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EYES ON

BULLYING
What can you do?
Bullying is an emotional or
physical abuse.
And is defined in three
characters.

1. DELIBERATE – A bully’s intention is to hurt


someone
2. REPEATED – a bully often targets the same victim
again and again
3. POWER IMBALANCED – a bully chooses victims
he or she perceives as vulnerable
Bullying occurs in many
different forms,
with varying levels of
severity.
It may involve: • Physical Bullying—poking, pushing, hitting,
kicking, beating up
• Verbal Bullying—yelling, taunting, name-
calling, insulting, threatening to harm
• Relational Bullying—excluding, spreading
rumors, getting others to hurt someone
• Cyberbullying—Sending hurtful messages
or images by Internet or cell phone.
Understanding what
bullying looks like will help you stop
it before it escalates.
Bullies, Victims,
and Bystanders
Bullying involves multiple players. Bullies, victims, and bystanders
all play important roles in contributing to bullying—and each can
help make bullying stop.

Bullies… select and


systematically train their
victims to comply to their
demands. They seek active But, bullies can be
encouragement, passive stopped when victims
acceptance, or silence from and bystanders learn
bystanders. and apply new ways to
stand up against
bullying. Bullies can
also learn
how to make friends
and get what they want
by helping, rather than
hurting, others.
Victims… reward the bully by yielding control and showing signs of
intimidation. They often fail to gain support from bystanders and avoid
reporting the bullying.

But, victims can learn to defeat the bully by responding assertively,


rallying support from bystanders, or reporting the bullying to adults.

Bystanders…play an important and pivotal role in promoting or


preventing bullying. Often without realizing it, they may exacerbate a
situation by providing an audience, maintaining silence, actively
encouraging, or joining in.

But, bystanders can neutralize or stop the bullying by aiding the victim,
drawing support from other bystanders, or obtaining help from adults.
Finding bullying

Being silent often surrounds bullying. Many children who


are bullied never tell anyone.

Most bullying is not


reported because children

• Don’t recognize it as bullying • Don’t know how to talk


• Are embarrassed about it
• Don’t want to appear weak • Think adults won’t
understand
But just because you don’t see it, and children don’t talk about it,
doesn’t mean bullying isn’t happening. Even when children fail to
report bullying, they often show warning signs.

• Unusually sad, moody,


• Unexplained damage or loss anxious, lonely, or
of clothing and other
depressed
Some warning
personal items
• Evidence of physical abuse, • Problems with eating,
such as bruises and sleeping, bed-wetting
signs of •
scratches
Loss of friends; changes in
• Headaches,
stomachaches, or other
bullying •
friends
Reluctance to participate in •
physical complaints
Decline in school
activities with peers achievement
• Loss of interest in favorite
• Thoughts of suicide
activities
What can we do?
Parents, caregivers,
healthcare providers and
educators working
together can play crucial
roles in bullying
prevention in homes,
early childhood
programs, schools,
afterschool and youth
programs, camps, and
healthcare settings.
• We are on the front lines, likely to see bullying when it
occurs and establish the rules needed to prevent it.

We are the adults children turn to for help resolving


problems or to confide
their concerns.

We are in a unique position to help them navigate the


challenges of their social world.
• Don’t assume the problem will go away on its own.
Invite children to talk about what is bothering them.

If you find out a child is being bullied,


show support, help develop a response strategy,
and follow up to make sure the bullying does not
continue

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