Similarities Between Public Speaking and Conversation
Similarities Between Public Speaking and Conversation
Similarities Between Public Speaking and Conversation
When you turn off the highway, you’ll see a big diner on the left. But before
that, stay on the highway to Exit 67. Usually a couple of the neighbors’ dogs
are in the street, so go slow after you turn at the blinking light. Coming from
your house you get on the highway through Maple Street. If you pass the taco
stand, you’ve gone too far. The house is blue.
Instead, you would take your listener systematically, step by step, from his or
her house to your house. You would organize your message.
2. Tailoring your message to your audience. You are a geology major. Two
people ask you how pearls are formed. One is your roommate; the other is
your nine-year-old niece. You answer as follows:
To your roommate: “When any irritant, say a grain of sand, gets inside the oys-
ter’s shell, the oyster automatically secretes a substance called nacre, which is
principally calcium carbonate and is the same material that lines the oyster’s
shell. The nacre accumulates in layers around the irritant core to form the pearl.”
To your niece: “Imagine you’re an oyster on the ocean floor. A grain of sand
gets inside your shell and makes you uncomfortable. So you decide to cover it
up. You cover it with a material called mother-of-pearl. The covering builds up
around the grain of sand to make a pearl.”
3. Telling a story for maximum impact. Suppose you are telling a friend
about a funny incident at last week’s football game. You don’t begin with the
punch line (“Keisha fell out of the stands right onto the field. Here’s how it
started. . . .”). Instead, you carefully build up your story, adjusting your words
and tone of voice to get the best effect.
4. Adapting to listener feedback. Whenever you talk with someone, you are
aware of that person’s verbal, facial, and physical reactions. For example:
You are explaining an interesting point that came up in biology class. Your lis-
tener begins to look confused, puts up a hand as though to stop you, and says
“Huh?” You go back and explain more clearly.
A friend has asked you to listen while she practices a speech. At the end you tell
her, “There’s just one part I really don’t like—that quotation from the attorney gen-
eral.” Your friend looks very hurt and says, “That was my favorite part!” So you say,
“But if you just worked the quotation in a little differently, it would be wonderful.”
Each day, in casual conversation, you do all these things many times with-
out thinking about them. You already possess these communication skills. And
these are among the most important skills you will need for public speaking.
To illustrate, let’s return briefly to one of the hypothetical situations at
the beginning of this chapter. When addressing the school board about the
need for a special teacher:
■ You organize your ideas to present them in the most persuasive manner. You
steadily build up a compelling case about how the teacher benefits the school.
■ You tailor your message to your audience. This is no time to launch an
impassioned defense of special education in the United States. You must
show how the issue is important to the people in that very room—to their
children and to the school.
With study and practice, you will be able to master these differences and
expand your conversational skills into speechmaking. Your speech class will
provide the opportunity for this study and practice.