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Picky Eating is a Moral Failing
Matthew Brown
Appetizer
Common wisdom includes expressions such as “there’s no accounting for taste” that express a widely accepted subjectivism about taste.
We commonly say things like “I cannot stand anything with onions
in it” or “I would never eat sushi,” and we accept such from
others. It is the position of this essay that much of this language is
actually quite unacceptable. Without appealing to complete objectivism
about taste, I will argue that there are good reasons to think that
tastes are sufficiently malleable and subject to bias that one should
be cautious about saying, for example, that one does not like a
certain type of food. On many matters of taste, there is reason to
believe that your experienced judgments will not necessarily agree
with inexperienced and unreflective opinions on the matter.
Radical subjectivism about aesthetic preference can be taken to
justify the practice of picky eating (after all, who is better to say
what I will enjoy than me?), while the position of this essay is that
picky eating is a moral failing. To be a picky eater is to have a
significant lack of openness to new experiences and to substantially
hamper one’s development. It involves an irresponsible level of
fallibilism with respect to taste. Never venturing into new aesthetic
landscapes leads to a sort of repetitiveness, which in turn leads to a
life full of blandness and banality. And, as meals are perhaps the most
pervasive of social experience, being a picky eater can violate your
duties to others. I argue, not that everyone must attempt or pretend
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to like what your friends or what expert gourmands like, but that
there are significant obligations to openness, self-knowledge, accommodation, and gracefulness that should impact one’s food preferences.
Certain cases may provide exceptions or excuses for picky eating.
Vegetarianism is one example where moral justification is often
given in favor of limiting the types of food one is willing to eat.
Physiological, largely genetic conditions make some people more or
less sensitive to certain tastes, so-called supertasters and non-tasters.
Bitter foods taste far more bitter to supertasters, which may make
them averse to these foods. In the former case, I will argue that
vegetarianism is only morally correct when it comes out in the
balance of reasons, and that the argument of this chapter provides
reasons against it that may easily be left out of consideration. In
the latter case, I argue that the supertaster has the same duties of
openness and accommodation as everyone else, but that they may
reasonably be expected to reach somewhat different preferences
from normal tasters. These considerations will justify a new, more
refined understanding of what picky eating is and why it is morally
problematic.
Soup: Common-Sense Subjectivism Critiqued
I like Thai food best, but Andy prefers Mexican. Matt does not like
Italian food. Amanda cannot bear to eat onions. Michael will not
touch anything that has mustard in it. Joe would never eat sushi
or any raw meat. For many people, these are just so many different
preferences, of no moral weight or significance. So, you do not like
Italian or onions or sushi. So what? Some people like some flavors,
and some people hate them. If they think they do not like how something tastes, well, they obviously know best.
While received wisdom is not entirely consistent on this point (your
parents say, “Oh, you’ll learn to like peas,” and we sometimes say,
“You’ve just got to develop a taste for coffee”), taste is often considered to be a harmless matter of personal preference, and picky
eating is just having a certain set of such preferences. This commonsense
idea is, however, largely mistaken. While a complete objectivism about
gustatory values is probably indefensible, it is also not the case that
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you are always in the best position to know what foods you will like
best. Humans are food generalists, having very few innate determinants of food preference.1 Much of their food preference is left up
to culture and experience, which can often even reverse reactions to
foods that are initially and innately aversive.
While gustatory pleasures vary somewhat from person to person,
there is nonetheless significant overlap in the tastes of cultured
palates (people who have experience with a wide variety of foods).
A gustatory experience is a complex interaction of factors: there
are physiological elements, including the basic tastes,2 other tonguesensations like texture, temperature, piquancy (spicy-hotness), mintycoolness, astringency, fattiness, and numbness,3 as well as associated
sensory/physiological elements like smell, hunger/fullness, appearance,
effects of caffeine and alcohol, and so on. Previous exposure and
experience, as well as learned associations, biases, and social pressures also play a role. Prior experience has an important impact, especially driving reactions like neophobia and disgust. At a fine grain,
these factors mean that no two taste experiences are exactly alike,
but even at a coarse grain, we can see that any particular taste
experience is a confluence of factors and that it is highly sensitive to
idiosyncrasies of past experience.
It would be unduly radical to claim that you can be wrong about a
particular taste-experience. It rightly seems like any taste-experience
(including all the factors discussed above) you have is what it is:
if you found the brussels sprouts you ate last night unpleasant,
then you really had an unpleasant experience with them. What I
dispute is the leap from there to the further claim that you do not
like brussels sprouts, or to the claim that brussels sprouts taste
bad, or to the future action of avoiding or refusing brussels sprouts.
While you may not have enjoyed those brussels sprouts, and there
may be many biases to break down and tastes to develop before
you could ever like them, it may be that you could come to like
brussels sprouts very much. Indeed, there are good reasons to think
that many people could do so. And even if you never could like them
all that much, there are reasons why refusing to eat them might
still be the wrong choice.
I have had very different experiences from a Japanese man the
same age, and this in part accounts for our tastes inevitably being
quite different. I can never gain his perspective, because of all this
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accumulated experience. Nevertheless, I can expand my horizon in
order to come to appreciate more of what he appreciates, allowing
our horizons to partially overlap. That this process is possible we
know from countless examples in our own lives: seven or eight years
ago there would have been very little Japanese food that I would enjoy.
Today, while there is surely much Japanese food that I still would
not like, I take pleasure in many kinds of Japanese cuisine. (Though,
I still have not accumulated the gumption to develop a taste for
uni (sea urchin), I am sorry to say. But I feel rather bad about it.)
The amount of overlap that is possible may be subject to certain
constraints, but these constraints do not account for the morally
objectionable cases of picky eating.
The considerable degree of overlap that exists between experts, at
least at a coarse-grained level, is also evidence that cultivated taste
experiences will overlap. While it is possible that among a community of experts, unwarranted biases may accrue, a large, lively, and
critical community of experts can minimize these effects. Areas of
wide overlap provide reliable tips about food experiences that one
should learn to accommodate. For example, sauces that do not have
enough salt in them will taste too bland. A certain type of red wine
goes better with red meat than a white wine, while the reverse is true
for dishes of a more delicate flavor. These old culinary saws are general rules that tell you how to find a better culinary experience. Each
of them can be explained, either in more basic culinary terms, or even
in psychological and physiological terms. Violations of these rules are
met with skepticism, and there are routes for certifying the validity
of a claim to an exception, ideally, both in theoretical explanation
and experimental testing (tasting).
We must be careful with the role given to experts, however. It would
defeat the arguments of this essay if we exchanged an untutored
version of picky eating for the picky eating of a snobby gourmand.
Indeed, it is quite imaginable that someone with a gourmet palate
might themselves be exceedingly picky, that they might reject certain
kinds of foods, not because they taste bad, but because of their association with status, refinement, sophistication, and so on. Culinary
experts can be helpful when they pave the way for us to find new
and more enjoyable gustatory experiences. They are vicious when they
work to close us off to experiences that we would have otherwise
found valuable.
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Pickiness is the practical side of the belief that matters of taste are
entirely subjective. The picky eater is not open-minded to new taste
experiences, and they see no reason to be fallible about their own
preferences or try to understand their reactions to food. They see no
reason they should have to accommodate food they do not like, and
they often react to food in a way that lacks grace and respect. Picky
eating is thus not so much a matter of which foods you eat, but your
approach to eating, a matter of attitude and behavior. We have seen
reasons to believe that one does not always know what is best for
oneself with respect to gustatory experiences, which would make these
attitudes a mistake. But how does all this tie into ethics? In the
next three sections, I will provide three foundations for the ethical
evaluation of picky eating.
First Course: Openness to New Experience
and Duties to Self
The first foundation of an ethical evaluation of picky eating is the
duties you have to yourself.4 Picky eating is a violation of your duties
you have to yourself because of the way that it closes you off to new
experiences and because of the habits it produces in you that tend
to decrease your capacity to have further experiences. It violates the
duty you have to develop you own capacities and excellence. Picky
eating is by no means a special moral concern in this area, but it is
both an instance and a symptom of a larger problem.
Before defending the kinds of duties you have to yourself and the
importance of new experiences therein, I will talk a little about how
picky eating closes you off from new experiences. At this point, you
may want to say, “Look, I do not want to eat this thing, so what?
It has very little effect on my life or my capacities.” But not so fast!
Let us look at some examples of the sort of effects I am concerned
about, meant to be exemplary of the effects of being picky or not.
Hopefully, these stories will suggest very similar experiences of
your own.
Most people find piquant food aversive at first,5 though for some,
that experience might be so long ago or at so young an age that its
memory has dimmed. Suppose you have a few bad experiences with
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spicy-hot food, and you formulate a couple of maxims for yourself:
“I do not like piquant food” and “I am not going to eat anything
with chiles.” Now, you may well go through life not eating piquant
food, and there will be a few cuisines, where piquancy is a major
component, that you never learn to like.
The problem here is not so much in the end results by themselves,
but on what has been given up. My own case has some representative features: I was slow to warm up to piquant foods, and I came
to enjoy them through some foods that I enjoyed independently of
how hot they were: Mexican, Tex-Mex, and barbecue. After a while,
and partly due to eating with people who already liked piquant
food, I developed quite a taste for heat. This opened up new avenues
of experience. For instance, I used to have little taste for Thai
food; it seemed unremarkable and not as good as Chinese. Then I
started going out for Thai with friends who liked their Thai food
hot, learned about the spiciness conventions, and started to see it
as a distinct and interesting cuisine. What piqued my interest is that
Thai food, especially curry, is served extremely piquant, and many
of the flavors in Thai food are much more appreciable when the food
is spicy-hot. Served very mild, a red curry seemed fairly unremarkable. Turn up the piquancy, and the whole flavor landscape changes
for the better.
I had a similar experience with Vietnamese food. I found my first
tastes of phó to be quite jarring and initially a little bit unpleasant,
due to the unfamiliar combination of flavors. Finally, I decided to
go crazy with the Sriracha (a piquant sauce) and the lime. In addition to making the taste a bit more familiar (the mix of spiciness and
lime is common in many cuisines, including Mexican), I also
sweated my way through the meal, which itself can be a pleasant
experience. Now I enjoy phó quite a bit, and I do not make it nearly
as piquant as I had to at first. Now I experiment with the different
combinations of the condiments they give you, and generally enjoy
the mix of flavors.
And it does not just stop with new food experiences! Food is a
natural entreé into curiosity about a culture at large. To take a minor
example, contrary to what some Americans think, most Thai food
is not traditionally eaten with chopsticks. Most food is eaten with a
spoon, while a fork is used like Westerners might use a knife.
Sticking a fork in your mouth in Thailand is a lot like sticking your
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knife in your mouth in Maryland! In Thailand, chopsticks are only
used for a few dishes like noodles and noodle soups and dishes
imported from China. Interestingly, their use of chopsticks has
increased with commerce with China. In this way, one can move from
food to eating customs, to cultural and political interactions in the
Southeast Asian region. The particulars of the example are somewhat
idiosyncratic, but the phenomenon it exemplifies – the way that food
opens up new possibilities for experience – is quite general. Openmindedness and curiosity about food can go hand-in-hand with
open-mindedness and curiosity about culture generally.
Food can encourage not only an interest in gaining general knowledge of other cultures, but also with new personal experience. An
interest in the cuisine of the region might beget an interest in
traveling there. It would be a barrier to having a meaningful interaction with someone of another culture if you refused to sit down
to a traditional meal from their society’s cuisine with an open mind.
It would be difficult indeed for someone to integrate well into a
society, to get the flavor of the people and their customs, without
developing a taste for their food.
Furthermore, the more often you balk at new and unfamiliar food,
or food that you do not expect to like, the more you ingrain a habit
of avoiding these types of new experiences. A conscious decision to
turn down something unfamiliar and thus a bit frightening at one
time becomes a habitual refusal. Decisions become a pattern, and a
pattern becomes a habit, and habitual behavior is done without
considering the consequences, and can be quite difficult to overcome.
And why think that this habit will confine itself to food preference?
Could many of the good experiences that go beyond food be gotten in other ways? Can I compensate for the loss of pleasure from
good foods with finding pleasure elsewhere? That this is possible there
should be no doubt. But cutting oneself off from new culinary
experiences closes one such avenue, making it that much less likely
and that much more difficult.
Current experience is connected with future experience in such a
way that current activities can widen or restrict the potentialities for
future experience. Pickiness in one case can contribute to a general
habit of pickiness, which in turn restricts your ability to enjoy new
experiences in the future.6 It can cut off opportunities for expanding your horizons. In turn, it can make you a more parochial, less
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open, less democratic, and ultimately less valuable person. It prevents
you from developing and reaching a greater state of human excellence and self-realization. The harms you can cause towards your future
self in this manner are no less serious, no less ethically poignant, than
such harms done unto others.
Open-mindedness is a morally valuable attitude to have when
approaching unfamiliar situations, or situations in which your natural reaction is quite different from those around you. It is natural
for many people to react to such situations with distrust, fear, or distaste. Neophobia and xenophobia are altogether too common. They
make sense as general tendencies on an evolutionary scale – in a dangerous world, stick with habits that you know work, and avoid the
unfamiliar. But today, these tendencies are easily taken to the point
of parochialism and irrationality.
Being open-minded towards new things, exploring them, and
trying to understand them are good means to finding what value there
might be in things. Coming across an unfamiliar group of people,
you may initially find things about their way of life distasteful, or
perhaps even morally objectionable. It would be wrong to leave
matters at the level of this immediate reaction. An open-minded
exploration of the practice, its effects, and its internal justification might show you that it has real values that your way of life is
missing.
There are obviously limits to open-mindedness. I will not explore
a cultural practice that involves killing humans for fun. Not only does
it violate reactions of disgust probably too fundamental for me to
overcome, but I think I have considered this thoroughly enough to
know roughly the value involved. Likewise, I would not explore a
cuisine that served up fresh human fecal matter. Again, there is extreme
disgust, and I have also sufficiently thought through the consequences to know that it is probably not worth it (in this case,
the risk of contracting a terrible disease is quite salient).
One of the most important families of duties you have to yourself
is to self-development or growth.7 A lack of openness to new
experience frustrates this duty. Your actions ought to be evaluated
in part in terms of whether they further your development, helping
you realize greater excellence. These excellences include both intellectual and aesthetic excellence. On the one hand, being closed-minded
can decrease your ability to appreciate many aesthetic experiences,
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and it can also decrease the number of pleasing experiences you
actually have. Your capacities for pleasure and appreciation remain
underdeveloped. Your intellectual capacities suffer as well: a closedminded person is less curious and inquisitive. They have less drive
for and will tend to attain less knowledge about themselves and
the structure of their preferences, as well as knowledge about other
foods, other cultures, and other people. And, as we will see below,
their capacities for social relationships are hampered as well.
Another way in which your intellectual capacities are hampered
by picky eating is the attitude towards knowledge and judgment that
it involves. A picky eater does not consider their judgments of taste
to be open to revision. If taste is not completely subjective, if there
are things to get wrong about it, then picky eating amounts to a kind
of unbending and inappropriate dogmatism. It is like saying, “I know
this to be true, and nothing could ever convince me otherwise.” That
such an approach to knowledge is problematic and epistemically
irresponsible is perhaps too obvious to merit much attention. This
kind of inflexibility and infallibilism tends to frustrates progress with
respect to any kind of judgment or knowledge.
Because of the continuity of experience, the sorts of experience one
has now affect the kind of experience you can have later. We grow
and develop when we gain access to a wider range of experience,
when we are able to engineer a wider variety of situations to our
benefit. The importance of growth is most obvious in education:
it is the duty of the teacher to see to the growth of their students.
The paradigm example of retarded growth is the spoiled child, who
demands from others that they cater to his desires, who seeks out
situations in which he can do whatever he feels like at the time, and
who fails to cope in situations that require effort and intelligence in
the face of difficulty. The spoiled child is unable to take responsibility for his life, to be the author of his own fate. The child’s development and self-realization have suffered. Just as parents or teachers
that spoil children have failed them by retarding their growth, you
fail yourself when you act in way that is detrimental to the realization of your own capacities.
Instead of being distrustful of new taste experiences or deciding
to permanently cut yourself off from them, you should approach unfamiliar foods and foods that you have yet to develop a taste for with
open-mindedness. You should explore the food, trying to understand
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why others enjoy it and why you might be reacting to it in the way
that you are. You should try new approaches that can make it
easier at first, like using a sauce that you know you like, or by beginning with dishes in the cuisine that are not as far out. It may be that,
after approaching some food with an open mind, learning about it,
learning about yourself, and trying different ways of enjoying it, you
still just do not like it. As we know, not everyone is capable of exactly
the same taste experiences, so we should expect some disagreements.
But this differs from picky eating, which is characterized by neophobia,
quick judgment, and willful ignorance.
Second Course: Picky Eating in
Social Situations
An important part of ethics concerns your relationships with other
people. It should be no surprise, then, that the impact that picky eating might have on others gives us further reason to see it as a moral
concern. In several ways, large and small, picky eating is harmful to
others and to your relationships with them, and thus is a morally
problematic way of behaving.
Picky eating harms others by inconveniencing them. When trying
to coordinate meals with other people, whether you are going out
or cooking together, a picky eater constrains the choices and makes
the decision that much more difficult. Sometimes the inconvenience
is small: for example, if Amanda is picky about onions, it is pretty
easy to go somewhere she can order something without onions, or
to prepare a meal without onions in it (though it may make some
meals less enjoyable for others). Sometimes it is more difficult, as when
someone is picky about a great many foods or rules out entire cuisines.
When your pickiness is known, it means that anyone cooking you a
meal will have to compensate for it, or make special exceptions when
preparing your food. When it is not known, you host may feel the
need to do something at the last minute to compensate.
In cases in which someone is serving you a meal, being picky is
an inappropriate response, as it is whenever someone gives you a gift.
When someone does something nice for you, you ought to accept it
with grace, you appreciate what there is to appreciate in it, and you
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accommodate the ways in which it might differ from your ideals. To
do less, to complain or be picky, is hurtful and disrespectful to the
gift-giver. Thus, if someone serves you a meal, you do not turn up
your nose at it, or tell them that you do not like onions, or ask them
to make special exceptions for you, unless you have a very good reason. It would be appropriate for someone who is lactose intolerant
to politely refuse ice cream. It is inappropriate to sneer at a carefully
prepared meal because it has something in it that you have not
particularly enjoyed in the past. That does not mean that you have
to be disingenuous, or pretend to like it. But you should try it, appreciate it, and be gracious about it, even if you cannot find a way to
enjoy it.
When someone shares a meal with you, they are often sharing an
important part of their lives. Sometimes they are sharing a favorite
meal, one that they enjoy and want to share. Sometimes it is an
experiment, trying a new recipe. They hope to do well, and they want
someone to go on this adventure with them. Even when the meal
is simple, they are still sharing food with you, seeking some communion with you. When you refuse, you make it difficult for them
to share this part of their lives with you. It makes things difficult for
you with your friends, and it can be hurtful to the person trying to
share something with you. Again, you do not have to pretend to like
it, but you should not approach the situation with a picky attitude.
Picky eating also cuts you off from avenues for shared experience
with others, and thus makes it more difficult, perhaps impossible, to
fully understand other people and other cultures. We have seen the
different ways in which food forms an important part of culture and
social life, and how it is one way of gaining new experiences, even
ones that go far beyond food. Perhaps one of the most important
types of experience, both morally and in terms of personal meaningfulness, is the experience we share with others. When you refuse
to share food with others and make it a positive experience, you close
off one of the most central ways of connecting with other people in
everyday life.
Being a picky eater does not just violate etiquette and custom. While
violating customary, polite norms of behavior can indeed be insulting or shocking to those around you, and is itself to be avoided, picky
eating consists of more than just conventional rudeness. Meals are a
universal social event, and their gravitas is nearly ubiquitous. Picky
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eating really hurts other people, though admittedly the hurt is often
small: an inconvenience, or hurting someone’s feelings. Furthermore,
it hurts your relationships with those people, straining personal
relationships, closing you off to shared experience, preventing you
from widening your social horizons. A small harm is still a harm.
While you need not like every food that others try to get you to
eat, it is important to approach shared meals with an open mind,
self-knowledge, grace and respect, and to try to accommodate the
circumstances as best you can.
Salad: Vegetarians, Supertasters,
and Other Hard Cases
A few problematic cases present themselves against the claim that
picky eating is immoral. I will deal in-depth with two: vegetarianism and supertasting.
Vegetarianism
Vegetarianism is the practice of restricting one’s diet by not consuming
any meat or fish.8 This almost always takes the form of a strict maxim;
the dietary restriction is adhered to in all circumstances.
Vegetarianism is often undertaken for ethical reasons, whether
they are primarily related to animal rights, environmental issues, or
religious ideals. What sometimes gets left out of the picture when
someone is considering vegetarianism is that there are moral reasons
against being vegetarian. Most people will admit that there are
costs: vegetarianism (especially strict varieties) tends to be inconvenient, and they may lose some pleasure when denied meat products.
But these personal, egoistic, or hedonistic reasons would be usually
recognized to be superseded by moral reasons.9
On the other hand, thanks to the arguments of this chapter, we
can now recognize that there are moral reasons that tell against
vegetarianism. Vegetarianism has the problematic features of picky
eating. Vegetarians (with some exceptions) categorically refuse to eat
meat. They will spurn restaurants and cuisines that have poor or no
vegetarian options. They will refuse food with meat in almost any
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situation. They are not willing to try new foods with meat in them.
Once committed to vegetarianism, they will not approach meat
dishes with an open mind, they will not explore them, and they will
not make an effort to appreciate what is being offered. The extreme
few will not even be gracious about it, unapologetically asking to be
accommodated and ungraciously rejecting anything that does not fit
their food preferences.
As such, there are a number of moral reasons that tell against
vegetarianism. It cuts you off from new experiences, standing in
the way of your development and self-realization. It cuts off avenues
of broadening one’s horizons and gaining new understanding. It
is an inconvenience to others. It can involve the rejection of a
meaningful gift that makes it difficult for others to share parts
of their lives with you, and it can make it difficult to have shared
experiences with others, cutting you off from one avenue of understanding with other people and cultures. In the worst case, it may
make it difficult for you to get along with others who do not
share your food preferences, leading to an increase in the parochialism of your life.
For all their weight, however, these reasons against vegetarianism
are merely pro tanto reasons, reasons that could be outweighed
by more important considerations against them. Vegetarianism
might well be the best option, but that judgment must come from
a balanced consideration of the reasons on either side. But the
necessary sort of consideration cannot be undergone unless the
significant weight on both sides of the equation has been addressed.
I will not take a stance on the substantive question of whether vegetarianism is the right choice or not, as this goes beyond the bounds
of this essay, but I do wish to underscore the importance of some
often ignored considerations. Vegetarianism may be the right choice;
rather than being an objection to the view of this essay, my view
can better explain the proper way to arrive at it.
Supertasters
One physiological axis of variation of taste has to do with the
number of taste buds. Supertasters are (roughly) the quarter of
the population who have the highest concentration of taste buds. The
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extra taste buds mean that supertasters have an unusually strong sense
of taste. Supertasters will be far more sensitive to the basic flavors
that are perceived through taste buds (sweet, salty, sour, bitter, and
umami), especially bitter flavors. This makes supertasters far more
sensitive to some foods, which they will probably not come to
like. Supertasting is probably responsible for a lot of picky eating.
Supertasters (and their opposite, non-tasters, who have an uncommonly weak sense of taste) may seem to pose a significant challenge
to the arguments of this essay. After all, if there is that much
variation in taste, and it is genetic, does not that work in favor of
taste-subjectivism?
At first blush, the existence of supertasters might make it seem like
the hope for making taste out to be anything but subjective is misplaced. But remember, we were not asking for universalism in the
first place! All along, I have admitted that there are variations in the
way people taste, some of which are due to innate factors. And, in
the case of taste-bud concentration, we can see the variation as smooth
and nearly linear. Supertasters may, on consideration, come to different conclusions than the majority, but that is okay, so long as they
have adequate self-knowledge about their tastes and their condition,
have given a fair chance to certain foods, and have striven to understand them.
The treatment of supertasters should make an important feature
of picky eating, as I have been using it in this essay, clearer. Picky
eating is not so much about what foods you eat as the way you
approach eating. I have argued for four gustatory obligations: openness, self-knowledge, accommodation, and grace. You should be
open-minded about new taste experiences. You should try to understand the food you are eating and the reasons for your current preferences. (Are you a supertaster, or do you just need to get used to
bitter foods?) You should attempt to accommodate new experiences
and the gustatory needs and desires of others, and you should do so
with grace and respect.
Other hard cases can be treated in much the same way as vegetarianism and supertasting. Perhaps you have moral, health, or
safety reasons that lead you to avoid certain foods. This is okay, so
long as you have considered all the sides of the issue, and so long
as you decline the food with respect and grace.
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Dessert: Food and Morality
It has probably occurred to you in reading this essay that none of
the points it makes are particular to food. There is no special ethics
of food, no additional obligations that accrue by way of culinary experience. But the consideration of food nonetheless has considerable
value for ethics. On the one hand, picky eating has allowed for the
exemplification of some important moral principles, showing certain
moral values at work. Furthermore, the case of picky eating, the reactions we have to it, and the things we learn when we look at its details,
help us to interrogate the structure of morality in a new way. I hope
we have learned more about ethics by looking at eating, especially
the way that ethics and aesthetics intersect, rather than just having
learned about eating by looking at its ethics.
Notes
My thanks to Jon Johnston, who inspired this essay, Amanda Brovold, who
made it possible, and Dale Dorsey, who read many parts of it and discussed
them with me at great length.
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See Rozin, P., “Food Preference,” in International Encyclopedia of the
Social and Behavioral Sciences, ed. N. J. Smelser and P. B. Baltes.
Oxford: Pergamon Press, 2001: 5719–22.
Most often four are listed: saltiness, sourness, sweetness, and bitterness.
A fifth basic taste is now gaining recognition: savoriness or umami, which
has long played an important role in Japanese and Chinese cuisine in
particular.
A tingly-numbness sensation is the main sensation provided by the
Sichuan (or Szechuan) pepper.
Duties to self are a controversial category. Some ethicists would only
recognize moral concerns in interpersonal matters.
See Logue, A. W., The Psychology of Eating and Drinking: An
Introduction. New York: W. H. Freeman, 1991.
Such experiences are what John Dewey called mis-educative. See
Experience and Education in The Later Works of John Dewey, vol. 13,
ed. Jo Ann Boydston. Carbondale: Southern Illinois University Press, 1988.
They retard growth in the sense used below.
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The duties discussed here rely on a form of Moral Perfectionism, which
emphasizes development, perfection, or self-realization. See Hurka,
Thomas, Perfectionism. New York: Oxford University Press, 1995. A
similar concern with growth is a central concern of Dewey’s ethical and
educational thinking. See Experience and Education, especially ch. 3.
There are many variations: vegans also do not consume any animal products, while pescetarians will eat fish. A fruitarian will not eat anything,
plants included, that kills the organism. Vegetarians who do consume
dairy or eggs are sometimes called lacto-vegetarians, ovo-vegetarians, or
lacto-ovo-vegetarians.
That does not mean that everyone who thought about it would choose
vegetarianism. It only means that, given moral reasons of significant weight,
eating meat would be the morally wrong thing to do. But moral reasons
are not the only considerations that actually determine action, probably
no one is a total moral saint and, if Susan Wolf is right, it is probably
best that no one is, See Wolf, Susan, “Moral Saints.” Journal of
Philosophy 79/8 (August 1982): 419–39.
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