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A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini
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It was a warm, sunny day in Montenegro and I was about to set out on a boat trip. I felt certain that a combination of sightseeing and the people I was with would keep me from having much time to read, but I packed a book anyway just in case there was time for a chapter or two in between stops.

A Thousand Splendid Suns happened to be that book. And at the end of the day, when I staggered off that boat, blinking at my sudden exposure to reality, it wasn't because I'd been mesmerised by the stunning architecture and history lessons, no, it was because Hosseini stomped all over my heart. I'm not even sure how I found enough hours in the day to take a boat trip around Montenegro and read this entire novel, but somehow I finished this in the few hours I had... simply because I had to.

My initial reaction was a furious, teary promise to myself that I would have to give this book five stars - I think it's impossible for the mind to win a battle with the heart in that level of heat, especially when you're used to English weather. But afterwards, I managed to reclaim some of my sense and sanity, which is when I finally began to acknowledge this book's limitations.

For one thing, I think it's extremely generous to place this book in the "literary fiction" category. I am certainly no book snob (give me a delicious page-turner over some pretentious waffle any day) but I find myself comparing A Thousand Splendid Suns to another book about a country and culture I was only vaguely familiar with - The Poisonwood Bible - a book which I also read on my trip. The latter is a far more complex, ambitious work that brings something which, to me, felt entirely fresh and original. Hosseini's story, on the other hand, is not groundbreaking and I recognise many of the scenes and characters from other books.

What it is, however, is incredibly emotional, sad, uplifting, infuriating and memorable. It's lessons on the history of Afghanistan and the rise of the Taliban might be basic but they are nothing if not compelling. I came away feeling like I learned something. What I did learn was truly horrifying, it painted details into the very vague images I already had in my mind that I had gotten from various British newspapers. But I also really liked the affection for his birth country that shines through Hosseini's story; his faith in the ultimate goodness of these people who witnessed society and order crumbling around them.

The ultimate tragedy of this story, for me, is how everything could have been very different for Mariam and Laila if people had just acted a little faster, stopped worrying about their pride a little earlier, and trusted a little more. I really liked the range of emotions both women experienced and they way the author showed this. I know some readers thought it was wrong for Mariam to be jealous of Laila at first, but I actually really liked the complexity. Rasheed may be a bastard but he was the only thing in the world that she had at that point, and on some level it made sense to me that she would want to claim him for herself.

While I believe Mariam and Laila experienced complex emotions and were well-developed, Rasheed did not get the same treatment - a fact which I'm torn about. On the one hand, I think Rasheed would have been a better character if he'd been developed beyond him being the most villainous villain in all villaindom. On the other hand, I think Rasheed's evil personality offers an important distinction between him and Jalil (and the other men), one which is needed in a book that looks at the cruelties women suffer at the hands of men.

The difference between Rasheed and Jalil is important. The latter is a man who acts badly because his behaviour is shaped by the society he lives in. Rasheed, on the other hand, is a mean and violent brute who completely abuses the power handed to him as a man in this society. These differences between Rasheed, Jalil and the other men (Tariq, Laila's dad, etc.) show there is not one type of man in this society, that wife-beating is not simply a part of the culture, that even in a patriarchal society you can choose what type of man you want to be.

I admit this is far from a perfect book, but it is a good book. It's a book that seems to swallow you whole but spit you back out in pieces. And, just to mention, I keep intending to read The Kite Runner again because I think studying it at school ruined it for me, but so far, I much prefer A Thousand Splendid Suns.
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August 29, 2012 – Shelved
July 29, 2013 – Started Reading
July 30, 2013 – Finished Reading

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Emily May Have you read his latest book? I'm considering buying it.


Dear Faye Glad to see such a positive feedback from you, Emily! Read this one when I was still a teenager, and I was a sobbing mess. It was just so raw and emotional. I don't think I'll ever read it again, though. And I'm not ready for a similar book, even after years of finishing it. It's too much!


Rihab Sebaaly I like your review . I've read the latest book by Hosseini and It's somehow different from his other 2 novels... far deep, far clever :)


Stuti Rai Welcome back, Emily! I hope this book didn't ruin your trip; it ruined my last summer. On another note, don't read and the mountains echoed so soon after this one. I'm reading that one and it's... tough.


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Amy Good review ....i loved this book , i also liked the kite runner


Emily May Thanks everyone!

@Stuti Hmm, tough how?


Stuti Rai I read about 25% a few days ago and now I've been filling up my time since with a bit of My Little Pony.


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Leonard Thank you for the great review. I am definitely interested in reading this novel.


Jeann (Happy Indulgence) Excellent review! This is one of my all time favourite books.


Jocelyne Lebon Great review, Emily.I liked this novel a lot too.


Emily May Thanks Leonard, Jeann and Jocelyne :)


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Dafer Alsubaie Thank you, Emily for this amazing review. I will add this novel in my reading list.


Emily May No problem, Dafer, hope you enjoy it!


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s.penkevich Welcome back! And a great review to return on.


Emily May Thanks! :D


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Joanette I was considering reading this book a while ago, I was adviced not to read it by a friend. I am now, however, going to read it for certain, great review!


Emily May Thanks, Joanette! Hope it's as powerful for you as it was for me :)


message 18: by Mary (new) - rated it 4 stars

Mary Rather than just a thumbs up, I wanted to say that I loved your review. I just finished this book today and wanted to do a sort of book club by reading other's reviews. You were so spot on in many aspects of how I felt about this book.


Alexandra This: "The difference between Rasheed and Jalil is important, the latter is a man who acts badly because his behaviour is shaped by the society he lives in and, because of that, he lets Mariam down when she needs him most. Rasheed, on the other hand, is a mean and violent brute who completely abuses the power handed to him as a man in this society. These differences between Rasheed, Jalil and the other men (Tariq, Laila's dad, etc.) show there is not one type of man in this society, that wife-beating is not simply a part of the culture, that even in a patriarchal society you can choose what type of man you want to be." x 1000. Loved your review!


Kailey Having read all of Hosseini's books, this one was my favorite. As for Rasheed, he may not have experienced any character development, but I thought he was (unfortunately) rather realistic; men like him don't change in most circumstances. They are set in their ways and the abuse, whether intentional or not, is second nature. It doesn't make for a very interesting or round character, sure, but then again, some human beings don't have very complex personalities.

Great review, I enjoy following you and seeing what you think of different books. :)


Kashmula @emilymay how can you not rate it 5 stars!! Get your points tho.. as always your reviews r awesome :-)


Arshia Good review Emily. I've read the book 'And the mountains echoed' by Hossieni, but I found it a little superficial unlike this one. There were just too many characters which I could not connect with and it kinda diluted the main story for me.


( ͡❛ _⦣ ͡❛) I agree with you on being iffy about calling his books literary fiction... I've read them all, and Mountains is by far his best. Kite and Suns I felt were political versions of light entertainment reads - I cried, I five starred them, and I strive to be a writer half as good as him BUT I really got the sense that Kite and Suns were written to raise awareness, to write other people's stories, not out of a desire he had to tell a particular story he was stricken with. I only got that feeling in Mountains. I thought that book WAS a book that I could study and delve deeper into, read once for pleasure ( I LOVED it ) and again to study his art. This book in particular was worse than Kite in its depth- in Kite they move to the US but the MC still has to tie the loose ends of his home life. Here, Laila is unhappy in Pakistan and moves back to Afghanistan- the depth was there, after all it was a bold move I felt to have her make a career choice and move to a country where the book's audience would automatically think it was a viable option, but he didn't go there. Killing off Mariam - the old, uneducated village woman - and bringing Laila back made the comment of a new changing Afghanistan. But he didn't go there, either. It was like glimpses of ocean floor on a boat. I could see the depth and complexity but we didn't go there.


Emily May Andres wrote: "Hey Em, great review. Is this a book where two seperare storylines collide?"

Thank you. It is a little like that at first, but the two stories collide fairly early.


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William What a wonderful review, Thank you. Misty here just from your review. So much cruelty in the world, mostly by men. “The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs.” - Charles de Gaulle


message 26: by Meg (new)

Meg After reading this book, I was so disappointed in muslims. I blamed my own religion, Islam. I even contemplated removing my hijab, anything to rebel against the disgusting misogynists. I thought I was supporting them by wearing my hijab, by covering myself. Your review, however, Im very grateful for. You brought light onto the way that the book paints the different types of men in Afghanistan, something that completely crossed my mind. And now Ik that not only Rasheed but Hakim, Tarik's father, Mullah faizullah, all believed in Islam.


message 27: by William (last edited Apr 12, 2018 05:14AM) (new)

William Testosterone is the root of 90% of the problems with the world today.

Human testosterone was a drug for survival 50,000 years ago. It's a poison to the planet today.

All men, everywhere in every race and culture and religion.

Think of the Hijab as a shield from them, if you like.

... in my rarely humble opinion ...


Zaharia Ionut Alexandru I love you!


message 29: by via. (new) - rated it 5 stars

via. Emily! This is one of my favorite books and I'm so glad you ended up liking it! 💕


message 30: by Alka (new) - rated it 5 stars

Alka Joshi I really liked your review. Took me to the boat and your fascination with Hosseini's book. :-)


Sarthak Raghav Great review but I still don't agree with Mariam's jealousy. I don't know why. Jalil and Mariam's story was so nicely written and it was so emotional all along, Jalil running behind the bus, waiting for Mariam for the whole day and then that letter which made me think that there was nothing else left in the story I cared about anymore.

And as for it being better than the Kite Runner. I don't agree, both books are although in the same setting, they are a lot different yet equally emotional.

All the sadness and pain in this book cannot match that one scene where Hassan is being abused and Amir just stands. I cannot close my eyes after I think about this because I am too afraid as to what I will picture

Nice review but comparing the two books isn't right.


message 32: by Dina (new) - rated it 5 stars

Dina As a person living in the MENA region, I met a lot of men who are like Rasheed. Hosseini’s portrayal of Rasheed is somehow realistic. I have salafi relatives who are like Rasheed. They’re so two-dimensional and selfish. They make their wives wear burqa/niqab like Rasheed. But, it’s not religion, it’s more of the tribal customs.


Masfia Jannat Such a good review! Especially the bit about distinction of men in a patriarchal society.


Emily May Masfia wrote: "Such a good review! Especially the bit about distinction of men in a patriarchal society."

Thank you, Masfia! :)


Muhamad hiballah Wow


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