“Some sort of periodical is an essential life-line in village such as ours”

Welcome to West Farleigh’s own

LIFELINE
Distributed freely in February 2018 Edition no 496
Editors: Stephen Norman, Helen Swan and Jacky Taylor
Website: www.thefarleighs.co.uk Email: [email protected]
Upcoming Events:
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We are fortunate enough

that West Farleigh is a very
beautiful place to live and In this Lifeline
there is a strong community
of friendly residents. So we Pastoral newsletter……….. 2
wondered if it was possible to A personal view…………… 3
make it even better for View from the Garden…… 4
everyone? Welcome New Neighbours 4
Farleigh Feathers…………. 5
There is interest (see the PCC
View from the Scoreboard..6
minutes on the back page)
in entering the Britain in Bloom competition; to plant flowers in public Organisations ………………. 7
areas, encourage wildlife, be more sustainable and have fun as a Events………………………. 8
community. Are you interested to participate? Parish Council report…….. 8

We are looking for people to help design a plan, who have an Don’t forget to look at our
interest in the outdoors - be it wildlife or plants. Maybe a green gym website for much more
is more appealing than a traditional gym for exercise? Perhaps you information about our village
are good at baking cakes to keep the moral up?! We are keen to www.thefarleighs.co.uk
hear from anyone, not just existing keen gardeners (though those
Please contact the editors if you
are definitely needed too please)
would like an article in Lifeline or
Please indicate your interest on our Farleighs Facebook page or on the Website – Email
send an email to [email protected]. [email protected]

JOIN THE LITTLE ANGELS

Are you looking after a baby or and under 5? Are you about
on Friday lunchtime from1pm - 2.30 pm? Come on down to All
Saints Church and meet other mums and toddlers. Mums,
Dads, Grans, Grandads, carers – you will all be warmly
welcomed. For more information contact Becky on 07949 646865

Deadline for March issue of LIFELINE: 20th February 2018

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Pastoral newsletter
The English language is considered to be one of the most difficult to learn, due to
several factors relating to grammar, spelling and pronunciation. The main reason
however, is the large number of idiomatic structures we use in everyday speech
and writing. These idioms mostly stem from ancient uses of the language, and are
often metaphorical. How about ‘letting the cat out of the bag’, ‘burning the
candle at both ends’, ‘to pull someone’s leg’, ‘pie in the sky’, for example?

Many of the idioms we use have their roots in the Bible (with Shakespeare coming
a close second!) ‘The writing is on the wall’, ‘to see eye to eye’, ‘thorn in the flesh’,
‘two-edged sword’, ‘as old as the hills’, ‘give up the ghost’, ‘the blind leading the blind’ – just a few
examples from several hundred in the Bible. It might be assumed that they originate from the King James
translation, but in fact the majority are drawn from the several English versions of the Bible that were
circulating in the previous 130 years or so.

Even though we might not find the exact words in the Bible translations we have now, what has survived is
the use of the language and the message the words convey, albeit in an idiomatic way. Language is a
powerful tool, and often not used to best effect – whether an inane tweet, an unkind comment on a
Facebook post, a terse e-mail, or even an over-complicated sermon!

‘Think before you speak’ is always good advice. When speaking to someone whose first language isn’t
English, the use of idioms is particularly confusing. In our everyday language we may use idioms to try and
make what we’re saying more palatable in some way, such as ‘she’s passed on’, ‘he’s away with the
fairies’, when in fact it can be kinder to be more precise with our words.

The Bible reminds us that words have incredible power. For example, it warns against having a ‘sharp
tongue’: ‘Evildoers sharpen their tongues like swords and aim cruel words like deadly arrows’ (Psalm 64 verse
3). Instead we should consider what we say: ‘The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint’
(Proverbs 27), and follow the advice of St Paul (Ephesians 4 verse 29): ‘Do not let any unwholesome talk
come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may
benefit those who listen.’

Alison Callway

Services at All Saints

Sunday 4th February 8.00 am Holy Communion (Traditional)
Sunday 11th February 11.00 am Morning Prayer (Modern)
Sunday 18th February 9.30 am Morning Prayer (Traditional)
Sunday 25th February 9.30 am Holy Communion (Modern)

Our Ministry Team

Rev Peter Callway, Rector: 01622 747570 Call for Baptisms, Weddings & Funerals, not Fridays
Rev David Jones, Hon. Associate Rector 01622 741474. Not Fridays
Rev Eileen Doyle, Associate Rector 01622 204241. Not Mondays and Tuesdays
Becky Parnham, Children and Families Worker 07949 646885

The Rector and Alison are on a well earned holiday until early Feb. We wish them a wonderful and restful
time! [Ed]

TREE WARDEN REQUIRED

Our village has a lot of very interesting and well looked after trees, and has had commendations
from the Kent Men of the Trees.

Due to the untimely death of Chris Stockwell, the village is in need of a tree warden. If you have an
interest in trees and in our village, you might like to take on the job. No experience is required. Training will
be given. Contact Mick Merrit for more information [email protected] or 813990

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All Saints Church, West Farleigh A personal view from Jacky Taylor
Since I moved to West Farleigh about 6 years ago, the number in the congregation of
All Saints has dropped from about 11-12 to 5-6. Two weeks ago there was just 3
including the vicar and today (16 th December – the middle of the Christmas Season)
there were 5!

Compare this to over 100 who attended the Carol Service the previous week or 80 at
the Harvest Supper. It’s wonderful that folk visit and enjoy the church on special days
such as Christmas, Easter, Mothers’ Day and harvest-time.

Sitting in church this morning made me to wonder how our Parochial Church Council manages to keep
the building open, let alone heat it and make repairs. As one of the Friends of the Church I am aware of
efforts to raise funds and help where I can. The Church of England cannot care for its buildings alone
hence the constant request for help. Today I asked for relevant details in order to make a regular donation
– I attend as often as possible but like many other, family and other commitments keep me from attending
on a regular basis.

Looking around I also wondered, how long will be before our lovely 12th Century Church goes

from this 

to this 

If the doors have to close permanently, the building will become unsustainable. Without heating and
regular maintenance there will be water ingress which will eventually lead to the erosion of the concrete
and the building will crumble as happened to many listed churches over the last few decades.

We don’t want you to just put your hands in your pockets but to join us on a more regular basis which will
strengthen ourselves, our community and our church.

[Note from All Saints Treasurer: All contributions to the running costs of All Saints welcome! Contact
Stephen Norman on 814617]

[Ed’s note: there were 13 in church this morning, including Jacky! Whatever the numbers, we are a
friendly, chatty bunch who enjoy being together, praying together and of course singing.]

A tribute to Jean Wilkie

The White House pub was deeply saddened by the passing of a great friend and colleague,
Jean Wilkie, just a few days before Christmas. Jean had worked at the pub for 28 years, in house and on
outside bars. She had worked in the Kent Cricket marquee, country and western clubs, weddings,
birthdays and funerals.

She was known and loved by staff and customers alike, a larger than life character, happy, outgoing and
always ready with a smile and good natured advice.

She will be greatly missed by us all.

Janet Morris
The White House

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 View from the Garden by Jon Fenlon

WHAT’S IN YOUR GARDEN?

Hi everybody, as Spring is just around the corner I thought I would share with you
some of the flowers that are just popping up around the garden as well as the
berries that are still looking good. To see them full size and full colour, visit my
page on www.thefarleighs.co.uk

Jasminium (pale yellow)

Hellebore (all in white)

Nandina – almost postbox red!

Eranthis (a darker yellow)

Callicarpa: bright lilac colour

Crocus (these ones are purple) Snowdrops! Of course…

WELCOME TO NEW NEIGHBOURS

Karina and Stuart Robertson have lived in the village for some years now (7
years in May) but now there is an addition to the family. Little Ivar (pronounced
(Ivor) was born in May last year.

You might wonder about the spelling of his name. It is the Danish spelling.
Karina was born and brought up in Denmark and still has a large family there.
However, she has made her home here in Britain for many years.

Stuart and Karina both work in London, and juggle their work in order to look
after Ivar themselves. Karina took maternity leave for the first 7 months and has
now gone back to work. Stuart is now on paternity leave and looking after Ivar
fulltime. After Easter, they both plan to reduce their hours, so that there is
always one of them at home to do the looking after. A very modern scenario!

…AND TO JOHN AND JEN MONTICELLO

John and Jen have moved into Peacehaven, at the top of Charlton Lane (where Dee Reed used to live).
They are originally from the Abbey Wood area and more recently Leybourne. As you might guess, John’s
grandfather came from Italy.

They are both retired. John was a builder (which is lucky as there is a lot to do in the bungalow!) and Jen
was an estate agent. They were keen to move as their previous house was a bit big for them and
surrounded by other houses. They craved a view and now they have a great one!

They have three children, 6 grandchildren and one great grandchild.

They are concentrating on getting the house straight and hope to join in village activities as and when.
Their neighbours will keep them up to speed with what is going on.

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Farleigh Feathers by Ray Morris
February: Not homeless, but in need of shelter and food

In February, with the worst of winter possibly yet to come, birds are faced
with a dual pressure. The first stirrings of mating behaviour are being felt;
if you look at the male house sparrow’s bill it is turning black again as his
testosterone starts to build up, and his black bib is getting more
noticeable to help him attract a mate. By the end of the month tawny
owls could already be sitting on eggs.

A second pressure is still the need for a sheltered roosting site to survive
the long nights. So in a giant, industrial-scale glasshouse somewhere in Kent, where strawberries
are grown all year round, hundreds of pied wagtails slip through the vents each night to roost
together among the plants. That little bobbing, black and white bird hunting scarce insects in
your garden during the day could just be one of them!

Like the wagtails, many birds are still gathering in flocks to roost or find food, and are easily
trapped. So it is a good opportunity to gather scientific data about their lives by collecting
body measurements to gauge their health and fitness, and fitting a tiny ring with a unique
number that will identify them as an individual if they are caught again, or found dead. They
are then released unharmed.

Enlightened farmers ensure stubble fields are left unploughed through the winter for the birds
to forage in when natural resources are used up. As the populations of most of our farmland
birds have declined, in some cases up to 90 per cent, in the last fifty years, some farmers are
now paid extra to grow a special crop like sunflowers to leave as overwinter food for them.
One such farmer is Peter Hall in Marden, where huge numbers of birds are drawn to his fields
for food. Flocks of more than five hundred chaffinches and bramblings (a winter visitor from
Scandinavia) are common. Recent ringing sessions there, for example, have demonstrated the
way in which many birds fly long distances to find food. A reed bunting trapped and ringed in
West Sussex only a few days before, was recently re-trapped in Marden. This shows that bird
populations will continue to decline unless there are resources for them across the landscape,
not just on tiny pockets of land in a few nature reserves.

So keep your eyes open on your next winter walk: who’s doing their bit for the birds around the
Farleighs?

An extended, illustrated version of this article can be seen on www.thefarleighs.co.uk

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View from the Scoreboard by Terry Baines

Football: Our 1st XI have struggled to find consistent form from last season, but hopefully now they can push
on up the division and produce a winning habit again. Since the last report, we have lost 1-0 versus
Tonbridge Invicta, lost 1-0 against Tenterden in the cup, drew 4-4 against Burgess Hodgon and 2-2 against
Ashurst and finally had a disappointing 3-1 away defeat against Eales in the cup.

Meanwhile our 2nd XI have enjoyed another good run of results, only losing once since the last report, This
defeat came in our first game against Ide Hill in the cup, 3-1. Our next six matches all produced victories:
Paddock Wood 3-0, Dunton Dragons 3-1, Nomads 3-0, Wilderness Park 8-2 (!), Woodlands 4-0 and finally
after being 3-0 down against Kingsdown we amazingly fought back to win 7-3!

Our Veterans XI have had two games, drawing 3-3 against Inter Viagra and a fine 4-0 away win versus
Ashburton.

Cricket: We are very keen to welcome any cricket players for the coming season. This year we have
entered a 2nd XI in the league and it would be great if more local people got involved. If you enjoy the
game pllus the social side lease get in touch.

Club News

Our lucky Ton-Up winners for January were:

No 33 Paul Baines £30 No 110 Katie Pollard £20 No 58 Sophie Payne £10

YOURS IN SPORT, Tel. (01622 815267)

Evergreens

The Evergreens had one meeting in December and we went to the pantomime. Oh yes
we did! We saw Cinderella at the Hazlitt. Gone are the days, when Dandini was a long
legged young lady in fishnet tights! But we still had Ugly Sisters in drag. Everyone seemed to enjoy it. It is a
pity that the Hazlitt theatre only has a lift at the stage door, which is not easy to access, but everyone got in
and enjoyed the show.

Thanks are due to those who drove the

members in. Dropping off and parking was
not easy.

The first January meeting was a post-

Christmas lunch, cold meat salad, jacket
potatoes etc. followed by Christmas
pudding, mince pies, coffee, chocolates all
washed down with wine or fruit juice. The
members all received a small gift. Weather
permitting, we will be having a beetle Drive
at our second January meeting.

Our February meetings are Tuesday 13th

Feb, when we will be shown how to make
Hedgehogs! Don’t ask. Followed by
afternoon tea. We will be meeting for a light
lunch on the 27th Feb at 12.30 when one of our members will be speaking. It is open to all retired local
people. If you would like to come and need a lift ring Terry 814561. Or just turn up! We meet in the WI Hall
Forge Lane, East Farleigh.

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 HI All and Happy New Year!

After a very busy Christmas I am happy for a less hectic start to the New Year. We had
an interesting meeting this month with much discussion and different point of views by
all members on the resolutions that were sent down from our Head Office. As we had
time to spare after refreshments we asked our members to talk about their past lives,
there were some very interesting and funny stories, who needs a speaker! Forthcoming events in our WI,
we have a Whist Drive on Saturday 20th January, everyone welcome £5 on the door, with
refreshments. The WI Meeting is on 14th February all welcome.

Have you ever thought about joining the WI? Why not come to our open morning and meet us on 17th
February, 11am. We are serving soup, tea or coffee. For more information please contact Pam on 01622
726337. Looking forward to meeting you. If you wish to hire our Hall then please ring Karen on 01622
920258. Thanks Pam

Christmas Quiz

There were two winners for the Chocolate Quiz – Pauline Horton and Jill & Keith Bates. Appropriately both
will receive a box of chocolates. Sadly there were no entries for the Social Media Quiz.

All answers are famous chocolate brands

1 Definitely not before 20.00hrs After 8

2 Mothers hostelry Mars Bar
3 Voodoo in a box Black Magic
4 Cow juice container Milky Bottles
5 Song from Fiddler on the roof Match Makers
6 Could be climbing or tea Roses
7 Single snowy deposit Snowball
8 This becomes you, according to the song. Moonlight
9 The E is missing from the cat food Kit Kat
10 Christmas and birthdays give rise to these. Celebrations
11 Give us a ……. Anthea! Brucie would say Twirl
12 Are you a ? case? Fruit and Nut
13 Ssh! Talk quietly! Whisper
14 Al fresco cuisine Picnic
15 In the mane you will enjoy this Lion Bar
16 Like toast or Autumn leaves, maybe Crunchy
17 Sounds like a sadistic nut Walnut Whip
18 Munificence! Bounty
19 Serious bar this, mainly for truckers Yorkie
20 Half a flying machine Aero
21 This pub only sells cow juice Milky Bar
22 Passenger carrying vehicle or a club sandwich? Double Decker
23 Mediterranean Islanders Maltesers
24 Clever little individuals Smarties
25 Gentle wave action Ripple
26 Beautiful lady from Instanbul Turkish Delight
27 Up for discussion Topic
28 Superman, Spiderman and Batman are all these Heroes

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Events

Date and time Event and venue

Sunday 4th February EAST FARLEIGH FARMERS MARKET, Old School Hall, Lower Rd, E Farleigh
10.00 am to 13.00 Wow! What a combination. Incense, local sausages and bacon, cushions
jams & chutneys, plants, homemade fudge, woolies and BRUNCH!

Friday 16th February FOLK EVENING AT THE WHITE HOUSE

19:30pm onwards The White House hosts a Folk Night on the 3rd Friday of the month. Come
along, have a local beer and enjoy the music.

Sunday 11th March LAMBING DAY at Smiths Hill Farm

18.00 pm onwards The farm will be open to view the new lambs, thanks to Geoff, Candy and
Oliver Martin. The Parish Council will be serving tea, coffee and cakes!

PARISH COUNCIL REPORT (Meeting on 15th Jan, 2018)

The public were concerned about the new surface on Heath/Ewell Lane. Large areas of the new surface
have disappeared. As the potholes at the edge of the road were not repaired the new road surface and
the white lines are falling into the potholes. KCC Highways are to be asked back to have another look,
they previously thought it was up to standard! There was also concerns that the Christmas notices for the
Tickled Trout were still around the village. They are to be asked to remove them. Cathryn Meddemen
suggested that the village might like to take part in Britain in Bloom. The Village category includes the
environment and the community is encouraged to take part.

The Police are aware of how long you need to hang on when you dial 101 to report a crime. It is now
possible to report crimes online. There have been more crimes, lately, in our area. Mainly out buildings.
Please secure all sheds garages etc and keep your backdoor locked even when you are in.

There was a meeting with Highways including a road engineer to look at the junction of Teston Lane with
Lower Road. It seems that there is room for a mini round about. White paint and a slight hump. This has
been rejected by Highways and they propose to paint SLOW on the approaches to the junction.

The 20 mph sign is to be removed from the Thatched House bend and a SLOW BEND sign put up to stop
confusion with the 40 and 20 so close together.

Plans are in hand to replace the damaged and rotten post around the Green and more work is to be
done to the picnic tables and benches.

The Parish councillors have been working with the Sports Club and the landowner to see if there is a
possibility of building a Community Room onto the Sports Club building. It appears that this might be a
possibility. Watch this space…………..

Plans are in hand for the Lambing Day in March. As well as cakes and coffee there will be a BBQ and a
Tombola. The money raised will go towards the Community Room. Donations of Tombola prizes would be
welcome. Please give them to any parish councillor. (Unwanted Christmas gifts?).

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