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A Man Called Ove
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When I began reading A Man Called Ove, I thought what a clever tale of an angry old man. The kind that believes rules and regulations are of utmost importance, that see the world filled with stupid people, and is always right. The way the author describes him and his actions are hilarious, as I have known a few Oves myself. They have their principles!
The only person Ove had and loved dearly, was his wife, Sonja. She has just passed away, and all Ove wants to do is kill himself, but those pesky neighbors keep getting in his way!
I was enjoying all the fun until about the 40% mark, then I started getting angry myself. It is always others who make Ove begrudgingly do the right thing. It was always his wife who made all the excuses for him as a basically non-functioning adult.
There were two items in particular that I really didn't like. The first was his cat, a stray, whom if not for his neighbors he would have let die. The second is a neighbor called Jimmy. Jimmy is overweight, and the constant references to food hanging out of his mouth, and stains on his shirt were just plain rude.
I pressed on even though it was getting tough to read. There was one paragraph near the ending about getting older that touched my heart, but other than that, it was just more of the same.
The author, Fredrik Backman, is a blogger, and this is his first novel. He is a good writer, and I can see how blogs of Ove would be fun, but as a whole book it just didn't work for me...but, I am in the minority!
The only person Ove had and loved dearly, was his wife, Sonja. She has just passed away, and all Ove wants to do is kill himself, but those pesky neighbors keep getting in his way!
I was enjoying all the fun until about the 40% mark, then I started getting angry myself. It is always others who make Ove begrudgingly do the right thing. It was always his wife who made all the excuses for him as a basically non-functioning adult.
There were two items in particular that I really didn't like. The first was his cat, a stray, whom if not for his neighbors he would have let die. The second is a neighbor called Jimmy. Jimmy is overweight, and the constant references to food hanging out of his mouth, and stains on his shirt were just plain rude.
I pressed on even though it was getting tough to read. There was one paragraph near the ending about getting older that touched my heart, but other than that, it was just more of the same.
The author, Fredrik Backman, is a blogger, and this is his first novel. He is a good writer, and I can see how blogs of Ove would be fun, but as a whole book it just didn't work for me...but, I am in the minority!
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Reading Progress
August 11, 2014
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to-read
August 11, 2014
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January 26, 2015
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Started Reading
January 28, 2015
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25.0%
"Hilarious! A cantankerous old man who just wants to die. Damn those neighbors, they keep getting in his way! (Priceless reference to "Dexter")"
February 7, 2015
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55.0%
February 10, 2015
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85.0%
"Not as smitten with this character Ove as in the beginning. Think the book could have been shorter."
February 16, 2015
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Finished Reading
April 1, 2015
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fiction
April 1, 2015
– Shelved as:
humor
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Great review Debbie!
As a cantankerous old lady I have every sympathy for cantankerous old men....but this sounds too over the top. I also find it hard to identify with people who at root are not kindly folk.
Plus I would have been upset by both the things that you mention.... As a plump cat owner it sounds like it would press all my buttons.
As a cantankerous old lady I have every sympathy for cantankerous old men....but this sounds too over the top. I also find it hard to identify with people who at root are not kindly folk.
Plus I would have been upset by both the things that you mention.... As a plump cat owner it sounds like it would press all my buttons.
I am close to finishing this one Debbie and your thoughts mirror mine. I like the character of Ove and I love his story growing up but it's not hitting favourites radar. Great Review.
Lynda wrote: "Can't wait to hear your thoughts."
Bummer Lynda...I really did like the beginning, it just went too far for me.
Bummer Lynda...I really did like the beginning, it just went too far for me.
Gordana wrote: "Thanks for the review! You've saved my time. ;)"
I know a lot of people liked this one, but after awhile it just wasn't fun anymore...for me :)
I know a lot of people liked this one, but after awhile it just wasn't fun anymore...for me :)
Caroline wrote: "Great review Debbie!
As a cantankerous old lady I have every sympathy for cantankerous old men....but this sounds too over the top. I also find it hard to identify with people who at root are no..."
Cantankerous old lady? You? I highly doubt that! But yes with the book, too much.
As a cantankerous old lady I have every sympathy for cantankerous old men....but this sounds too over the top. I also find it hard to identify with people who at root are no..."
Cantankerous old lady? You? I highly doubt that! But yes with the book, too much.
Dem wrote: "I am close to finishing this one Debbie and your thoughts mirror mine. I like the character of Ove and I love his story growing up but it's not hitting favourites radar. Great Review."
I was feeling rather lonely with the great reviews. Agree with the first part of the story, maybe just too long?
I was feeling rather lonely with the great reviews. Agree with the first part of the story, maybe just too long?
Tooter wrote: "I was on the fence about reading this one. Thanks for the nudge :)"
You bet Tooter. :) Just my opinion though.
You bet Tooter. :) Just my opinion though.
Brenda wrote: "Bad luck you didn't enjoy this one..I loved it:) We're all different aren't we!"
Totally agree Brenda! I know I'm in the minority. :)
Totally agree Brenda! I know I'm in the minority. :)
I enjoy the charm of the book (I'm listening to the audiobook) but a number of the happenings seem contrived.
I appreciated this review, Debbie. I just added this book and your review gave me pause. Sometimes we must have the courage to be a "lonely" reviewer. :)
Aw Carol, thanks. One of my favorite books last year, a close friend didn't like. How can that be? Ha! If you do get a chance to read this one, would really like to hear your thoughts. :)
Glenn wrote: "I enjoy the charm of the book (I'm listening to the audiobook) but a number of the happenings seem contrived."
Hey Glenn! Thought the first half did have charm. As far as contrived, um...yes.
Hey Glenn! Thought the first half did have charm. As far as contrived, um...yes.
Debbie "DJ" wrote: "Glenn wrote: "I enjoy the charm of the book (I'm listening to the audiobook) but a number of the happenings seem contrived."
Hey Glenn! Thought the first half did have charm. As far as contrived, ..."
Thanks for your note here. Yes, I think we are in agreement. Would Ove use a low-quality rope? Would he have tried to asphyxiate himself at a time of day when he could be interrupted? Would he jump from a bridge at a busy train station as opposed to a more remote location? Considering his hyper-meticulous nature, I think not on all counts. Occasionally I have the sense an author is using his main character as a puppet rather than having the actions and events evolute organically. This is one such book.
Hey Glenn! Thought the first half did have charm. As far as contrived, ..."
Thanks for your note here. Yes, I think we are in agreement. Would Ove use a low-quality rope? Would he have tried to asphyxiate himself at a time of day when he could be interrupted? Would he jump from a bridge at a busy train station as opposed to a more remote location? Considering his hyper-meticulous nature, I think not on all counts. Occasionally I have the sense an author is using his main character as a puppet rather than having the actions and events evolute organically. This is one such book.
Good review, Debbie. I started this (read the chapter in which Ove was irascibly buying a computer), then put it aside. I'm not sure I want to pick it up again. I've known more than a few of these types who only function when someone else makes them..We'll see...
Glenn wrote: "Debbie "DJ" wrote: "Glenn wrote: "I enjoy the charm of the book (I'm listening to the audiobook) but a number of the happenings seem contrived."
Hey Glenn! Thought the first half did have charm. A..."
Very observant! Haden't given much thought to all these discrepancies, but couldn't have worded it more perfectly. It does indeed feel as if the author is using Ove as a puppet.
Hey Glenn! Thought the first half did have charm. A..."
Very observant! Haden't given much thought to all these discrepancies, but couldn't have worded it more perfectly. It does indeed feel as if the author is using Ove as a puppet.
Mona wrote: "Good review, Debbie. I started this (read the chapter in which Ove was irascibly buying a computer), then put it aside. I'm not sure I want to pick it up again. I've known more than a few of thes..."
Hey Mona, yeah, it's pretty much the whole book. Would love to hear your thoughts if you decide to finish :)
Hey Mona, yeah, it's pretty much the whole book. Would love to hear your thoughts if you decide to finish :)
great review. I guess this was our buddy read after all. We got to bitch about it together! Damn book!
Carla, wish I had copied you and dropped it mid-stream. It annoyed me so much, I'm still bristling. Nicer thoughts--Aquarium, Aquarium, Aquarium!
I enjoyed the book! Ove reminded me of Carl MØrck in Jussi-Adler's "department Q" novels. That deep seated resentment in the older generation that the world actually had the nerve to change and the younger generation reaching out a hand to compensate for that resentment..very comical.
Harry wrote: "I enjoyed the book! Ove reminded me of Carl MØrck in Jussi-Adler's "department Q" novels. That deep seated resentment in the older generation that the world actually had the nerve to change and t..."
Ove was only 59. If that's an "older generation" I'm getting close to trouble! I also don't seem to feel any deep seated resentment.
Ove was only 59. If that's an "older generation" I'm getting close to trouble! I also don't seem to feel any deep seated resentment.
Christine wrote: "A definite "skip" for me, Debbie. Thanks for the warning."
Hey Christine, yeah, reading about a mean man and thinking he's funny, just isn't for me.
Hey Christine, yeah, reading about a mean man and thinking he's funny, just isn't for me.
I kinda like the comparison that Harry makes about Ove reminding him of Carl Morck. I've been enjoying that series develop and I'm still very interested in Ove.
Looking forward to tackling this someday. Enjoyed your review and the discussions.
Looking forward to tackling this someday. Enjoyed your review and the discussions.
Hey Susan, Have you ever met one of those old men who who are put out by everything? Who make your life miserable if you didn't follow all rules explicitly. Who...Ha! Guess I ran into one today, so having a visceral reaction to this book right now! Yikes!
Oops! I was just thinking about starting this one. Maybe I should take a step back for the time being :)
Great review, DJ! I also started out really liking the book, and then became more disenchanted with the story.