Mother's Milks by Mina Fuhr - Preview
Mother's Milks by Mina Fuhr - Preview
Mother's Milks by Mina Fuhr - Preview
Milks
Mina Fuhr
Mina Fuhr
PROLOGUE 4
I. MY MOTHER
Community 8
Non-duality 14
Nourishment 20
Trust 24
Release 28
EPILOGUE 122
APPENDIX 124
BIBLIOGRAPHY 128
IMPRINT 130
Prologue
ne day, as I stood in the read this book with the right side of
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I am neither a medical doctor, sha-
man, or psychologist, nor nutrition-
ist, but I am living proof that you
can heal too. I would like to welcome
you onboard my spiritual journey and
in sharing hope that you find encour-
agement, hope, and love for yourself.
While reading this book, I wish for you
to practice non-judgment towards me and
especially towards yourself. I wrote
this book from a very sincere place,
and hope that my words resonate from
sister to sister as well as sister to
brother.
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Mothers Milks THE MOTHER community
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Community
hen I first started to write Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.
and seemingly a struggle only teenagers target this book at people who want to
endure. Besides, how can you heal eat- improve their overall relationship to
ing disorders with food? Is it not a food and omit the word eating disor-
mental problem that requires hours and der altogether. This way I would be on
hours of lying on a shrinks canap? the safe side and unable to be held
Arent there many types of eating dis- responsible for giving advice to people
orders, some so oppositional that one with a severe disorder as an amateur,
has to gain weight, while the other has the role to which I am reduced by pro-
to lose weight? And who are you anyway, fessionals. I am just a survivor.
a wannabe doctor?
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pital hooked up to IVs, on the catwalk, anorexia is Magersucht, literal-
cooking for your family, crying alone ly meaning an addiction to thinness,
in your bed, or just have a hunch that and bulimia is Ess-Brechsucht, eat-
perhaps something is wrong. The only ing-purging addiction. Finally, we can
prerequisite to being addressed by experience dissociative states up to
this book, is that you have the will full memory loss during binges regard-
to heal, which by merely reading these less of the amount we consume in one
words is quite likely you do. sitting.
Opening up this book to a broad group Whether I use the term eating disorder
of people does not mean that I do or not, it remains vague, its implica-
not acknowledge their differences and tions are many, and the stories behind
uniqueness. The three main categories it diverse as people suffering from it.
of anorexia, bulimia, and binge-eating I have been diagnosed with several of
are just rough guidelines. Often these these disorders as well as addition-
are accompanied by affective disorders, al mental conditions along the way I
dragging us into a depression or fluctu- say this with neither pride nor shame.
ating in a bipolar manner. For example, I would like for us to share our sto-
my anorexia phase was accompanied by ries, acknowledge our paths, and come
a depression, quite a severe one, with together in our shared vision to heal.
suicidal thoughts and partial apha- I must admit that in the past, when I
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You might be able to emphasize with
some of what I went through, while
other aspects might seem rather foreign,
but, as a fellow fighter, I ask you to
receive me with open arms and focus on
what we have or used to have in common,
the experience of disconnect from our
bodies and subsequently from food.
Mothers Milks MY MOTHER Community
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Mothers Milks MY MOTHER Community
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BREATHING BUCKWHEAT BREAKFAST
This recipe is dedicated to opening up and sharing. Its a fermented
porridge so bubbly and energetic it will make you want to chat with
others. According to yogic wisdom, the fifth chakra is an energy
center located at our throat which helps us speak the truth
clearly. Apple and fennel are plants said to strengthen this chakra.
porridge
1 c buckwheat groats
2 c water
1 tbsp apple cider vinegar
2 tbsp raisins
apple
small fennel bulb
1 tbsp maple syrup
1 tbsp maca
toppings
apple slices
fennel leaves
pumpkin seeds (soaked if possible)
maple syrup
maca
1. Soak the groats in water, then add the apple cider vinegar and
raisins. Cover with a cloth and let ferment for 2 days or
until you can see bubbles forming in the porridge. It should taste
more sour than on day one and be slightly prickly to the tongue.
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24.
Creativity
wanted to write this book to It was a very weird five years. I defi-
was my dream since forever, I decid- making a single piece of clothing fr.
ed against it. I did not want to spend
my time dissecting corpses and learn-
ing the disease alphabet after dealing
with the sickness of a loved one for so The reason I am sharing this piece of
long. I took some time off, and, out of my history is that when I look back on
nowhere, an urge to study fashion de- it, I can see it was five years of art
sign came over me. Growing up in Japan, therapy: struggling with food while
fashion was a part of me naturally, but making clothes for skinny models, deal-
I had never touched a sewing machine ing with creating your own female role
or designed clothes before. Nonethe- model while I had just lost mine, and
less, my gut told me very precisely to thinking about identity, not only as a
study fashion, so I convinced my father Japanese-German but as someone who had
I had changed my mind and off I went a hunch of life after death. I am not a
to the fashion department of the Berlin fashion designer today per se, although
art university. I enjoy making clothes occasionally for
friends, and there was a time I re-
gretted choosing to study fashion, but
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now I am very thankful for the time I
was granted to face these issues head
on through a creative process. I have
learned to create from scratch, which
applies to all forms of art, whether
dance, music, writing, or cooking.
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FLIRT Y FERTILIT Y COOKIES
We are all creative beings, unleashing our talents in many different
ways. Hazelnuts, peaches, and poppy seeds are called upon for
fertility <3 I want you to become pregnant with yourself and give
birth to a new you in the creative process, in whatever form it may
come to you.
cookies
1 c hazelnuts
5 dried peaches
pinch of salt
filling
c poppy seeds
lime juice & zest
1 tsp ginger
2 tbsp liquid sweetener
cookies
filling
1. In a food processor, combine all ingredients until you have a thick
paste, scraping the sides off occasionally.
Spread the filling onto one half of the cookie sheet and then cover
with the other half, pressing the layers together gently.
Then cut into bite size squares.
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Epilogue
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process. It opens itself up and re- towards true health of our bodies and
stores health in all aspects, and then our minds, everything else would fall
you even start to shine light on oth- into place effortlessly because beauty
ers around you. and bliss are our true nature.
I know it is not always easy to culti- As someone who was very extreme and
vate that light within you. We live in could only see in black and white, I
a society that profits from our self- always try to return to balance, espe-
hatred. Oversaturated markets try to cially paying attention to harmonize
push products onto us by creating a nature and culture within me. We are
need. They have to make us feel like human beings and we have the abili-
we are not just incomplete but use- ty to think and to be creative. This
less, to lure us into shopping. The does not mean we have risen above na-
more they can make us hate ourselves, ture but that we have a different way
the more product they can move: gosh of relating to it, apart from within.
look at your sagging skin, you need a When I cook/uncook (culture) plants
skin tightening lotion your hair is (nature), I try to stay within the
awfully thin, you need a volumizing realms of enhancing nature as opposed
shampoo those thighs are bigger than to overpowering it. Sometimes you
they should be, here is some ham made go overboard and make something su-
out of cardboard, it is fat-free. Most per fancy and sometimes you just bite
of these newly conceived needs are far- into a whole carrot balance is not
fetched and simply insulting. There is a rigid concept. I try to dance with
a tendency to demonize natural diver- the plants and sense the dance of the
sity and the process of aging to the plants on my plate, in my mouth, then
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Appendix
Cookbooks dedicated to bringing vegan and its depleted soils. We are what we
and raw vegan ways of cooking to the eat, after all. Mother Earth will thank
reader usually start with this section: you for your wise choice and her love
how to shop for produce, what cooking will flow back to you. If you go to your
tools to use, how to sprout These are local farmers market or co-op, you will
very important aspects if you want to see that they are invested in bringing
bring the recipes to life, but, when you organic choices at an affordable
I was obsessed with food in a rath- price too. So try it!
er unhealthy way, I tried to cling on
to these facts for security, instead
of relying on my eyes, nose, tongue,
and heart for a delicious meal. In
Salt
Salt used to be super rare and pre-
this book, I wanted to focus the at-
cious, but we can now produce it in-
tention on the flow if you will, on the
dustrially and what we call table salt
relationship between the lessons I have
today is basically a pure chemical
learned and the resulting recipes with-
(sodium chloride) mixed with iodine,
out getting hung up on details. Never-
bleach, and anti-cracking agents, mak-
theless, some things are good to know
ing it quite toxic to the body. I would
as a vegan and someone generally in-
advise using either Himalayan salt or
terested in a healthy body and spirit.
Celtic sea salt. They are both very
high in trace minerals and bring vari-
ous health benefits like regulating the
pH and balancing blood sugar. By un-
Organic cooking more and more foods, you will
You go to the supermarket and see the start to taste the plants as they are
same cucumber in two versions, one and the need for salt will diminish
conventional and the other organic. naturally. The other day, I was totally
Mothers Milks APPENDIX
The organic one is probably twice as wowed by how "salty" or high in sodium
expensive and you think to yourself, is celery naturally is!
it worth it? The answer is: Definitely
yes! Organic means that you not only
avoid all sorts of chemical pesticides,
fungicides, etc. and genetically modi- Sweeteners
fied strains but you are also choosing It is no news that sugar is bad for
produce with a much higher mineral, you, and especially refined white sugar
vitamin, and antioxidant content. In should be avoided at all times. Like
other words, they are way more nour- refined salt, it is void of any nutri-
ishing. If we want to regain health in tional value and even harmful to the
our bodies and minds, we cannot keep body. Everything that tastes sweet
on eating produce sick and tired from contains sugar, including fruits, and
conventional chemical-based agriculture dried fruits even more so. Then again,
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not all sugars are equally bad. The assimilate. Personally, I am a big fan
question is, how many trace minerals of the prickliness and strong ener-
can you get along with it and will your gy these cultured foods bring with the
blood sugar spike? The answer to "What acidic taste. You also feel like you
is the best sugar alternative?" keeps are "culturing" or raising the food,
changing all the time as new test giving you a lot of time to charge
results come in from the lab and new your batch of kimchi or sauerkraut
products hit the shelf. First it was with love. I had a lot of fun read-
agave syrup, then they found out that ing Wild Fermentation by Sandor Ellix
it is too high in fructose, then it was Katz. He just goes crazy and cultures
maple syrup until that one was too pro- everything. So be adventurous!
cessed. Coconut palm sugar has been on
the top of the list for a while, but it
is pretty expensive. Raw honey is an-
cient medicine and, when it comes to a Soaking & Sprouting
good balance between health benefit and As soon as you start cooking raw, you
sweetness, there is nothing better - will be faced with soaking and may-
but obviously it is not vegan. People be even sprouting. As a raw newbie
push stevia, but that stuff is just not I looked at some of the recipes and
yummy. I personally come back to maple thought: "But I want to make it now! I
syrup simply because it tastes so darn cannot wait for eight to twelve hours
good and I use it in moderation. This until the almonds are done, and what
is a real life decision now. You have for?!" Well, nuts and seeds are kind of
to find a balance between fact, budget, in a dormant state, they are waiting
taste and most importantly be at peace for spring to come so they can sprout
with your conscience. and flourish into a plant of their own.
They are being contained in their
little shell by certain enzyme in-
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make yourself by poking holes into the
lid of an empty jar) and bags. Sprouts
are packed with nutrients Cooking tools
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http://www.vegetar- and are very alkaliz- I was overwhelmed by the number of
iantimes.com/blog/
ing, in addition to be- machines I had to purchase when I got
how-to-soak-and-
sprout-nuts-seeds- ing home-grown food. They interested in raw foods, but it actu-
grains-and-beans/
are the first step you can ally makes a lot of sense. Normally,
take towards cultivating we process foods by heating them or we
your own produce it is like having a buy things that are already overly pro-
little garden in a jar!9 cessed and stick them in the microwave
to deplete them of nutrients further.
When you go vegan - whole food - raw-
ish, all you buy is fresh produce and
Soaking time (hours) nuts, seeds, and grains, which all come
in their original form. It is then up
Sprouting time (days) to you to do all the processing from
Almonds 8 12 3
zero and you have full control over it.
Adzuki Beans 8 12 4
You can of course just chew on raw veg-
Amaranth 8 13
etables and seeds and I respect people
Barley 6 2
who can just go totally wild and paleo,
Black Beans 8 12 3
but I like un-cooking and exploring new
Brazil Nuts 3 No Sprouting
flavors. So here are my favorite tools.
Buckwheat 6 23
Cashews 2-4 No Sprouting
Chickpeas 8 23
Flaxseeds No Sprouting Blender
Hazelnuts 8 -12 No Sprouting Blend fruits, you have a smoothie.
Lentils 7 23 Blend vegetables, you have a soup.
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metric system, are 1) 104-118 Fahr-
enheit is about 42-46 Celsius, the
Juicer threshold at which enzymes turn inac-
Makes all sorts of awesome juices, as tive, i.e. not raw any more. 2) A cup
the name says. You can even juice the holds, give or take, 240ml. I gradually
pineapple core, the watermelon rind switched to working with cups instead
and, if you get one of those super of grams as volumes are inherent-
pimp ones, you can even juice avocado ly more inaccurate. If you go online,
pits and whole grapes with seeds and you can find websites which try to pin-
get into all those essential oils. point exactly how many grams a sifted
as opposed to unsifted cup of white
flour is. This is still pretty inaccu-
rate as the density will fluctuate. Some
Dehydrator of you (whether familiar with cups or
I was a "lowest temperature, cracked
grams) might wonder: "What do you mean,
oven door" advocate, until I got my
a packed cup of basil? How packed?
first Excalibur Life is so much eas-
Packed how?" I like the margin of error
ier now. By dehydrating below 110-115
that comes with measuring in volume.
degrees you can make crackers, breads,
It makes you rely on your instinct and
granolas, etc. and preserve produce
common sense. It is a more laid back
without damaging the nutrients and en-
way of cooking and un-cooking. Buying a
zymes, but I know, chances are you are
small set of measuring cups and spoons
feeling overwhelmed by the sheer number
is one of the best things I have ever
of appliances on this list and want to
done. Again, you might ask, US cups or
forgo as many as possible for now. I
UK cups, and my answer is: It reaaaaal-
get it. Do not make any recipes that
ly doesn't matter :)
require dehydration awhile or use the
oven as long as you feel comfortable.
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Imprint
Copyright 2015 Mina Fuhr
Photographs 2015 Mina Fuhr
www.lamaisonrose.org
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