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Lecture 3

COMMUNICATION STYLE

11 COMMUNICATION STYLE
Each of us has a communication style or social
style that is identifiable by habitual ways in
which we behave toward others. The style we
adopt helps others interpret our messages.
Communication style your consistent way of
relating to others based upon your personality,
self concept and self esteem.
As they get to know you, other people begin to
expect you to behave in certain way, based
upon previous associations with you.

Robert Norton has identified these variables


that explained communication style were:
animated, attentive, contentious, dramatic,
dominant, friendly, open, relaxed, precise,
impression-leaving, and lastly communicator
image.
In reality most of us use several of these
communication style, depending upon the
situation; we do, however, develop a style
profile that includes two or more related styles.

Animated: This attribute refers to how


nonverbally active a person is as a
communicator. A person who actively uses facial
expressions and physical gestures is animated. A
person whose eyes tend to reflect a great deal of
what they are feeling is animated.
Attentive: This attribute refers to how alert a
person is as a communicator. An attentive
communicator tends to be encouraging to
others, listening carefully to what they have to
say. Such a person deliberately reacts in such a
way that people know they are being listened to.
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Contentious: This attribute refers to a person who


constantly quarrels and disputes with others. Such a
person may be thought of as belligerent and the cause of
much interpersonal unrest.
Dramatic: This attribute refers to how verbally alive a
person is. A person whose speech tends to be very
picturesque is dramatic; a person who frequently
exaggerates to emphasize a point is dramatic; a person
who vocally acts out what is being communicated is
dramatic.
Dominant: This attribute refers to the tendency to come
on strong in most social situations. A person who takes
charge of things when with others is dominant; a person
who generally speaks very frequently in social situations is
dominant.
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Friendly: This attribute refers to a person who


usually demonstrates kindly interest and goodwill
toward others. This person is seldom hostile
towards others and is usually regarded with high
esteem by others.
Open: This attribute refers to how self-disclosing
a person is as a communicator. A person who
readily reveals personal things or openly
expresses feelings and emotions is an open
communicator; when other people generally know
the persons emotional state even if the person
does not say anything, the person is open.
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Relaxed: This attribute refers to how much at


ease a communicator appears to be. A person
who is not conscious of any nervous mannerisms
in his speech is relaxed; a person who is calm
and collected when talking is relaxed; a person
whose rhythm or flow of speech is not affected by
nervousness is relaxed.
Precise: When the precise communicator argues
with others, he or she expects that all of the
disputants will define their terms precisely, make
accurate claims, and provide evidence in support
of their claims.
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Impression-Leaving: This attribute refers to how


affecting a person is as a communicator. What this
person says as well as how he says it often leaves an
impression. If people react to this person when they
first meet and tend to remember him, this person is
impression-leaving.
Communicator Image: This attribute refers to how
good a communicator a person is. If a person finds it
easy to talk on a one-to-one basis or in small groups
with strangers, he has a good communicator image.
A person who finds it easy to maintain a
conversation with a member of the opposite sex has
a good communicator image.
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