Family Meeting
Family Meeting
Family Meeting
Objective
1.Recognize goal of care clarification as a center of palliative care 2. Know key success and process of family meeting 3.Able to conduct Family meeting under supervision
Family Meeting
Patama Gomutbutra MD. Revised Jan 2012
Goal of care clarification Ethic and law ie. consider withhold or withdraw life-prolongating intervention
Disease management Psychosocial spiritual support
Trajectory of disease
Cancer Rapidly decline
Set up
Arrange for a quiet, private place to meet Invite all invested parties
Surrogate decision maker Care team members: MDs, RNs, SWs, RTs
Determine beforehand:
Adapted by permission form How to Run a Family Conference. Steven Z.Pantilat. UCSF
Family meetings should not be used as an opportunity for health care professionals to debate a patients medical status
( CPCER guideline,2009)
Start
Introdroduce team to family. Assess the familys perception of the patients situation
I was wondering if you could tell me what you understand about your fathers condition
Stand point
Keep the focus on the patient
If she could sit up in bed What would she think of this? Not what you want for her, or what youd want for yourself, but what she would want for herself
When conflict occur among family members Express respect for each person love for patient And remind them to focus on what patient wish
Share recommendation
Assume responsibility for the decision
Based on what I know about your mother and the medical situation Based on my clinical experience.. I recommend.. Dont force the family to decide
X There is nothing more we can do (abandon) I wish there was something we could to ( Empathic) X Would you like us to do everything possible (If they say yes??) How were you hoping we could help your mother ( Active listening) X Withdraw of care (No more care) Withdraw of life sustaining intervention ( Another way of care focusing on comfort)
Nobody is going to love you for what you do not do ( Hallenbeck JL,2003)
How to provide prognosis? - Need some knowledge about prognostification ( eg. Chronic renal failure off dialysis, sign of prominent death) - Ask if they want to know if not- Dont tell - Tell in range e.g.. hours to days, days to weeks weeks to months
Summarize
Check for agreement Accept for disagreement Arrange follow up contact Document the meeting
Duration of meeting should not more than 60 min (CPCER guideline,2009)
Support
Burnout / compassionate fatigue Strategies - Having opportunity to express feeling and problem with other people. - Having sense of competence - Having hobbies and healthy life style. - Ask yourself ( Reflection) Why do I do this? What inspired me today?
Conclusion
Set up who are key decision makers Start from what family know Stand on what the patient would want Sincere and careful about prognosis Share but not force recommendation Summarize and keep it up Support family, staff, and yourself !
Recommended reading
1. Back A, Arnold R, Tulsky J. Mastering communication with seriously ill patients: balancing honesty with empathy and hope. New York, NY: Cambridge University Press; 2009. 2. Hudson P, Quinn K,O.Hanlon B,Aranda S. Family meetings in palliative care: multidisciplinary clinical practice guidelines.BMC Palliative Care 2008, 7: 12. 3. Pantilat SZ. Communication Skills and How to Run a Family/Care Conference ( Handout from www.hospitalmedicine.org)