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Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides
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it was amazing
bookshelves: novels, american-21st-c, pulitzer-fiction, fiction, pulitzer-winning-fiction

Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides is a surprising and wonderfully written story about the life of Calliope/Cal Stephanopolis who in the opening lines "was born twice: first, as a baby girl...and then again as a teenage boy." The subject of hermaphroditism or intersexuality is addressed throughout as the book as a running theme as the cinématographique narrator Cal looks back at his childhood as Calliope and explains his complex incestuous family history from the origins of her grandparents as Greeks fleeing Smyrna as the Turks invade to Detroit from the 20s up to the 70s.

The narrative time shifts between his life as a 41 year old man Cal to this running family history written in a witty, humorous style which I found fun and engaging. The text ingeniously woven together from history and science with many recurrent themes (silkworms, Greek orthodox beliefs and practices, guilt and redemption, etc). I couldn't put this book down. This is the only Eugenides book I have read but it will definitely check out his other books.

An interesting sidenote: trying to explain the book "daddy is reading" to my 7yo daughter and my 10yo son, I was able to painlessly explain why brothers and sisters cannot get married (a very common kid's question) and even reproductive functions in a painless and intuitive way: since Callie has organs of both sexes but the penis ("zizi" in kid's French) is inside her vagina ("zezette") she cannot have babies and will never menstruate ("clean the house where the baby can live"). She also has too many male hormones to develop breasts which happens about the same time or just before menstruation. This deformation was the improbable result of the union of a brother and sister two generations back. Nature wants to ensure a varied gene pool and thus it is better to seek love outside one's own family. This explanation seemed to satisfy both of them :)

UPDATE: Great recent article at good housekeeping.com: http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/...
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Reading Progress

October 19, 2016 – Shelved
October 19, 2016 – Shelved as: to-read
November 21, 2016 – Shelved as: novels
March 30, 2017 – Started Reading
March 30, 2017 –
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March 31, 2017 –
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35.16% "This is a fantastic book so far! So much different than what I expected!"
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March 31, 2017 –
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51.23% "Surprising and astounding! Loving it!"
March 31, 2017 –
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64.46% "Great book!!"
March 31, 2017 –
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April 1, 2017 – Finished Reading
May 11, 2017 – Shelved as: american-21st-c
May 11, 2017 – Shelved as: pulitzer-fiction
May 11, 2017 – Shelved as: fiction
November 24, 2019 – Shelved as: pulitzer-winning-fiction

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Julie G (remembering the good old days of GRs) I agree. I can't tell you how often my thoughts wander to scenes from this book. Outstanding writing.


Graham Senders I tried, I really tried, but I just could not get into this world.


Karen I loved this book also, I live just minutes from where this novel takes place. Great review!


Michael Finocchiaro In Detroit? Or in Turkey? ;)
Was he dead-on in his descriptions?


Lars Jerlach Excellent review....!


Michael Finocchiaro Thanks Lars! Excellent book!


message 7: by Karen (last edited Apr 02, 2017 06:54AM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Karen Michael wrote: "In Detroit? Or in Turkey? ;)
Was he dead-on in his descriptions?"


Grosse Pointe (Detroit) his descriptions were very good!


linda One of my top 5 reads - you HAVE to give it between 50-80 pages and be patient . I tried once and failed and once I knew it takes a bit to get into ... then you can't put it down .
I read this so many many years ago!


Michael Finocchiaro Thanks linda. I really enjoyed it too!


Michael Finocchiaro Many many years ago? It is only 14 years old. But then for an old fart like me, time flies :)


Cecily It's good first time, and even better second. Explaining it to your children.. that made me smile. But being able to do so is a good sign. And as a bonus, it's fantastic for children to see adults engrossed in books.


Michael Finocchiaro Thanks Cecily!


Michael Finocchiaro I think my greatest success was getting my 10yo passionate about Alexandre Dumas' d'Artagnan trilogy! He is already reading 20 Years Later and loves Athos! :)


Cecily That's brilliant (you and him)!


Michael Finocchiaro Thanks! :)


Betsy Robinson I loved this book too. And then I got to go hear Eugenides talk! Wowee! Loved your review. It brought it all back for me.


Michael Finocchiaro Really? Lucky you Betsy. Have you read his other books? Are they as good as Middlesex?


Betsy Robinson Michael wrote: "Really? Lucky you Betsy. Have you read his other books? Are they as good as Middlesex?"

No, I only read this one. But a lot of people in the audience for his talk on writer's voice had read all of his books and loved them.


Michael Finocchiaro Nice! Thanks Betsy for the insight!


message 20: by Amy (new) - rated it 5 stars

Amy Loved this one - an oldie but a goodie.


message 21: by Doug (new) - rated it 5 stars

Doug Bradshaw Great review. This story changed my view on sexuality a bit. Conservatives want to think of sexuality as black and white and yet, clearly, this was a very grey case. Hopefully gives some people pause when they think about transgenders, etc.


Cecily Doug wrote: "Great review. This story changed my view on sexuality a bit...."

But it's not really about sexuality; it's about gender. At its simplest, sexuality is external (who you are attracted to), and gender is internal (how you identify).


message 23: by Melissa (new)

Melissa I've read that incest doesn't really increase the chances of having an intersex child, though.

http://intersexandthecity.blogspot.com/2009/09/problem-with-middlesex.html?m=1


Michael Finocchiaro Thank you for this article Melissa! Btw, intersexuality is touched on in Tahiti and the Marquesas Islands in. MVL's This Way to Paradise which I read immediately following Middlesex.


message 25: by Doug (new) - rated it 5 stars

Doug Bradshaw Cecily wrote: "Doug wrote: "Great review. This story changed my view on sexuality a bit...."

But it's not really about sexuality; it's about gender. At its simplest, sexuality is external (who you are attracted ..."


Yes, good clarification.


message 26: by Joe (new) - rated it 5 stars

Joe Excellent review, Michael. Middlesex is one of my favorite novels. It's pure story with the author getting out of his way and of course, took me on a journey I'd never been on before. I remember asking my dad what he was reading when I was your kids' age. I don't know how I would've explained this one! It sounds like it all worked out though.


Michael Finocchiaro Exactly, thanks Joe!


Michael Finocchiaro I just updated the review as well, but in case you missed it, here is a great article! http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/...


Cheri Excellent review, Michael. I loved this book, loved the view and insight he gave us into this world. I loved your review - especially your explanations to your children about the book you were reading!


Michael Finocchiaro Thanks Cheri!


message 31: by Christine (new) - added it

Christine Great review, Michael!


message 32: by Christine (new) - added it

Christine Cecily, thank you for your clear statement! I wish more people understood the distinction. (I have a transgender family member.) : )


Michael Finocchiaro Thanks Christine!


message 34: by Mashal (new)

Mashal Ahmad Well your explanatio seems to satisfy me as well ;) Nice review!


Michael Finocchiaro Thanks Mashal!


Lindsay I enjoyed your review. However, I believe you have Calliope/Cal’s last name listed incorrectly— I think it’s “Stephanides,” not “Stephanopolis.” I, too, was asked by my 7yo and 10yo what my current read was about!


message 37: by jena (new) - rated it 5 stars

jena Excellent review!


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