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Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont by Elizabeth Taylor
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Many of us have heard that Bette Davis quote “Old age is not for Sissies,” pointing out that aging is not a straightforward journey. It requires a willingness and ability to acknowledge the inevitable challenges of advancing years and to change with the circumstances.

Taylor's last novel, Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont is an exquisitely written story of the narrowing of life as one ages. I am thoroughly impressed with the writing. Each word, each paragraph, each scene is masterfully put together and layered into a complete picture. She has enough humor in her tale to keep me from drowning in a morass of sadness.

I appreciate how Taylor sketches out all of her characters: the absurd Mr. Osmond, scribbling reactionary letters to newspapers; the jolly drunk Mrs. Burton, pressing the bell for whiskey; the domineering Mrs. Arbuthnot, who spitefully condoles Mrs. Palfrey when she has no visitors. I see how each character deals with their fear, their loneliness and their disappointments in life. Taylor is sympathetic with the different ways in which the Claremont's residents respond to loneliness, financial worries, and failing health and captures their foibles and fascination with other people’s lives.

Mrs. Palfrey handles her feelings a bit differently. I appreciate how she accepts the reality of her life--that her beloved husband has passed away, that she doesn't have a meaningful relationship with her only child or her grandson, that she isn't wealthy and that she does have enough means to get by at the Claremont, and that for now she is physically strong enough to get out and about.

I love her connection with Ludo, my other favorite character here, how they come to be friends and truly care for each other, and their abilities to fill a void in each other's lives. I value that this young man can see beneath the wrinkles and the gray hair to the intelligent, caring woman that Mrs. Palfrey is. What a loss for Mrs. Palfrey's family to not really know her!

Just a sample of Taylor's prose and a peek into Mrs. Palfrey's mind and heart:

"Mrs. Palfrey lay and listened to the murmur of a married couple in the next room. it was unrhythmical and intermittent, an exchange grown casual and homely over the years. She knew--looking back--how precious it could be, though not valued at the time. His low voice sometimes ran along with her lighter, more floating one, speaking at the same time, and then for minutes they fell silent, moved about the room, opened and shut drawers: things were put down, dropped; furniture pushed about. The two were settling in for the night peaceable, and at their accustomed pace; and Mrs. Palfrey, hearing them, felt lulled and comforted."

This quote taken from the Booker Prize's website sums up this novel perfectly: "Elizabeth Taylor’s ruthlessly observant study of eccentricity in old age is by turns savagely witty, joyfully funny and heartbreakingly sad."

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Publication 1971

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Reading Progress

August 26, 2021 – Shelved
August 26, 2021 – Shelved as: to-read
September 28, 2023 – Started Reading
September 28, 2023 – Shelved as: 2023
October 3, 2023 – Finished Reading
October 4, 2023 –
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October 5, 2023 – Shelved as: favorites

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message 1: by Karen (new) - added it

Karen On my list! Glad to see all the stars!
Lovely review, Lisa!


Lisa Karen wrote: "On my list! Glad to see all the stars!
Lovely review, Lisa!"


Thank you, Karen. I don't think you'll be disappointed.


message 3: by Barbara K (new) - added it

Barbara K Lovely review, Lisa, of what sounds like a lovely book. Aging is a funny thing; you go along thinking that you are just a slightly older version of the person you always were, and then one day you realize that you've passed some threshold into being old.


Margaret M - (having a challenging time and on GR as much as I can) I am glad you enjoyed this. Wonderful review Lisa 💖


message 5: by Bonnie G. (new)

Bonnie G. This has been on the very top of my physical book pile for months and I will definitely get to it soon. Julie and Robin said such good things about the book and the addition of your excellent review to those accolades was heartening.


Antoinette I am thrilled to see how much this novel meant to you. It still remains my favourite of the 4 novels I have read by Taylor. Maybe it’s because I am aging as well and the anxieties of aging are so well depicted in this novel. Wonderful review, Lisa!


message 7: by Canadian Jen (new)

Canadian Jen Lovely review, Lisa. It's wonderful when you can connect with the characters. I haven't heard of this author so I may need to check her out!


Lisa Barbara K. wrote: "Lovely review, Lisa, of what sounds like a lovely book. Aging is a funny thing; you go along thinking that you are just a slightly older version of the person you always were, and then one day you ..."

What a well put observation. I have seen that with my elders, and am beginning to feel it myself. I am 61 and am noticing changes in how I am treated by young people.


Lisa Margaret M - (Semi-hiatus - wrote: "I am glad you enjoyed this. Wonderful review Lisa 💖"

Thank you, Margaret. I am happy to see that you loved this one too. I think Taylor is a phenomenal writer and hope to get to more of her work down the road.


message 10: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Bonnie G. wrote: "This has been on the very top of my physical book pile for months and I will definitely get to it soon. Julie and Robin said such good things about the book and the addition of your excellent revie..."

Just know that despite a lot of humor, Taylor gives the reader a no holds barred look at old age. I do agree with Julie and Robin that this is a must read.


message 11: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Antoinette wrote: "I am thrilled to see how much this novel meant to you. It still remains my favourite of the 4 novels I have read by Taylor. Maybe it’s because I am aging as well and the anxieties of aging are so w..."

Antoinette, if her other novels have this same level of writing I will be adding her to my list of favorite authors.


message 12: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Jen CAN wrote: "Lovely review, Lisa. It's wonderful when you can connect with the characters. I haven't heard of this author so I may need to check her out!"

Jen, spring chicken that you are, you may not totally resonate with the aging of these characters; and you are sure to love Taylor's characterization and writing which are extraordinary.


message 13: by Candi (new) - added it

Candi I'm already a Taylor fan, so I assume this will be a guaranteed win for me. She really gets to the heart of things and I love how she examines a myriad of characters without seeming judgmental. You've written a wonderful review and I hope you continue to enjoy your Taylor journey, Lisa!


Jeannie Awesome review! I’m so glad we read this together.


Left Coast Justin Ouch. Some things about the future I'd prefer not to know about. But you have a fine ear for good writing and I'm glad you found this book.


message 16: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Candi wrote: "I'm already a Taylor fan, so I assume this will be a guaranteed win for me. She really gets to the heart of things and I love how she examines a myriad of characters without seeming judgmental. You..."

Candi, if you are already a Taylor fan I don't see how you can fail to love this novel. If the rest of her work is even near as good I'll put her up with Elizabeth Strout as writing goddess.


message 17: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Jeannie wrote: "Awesome review! I’m so glad we read this together."

Jeannie, thanks for going on this reading adventure with me. Have your thoughts about it settled out any a few days post reading?


message 18: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Left Coast Justin wrote: "Ouch. Some things about the future I'd prefer not to know about. But you have a fine ear for good writing and I'm glad you found this book."

Justin, I have no sentimentality around aging. I've seen the pitfalls close up throughout my entire life. I've also seen more of my loved ones move through these years with grace and dignity than anger and resentment. I think one of the keys is that they are loved ones and are honored for their ongoing contributions to others. They get support so they can retain purpose.


message 19: by K (new)

K Wonderful review! I recently found this one at my local used book store. Your review has bumped it up in my literary queue. This will be my introduction to the writing of Elizabeth Taylor.


message 20: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa K wrote: "Wonderful review! I recently found this one at my local used book store. Your review has bumped it up in my literary queue. This will be my introduction to the writing of [author:Elizabeth Taylor|5..."

K, it's my introduction to her writing, and I will seek out more in the future. I hope you fall for her too.


message 21: by Fionnuala (new) - added it

Fionnuala Great to see your appreciation for the fine writing here, Lisa.
Thanks for reminding me of the various characters and their personalities. Isn't it interesting that there was a character called Burton in this book by Elizabeth Taylor;-)


Left Coast Justin She knew--looking back--how precious it could be, though not valued at the time.

Now there's a sentence for the ages! I'll make an effort to be more appreciative of the everyday small pleasures in life.


message 23: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Carol wrote: "Wonderful review, Lisa 💖!!!! I am so happy this was a five star read for you."

Thank you, Carol. This novel is a stunner!


message 24: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Fionnuala wrote: "Great to see your appreciation for the fine writing here, Lisa.
Thanks for reminding me of the various characters and their personalities. Isn't it interesting that there was a character called Bu..."


Yes, I think this choice was purposeful; Taylor has a sly sense of humor. And she snuck in the name Elizabeth (her daughter) as well as Mrs. Taylor (the librarian). I chuckled at all three.


message 25: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Left Coast Justin wrote: "She knew--looking back--how precious it could be, though not valued at the time.

Now there's a sentence for the ages! I'll make an effort to be more appreciative of the everyday small pleasures in..."


Justin, I think we can all use this reminder over and over again.


message 26: by Violeta (new) - added it

Violeta A very fine review, Lisa. I keep shying away from this book, despite the appreciative reactions of trusted, discerning readers such as yourself. I'm not yet comfortable with the "narrowing of life", however much humor lies in the descriptions of the eccentricities of old age. That Ludo fellow sounds like the perfect octogenarian's fantasy; perhaps he will be enough of an incentive, one day.


message 27: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Violeta wrote: "A very fine review, Lisa. I keep shying away from this book, despite the appreciative reactions of trusted, discerning readers such as yourself. I'm not yet comfortable with the "narrowing of life"..."

Violeta, this work will still be around if/when you decide it's time for you to get acquainted. In the meantime, it looks like Taylor was a prolific writer so you have many other options if you want to sample her writing. This is my first, and I know other GR friends have reviews of other novels.


Jennifer Welsh I love this review, Lisa! You really captured how much heart and sympathy it had, while also acknowledging the painful inevitability. Their relationship was dynamic, wasn’t it, Ludo and Palfrey? Im so glad you loved it


message 29: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Jennifer wrote: "I love this review, Lisa! You really captured how much heart and sympathy it had, while also acknowledging the painful inevitability. Their relationship was dynamic, wasn’t it, Ludo and Palfrey? Im..."

Ludo and Mrs. P were lucky to have Ms. Taylor to engineer their meeting. This is such a wonderful book full of heart and love as well as of pain and disappointment.


Lori  Keeton Brilliant review, Lisa! I'm so glad this one popped up in my feed just now perked up my spirits. I adored Mrs. Palfrey and Ludo for all the same reasons and Taylor's astute way about her prose to get her readers so involved in their lives kept me turning pages! So happy you loved it. I'm not a bit surprised!


Lesle Beautifully written Lisa! I so enjoyed this work of Ms Taylor and loved the relationship between Ludo and Mrs Palfrey. The story is unique. Happy I found her this year!


message 32: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Lori wrote: "Brilliant review, Lisa! I'm so glad this one popped up in my feed just now perked up my spirits. I adored Mrs. Palfrey and Ludo for all the same reasons and Taylor's astute way about her prose to g..."

She really does grab the reader and keep her engaged. This novel touched me deeply. And I'm happy to share a love of this one with you. Thank you, Lori, for the kind words.


message 33: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Lesle wrote: "Beautifully written Lisa! I so enjoyed this work of Ms Taylor and loved the relationship between Ludo and Mrs Palfrey. The story is unique. Happy I found her this year!"

Lesle, I agree that there's not a lot out there like this one. I'm so glad I had several GR friends point me here. I'm glad you found Taylor too!


Laysee Lisa, I am so glad I read this marvelous review a few weeks after you posted it. Like you, I appreciated the humor that Taylor infused into this sad story. She kept it real and light, and allowed us to empathize with Mrs Palfrey and fellow residents at the Claremont.


message 35: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Laysee wrote: "Lisa, I am so glad I read this marvelous review a few weeks after you posted it. Like you, I appreciated the humor that Taylor infused into this sad story. She kept it real and light, and allowed u..."

Thank you, Laysee. Taylor is such a gifted writer; it's a shame so few people know of her. I appreciate stories about elders that are not sappy or sentimental. "Real and light" is a perfect way to describe Taylor's style here.


message 36: by Kate (new) - added it

Kate I had no idea this was a book. I have the movie on DVD and it is one of my favorites. Joan Plowright and Rupert Friend are wonderful in it. I'll have to read the book!


message 37: by Lisa (new) - rated it 5 stars

Lisa Kate wrote: "I had no idea this was a book. I have the movie on DVD and it is one of my favorites. Joan Plowright and Rupert Friend are wonderful in it. I'll have to read the book!"

Kate, I haven't seen the movie. I can say that I am definitely a fan of this novel! I can't imagine that you'll be disappointed.


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