Etiquette & Culture
Etiquette & Culture
Etiquette & Culture
Dr Aparna Rao
Etiquette
Rule is to break all rules, or so it seems
Lack of awareness about how people should treat
each other
Challenges, upsets, miscommunication
Respect should be mutual, answer rudeness
with courtesy
First Meeting/Interaction
Address Formal name, unless introduced by
first name
Introduce everybody present e.g. Invictus,
wins allies and shows etiquette savvy grace
First meeting Look the person in the eye, smile
and offer to shake hands
Have a firm handshake wimpy handshake
dead fish, wet, cold etc. negative impressions
Basics
Old-fashioned courtesy, politeness, Ps & Qs
multigenerational approach
Kindness the language that the deaf can hear
and the blind can see
Integrity Trust fragile; keeping commitments
sends non-verbal messages of trustworthiness
Never Interrupt uninvited visits to others
cubicles, peeping over shoulders to see their work,
calling, pinging etc. message or take permission
Telephone Etiquette
Speak clearly Avoid holding the phone under the
chin, sounds like mumbling
Speakerphone take permission to be put on speaker
Introduction name, company, purpose
Return calls if a call is missed, return immediately,
same working day
Avoid juggling putting someone on hold, taking
another call negative impressions
Take permission before putting someone on hold
For more time, ask if you can call back
Telephone Etiquette
Voice Mail Brief full name, reason for call, contact
number
Avoid using voice mail as a screen/filter - be someone
who always returns calls or takes calls
Personal calls/mails at workplace minimum, short,
avoid
Sensitivity to others volume in personal and telephonic
conversations
Privacy Difficult at workplace, but if you are privy to
somebodys conversation, stay out
Avoid calls when you are travelling in public transport
Workplace Senses
Cleanliness avoid clutter on your table, respect
hygiene needs at shared places
Sensitivity to Others shared places, services etc.
Etiquette begins with sensitivity & tolerance
Good etiquette reflects your culture and
upbringing
Fine manners need the support of fine manners in
others."
RalphWaldoEmerson
High Context
High context cultures Asia, Middle East,
Africa, South America
Communication style combine verbal and
nonverbal messages to convey entire meaning
Important for listeners to be sensitive &
observant
For speakers - Appear to be listening, but closed
body language; e.g. folded hands
Dimensions
Dimensions of culture variation
Low context cultures assume commonality and
more shared understanding, responsibility on
listener to interpret information, could cause
breakdowns
Low context seen as more tolerant and
understanding of diversity
E.g. Japanese see Westerners as blunt
Westerners see Japanese as secretive, not
forthcoming with information
Individualism Vs Collectivism
Mehrabian Model
Non-Verbal Signals - 93% of your communication - 55%
(body language, eye contact), 38% vocal (pitch, speed,
volume, tone of voice)
Impact of actual words is only 7%
And with the spotlight on you- in an interview or a
presentation, your non-verbal communication is as
important as your verbal
Some examples
References
Body Language; Allan & Barbara Pease
A Quick Guide to Cultural Competency Dr Sangeeta
Gupta
Business Communication Meenakshi Raman &
Prakash Singh
Awnload 2/4/08)
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