information and not only what you say
You need to choose the best communicating channel to send your message to make use
of it (Burgoon, Guerrero, & Floyd, 2016). A simple task can be send using email but delegating a
complex task may require you to speak in person. A negative emotional content may require you
To be a good communicator, you also need to allow the other person speak and you just
listen. To understand the information being presented, understand the emotions the speaker is
expressing.
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Feedback would be important to ensure that the audience has understood your message.
Feedback by body language gives most information about the effectiveness of your
communication. You can watch out for a gesture, facial expression and even posture of your
audience.
To become a good speaker, I need to have the required skills to speak, relay information
through the right channel as well as be a good listener to others. I should be able to understand
what I want to say, read my audience, anticipate the other person to react to my message, select a
body language that enables my audience to hear me, check my tone and other subtleties,
Based on my analysis of the findings, I cite two major communications issues that require
development. They include: being able to create a clear and well-crafted message based on my
audience, ways of becoming a good listener and how well I can receive and interpret a message.
Over a couple of months ago, I have had some professional interactions where my
communication skills were highly tested. I have had student-student interactions as well as
student-instructor interactions. As a student possessing the skills to be able to listen to others and
communicate to them effectively becomes quite a problem. This arises in situations where I fail
to decode the right instructions as given by my instructors as well as not being able to answer
them back. Communication barrier occurs with the other students when there is need to express
me to them and lack the objective or have a problem with the choice of words to use to either
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contribute to an issue or to express me. Hence, the necessity to develop this two major two
communication problems.
Literature Review
Listening skills
Listening refers to the process of accurately receiving and interpreting messages in the
process of communication (Bodie, Cyr, Pence, Rold, & Honeycutt, 2012). It is key to any
communication, and without it, words are easily misunderstood. Excellent listening skills enable
us to have social networks, perform well in our studies, and have better health and general well-
being (Bodie, Vickery, & Gearhart, 2013). Listening involves not only paying attention to the
story but how it is told and the use of language and voice and the use of body language.
Position your body in a manner which makes it comfortable as well as inviting for others
to come and talk with you. It can involve facing the one talking to you, and if not sited, take an
open posture with the arms on the side (Carlile, 2014). Looking around as the conversation takes
place or if you keep yawning indicates that you do not want the conversation. To show
attentiveness, raise your elbows once in a while, mover closer to the person you are speaking
with, smile and laugh when necessary, and nodding your head to agree.
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Maintain an eye contact to indicate that you have the attention and respect to the speaker.
It gives the other person go ahead to pass across their message knowing that you are listening
A crucial part of listening is the ability to let go of background noise, thoughts, and even
conversations and focusing on the main talk (Islam, 2012). Being carried away by other events
prevents you from listening fully. It is wise to turn off communication devices as it is polite and
communicate to a larger extent than actual wordings. Word of mouth only gives a small fraction
of the whole message so watching out for body languages gives a further understanding of the
message.
Be open-minded judging only after you have heard and evaluated what one has said. Wait
before forming opinions because once you do for example see one as being ill-informed, you
shut them out and no longer listen to what they have to say. Have an open mind that you
Ask questions during an appropriate pause and avoid interrupting a speaker to ask
something. Wait for a break and then ask. This gives the speaker the idea that you are interested
enough to want clarification. This creates a speaker-listener conversation rather than someone
Listen with the intent to learn. Fully take in what your partner has to say and make each
and every conversation as a learning opportunity. Do not focus too much on how you are going
to reply to a person talking to you but understand and absorb what they are trying to put across.
Listen to the speaker’s words and try to picture what they are saying. Create a mental
model of the entire conversation to understand it even better by keeping all senses completely
alert (Lemonnier, 2012). Always remember keywords and phrases that the speaker uses. Do not
rehearse what you are going to say as you listen as this two cannot go hand in hand. Focus only
Always put yourself in the speaker’s shoes by feeling what he is feeling. Express joy,
sadness, or even fear when the person you are talking to does. Use facial expressions to convey
Communication Skills
(Holloway, Mitobe, & Atherton, 2015, March). Managers who are decent verbally help facilitate
sharing of information between people within a company’s setting. It is essential for one to build
You should have the courage to say what is in your mind. One should have the
confidence to know that they can make worthwhile contributions to a conversation (Buchanan, &
Seligman, 2013). Know your opinions and feelings so that you can be in a position to express
them to others.
Take practices by involving yourself with simple interactions ranging from both social
skills to professional skills (Thomas, & Stephens, 2015). The new skills may take a while before
they can put into practice, but every time you put your communication skills into practice, you
By engaging the people you are talking to, you make them be interested in you. Look at
the listener’s eyes and move to the eye (Keyton, Caputo, Ford, Fu, Leibowitz, Liu, & Wu, 2013).
The back and forth movement between the two would make your eyes sparkle.
Learn to speak clearly and audibly. Do not allow the space for people to keep asking you
to repeat yourself. Instead, learn to articulate yourself in a better manner by even pronouncing
your words (Owens, 2016). If not confident about the use of a particular word, then avoid using
it altogether. Read new words in your daily routine to master new words and learn their correct
pronunciation.
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Tell a story. Stories help activate our brains making our presentation better and out of it,
we can be more persuasive in our communication. They also put us in position to be able to face
interviews.
Learn to tailor your message depending on the audience (Training, 2010). For example, a
different style would be applied when talking to co-workers as compared to when you are having
Always learn to be short of words yet distinct. Learn to get your point across clearly with
fewer words. Together with this, be concrete, correct, and even courteous.
Give yourself time to think by pausing in the middle of the conversation (Leathers, &
Eaves, 2015). There is always that thinking that the people you are talking to are being impatient
and would like you to give your information as quickly s possible, but this is not the case. So just
compose yourself and relax. Another way to go round this is equipping you with fixed phrases
that you can use when remaining silent. This gives you time to reflect, simply by repeating the
Action Plan
includes a number of the main events that are going to take place (Alessi, 2014). It has the details
of what actions will take place, who will conduct the actions, by when they will take place and
The key events that I would undertake within the next six months to develop my skills
include:
Coming up with a reading plan. I would formulate a timetable for reading various self-
help books such as How to Talk to Anyone, Crucial Conversations, Verbal Judo. This books
would give me vocabularies to use, help me develop skills such as understanding my audience,
the way to frame my sentences, how to effectively respond to a question when posed to me, and
The second plan is regular watching of news and other TV shows. This would help me
gain the right pronunciation of words, learn how to use body language depending on the setting
and topic under discussion as well as the body language of the speaker. This would give me an
interactive section where I would visualize precisely the behavior and response of the speaker
Australia. Taking the course gives me a chance to interact with other students and the instructors
where I can personally try out and practice and every skill taught to me. Being personally
involved would make get a quick understanding of all the necessary skills.
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After I have completed each of the above events, it is important to evaluate or measure
the successful completion of the events to make sure that my communication skills have
improved. I need to ask myself various questions such as: how were my communication skills
before I began the action plan, how my skills improved, and to what extent should I be
competent in my skills. By answering this question, I can be able to figure out the state that I
References
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Bodie, G. D., St. Cyr, K., Pence, M., Rold, M., & Honeycutt, J. (2012). Listening competence in
Bodie, G. D., Vickery, A. J., & Gearhart, C. C. (2013). The nature of supportive listening, I:
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of Listening, 27(1), 39-49.
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Holloway, K., Mitobe, L., & Atherton, M. (2015, March). Teacher/Mentor Training-Active
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Keyton, J., Caputo, J. M., Ford, E. A., Fu, R., Leibowitz, S. A., Liu, T., ... & Wu, C. (2013).
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Tyagi, B. (2013). Listening: An important skill and its various aspects. The Criterion An