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    Healthy THINKING doesn't mean positive thinking all the time. It means looking at the entire situation--the positive, the negative and the neutral parts. There are specific coping strategies to help manage difficult thoughts.

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    Healthy THINKING doesn't mean positive thinking all the time. It means looking at the entire situation--the positive, the negative and the neutral parts. There are specific coping strategies to help manage difficult thoughts.

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    Healthy THINKING doesn't mean positive thinking all the time. It means looking at the entire situation--the positive, the negative and the neutral parts. There are specific coping strategies to help manage difficult thoughts.

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    The key takeaways are that unhealthy thinking patterns can negatively impact mental health and that developing healthy thinking skills through strategies like challenging thinking traps can help improve mood and confidence.

    Common thinking traps mentioned are overgeneralizing, black and white thinking, fortune telling, emotional reasoning, labeling, 'should' statements, mind reading, mental filter.

    The document provides strategies to challenge thinking traps such as separating thoughts from events, examining the evidence, and aiming for a more balanced perspective.

    HEALTHY THINKING

    troubled by upseting thoughts?

    dwelling on the negative?


    finding it hard to see things positively?
    We all find ourselves coping with troubling thoughts from time to timeespecially when were going through changes in our lives or when we feel depressed, anxious, sad, angry or stressed out.

    If you feel this way, you are not alone


    What is healthy thinking?
    Healthy thinking does NOT mean positive thinking! No one can look at things positively all the time. Sometimes bad things happen, like getting fired at work, having an argument with a friend or losing someone you love. Its normal and healthy to feel upset and have negative thoughts when these things happen. Healthy thinking means looking at the entire situationthe positive, the negative and the neutral partsand then coming to a conclusion. In other words, healthy thinking means looking at life and the world in a balanced way, not through rose-coloured glasses.

    Did you know that your thoughts have a big influence on your mental health?
    Thats because what you tell yourself about a situation affects how you feel and what you do. Sometimes your interpretation of a situation can get distorted and you only focus on the negative aspectsthis is normal and expected. However, when you interpret situations too negatively, you might feel worse. Youre also more likely to respond to the situation in ways that are unhelpful in the long term. Fortunately, there are specific coping strategies to help manage difficult thoughts.

    Read on to learn more about improving your mental health through healthy thinking strategies.

    WELLNESS MODULE 8

    what are common thinking traps?


    Everyone falls into unbalanced thinking traps from time to time. Youre most likely to distort your interpretation of things when you feel sad, angry, anxious, depressed or stressed. Youre also more vulnerable to thinking traps when youre not taking good care of yourself, like when youre not eating or sleeping well. See if you can recognize your own thinking traps in the list below:

    thinking traps
    Overgeneralizing
    Thinking that a negative situation is part of a constant cycle of bad things that happen. People who overgeneralize often use words like always or never.

    example
    I wanted to go to the beach, but now its raining. This always happens to me! I never get to do fun things!

    Black and White Thinking

    Seeing things as only right or wrong, good or bad, perfect or terrible. People who think in black and white terms see a small mistake as a total failure.

    I wanted to eat healthier, but I just had a piece of cake. This plan is a total failure! I might as well eat the whole cake now.

    Fortune Telling

    Predicting that something bad will happen, without any evidence.

    Ive been studying hard, but I know that Im going to fail my test tomorrow.

    Emotional Reasoning

    Believing that bad feelings or emotions reflect the situation.

    I feel anxious when I fly, so airplanes must not be safe. I made a mistake at work. Im stupid! My boss told me that I made a mistake. My boss is a total jerk! I should be able to handle this without getting upset and crying!

    Labeling

    Saying only negative things about yourself or other people.

    Should Statement

    Telling yourself how you should or must act.

    Mind Reading

    Jumping to conclusions about what others are thinking, without any evidence.

    My friend didnt stop to say hello. She must not like me very much. I met a lot of great people at the party, but one guy didnt talk to me. There must be something wrong with me.

    Focusing only on the negative parts of a situation and ignoring anything good or positive.

    Mental Filter

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    For more information about the connections between thoughts and other aspects of mental health, see our other Wellness Modules at www.heretohelp.bc.ca

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    how do I get out of a thinking trap?

    Here are helpful strategies to challenge common thinking traps. Many people find their mood and confidence improve after working through these skills. You can also find worksheets to help you go through each step at www.heretohelp.bc.ca

    1. Try to separate your thoughts from actual events


    Ask yourself the following questions when something upsetting happens: What is the situation: What actually happened? Only include the facts of the situation that everyone would agree on. What are your thoughts: What are you telling yourself? What are your emotions: How do you feel? What are your behaviours: How are you reacting and what are you doing to cope?

    2. Identify the thinking traps


    Take a look at the thoughts youve listed. Are you using any of the thinking traps and falling into distorted thinking patterns? Its common to fall into more than one thinking trap. Go back to the thinking trap list on page 2 and identify which ones apply to you and your current situation.

    3. Challenge the thinking traps


    Examine the evidence: Try to find evidence against the thought. If you make a mistake at work, you might automatically think, I cant do anything right! I must be a terrible employee! When this thought comes up, you might challenge it by asking, Is there any evidence to support this though? Is there any evidence to disprove this thought? You might quickly realize that your boss has complimented your work recently, which doesnt support the idea that youre a bad employee. Double-standard: Ask yourself, Would I judge other people if they did the same thing? Am I being harder on myself than I am on other people? This is a great method for challenging thinking traps that involve harsh self-criticism.

    The best way to break a thinking trap is to look at your thoughts like a scientist and consider the hard facts. Use the evidence youve collected to challenge your thinking traps. Here are some ways to do that: Survey Method: Find out whether other people you trust agree with your thoughts. For example, you might have trouble with one of your kids and think, Good parents wouldnt have this kind of problem. To challenge this though, you can ask other parents if theyve ever have any problems with their kids. Conduct an experiment: Test your beliefs in person. For example, if you think you think that your friends dont care about you, call a few friends and make plans to get together. If you assumed that they will all say no, you may be pleasantly surprised to hear that they do want to see you.

    aim for a balance in your thoughts


    Once you have worked through some challenges, try to think of a more balanced thought to replace the old thinking traps. Lets use the following example: >> Balanced Thoughts There could be lots of other reasons why she didnt say hello. She probably didnt see me and still likes me. Ill wait until the next time we meet before I jump to any negative conclusions about our friendship.
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    Situation
    My friend didnt say hello when I passed her on the street.

    Thoughts
    Shes so rude. She doesnt like me anymore.

    Thinking Trap
    Labeling Mind Reading

    Challenge
    Examine the evidence: She has never been rude to me in the past. I have no proof she even saw me.

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    Dont try to get out of a thinking trap by just telling yourself to stop thinking that way.
    This doesnt let you look at the evidence and challenge the thinking trap. When you try and push upsetting thoughts away, they are more likely to keep popping back into your mind.

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    are all negative thoughts unhealthy thinking traps?

    No there are times when negative thoughts are realistic.

    It can still be helpful to find different ways of looking at the situation, though. Try to find a meaningful personal challenge in the situation. See if you can find any opportunities for personal growth or skills development. Many people coping with difficult situations find that their upsetting thoughts improve when they work on other coping skills, such as identifying the main sources of stress in their lives, problem-solving issues that they can control, and finding social support. For more on coping with stress, see www.heretohelp.bc.ca.

    Help with healthy thinking

    There are many workbooks and self-help manuals to help you to challenge thinking traps and build up your healthy thinking skills. We have listed some examples for you below. Healthy thinking is a key part of cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT). CBT is an effective treatment approach for many substance use and mental health problems. Consider working with a qualified CBT practitioner if you need help developing your healthy thinking skills.

    Frequent distressing, unwanted or strange thoughts may be a sign of a mental health or substance use problem.
    Fortunately, help is available. If you or a loved one struggles with upsetting or unusual thoughts, its best to talk to a doctor or mental health professional.

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    Practice your healthy thinking skills with our online worksheet at www.heretohelp.bc.ca

    Select sources and additional resources

    Visit www.comh.ca for The Antidepressant Skills Workbook by Dan Bilsker and Randy Paterson. Visit www.anxietybc.com for AnxietyBC`s realistic thinking guides and worksheets. Visit www.heretohelp.bc.ca to read the CBT issue of Visions: BC`s Mental Health and Addictions Journal. Bourne, E. J. (2010). The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook (4th ed.). Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications. Burns, D.D. (1999). The Feeling Good Handbook. New York: Plume.

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    2011 BC Partners for Mental Health and Addictions Information www.heretohelp.bc.ca

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