Make A Commitment To Yourself

Download as docx, pdf, or txt
Download as docx, pdf, or txt
You are on page 1of 5

Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments; but let

us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures. ~ Joseph Addison
What if one day you woke up and decided that you were tired of feeling tired and that you had
enough of everything? Enough of stress and anxiety, enough of anger and resentment, enough of
struggle, lack, pain and poverty, enough of tears, heartbreaks, self destructive thoughts,
behaviors and relationships and enough of all that is negative and toxic? What if you decided that
you wanted to change yourself and your life but didnt know where exactly to start, what then?
There are many things you can do to begin rebuilding your life and make it ridiculously amazing
and today I will share with you 12 things that are meant to help you do just that. Are you
ready? Lets begin:

1. Make a commitment to yourself


I (name),
Make a commitment to myself,
To spend so much time improving myself and my life that I have no time for worry, judgement,
criticism, whining and complaining;
To forgive, release and let go of my attachment to any past struggles and allow every challenge
life sends my way to make me better not bitter.
Starting now, I make a commitment to let go of whats behind me and start appreciating whats
in front of me;
To let go of all the pointless drama, all the toxic relationships, thoughts and behaviors that are
present in my life and to constantly shift my focus from the bad on to the good;
To make room in my heart for love, happiness, peace and tranquility and to create my life from a
place of infinite choices and possibilities the present moment, and no longer from a place of
limitations the past.
I commit to staying true to myself at all times and to never betray myself just so I can please
other people.
I commit myself to give up on toxic thought, behaviors and relationships but never on myself and
my dreams.
Starting now and starting today, I will begin rebuilding my life and to make it ridiculously
amazing.
Sincerely,
(name)

Once you truly commit to rebuilding your life and making it ridiculously amazing, nothing and
no one will be able to stand in your way.

2. Forgive, release and let go of past hurts and resentments


Fill your heart with love. Forgive, release and let go. Not necessary because those who
mistreated you deserve it, but because you do. Let forgiveness liberate you from your past.
Allow it to take away all the resentment you kept in heart for all this time and allow yourself to
fill in that empty space with love, inner peace and compassion.
If others mistreated you in the past it doesnt mean you have to continue their work. Look how
beautiful Mark Twain talks about this: Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in
which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.
Release and let go of all the negativity from your life. Start small and trust that as you work on
letting go of all the extra baggage that is weighting you down, you will begin to feel lighter
and you will gain a lot more clarity over your life. You will feel happier and more at peace with
yourself and the world around you.

3. Embrace with grace all that you face


Shift your focus from the bad on to the good, from the pain on to the gain, from resentment on to
the forgiveness, gratitude and appreciation. Learn to embrace with grace all that you face.
Appreciate everything life sends your way, whether good or bad and know that Gratitude makes
sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. ~ Melody Beattie

4. Visualize your achievements and create your destiny


Ask yourself the same question I asked myself a few years ago when I decided to let go of my
attachment to my past and begin rebuild my whole life: If there were no limits to what I can do,
be and have, how would my life look like?
Let your imagination run wild. Dare to dream big. Dont settle for less than you are worth.
The richer your imagination, the more beautiful your life will be.
The power of imagination is incredible. Often we see athletes achieving unbelievable results
and wonder how they did it. One of the tools they use is visualization or mental imagery they
made the choice to create their destinies and visualized their achievements before they ultimately
succeeded. ~ George Kohlrieser
See in your minds eye the life you would love to live, the person you would love to become and
the relationships you would want to have. Live your life from the end and act as if all of the
things you need and desire are already present in your life. Feel the feelings that come from

having all those wonderful things happen to you and allow those feelings to be with you at all
times.

5. Dreams wont work unless you do


Act upon your hearts desire. Do the things you need to do in order to get where you want to get.
Read the books you need to read, contact the people you need to contact, build the skills you
need to build.
Find a mentor. Dare to ask questions. Do whatever it takes to move yourself closer to making
your dreams come true.
Trust that with every step you take, your life situation will improve and you will become even
more happier than you already are.

6. Take one step at a time


Because of the many years of past conditioning and the intense training you have in holding on
to toxic thoughts, behaviors and unhealthy relationships, giving up on all that is toxic in your life
wont be easy and it wont happen overnight. Chances are that you wont see major
improvements in your life immediately, and thats okay. Be patient and gentle with yourself
while working on rebuilding your life and remember to enjoy the journey.
Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing
it. ~ Greg Anderson
Take one step at a time and keep in mind that a journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step.

7. Develop a deep trust in life


You have to have faith. You have to have trust Trust in yourself, trust in the people you
interact with and trust in life.
Put your fears aside. Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Develop a deep trust in the wisdom of
life. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain,
Move from here to there, and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you. ~ Matthew
17:20

8. Give yourself permission to fail


Give yourself permission to fail and make mistakes.
Trust me when I tell you that in every mistake there is a lesson to learn, lesson that will be
very beneficial to you as you continue walking on your lifes chosen path.

There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are
necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, theyre necessary to
reach the places weve chosen to go. ~ Richard Bach

9. Be good to yourself
Love yourself and be good to yourself because if you do, the world around you will start
mirroring your behavior. Take good care of your mind, body, heart and soul. Exercise, drink
plenty of water, eat healthy and delicious food.
Nurture good thoughts. Act in compassionate and loving ways, towards yourself and the world
around you. Spend time alone, spending at least 5 to 10 minutes per day in silence would make
you help make you feel refreshed, rejuvenated and renewed.
Go outside. Spend some time in nature. Look at the plants, the sky, the stars, the moon and the
trees. Celebrate the miracle of life.
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as
though everything is a miracle. ~ Albert Einstein

10. Give up living your life to other peoples expectations


Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to
what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is
best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the
media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy
with pleasing everybody, with living up to other peoples expectations, that they lose control
over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need.and
eventually they forget about themselves.
Never get your sense of worth from outside yourself. Your worth comes from inside yourself
and not from forces outside yourself people, events, material possessions. Dont ever let other
people tell you how much youre worth, decide for yourself. Its called self worth not others
worth.
You have one life this one right now you must live it, own it, and especially dont let other
peoples opinions distract you from your path.

11. Discipline your mind to stay present in the NOW


Learn to be present and engaged in the present moment. Be happy with what you have, what you
know and who you are right now. Dont allow your mind to trick you into thinking that you
wont be happy until you get where you want to get.

Appreciate whats in front of you. If you learn how to be present and engaged in the NOW, you
will live a very happy and content life and no matter how many challenges life will send your
way, you will become a better not bitter person.
As soon as you honor the present moment, all unhappiness and struggle dissolve, and life
begins to flow with joy and ease. When you act out the present-moment awareness, whatever
you do becomes imbued with a sense of quality, care, and love even the most simple action. ~
Eckhart Tolle,

12. Surround yourself with loving and supportive people


Surround yourself with positive, cheerful, supportive and loving people. People who can lift you
up when you are feeling down; people who will turn on the light for you when you are in the
dark; people who can see you for what you truly are and who you can truly become. Take the
advice of Mark Twain and Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small
people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.
You need positive and loving friends who will support you in your new way of life
Commit yourself to making the best of everything life sends your way. Be soft and flexible. Go
with the flow of life and no longer against it.
Enjoy the ride and no matter what happens to you and no matter how many challenges and
difficult people life might send your way, know that they are all there to help you grow and
evolve into the beautiful being you so much want and deserve to be.
You only have one life to live. Make it a memorable one.
Give up on all the toxicity present in your life but never on yourself and your dreams, ok?
The road of life twists and turns and no two directions are ever the same. Yet our lessons come
from the journey, not the destination. ~ Don Williams Jr.
How do you envision your ideal self? What about your ideal life? What steps could you take this
week to move yourself closer to building your ideal self and living your ideal life? I really want
to know what are your thoughts on this. You can share your insights by joining the conversation
in the comment section below

You might also like