Summer Reads

It's Summertime! What's on your reading list?

Summer before last, I spent many a summer night reading about the Kennedys. It was so interesting! so I picked these two books up in the thrift shop.

I had never read this author before, when I picked up Belle St. Marie at a thrift shop. I loved it, so I went searching for more by Kay, and found this one, Glimpse of Splendor, which I finished last week.

Dot Franks' newest didn't dissapoint, it was great!

I haven't read either of these authors, have you?

This movie came out on Netflix back in the winter, starring Jennifer Aniston as a former beauty queen. I loved it since it featured music by Dolly Parton! Now I will read the book.

Both of these books look great, both set in times past, Light over London looks like World War 2 London, and the White Kimono one is set in 1950s Japan and the present day.

 I also picked up Somerset and Still Waters. I think Somerset is probably a romance--  set in the early 1800s in South Carolina. Still Waters is a memoir.
Who are your favorite authors?
Where do you like to read? Do you read snuggled in bed late at night or at a sunlit table in the mornings? Do you like to read on vacation? Do you read on the beach or in a porch swing? Can  you read in a moving car?--it makes some people car sick.
Do you take books on trips? Are you in a book club?

My fans

I thought I'd show y'all my fans, since several of them have popped up in recent posts.....the one from the cemetery in Savannah, my new one I just bought at Middleton Plantation, and I also love my fan from Magnolia Plantation last spring. Both my "plantation" fans were purchased on birthdays, so they are special to me.

I started collecting fans a couple of years ago.

Does anyone remember "church fans"? They were placed in the pews with local advertisements on the back of  them, for the ladies to fan themselves with.....back then churches didn't have air conditioning, especially little country and mountain churches in the South, prior to the 1970s as well as small towns. So the fans were a welcome sight on hot summer Sunday mornings! Most of the old fans had absolutely beautiful scenes on them, not only of Jesus praying, the Last Supper, Jesus at the Door, angels, etc. but very pretty scenes of children at play, birds and nature scenes, pictures of churches, etc. My Magnolia fan looks like a church fan--they had wood handles. I haven't see a church fan in YEARS, but I do remember them!
This Etsy page has some fans like the ones I remember: (click below)

Old fashioned church fans

(I enjoy looking at the old advertisements!--some neat things! fun!)

This one is my "church fan". It goes to church with me every Sunday, because sometimes I get hot and you never know if the air conditioning might be out of service, yes that has happened. LOL I made this picture in  a park on Mother's Day this year.

in church last Sunday on Father's Day--I actually took a different fan!

I love the shades of green on this one!

Did I mention how I love the dainty little tassels on fans?

So, after I made the photographs, Mr. Front Porch made this picture of me with some of my fans!
We walked on, then about that time I realized something. There was a a time in history when the ladies and girls of Charleston ALWAYS carried a pretty fan with their little pocketbooks as they "strolled about" on these old streets. Fans were necessary to help keep them cool, not just pretty things to collect. I think they also "flirted" with those fans, but that is a whole other post, ha ha LOL!

Do you have a fan or two? What do you collect?

Handsome Black Dog

The other day while out walking THIS gorgeous dog pranced into my life. The resemblance was uncanny. Yes, this pretty one was such a twin to my sweet Gypsy. 

I mean EVERYTHING, the eyes,the bushy swishy tail, the floppy silky ears, the velvet snout, the tongue, the TEETH, and even the paws. 

If I'd met this dog in the dark I might've sworn it was my Gypsy! LOL. There was ONE difference though......this dog has a patch of pure white on the chest. Oh and by the way.....THIS dog IS A BOY!! HA HA lol, and of course, Gypsy was a girl. He is ten years old, and just starting to get his silver muzzle, about when Gypsy got hers as well.

So the sweet lady was kind enough to stop and visit with us a bit. I told her how I had lost my Gypsy a little over a year ago, and she liked hearing how much her boy looked like our Gypsy. Anyone who has ever loved and lost a dog, will stop to visit and give their condolences, because they know how it feels. Anyway, the lady had such a lovely accent, so I asked her where she is from and she said France and I asked if she was visiting and she said that she had moved to Charleston about thirty years ago. She told me her dog's name was something that sounded like "Jamoo", (in our language). I took Spanish, not French. Any of my blog friends can translate for me??? Maybe it was something like "Jamoeux"?? I am not sure....I know zero French.

THIS is 100% a "Gypsy look" LOL--she gave it to me often. Ha Ha

.......and this.....this was 100% just like looking into my beautiful Gypsy's eyes just once more.

And you know what?? For the first time....I didn't break down really bad. There were tears in my eyes, but I wasn't crying hard. Thank you, sweet "Jamoo".
Isn't it funny how people (and their dogs too) can bring some joy into your life, so unexpectedly? I'm sure this dog's owner never dreamed that her and her pretty black dog would run into someone and bring them a little joy and a smile today...when she leashed him up and left her house. I hope we can all be like this, always hoping and praying that we bring joy to someone today. I want to be a blessing to someone every single day.
That's "Jamoo" above, and this is Gypsy:

(teaching Tammie the ropes here, she was in a harness AND A Gentle Lead!--She was a wild one! ha ha LOL)

A walk in Savannah's cemetery

I was happy to finally get to visit Bonaventure! On our many visits to Savannah, we had never had time to come visit. I've never been to a more beautiful cemetery, or a larger one! It's so big you need a map!

I don't come to the cemeteries for any death related morbid or scary  reasons. Cemeteries are also sad places, because that is where we say our final good-byes to loved ones.
 I come for the beautiful monuments, the gardens and flowers,the marble sculptures, beautiful gravestone art, the remembrances and legends of people and times long ago because I love history and genealogy so much. A "taphophile" is a person who likes to study and visit cemeteries to look at and record/photograph beautiful statues and past lives.  I started enjoying marble statues and Victorian funerary art a few years back. (in one of my recent posts, at the Middleton Plantation, you can see me posing with the pretty marble statues)
Garden cemeteries started being built when the old churchyard burial areas were literally filling up. I read that in several of our Charleston churchyard cemeteries, there are actually coffins stacked on top of each other, six or seven deep! In some old cities that had flooding, the coffins would be uprooted and floated down the streets---how horrible! 
They built Magnolia Cemetery here in Charleston to give plenty of open space for burials and also to have the pretty and safe garden/park atmosphere instead of crowded and disease filled churchyards. Remember, this was back in the time of  yellow fever, tuberculosis, scarlet fever, cholera, typhus, measles,  malaria, and the such. Churchyards filled quickly because the death rate was so much higher due to plagues such as these, plus so many young women dying in childbirth... and people died from simple flu and pneumonia type illnesses because they didn't have the medicines we have today.

my map

Before real parks were built, Victorians hung out in cemeteries all the time.With the big green lawns and the pretty flowers, they were known as "garden cemeteries".  The old "skulls and crossbones" of the earlier era had been replaced with pretty images such as beautiful flowers, lambs, angels, cherubs, etc.
They were colorful and elegant places full of manicured gardens and lovely ponds full of ducks and swans. People came to stroll, visit on Sundays after church, ride bicycles,(men first---it was a long time before it was common to see women on bikes!), have carriage races, and have small parties and get- togethers. They would pack their croquet sets and big delicious picnics of cold sandwiches, ginger snap cookies, plain bread spread with butter, pickles, lemonade, apples and oranges, plain gingerbread and pound or sponge cakes,  and bring balls and hoops for the children to play with. Young lovers would bring a book of love poems and a blanket to picnic and court on, and if you wanted a nice quiet day, bringing a blanket and a good book was the way to go! Little boys would play "soldier" and with little wagons or marbles and little girls would bring their pretty dolls, glass tea sets and toy dishes and have a doll tea parties underneath the shady trees. Little girls also loved to play "hoops" and "jacks". You might've heard guitar and violin music. Ladies strolled with pretty parasols and men looked dapper in their suits. Babies sat on soft handmade quilts and played with carved wood animals and wooden blocks and rattles.
You can get a good look at what it was like in the photo below:

Woodland Cemetery, Dayton Ohio

It was common for people to load up their wagons or carriages and bring tables, chairs, and even hammocks to their cemetery picnics. There were no paper plates and such yet....they carefully packed up their china plates and cups and soft cloth napkins!
We stopped at the Gift Shop first.

Here is a replica of Little Wendy. She is better known as "the bird girl". They put her on the cover of the 1994 book Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil  and so many people began visiting her because of the book and movie and vandalism, they moved her to the Jepson Center for the Arts downtown. She was made out of bronze in 1936.

All sorts of curiosities and interesting things to see in here. 

I bought fans!

Peaceful lanes meander throughout the cemetery. The beautiful streets are lined with azaleas and the oak trees with the moss.

Shawls of Spanish moss stir in the breeze

The name "Bonaventure" means "good fortune". The cemetery sits on a bluff overlooking the Wilmington river. The land Bonaventure sits on was originally a big family plantation.

There are many tours available, or you can do the self guided tour. We had the girls with us, so we did the self guided tour.

(below) symbols I see all the time in South Carolina and Georgia cemeteries

Many many rocks are left in memory in the Veteran's section!

sweet little cherubs

Just about everyone who visits Bonaventure wants to see Gracie, or is curious about who Gracie was. Here is her story:

Her name is carved out of Acacia branches to symbolize immortality of the soul

Teenage vandals broke her nose off in 1967

Look how he carved out her little boots!

I read that around Christmas time , people leave all kinds of toys and dolls here at Gracie's grave.

This angel's wing is broken and so is her hand

Many rock have been left by visitors. I left a penny, as had many others. I love wandering around these old cemeteries and seeing what everybody leaves for remembrances. Stone, glass, coins, flowers, small statues, seashells, painted rocks.

I love this old gate!

I think this family lost two children at ages two or three....very sad

I don't see lovely sentiments like this on the modern stones

 Mary Doyle had this monument placed in memory of her husband Charles Hobenstein. The inscription says " To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die".

Tansy says "Lets go over and look at that fence!"

So sad.....but how lovely all the sweet little remembrances

Thanks for visiting with me this day and I hope you enjoyed learning about the old Victorian cemeteries! So much history to learn there....