3D D2-S4 Complete Meaning of Respect March 2023

Harmony in the Family
'Respect' – as the Right Evaluation

Respect (lEeku)
Respect = Right Evaluation
lEeku ¾ le~ $ eku
lE;d~ ekiuk
Bhd Bhd vkadyu djuk
Right evaluation of human being…

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Respect: Right Evaluation – on the basis of the Self
1. Purpose y{;
 I want to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
 The other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
Our purpose is same (on the basis of Natural Acceptance)
2. Program dk;ZØe
 My program is to understand and to live in harmony at all levels of being
 The program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all levels of being
(Individual, family, society and nature/existence)
Our program is same
3. Potential {kerk
 Desire, Thought & Expectation ¼bPNk] fopkj] vk”kk½ is continuous in me.
I am endowed with Natural Acceptance
 Desire, Thought & Expectation ¼bPNk] fopkj] vk”kk½ is continuous in the other.
The other is also endowed with Natural Acceptance
Our potential is same
MINIMUM CONTENT of RESPECT
The Other is Similar to Me nwljk esjs tSlk gS

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Differentiation Hksn
Differentiation
Hksn
Body
“kjh
j
Age Gender Race Physical
vk;q fyax oa”k Strength
cy
The Gross Misunderstanding is

“Human Being = Body”
While the reality is

“Human Being is co-existence of Self & Body”
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Differentiation
Hksn
Physical Facility
lqfo/kk
Wealth Post
/ku in

“Physical Facility = Happiness”

“Happiness is being in a state of Harmony”
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Differentiation
Hksn
Beliefs
ekU;r
k
Isms Sects Info
okn laiznk lwp
; uk

“If the pre-conditioning of the other matches
my preconditioning, then the other is like me”

“Every Human Being is like me”
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Differentiation
Hksn
Body Physical Facility Beliefs
“kjh lqfo/kk ekU;r
j k
Age Gender Race Physical Wealth Post Isms Sects Info
vk;q fyax oa”k Strength /ku in laiznk lwp
okn
cy ; uk
Differentiation = Disrespect
Not Naturally Acceptable… Opposition, Movements…
Hksn ¾ vieku
lgt Lohdk;Z ugha gksrk--- fojks/k--- vkUnksyu---
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Preconditioning: “I am special, unique, different from the other”
1. Realization Natural
vuqHko 3 Acceptance
2. Understanding INTENTION
Preconditioning 1 cks/k
ekU;rk 3. Desire Imaging
bPNk fp=.k
Di
4. Thought Analysing COMPETENCE
ffe
fopkj fo'ys"k.k
ren
What You Are
ti
5. Expectation Selecting/Tasting
ati
vk'kk p;u@vkLoknu
no
2 Sensation
Body 'kjhj
Behaviour O;ogkj Work dk;Z Lakosnuk
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Minimum Content of Respect: The Other is Similar to Me
1. Purpose y{;
 I want to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
 The other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
Our purpose is same (on the basis of Natural Acceptance)
2. Program dk;ZØe
 My program is to understand and to live in harmony at all levels of being
 The program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all levels of being
(Individual, family, society and nature/existence)
Our program is same
3. Potential {kerk
 Desire, Thought & Expectation ¼bPNk] fopkj] vk”kk½ is continuous in me.
I am endowed with Natural Acceptance
 Desire, Thought & Expectation ¼bPNk] fopkj] vk”kk½ is continuous in the other.
The other is also endowed with Natural Acceptance
Our potential is same
MINIMUM CONTENT of RESPECT
The Other is Similar to Me nwljk esjs tSlk gS

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Respect: The Other is Similar to Me. We are Complementary to each other
1. Purpose – Our purpose (Natural Acceptance) is same
2. Program – Our program is same
3. Potential – Our potential is same
The Other is Similar to Me
4. Competence – On the basis of right evaluation of our mutual competence, I recognise
our complementarity and fulfill it:
If the other has more understanding, is more responsible than me
 I am committed to understand from the other
If I have more understanding, I am more responsible than the other
1. I live with responsibility with the other, unconditionally, unperturbed by the behaviour of
the other
2. I am committed to facilitate understanding in the other (once the other is assured in
relationship, and not before that)
COMPLETE CONTENT of RESPECT
The Other is Similar to Me. We are complementary to each other

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Right Evaluation
Intention Competence of various
(natural people may be quite different
acceptance)
is Respect = Right evaluation
same for all
Lack of Competence
(of intention and competence)
Purpose,
Program
and Competence is the
Potential share of imagination
Same for all guided by Natural
Competence Acceptance (or Right
Understanding)
Me (Self1) Selfi Selfj Selfk Competence
Take-away:
The feeling of Complementarity
The Other is Similar to Me. We are complementary to each other Lack of Competence
Sensation
With the feeling of complementarity, other feelings naturally follow
Preconditioning
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Take-away re. Respect
The feeling of Complementarity
All the specific characteristics at the level of Body, physical facility, belief etc. can be used to
express that complementarity
e.g. a person with greater physical strength can do the heavy work
e.g. a person at a higher post can take responsibility for harmony of the larger order, for the
development of more people…
With the feeling of complementarity, other feelings naturally follow

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Differentiation Respect – on the basis of Self
I evaluate on the basis of body, physical facility 1. Our purpose (Natural Acceptance) is same
or belief (preconditioning). I compare, 2. Our program is same
compete, differentiate… 3. Our potential is same
I am different from the other The other is similar to me
We are competitors We are complementary to each other
I make effort to accentuate the difference, to If the other has more understanding than me
manipulate, exploit the other - I am committed to understand from the other
If I have more understanding
1. I live with responsibility with the other
2. I am committed to facilitate understanding in the
other (once the other is assured in relationship, and
not before that)
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Assignment for Today
In your interaction with others in the family or institution over the past six months, list any five
incidences of your interaction.
Now check if it was the right evaluation, over-evaluation, under-evaluation or otherwise-

evaluation?
We discussed about differentiation today. Give one example each of the differentiation on the
three bases, and suggest a solution to each on the basis of right understanding.
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Sum Up
Respect = Right Evaluation (with a feeling of trust on intention)
Under evaluation, over evaluation or otherwise evaluation is disrespect
Differentiation is disrespect
Respect (on the basis of Self) – The other is like me, we are complementary to each other
The only difference is in our level of understanding (how much of our desire, thought and
expectation is on the basis of our Natural Acceptance)
If the other has more understanding, he is more responsible than me
 I am committed to understand from the other
If I have more understanding, I am more responsible than the other
 I live with responsibility with the other, unconditionally, unperturbed by the behaviour of the other
 I am committed to facilitate understanding in the other
(once the other is assured in relationship, and not before that)
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Harmony in the Family

'Respect' – as the Right Evaluation

lEeku ¾ le~ $ eku

Bhd Bhd vkadyu djuk

Right evaluation of human being…

The Other is Similar to Me nwljk esjs tSlk gS

The Gross Misunderstanding is

While the reality is

The Gross Misunderstanding is

While the reality is

The Gross Misunderstanding is

While the reality is

The Other is Similar to Me nwljk esjs tSlk gS

The Other is Similar to Me. We are complementary to each other

Me (Self1) Selfi Selfj Selfk Competence

With the feeling of complementarity, other feelings naturally follow

Now check if it was the right evaluation, over-evaluation, under-evaluation or otherwise-

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