Social Relationships in Middle and Late Adolescence T.G.
Social Relationships in Middle and Late Adolescence T.G.
Social Relationships in Middle and Late Adolescence T.G.
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Social Relationships in Middle and Late Adolescence
There are various individuals in our community whom we look up to for many reasons. They do different roles that help shape our neighborhood.
We look up to people for several reasons. For example, we admire community leaders because they organize activities for the welfare of the youth,
parents, senior citizens, and other members of the community. We look up to some people because they exemplify deeds that show responsibility,
strength, and productivity. We look up to some people because they do their tasks with commitment. Here are some people we usually admire.
1. Teachers – We admire our teachers for being dedicated in their work and for planting the seeds of wisdom in our minds.
2. Doctors – We respect doctors because they help us take care of our body.
3. Policemen and policewomen – They are admirable because they protect us and keep our neighborhood safe.
4. Firemen – We respect these people for being there whenever there is a disaster.
5. Dentists – We admire dentists because they promote oral health.
Indeed, the people we admire influence us in many ways. We may be unaware of how they do so, but we have experienced changes in our
attitudes, goals, and values as we see and work with them.
Leadership
Acting the role of a leader is a very powerful way of influencing others. But what is leadership, and what does it mean to be a leader? Leadership
is a relationship among leaders and followers, which is influential in effecting change and realizing common goals. Leadership involves creating
change, which should be substantive to arrive at an outcome that both leaders and followers worked for.
Three Leadership Styles:
1. Autocratic Leadership – This leadership style centralizes in authority. The autocratic leader derives power from the position, controls rewards, and
uses coercion to make his or her group members follow. He or she is aloof and focuses exclusively on the task at hand.
2. Democratic Leadership – A democratic leader delegates authority to others, asks for suggestions, and discusses plans with members. He or she
depends on the respect of his or her members for influence.
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3. Laissez-faire Leadership – A laissez-faire leader leaves the group to its own capacity to finish its tasks. He or she intervenes minimally.
Democratic leaders have been proven to be liked and admired more than autocratic or laissez-faire leaders, because they create an
atmosphere that is open and not hostile, task-oriented, and group-centered. This atmosphere is associated with high productivity. On the other hand,
autocratic leadership results in a hostile, dependent, and self-oriented group environment, associated with high productivity when the leader is
present. Laissez-faire leaders create a friendly, group-centered yet play-oriented atmosphere, relative to low productivity.
Followership
The role of a follower is equally important in the realization of a group’s common goal. For a society to be peaceful, orderly, and productive,
members must be willing to follow. Even leaders must be willing to shift into and out of their role under certain circumstances to influence change in
their followers and achieve common goals. The relationship between leaders and followers should show reciprocity or the mutual exchange of
influence. Leaders influence followers, and, at the same time, followers influence leaders.
The following are some of the things expected from an effective follower:
1. A make-it-happen attitude. Leaders expect results from their followers as they do not need excuses.
2. A willingness to collaborate. Collaboration is important in the realization of the common goal.
3. The passion to drive your own growth. Leaders seek for followers who want to develop themselves.
4. Practice
Activity 1: My Superhero!
This activity aims to help you identify the different individuals in your community and how they influence you through their leadership and
followership.
Instructions:
1. Think of the individuals in your community who make it a better place. These persons can be any of your barangay officials, school teachers or
principal, or priest/pastor. Choose one whom you admire and who has influenced you to be like him or her in the future. For example, you probably
admire your barangay kagawad for having aggressively promoted the welfare of the youth in your barangay. Another example is you have been
closely influenced by your teacher in values education and you have an interest to be like him or her.
2. Interview your chosen person about his or her position and the ways that he or she fulfills the role. Include identifying data, accomplishments,
challenges, and ways in overcoming the challenges.
3. Using the data you have gathered regarding the person, be creative in making a video about that person so that others can see his or her exemplary
values. Submit the video to your teacher.
5. Enrichment
Activity 2: Leading the School Organization
In this class project, you will come up with a profile of the leaders in your school organizations. It also aims to familiarize you on how to
effectively conduct a survey.
Instructions:
1. Divide the class based on the number of student organizations in your school. If there are more than 20 student organizations, just choose a
reasonable number. Assign a group for each school organization.
2. Distribute the attached mini survey instrument to the student organization leaders.
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3. After retrieving the accomplished tool, tally the answers you have gathered.
4. Make a profile of the answers by getting the frequency or the number of responses and the percentage.
6. Evaluation
Quiz
A. Underline the word or phrase in the parentheses that makes each statement correct.
1. (Doctors, Teachers) organize activities for the welfare of the youth, parents, senior citizens, and other members of the community.
2. Your (responsibility, role) defines you because your thoughts, feelings, and actions are anchored on the roles you play.
3. (Democratic, Autocratic) leadership delegates authority to others, asks for suggestions, and discusses plans with members.
4. The relationship between leaders and followers should show (reciprocity, isolation) or mutual exchange of influence.
5. A good (leader, follower) is responsible in speaking up when someone in authority does something wrong.
B. Choose which personality trait of a leader is being described in each statement. Choose your answers from the terms in the box.
__________1. It is the ability to stay calm and deal with his or her emotions during stressful times.
__________ 2. This trait motivates the leader to finish his or her tasks and avoid distractions.
__________ 3. This trait refers to the ability to be creative and show willingness to learn new ideas.
Choose which personality trait of a follower is being described in each statement. Choose your answers from the terms in the box.
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Make-it happen attitude Passion to drive personal growth
__________ 4. This refers to being accountable for his or her continuous improvement.
__________ 5. This is characterized by enthusiastically exerting efforts to finish their jobs on time.
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