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Hunger by Roxane Gay
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it was amazing
bookshelves: read2017, biography-memoir, reviewcopy, ebooks

The thing I always admire about Roxane Gay's writing, even when it makes me uncomfortable, is her ability to tackle issues head-on, with unflinching honesty. She may have hesitated, but you never see it on the page.

This very open memoir about hunger and size is powerful. This is Roxane Gay's experience, laid bare. I can't imagine what it took for her to get all of these thoughts on the page. There is a bit of repetition or overlap between the tiny chapters, but this is reflective of the daily life of living the experience of being large in the world. The constant confrontations of well-meaning but damaging family, possibly well-intentioned but invasive strangers, the blindness of the medical profession (seeing obesity first), the connection between trauma and the protection of size, the damper that size puts on social life and travel (and how it is too difficult to explain it to friends, leading to all sorts of relationship issues), and how all of these truths make finding a place to just be, to relax, practically impossible. Why shouldn't food be a comfort?

Of course part of my reaction to this memoir as a reader is what I identify with. I admire Gay for being able to look the layers of issues surrounding size and hunger directly in the eyes because it isn't as if doing so solves it. There are no answers here, but there are many truths. I wish I could make it required reading for many people in my life.

This profile in Elle gives a good overview.

Thanks to the publisher for providing early access to the title through Edelweiss in exchange for an honest review. It quickly jumped to the top of my tbr pile!oil
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January 11, 2016 – Shelved
January 11, 2016 – Shelved as: to-read
April 23, 2017 – Started Reading
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April 29, 2017 – Finished Reading
April 30, 2017 – Shelved as: read2017
April 30, 2017 – Shelved as: biography-memoir
April 30, 2017 – Shelved as: reviewcopy
April 30, 2017 – Shelved as: ebooks

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Lauren Wow, this sounds like an emotional (and relatable) book for me. Thanks for the thoughtful review, Jenny.


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Carla Can't wait to read this! Awesome review.


Jenny (Reading Envy) Carla wrote: "Can't wait to read this! Awesome review."

Lauren wrote: "Wow, this sounds like an emotional (and relatable) book for me. Thanks for the thoughtful review, Jenny."

This is one of those instances where I have an eARC and will still buy myself a copy.


Linda Hart Any "difficult" (crude) language or explicit sex?
Any "difficult" (crude) language or explicit sex?


Jenny (Reading Envy) Linda wrote: "Any "difficult" (crude) language or explicit sex?
Any "difficult" (crude) language or explicit sex?"


It is typical Roxane Gay so of course there are swear words and sexuality as she is human.


Adina (way behind on reviews, no notifications) Although I am not overweight I can relate. Why shouldn't food be a comfort? Because we were taught that food=fer or obesity, guilt. It might be comfort at the beginning but if you eat too much for comfort and the size grows than it becomes stress. Same with other addictions.


Jenny (Reading Envy) Adina wrote: "Although I am not overweight I can relate. Why shouldn't food be a comfort? Because we were taught that food=fer or obesity, guilt. It might be comfort at the beginning but if you eat too much for ..."
The book is more complex than that, so I will just say maybe read it before "weighing" in.


Adina (way behind on reviews, no notifications) Jenny (Reading Envy) wrote: "Adina wrote: "Although I am not overweight I can relate. Why shouldn't food be a comfort? Because we were taught that food=fer or obesity, guilt. It might be comfort at the beginning but if you eat..." You are right. I was only commenting about what I understood from your review. I will read it for more.


Dodi Thank you for the link to the Elle profile; it's a good read. It is a little ironic to see all the fashion and perfume ads with stick-thin models peppered throughout, though.


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