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CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY

CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY We are at the peak of the Esther, series and yet, at best these articles are inadequate. My confidence is that the Lord Himself will teach us all things because in Him all things are complete, and by our reliance in Him, all things become adequate. While Esther’s story will not be treated, as a conclusion I thought it best to wrap up the series by touching a little on how we too can create our own beautiful reality. Word intrigue and excite me – the the right kind, that is. I was introduce to fictional writing at an early age and it amazed me how the same letters I knew could be jumbled up and constructed and as a result, inspire emotion and birth strong conviction! I could get so engrossed in a good story that I imagined myself in the scenes created by the words. My mum introduced me to her mills & Boons (those really old ones that believed in courting, good old fashioned respect and proper romance, not the sorry excuses for pornography that came up afterward!) and my interest in etiquette was further flamed by them. Throughout the years, this interest was further watered with other books, classic Metro-golden Meyer movies, figure ice skating on ESPN, learning ball room dance later on etc. I was and still am enamored by etiquette, good posture, social graces, etc. and whether in writing, setting a dinner table or navigating the stores at the market, this image and etiquette mind-set always finds its way out. You see… it became my reality (so much so that it birthed a training company) because I fed myself sufficiently with it. The dictionary defines reality as (1) All of your experiences that determine how things appear to you and (2) The quality possessed by something that is real. Reality is both objective and subjectives in this sense. To the man in the village, a slow pace, clear skies and the sounds of nature is his reality while the man in the city is used to skyscrapers, a fast paced life and sounds of vehicular movement. These are two different realities. In subjective terms, when man first imagined standing on the moon, it was scoffed science fiction and a thing to be scoffed at. Man did land on the moon and this has become fact or reality. In the same way, we have the power to create our realities with words and pictures one can create his or her own reality. In your own circle of influence, you can make it into life that you would be pleased and peaceful in. whether you re’ a father, mother, wife, husband, friend, co-worker, etc , you have to start with the one thing you have authority over-yourself. If you can master and control your tendencies and direct the way of your life, you will, by default, be in a better position to influence those around you. Spirit: If you are not at peace with your creator, you cannot expect to be at peace yourself. For any real and long lasting result, the question of your soul and a good conscience needs to be answered. Soul: This is the realm of feeling/emotion, will and intellect and a facet of us that is constantly shaped. This where your character is formed and resides. The Bible says that as a man think so he is.we can see from memory how very similar events have occurred in the life of different people with very different responses-some good and some bad. The only real differences therefore was their perception of the event. The truth is that what can result as a wound for one person can be for another a stepping stone to greater thing. This is the only place where the God, He causes all things to work together for their good. Romans 8:28. The way you choose to see or perceive a situation will determine your response and therefore your character. Body: Every pathway from the brain leads eventually to a muscle. Ahem, I know, I use this phrase a lot. However, this is the truth. If we can change how we think and what we think on it will naturally find its way in our expression. Also, it is a body of habit; it it feels cold it will cuddle up or wrap its arms around itself; if it feel shy it might start nail biting., therefore, if you condition your body to bahve in a certain way by deliberately forming new habits to replace unwanted ones, you will eventually create a compulsive but suitable response. To sum all this up, we can be and do anything we imagine. Do you want to be the cheerful lady everyone wants to have over instead of the sulking loner depressed by life? Do you desire to be fit and more attractive by shedding those pounds gained from an unrestrained appetite? Do you wish to stop thinking defeatist thoughts, stand tall and take golden strides for the simple fact that you can? It starts with you-choose your reality and water it until it becomes a strong and formidable conviction. That is so much more than half the battle. Centuries ago, God came down to see the tower that the sons of men had purposed to build. He had this to say: “indeed the people are one… and this is what they begin to do; now nothing that they purpose to do will be withheld from them” Gen 11:6-KJV. If a man’s mind can imagine it, with few exceptions, nothing will be impossible