Disorders (ADD & ADHD) Y our child never seems to listen to what you say. His homework is never finished. He forgets things. His teacher tells you that he is easily distracted in class. He often cant remain in his seat. Do these descriptions sound familiar? These may be signs of an attention deficit disorder. Teachers know that many students have difficulty with school work because they have trouble paying attention. Now, research can tell us why. Experts say that 20 per- cent of the population may have attention problems that are known as attention deficit disorder (ADD) and attention deficit disorder with hyper-activity (ADHD). What are these learning disabilities? What can parents do if they suspect their child has ADD or ADHD? Here are some helpful facts about attention deficit disorders and suggestions for helping your child. What are the signs of ADD & ADHD? At one time or another, all children have trouble paying attention. But when children are consis- tently unable to pay attention over a long period of time, they may have ADD. If they also fidget and are in constant motion, they may have ADHD. A child with attention problems: Often fidgets with hands or feet. Often squirms in seat. Cant stay seated. Has difficulty waiting turns in group situations. Often blurts out answers to questions before they have been completed. Doesnt listen well. Has trouble following instructionsespecially complex instructions. Is easily distracted. Shifts quickly from one activity to another. Has difficulty playing quietly. Often talks excessively. Often interrupts others. Often loses things necessary for activities at home or at school. Engages in activities without thinking of the consequences. What If I Suspect My Child Has ADD or ADHD? Neither parents nor teachers can diagnose ADD or ADHD by them- selves. If you sus- pect your child has an attention disorder, have a doctor examine her. This can rule out other physical problems that show similar symptoms. The school counselor, a child psychologist or psychiatrist, or other medical professionals may also be helpful. If your child is diagnosed with ADD or ADHD, your doctor and the school staff can give you suggestions for ways you can help your child at home. Long-term treatment to meet a childs medical and emotional needs is often required. Some doctors may recom- mend using medications as one part of the treatment. The important thing to remember is that thousands of parents have learned how to help their children cope with ADD and ADHD. Downloaded by 75.147.12.51 on January 09, 2014 at 11:48 Highgate Elementary School Highgate Center, Vermont You Can Help Your Child With ADD and ADHD What can you do if your child is diagnosed with ADD or ADHD? Here are some suggestions: Get support. Join a local group of parents who have children with ADD or ADHD. Take parenting classes on behavior management. Face the facts. Accept the idea that it is hard for your child to concentrate. Drop the scolding and nagging. They wont help your child. Encourage physical activity. Many children with ADD or ADHD need outlets for their energy. Be encouraging. Children with these disorders need extra support. Boost your childs self-esteem. Focus on your childs strengths. Encourage involve- ment in activities where he can excel. Foster responsibility. Establish rewards and consequences for good and poor behavior. Use consequences as quickly as possible. Reward your child with some one-on one time with you or a special snack Provide structure. ADD and ADHD chil- dren need goals and family rules. Routines for things like homework and bedtime can make your childs life easier. Discuss changes. Changes in routines are hard for most kids. They are a special challenge for children with ADD and ADHD. If you must change a routine, give your child plenty of warning. Minimize distractions. If your child needs to work alone, provide a quiet, uncluttered place for study. See if your child can use a computer if written assignments are difficult for him. This will make editing and proofreading much easier. Put sticky notes inside your childs note- book: Write down assignments. Bring all books home. Fortunately Today We Are Wiser About ADD & ADHD For many years teachers and parents alike thought some children didnt pay attention and do well in school because they just didnt want to. Now we know that in many cases children dont pay attention because they simply cant. Once a child has been diagnosed with attention problems, parents and teachers can take steps at home and at school to help the child succeed. And, the very best approach is for parents and schools to work together. One of a series of QuickTips
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