Halili Vs Halili
Halili Vs Halili
Halili Vs Halili
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RESOLUTION
CORONA, J.:
This resolves the motion for reconsideration of the April
16, 2008 resolution of this Court denying petitioner’s
petition for review on certiorari (under Rule 45 of the Rules
of Court). The petition sought to set aside the January 26,
2004 decision1 and September 24, 2004 resolution2 of the
Court of Appeals (CA) in CA-G.R. CV No. 60010.
Petitioner Lester Benjamin S. Halili filed a petition to
declare his marriage to respondent Chona M. Santos-Halili
null and void on the basis of his psychological incapacity to
perform the essential obligations of marriage in the
Regional Trial Court (RTC), Pasig City, Branch 158.
He alleged that he wed respondent in civil rites thinking
that it was a “joke.” After the ceremonies, they never lived
together as husband and wife, but maintained the
relationship. However, they started fighting constantly a
year later, at which point petitioner decided to stop seeing
respondent and started dating other women. Immediately
thereafter, he received prank calls telling him to stop
dating other women as
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chological incapacity of one of them, this Court, however, did not rule on the issue as the
assigned error in the petition for review filed in this Court dealt with rules of procedure.
4See also Santos v. Court of Appeals, et al., 310 Phil. 21, 36; 240 SCRA 20, 31 (1995), which
5 Id., pp. 28-29, citing Archbishop Oscar V. Cruz, D.D. of the Archdiocese of Lingayen-
Dagupan, who explained in the Marriage Tribunal Ministry, 1992 ed., that “[s]tandard
incapacity by reason of any factor causative of lack of sufficient use of reason, grave lack
categorically mandates said intervention only in the case of impotence and downright
mental disorder.”
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mother even had to be the one to tell him to seek legal help
when he felt confused on what action to take upon learning
that his marriage to respondent was for real.10
Dr. Dayan further observed that, as expected of persons
suffering from a dependent personality disorder, petitioner
typically acted in a self-denigrating manner and displayed
a self-defeating attitude. This submissive attitude
encouraged other people to take advantage of him.11 This
could be seen in the way petitioner allowed himself to be
dominated, first, by
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7 Te v. Yu-Te, supra note 4, pp. 236-237, citing Kahn and Fawcett, The
Encyclopedia of Mental Health, 1993 ed., p. 131.
8 Exhibit “C.” RTC Records, pp. 42-57.
9 Id., p. 44.
10 See RTC Decision, Rollo, p. 107.
11 Exhibit “C,” supra at p. 51.
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his father who treated his family like robots12 and, later, by
respondent who was as domineering as his father.13 When
petitioner could no longer take respondent’s domineering
ways, he preferred to hide from her rather than confront
her and tell her outright that he wanted to end their
marriage.14
Dr. Dayan traced petitioner’s personality disorder to his
dysfunctional family life, to wit:15
Q. And what might be the root cause of such psychological incapacity?
A. Sir, I mentioned awhile ago that Lester’s family is dysfunctional. The
father was very abusive, very domineering. The mother has been very
unhappy and the children never had affirmation. They might [have
been] x x x given financial support because the father was [a] very
affluent person but it was never an intact family. x x x The wife and
the children were practically robots. And so, I would say Lester grew
up, not having self-confidence, very immature and somehow not truly
understand[ing] what [it] meant to be a husband, what [it] meant to
have a real family life.
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Q. Now, would you say that this psychological incapacity which you
identified and described earlier, is it beyond treatment?
A. Yes, sir.
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Q. Now, based on your findings and what you said, would you say then
that the psychological incapacity of the petitioner was already
apparent even before he got married?
A. Yes, sir.
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