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THE DYNAMIC OF

ATTRACTION,LOVE,AND COMMITMENT
Group 1
DYANAMIC OF ATTRACTION
•It involve focusing

attention on a particular
person,such as physical
attractiveness,proximity,si
milarity
And reciprocity.
PERSONAL RELATIONSHI
• Pre historic humans where
interacting already through
different form of behavior,such
as
Smilling ,greeting each
other,showing love affection and
loyalty
FAMILY RELATIONSHIP
Defind as a living together in
house and hold whom related by
birth,it can be anytype of
family.
FRIENDSHIP
• Not related by blood or
adaption,they are the person
whom we trust,respect and
care.
PARTNER
• Not related by blood,they
are the patners in our life .
(Husband,wife )
• It can be also a partner in
bussiness.
ROMANTIC FEELING

• Is when you feel


attractive to the other
person.
BIOLOGICAL MODEL OF LOVE
Attraction – is discribed as
love-struck phase,its
involves focusing
attention on a particular
person.Many factors
influence attraction such
as physical
attractiveness,proximity,si
milarity and reciprocity.
PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
• One of the primary
modeterminants of romatic
attraction. Most people prefer
whom ther consider physical
attractiveness especially in the
early stage of dating .
PROXIMITY
• Can be explained when people
tend to get attracted to
people who are geographically
closer to them.They are more
likely to develop feelings
mutual Familiarity with people
whoe live to close to them. Ex(
being attracted to your
classmate since you always
see each other).
SIMILARITY
• They choose partner
whom they find
similarities such as social
class,religious,beliefs and
education.It explain when
two people share more
attitudes and opinion that
creat strong bond.
RECIPROCITY
• People like others whom like them
back,the more person is liked by
someone, the more he/she behave
in the ways that promote mutual
feelings of liking.
• Attachment –deep and injuring
emotional bond that connect to
one person to another.
There are 3 components of
love suggested of Robert
Stemberg (1988).
Intimacy Passion Commitment
Described as an Is an act of
Interpersonal intense emotion deciding to
relationship that towards a consistently fulfill
involve physical person.Show and live by
and emotional compelling interest agreements with
Intimacy. for someone.Like another
having a desire to person.Mostly
spend time with a showing loyalty
person most of the and honesty
time .
8 types of
Couples
By Greek name
Lee(1973)
Theory of love
Philia- Affectionate love usually runs deep in true friendship.It accur without
romantic attraction between friends and family.
Pragma-Enduring love described as a mature love that develop over time.
Storge-Familliar Love is naturally occurring love rooted in parents,and children
as well as best friend.
Eros-Romantic Love is characterized by personal infatuation and physical
pleasure.
Ludus-Playful love is a child-life flirtatious love found in the beginning.
Mania-Obsessive love as named is described as obsessiveness or madness
over love.
Philautia-Self love have a healthy “Self-compassion” towars one self.
Agape-Selfless Love the highest love to offer.It’s emphathetic attitude of
love,it given without any expectation .
The 5 love language
•Word of affirmation
•Act of service
•Receiving gift
•Quality time
•Physical touch
IMPORTANT ASPECT FOR
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
-Woititz J.
•Empahty•Understanding•Acceptance
•Honesty•trust•Good
Communication•Consideration•Compa
tibility•Mutual enjoyment•Personal
dignity•vulnerabilty
THANK YOU!

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