1 Persuasive Communication
1 Persuasive Communication
1 Persuasive Communication
Communication
“Effective persuasion becomes a negotiating
and learning process through which a
persuader leads colleagues to a problem’s
shared solution.” --Jay Conger
Four Steps in Persuasive Communication
1. Establish your credibility
Credibility comes from expertise and relationships. People are considered to have high levels of
expertise if they have a history of sound judgment or have proven themselves knowledgeable and
well informed about their proposals. They have demonstrated over time that they can be trusted
to listen and to work in the best interests of others.
2. Frame your goals in a way that identifies common ground with those you
intend to persuade.
It is a process of identifying shared benefits in which it is critical to identify your objective’s
tangible benefits to the people you are trying to persuade. If no shared advantages are readily
apparent, it is better to adjust your position until you find a shared advantage.
The best persuaders closely study the issues that matter to their TA. They use conversations,
meetings and other forms of dialogue to collect essential information. They are good at listening.
They test their ideas with trusted contacts and question the people they will later be persuading.
Often this process causes them to alter or compromise their own plans before they even start
persuading. It is through this thoughtful, inquisitive approach they develop frames that appeal to
their TA.
Four Steps in Persuasive Communication
2. Resisting compromise.
Too many people see compromise as surrender, but compromise is essential to
constructive persuasion. Before people buy into a proposal they want to see that the
persuader is flexible enough to respond to their concerns. Compromises can often
lead to better, more sustainable, shared solutions.
Avoid the Four Big Errors of Persuasion
3. Thinking the secret of persuasion lies in presenting great arguments.
Great arguments matter, but they are only one component. Other factors matter just
as much, such as the persuader’s credibility and their ability to create a mutually
beneficial position for themselves and their audience (win-win situation), to connect
on the right emotional level and to communicate through vivid language that makes
arguments come alive.