Parenting Experience of A Genration X Parent
Parenting Experience of A Genration X Parent
Parenting Experience of A Genration X Parent
By:
January 2019
Chapter 1
The Problem and Its Background
Introduction
The large difference between the parenting styles of a Generation X parent and a
Generation Y, also known as a millennial parent has been an ongoing issue especially
here in the Philippines. Because as what Jason Dorsey, a speaker from TEDx Talks said,
“Parenting is the greatest trend that influences behavior across generations”. Since the
parenting styles of both the Generation X parent and a Generation Y parent have various
differences, therefore it might also affect the children’s growth and development.
Generation X parents or the parents born within the range of 1960’s to early
1980’s and Generation Y parents or the parents born within the range of late 1980’s to
early 2000’s (millennial) greatly differ from each other. The attitudes of the two
today. Based on an article from New York Times, most of them (Generation Y) are
turning to the internet (e.g. Google, chat rooms etc.) for parenting advices that helps them
become too complacent in their parenting skills. “Millennial themselves rely on digital
devices and the internet to provide them with the information in parenting and raising
kids tend to change throughout the generations because of cultural climates change
throughout periods of time” (Global News, 2018). Millennial parents have the tendency
to be too forgiving, validating and too friendly towards their children. (S. Urman, 2016)
in raising their child, as well as the ease of access of advices from the internet, they are
showing a desire for more rest and relaxation. (N. Winston, 2018)
“Devices have given us freedom to be more social with our kids, but it’s also made
it so much harder to engage with them when we need to,” a mother confessed.
Generation Y are also more likely to raise their children in poverty and are more
wherein they apply what they think their parents did right and what they should have
done better in raising their children, which is also known as the helicopter parenting.
According to Carolyn Daitch, Ph. D., director of the Center for the Treatment of Anxiety
Disorder and the author of Anxiety Disorders: The Go-To Guide, helicopter parenting
refers to “a style of parents who are over focused on their children,” they typically take
too much responsibility for their children’s experiences and specifically their successes or
failures,” she added. Gen X’ers would rather apply what they experienced from their
moms and dads and will use the same strategies to their children.
They are more violent compared to the Generation Y parents which affect the
(N. Winston, 2018) The nature of parents of any generation is to raise their children in a
way that they think is right for them to be known as the perfect parents when in fact
there’s none. Whether the parent is a Gen X’er or a Millennial, it’s not “who’s-better-
who” because every generation tends to change their parenting styles as time changes,
and aside from their differences, there’s a thing that parents in any generation will surely
agree on; no matter how exhausting it is to raise their children, they will always love
Generation Y (Millennial) parents in raising a child. Parenting has changed over the
of:
3. What are the possible effects of these differences in the children’s growth of
4. How can these differences affect in the children’s growth of both Generation X
terms of:
This study aims to assess the different parenting practices of Generation X and
Generation Y (Millennial) with regards to raising and how it affects their children.
To the readers, who will read this to be more aware of the possible effects of the
child.
To the children, who are still confused with the parenting styles that their parents
To the people, a parent or a child, to settle this uprising issue once and for all.
This study is descriptive in nature and will be focusing on the parenting practices
of both Generation X and Generation Y (Millennial) parents when raising their children
uncertainty, parenting skills and advices and with some other factors to consider.
The research data to be collected will be based on the interview of parents under
This study is delimited only on evaluating the differences between the parenting
with some aspects of parenting to reflect on and how these differences affect their
To further understand and clarify this research, the following definition of terms
Helicopter Parenting. A parenting skill wherein parents tend to hover over their
Traditional Beliefs. Beliefs that are passed down from generation to generation.