Prevention Guide
Prevention Guide
Prevention Guide
Prevention
Resource Guide
Dear Colleagues:
The Children’s Bureau embraces a vision that uses a loving approach to helping children obtain what they
need to live with dignity by comprehensively supporting families through a collaborative network of carefully
selected resources and effective public and private investments, grounded in community and culture, with
a workforce fully devoted to serving with intentional equity. To achieve this vision, it is imperative to explore
and invest in innovative, new ideas to transform the way we deliver services.
It is time for us to do things differently to prevent child abuse and neglect. Intentionally engaging in
systemic and self-reflection and evaluation is integral to change and meaningful progress. Building on
this concept, the theme of the 23rd National Conference on Child Abuse and Neglect and accompanying
Prevention Resource Guide is, “Doing Things Differently: Moving From the Challenge to the Change.”
It is critical to partner with families and others with lived experience to understand how existing policies and
practices may be creating harm rather than strengthening families. Parents and caregivers are experts on
their families’ strengths. Lasting change will only be possible when they are not just at the table but actively
involved and leading each decision to ensure effective planning, implementation, and evaluation of services
and resources. This means exploring together strategies that support instead of surveil families experiencing
poverty. This also means hiring and supporting a diverse and representative workforce that understands the
needs of the communities being served.
This 2023/2024 Prevention Resource Guide offers critical information, including concrete examples of how
grant recipients and other Federal or national agencies are taking bold actions to authentically engage with
and support families. The guide outlines the information through a social-ecological approach to reinforce
the need to be aware of and address the impacts of factors at the societal, systemic, organizational,
community, and family levels that can strengthen or challenge families. Developed with direct input from
individuals with lived experience, the guide also features tools to aid practitioners in having conversations
with parents and caregivers that focus on emphasizing parent strengths by highlighting the ways in which
they nurture and meet their families’ needs.
Throughout the COVID-19 pandemic, parents and caregivers have shown us that with strong partnerships
and the right supports families can thrive even through the most difficult of times. We hope this year’s guide
compels you to think critically about the strengths of the children and families in your community and how
to honor their voices and support them with dignity. Thank you for your commitment to our families.
In Unity,
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Table of Contents
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Laying the Foundation 1
Protective Factors 1
A Social-Ecological Approach 3
Committing to Equity 4
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Creating a More Supportive Society for All Families 7
Federal Focus: CDC Essentials for Childhood 9
Changing Norms About Parenting: From Surveillance to Support 9
Advancing Family Financial Security Through Policy 13
Questions to Consider 15
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Building Proactive Child and Family Well-Being Systems 17
Federal Focus: Child Safety Forward Initiative 18
Using Community Data to Prevent Child Abuse and Neglect 20
Centering Equity in Collective Impact Approaches to Family Support 21
Implementing Communitywide Primary Prevention Strategies 24
Questions to Consider 27
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Employing Two-Generation Approaches to Strengthen Families 30
Federal Focus: National Child Traumatic Stress Network 33
Implementing Trauma-Informed and Trauma-Responsive Care for Children and
Their Families 35
Understanding the Protective Effects of Positive Childhood Experiences 36
Questions to Consider 40
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Nos amamos unos a otros 56
I Can Choose What Works Best for My Children 58
Puedo elegir lo que funciona mejor para mis hijos 60
I Deserve Self-Care 62
Me merezco el autocuidado 64
We Are Connected 66
Estamos conectados 68
I Can Find Help for My Family 70
Puedo encontrar ayuda para mi familia 72
I Help My Child Learn Social Skills 74
Ayudo a mi hijo a aprender habilidades sociales 76
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Partners and Resources 78
National Child Abuse Prevention Partners 78
Federal Inter-Agency Work Group on Child Abuse and Neglect 78
Acknowledgments 78
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CHAPTER ONE
If you are here, you are someone who cares about I N TH I S CH APTER :
families. You are in good company. This Prevention
■ Protective Factors
Resource Guide was created to support all who seek to
promote family well-being and prevent child abuse and ■ A Social-Ecological Approach
neglect. Our hope is that many people like you— ■ Committing to Equity
including community-based service providers,
policymakers, health-care providers, program
administrators, teachers, child care providers, parent
leaders, mentors, judges and attorneys, and faith leaders—may find these resources useful.
Because we each come to this common goal with different backgrounds and experiences, this
chapter introduces a few key concepts that make up the foundation for the resources and
examples provided in this guide. We hope that these resources will be useful to you as you
partner with others in your community to support families.
PROTECTIVE FACTORS
The Office on Child Abuse and Neglect, within the U.S. Department of Health and Human
Services’ Children’s Bureau, released its first Prevention Resource Guide more than 15 years ago
with the goal of raising awareness about emerging child abuse prevention concepts. As in past
years, this guide was developed in partnership with Child Welfare Information Gateway and the
FRIENDS National Center for Community-Based Child Abuse Prevention.
Child abuse prevention occurs at three levels: primary (directed at the general population),
secondary (focused on families where risk factors are present), and tertiary (focused on families
where maltreatment has already occurred). This guide focuses on primary and secondary
prevention: stopping abuse or neglect before it occurs. Because no one can predict exactly
where, when, or in which families abuse or neglect will occur, we believe the best way to prevent
it is to create conditions in which all families can thrive.
Promoting protective factors has been the foundation of the Prevention Resource Guide for many
years. Protective factors are positive conditions or attributes in individuals, families, communities,
or the larger society that mitigate or eliminate risk in families and communities, thereby increasing
the health and well-being of children and families. Protective factors help parents find resources,
supports, or coping strategies that allow them to parent effectively, even under stress. Since 2007,
this Prevention Resource Guide has employed a protective factors framework adapted from the
Strengthening Families framework, developed by the Center for the Study of Social Policy (CSSP).
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The following are the six protective factors in development and ability to thrive in a diverse
this framework: society (C. O’Connor, CSSP, May 13, 2022).
■ Nurturing and attachment1 Today, the importance of protective factors is
■ Knowledge of parenting and child and widely recognized. Some communities have
youth development risen to the challenge and created
comprehensive family well-being systems that
■ Parental resilience
wrap an array of protective interventions
■ Social connections around families with phenomenal results.
■ Concrete supports for parents However, many child- and family-serving
agencies and systems still struggle to
■ Social and emotional competence of
consistently integrate and implement a
children
protective factors approach in their day-to-day
A protective factors approach to the engagement with families.
prevention of child maltreatment focuses on
This Prevention Resource Guide focuses on
positive ways to engage families by
cultivating deeper understanding and
emphasizing their strengths and what is going
providing examples of how families,
well, as well as identifying areas where
neighborhoods, communities, and States are
families may need additional support to reach
using protective factors in their efforts to
their full potential. This approach also can
protect children, strengthen families, and
serve as the basis for collaborative
promote well-being. Throughout this guide,
partnerships with other service providers, such
the protective factors serve as a theoretical
as early childhood, behavioral health,
underpinning for many of the strategies
maternal and child health, and other family-
described. Although they are not always
serving systems that support children and
referenced directly, they continue to be
families and promote well-being.
infused in this work in countless ways.
The protective factors are universal, but they
Foundational information about the protective
manifest differently in different cultural and
factors can be found on the Child Welfare
familial contexts. In applying the framework,
Information Gateway website.
those working with families are encouraged to
affirm families’ culture and parenting styles
and to support children’s positive identity
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“Nurturing and attachment” is not delineated as a separate protective factor within Strengthening Families; however, it
is an implicit and valued component to the entire framework.
Established in 1996, the Community-Based Child Abuse Prevention (CBCAP) program supports grants
in each State that—among many important actions—develop, operate, enhance, and coordinate efforts to
prevent child abuse and neglect and strengthen and support families.
Community Collaborations to Strengthen and Preserve Families grants, funded in 2018 and 2019, support
further development, implementation, and evaluation of community-based primary prevention strategies.
The 2021 Family Support Through Primary Prevention (FSPP) grants are intended to demonstrate
integrated, cross-sector approaches to transforming traditional child welfare systems into comprehensive child
and family well-being systems that enhance protective factors in racially and culturally appropriate ways.
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A SOCIAL-ECOLOGICAL APPROACH
All families face stressors and challenges that ■ Chapter 5: Embracing Community and the
are beyond their control. A social-ecological Wisdom of Families With Lived Expertise
model acknowledges the many different levels ■ Chapter 6: Protective Factors Conversation
of factors that influence caregivers’ ability to Guides for Partnering With Families
nurture and protect their children. These
levels include society (e.g., Federal and State These chapters offer a wealth of information,
policies and societal norms about parenting), resources, and examples from Federal
system (e.g., collaborations within a partners, Children’s Bureau grant recipients,
community or jurisdiction to support families), as well as communities and organizations—
organization (e.g., programs and policies of a publicly and privately funded—that have
single agency), community (e.g., representing employed the strategies in this guide in their
the voices of community members and efforts to effect real change for children and
leaders with lived experience), and the family families.
itself. We have found that the most successful
The overlapping rings in the model show prevention efforts are rarely accomplished by
how factors at one level influence those at implementing an isolated program or
other levels. To prevent maltreatment, it is practice. Instead, these efforts employ and
often necessary to act at multiple levels of the integrate many of the concepts represented
model at the same time. here over time, in authentic partnership with
families and through innovative collaboration
The next five chapters of this guide each with an array of partners, building on lessons
address a different level of the social- learned along the way.
ecological model:
■ Chapter 2: Creating a More Supportive
Society for All Families
■ Chapter 3: Building Proactive Child and
Family Well-Being Systems
■ Chapter 4: Aligning Organizations for
Family Resilience and Healing
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COMMITTING TO EQUITY
Families are impacted by organizations, four social-ecological levels: intrapersonal,
systems, and society in different ways. We interpersonal, institutional/community, and
know that some families, including families of systemic/societal. At each level, the model
color and those living in poverty, experience also describes actions everyone can take
disproportionate systemic challenges, such as to work toward antiracist systems,
underresourced neighborhoods, barriers to institutions, and relationships.
employment, discriminatory housing ■ The World Health Organization’s (WHO’s)
practices, and racially biased policing that social determinants of health framework
routinely challenge the foundation of strong can help us consider the ways that
families and communities. When we disregard socioeconomic and political contexts
the additional stressors families of color and (including policies and societal values)
those living in poverty face, we risk blaming drive inequitable child and family well-
families for poor outcomes rather than taking being outcomes.2 It encourages looking
into account the burdens of oppression and beyond programs that focus on improving
stigma they face. the situations of families that are already in
For these reasons, we have found two vulnerable living and working conditions
additional models essential to expanding the (“intermediary determinants”) toward the
conversation about the myriad influences on creation of policies and processes
family well-being and what we all can do to (“structural determinants”) that can create
change inequitable systems: more equitable opportunities for health
and well-being for all families, across
■ The CSSP created a Social Ecological
generations.
Model of Racism & Anti-Racism that
describes what racism looks like at each of
Sociopolitical and
Economic Context Socioeconomic
Position (of
groups)
Access to healthy
living & working
Structural, cultural, The SEP of groups conditions;
based on social Distribution of
and functional psychosocial,
characteristics (e.g., health and safety
policies and behavioral &
R/E, gender) based on
processes that shape biological supports;
through more or markers of social
how societies are and health & social
less access to educ, advantage and
organized service systems.
occ & income disadvantage
(e.g., R/E,
Human agency and the power of marginalized groups to engage in societal income gender).
decision-making processes that impact opportunity and health.
Intermediary
Structural Determinants of Health Inequities Determinants of Health
Adapted from: WHO. (2010). A conceptual framework for action on the social
determinants of health. WHO. https://apps.who.int/iris/handle/10665/44489
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For more about this model and its application to adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), see https://www.
sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0190740916303449.
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Cilia, A. (2021). The family regulation system: Why those committed to racial justice must interrogate it. Harvard Civil
Rights – Civil Liberties Law Review. https://harvardcrcl.org/the-family-regulation-system-why-those-committed-to-racial-
justice-must-interrogate-it/
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Movement-Building Organizations Supporting Equity and Family Integrity
The upEND Movement, a collaborative movement launched by CSSP and the University of Houston
Graduate College of Social Work, argues that the current child protection system and its policies and
practices are deeply rooted in racism, which results in surveillance and separation of families. It proposes to
dismantle, rather than reform, the current oppressive system and create new, antiracist ways in which society
supports children, families, and communities, including through structures and practices that address family
poverty and strengthen families while keeping children safe and thriving in their homes. A 2021 report, How
We endUP, offers ideas about how communities can move toward the abolition of family policing while
asserting that specific policy and practice changes must be developed in community.
Through its UnSystem Innovation Cohort, Minneapolis-based nonprofit organization Alia committed to
guiding a set of 10 public child welfare agency leaders representing five jurisdictions through a whole-
system transformation process. From 2018 to 2021, each jurisdiction worked with one professional and one
lived-experience guide toward the common aspiration: “Family connections are always preserved and
strengthened.” At its completion, which involved shifts in agency mindset and practice with no legislative
policy change or increased funding allocation, the total number of youth in care across all five cohort
jurisdictions decreased by 29 percent, the total number of youth in residential care decreased by 39 percent,
and the total number of children removed from their families was reduced by 31 percent, with no child
deaths or egregious incidences.
The Movement for Family Power works to “end the foster system’s policing and punishment of families and
to create a world where the dignity and integrity of all families is valued and supported.” Through
conferences and reports and planning and advocacy campaigns, the Movement builds community with and
among people working to shrink the foster care system, raises social consciousness around the harms of the
foster care system in order to reclaim and reimagine safe and healthy families, and disrupts and curtails
foster care system pipelines to reduce the harm inflicted by family separation.
Example: A More Perfect Union needed to share their feelings, gain support
Parent Cafés from each other, and brainstorm strategies
and solutions to keep their families safe.
Be Strong Families (BSF) adapted the Parent
Café model (one approach to structured What emerged was a realization and a tool:
peer-to-peer conversations) to offer parents When people have a safe space to connect
and caregivers an opportunity to connect, across differences, they develop compassion
learn, and get support from each other on for and understanding of other peoples’
racial justice issues. realities, disrupt stereotypes, and create
stronger ties to each other. A More Perfect
A More Perfect Union Parent Cafés began in
Union Parent Cafés, organized around the
2016 because BSF wanted to respond to how
protective factors, honor the broader context
many African American parents were feeling
for parenting in a complex and often unjust
about the racism they were experiencing in
world and help parents and caregivers
their day-to-day lives. Leadership realized that
positively and proactively navigate this
what the organization does best—develop
landscape.
transformative conversations—could allow
people to experience the emotional safety
Creating a More
Supportive Society
for All Families
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protective factors within families by promoting Equity is an important consideration when
norms that encourage and destigmatize looking at the societal context for families. We
families seeking help when needed. know that all families do not share the same
Examples could include promoting messages experience of our society, and the policies
such as, “We all share responsibility for the and outcomes of our current systems are
well-being of children,” and, “All parents often unequal and unjust. The examples in
need support sometimes. It’s okay to ask for this chapter demonstrate an awareness that
help.” meaningful change requires a commitment
to dismantle attitudes, policies, and practices
Research increasingly shows that policies
that perpetuate inequality and interfere with
addressing household financial security are
families’ ability to care for their children. This
effective in reducing child abuse and neglect.
means changing how we personally view,
When parents are financially secure, it is easier
engage, and work with families—including the
for them to provide for their children’s basic
assumptions we make about them and how
needs, offer safe and nurturing care, and
we respond when they experience progress
experience good physical and mental health
and setbacks—as well as shifting from a norm
themselves. Communities can foster well-
of family surveillance to one of social and
being by making it easier for families to
economic support.
access available concrete supports—such as
income and employment support, low-income
tax credits, nutrition assistance, health care,
safe and stable housing, and affordable
high-quality child care—and advocating for
these resources where they are limited or do
not exist.
Goal 2: Use data to inform actions. For more information about other Essentials
for Childhood projects and resources on
Goal 3: Create the context for healthy
norms and policy change, see the CDC’s
children and families through norms change
Essentials for Childhood webpage and
and programs.
the guide to the framework, Essentials for
Goal 4: Create the context for healthy Childhood: Creating Safe, Stable, Nurturing
children and families through policies. Relationships and Environments for All
Children.
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Sege, R., & Stephens, A. (2022). Child physical abuse did not increase during the pandemic. JAMA Pediatrics, 176(4),
338–340. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34928320/; Chaiyachati, B. H. et al. (2022). Emergency department child
abuse evaluations during COVID-19: A multicenter study. Pediatrics, 150(1). https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/
article/150/1/e2022056284/188279/Emergency-Department-Child-Abuse-Evaluations; Maassel, N. L., Asnes, A. G.,
Leventhal, J. M., & Solomon, D. G. (2021). Hospital admissions for abusive head trauma at children’s hospitals during
COVID-19. Pediatrics, 148(1). https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/148/1/e2021050361/179710/Hospital-
Admissions-for-Abusive-Head-Trauma-at; Barboza, G. E., Schiamberg, L. B., & Pachl, L. (2021). A spatiotemporal analysis
of the impact of COVID-19 on child abuse and neglect in the city of Los Angeles, California. Child Abuse & Neglect,
116(Pt 2). https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7494263/
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child abuse and neglect fatalities both report because they are concerned about a
decreased from federal fiscal year (FFY) 2019 family that needs help and feel they have no
to FFY 2021. other option.5
A survey of parents about their experiences Changing societal norms to promote seeking
during the pandemic, conducted by the and accessing supports can help. Through
American Academy of Pediatrics, in public awareness campaigns, policy changes,
collaboration with the CDC, Prevent Child and trusted messengers, we can raise people’s
Abuse America, and Tufts Medical Center, awareness of misconceptions about what
offers some potential explanations for this brings families to the attention of CPS and
decline. Although many families did influence communities to try new family
experience job losses and increased financial support strategies. For example, changing
stress, they also had access to support in the norms around mandated reporting is a good
form of enhanced unemployment assistance, place to start—emphasizing instead society’s
stimulus payments, and eviction moratoriums. common responsibility to provide help for
Rather than creating more risk, more family struggling families before they’re in crisis.
time together was positively associated with Please see the information on page 12 under
better family mental health. Community-Based Child Abuse Prevention to
learn how one jurisdiction has developed a
This is not to say that harmful abuse and
“Mandatory Supporter Training.”
neglect should not be reported—it absolutely
should. However, nearly half (46 percent) of Many communities are working to normalize
reports currently are “screened out” (meaning seeking and accessing help through increased
what is being reported does not meet the partnerships, including with families, and
statutory definition of abuse or neglect). expanding their service array to develop a
Among reports that are screened in, only 16 comprehensive continuum of supports and
percent are substantiated. At best, this means resources to prevent child maltreatment.
most families reported to CPS will receive no Family resource centers (FRCs) are one way to
services as a result. At worst, an investigation provide a wide range of supports to meet
can cause additional stress and harm, families’ diverse needs. Family resource or
including long-term impacts on a parent’s support centers offer universal services and
employment and income, in a family that may are often guided and staffed by members of
already be vulnerable. the communities they serve, making for a
welcoming, culturally responsive space.
Even more problematic, families of color have
Another example are “warmlines” or
an increased risk of child welfare involvement
“helplines,” which provide an alternative to
due to increased surveillance and
CPS hotlines for mandated reporters, the
overreporting, resulting in racial inequity
general public, or families seeking additional
within child protection systems. Research in
support. Warmlines can offer families
20 large U.S. counties found that the
voluntary help by connecting them with a
percentage of children experiencing a CPS
wider range of resources and supports,
investigation before the age of 18 was highest
including food, clothing, housing, medical
for Black children, in some cases as high as 50
and behavioral health-care services,
to 60 percent. Focus groups with mandated
education-related resources, legal
reporters sometimes show that they know
representation, transportation, child care, or
what they are reporting does not meet the
even ongoing support through a home
standard of abuse or intentional neglect; they
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“Risk and safety assessment 201: How issues of race, equity and diversity impact risk and safety assessment.”
[Webinar]. https://www.childwelfare.gov/resources/risk-safety-assessment-how-issues-race-equity-diversity-impact-risk-
safety-assessment/
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City of Philadelphia Department of Human Services,
Office of Children and Families. (2020). Entry rate and
disproportionality study: Phase one. [Unpublished]. To
learn more, visit “Risk and safety assessment 201: How
issues of race, equity and diversity impact risk and safety
assessment.” [Webinar]. https://www.childwelfare.gov/
resources/risk-safety-assessment-how-issues-race-equity-
diversity-impact-risk-safety-assessment/
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sector investments. This, in turn, leads to originally developed to connect families
persistent poverty and surveillance by child- with children up to age 3 with voluntary
serving systems. home visiting services based on their
eligibility and interests.
In fall 2021, Philadelphia’s Department of
Human Services (DHS) was awarded an FSPP The FSPP grant funds will allow the
grant from the Children’s Bureau. Philadelphia Philadelphia DHS to expand the PF CAN
is using its FSPP grant to focus on building support line. The goal is a universal service
equity and addressing structural racism within for families with children up to age 17,
city systems. The city’s strategy has three connecting them with housing and social,
components: emotional, and behavioral health supports.
■ Modifying and supplementing the State’s The service will expand connections with
mandated reporter training to encourage a community service providers that are outside
culture of support rather than surveillance. of the formal child welfare system.
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Children Trust Michigan is involved in a 3-year project with the University of
Michigan and the Office of Minority Health researching how access to the Earned
Income Tax Credit (EITC) could reduce child maltreatment, poverty, and adverse
childhood experiences (ACEs).
Community-Based
Child Abuse The EITC Access Project provides community education statewide to destigmatize
Prevention
receipt of EITC and help caregivers understand who is eligible and how to apply.
Children Trust Flyers and informational materials are culturally appropriate and translated into
Michigan languages that make sense for the communities being served, including Spanish,
Arabic, and Burmese. Additional languages, such as French, are in the process of
being included to respond to community needs.
The following are questions to consider about social norms and policies supporting household
financial security. They were designed to be used for reflection about direct practice with families
and as a starting point for conversations within community groups, agencies, or jurisdictions.
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Questions to Consider in Collaboration With Community and Agency Partners:
■ How could we assess the social and cultural norms around parenting, supporting families, and seeking
help in our community?
– How could we begin to shift our community norms from a focus on mandated reporting to
mandated supporting?
– How might social and cultural norms around parenting and asking for help affect how our offers of
support are received?
– How are families involved in the design, development, and implementation of programs and
practice?
■ Which evidence-based policies identified by the Essentials for Childhood framework are currently in place
within our jurisdiction?
– What do data tell us about which policies are working well for children and families? Which policies
might need to change to enable all families to thrive?
– How are we engaging and listening to families in our policy analysis and change efforts?
– What policies are currently in place to address historic and systemic inequities in our community?
Is diversity (e.g., race, ethnicity, gender, language, geography) represented in leadership positions
guiding the development and implementation of policies that impact children and families?
Building Proactive
Child and Family
Well-Being Systems
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Child and family well-being systems are Another hallmark of a child and family well-
grounded in the analysis of multiple sources being system is the use of primary
of data to identify the underlying strengths prevention strategies to promote the skills,
and needs of the local community: Which strengths, and supports that all parents need
groups of people have been marginalized and to keep their children safe and thriving. These
in what ways? Which specific needs are most efforts are available to support all families and
prevalent? Are community assets and prevent harm before it occurs. They include
resources accessible in the communities with strategies such as home visiting and FRCs,
the greatest needs? which are embedded in the community and
offer parents and caregivers a variety of formal
Collective data analysis can help build a
and informal supports. Primary prevention
strong sense of shared responsibility and
strategies are generally less expensive and
commitment to a common goal. Some
less intrusive in the lives of families than child
communities also employ a framework of
welfare system involvement and entering
collective impact, a structured form of
foster care.
collaboration that brings together partners
committed to solving a specific social The examples in this chapter demonstrate
problem. These communities increasingly some of the ways collective approaches to
center equity as they seek to optimize the family support can be grounded in equity,
health and well-being of children and families data, and evidence of what works.
by aligning their actions to change systems.
Recent efforts in Douglas County supported by this grant include the following:
• Developing a work plan to increase alignment across DCCR activities with an
intentional focus on equity and partnering with individuals with lived experience
• Hosting DCCR’s first Race Equity Retreat, including codesigning next steps
toward systemwide equity
• Hiring a Community Café collaborative associate to implement parent-hosted
Community Cafés
With additional funding from the Pritzker Foundation, DCCR is also codesigning and
cocreating an enhanced home visiting plan with individuals with lived experience. A
Promoting Equity Group was established to prevent common pitfalls of working with
individuals with lived experience, including tokenism, with best practices such as
intentional onboarding and trust building.
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USING COMMUNITY DATA TO PREVENT CHILD ABUSE
AND NEGLECT
Data are the foundation of a public health experts agree that predictive analytics are
approach. Robust, integrated, multisystemic most useful when data support (rather than
data help communities understand the nature supplant) human judgment and when
and extent of family risk and protective systems are implemented with community
factors, map community assets, effectively transparency and input.
direct prevention resources, and monitor the ■ Use data mapping, which employs
progress and impact of chosen interventions. geographic information systems to
The following are a few of the many ways to visualize specific demographic information
enhance the use of community-level data in along geographic boundaries. For
child abuse prevention efforts: example, researchers can look at the
correlation between poverty rates or other
■ Support and expand the practice of
demographic data and reports of child
data sharing among organizations
abuse in neighborhoods to begin to
serving children, youth, and families,
understand where additional resources
including the courts, child welfare services,
may be needed or why certain areas have
law enforcement, mental health and
higher rates of foster care.
substance use disorder services, and other
systems, to better identify and serve ■ Track the well-being of children and
families in need of support before a crisis families over time. Data can help monitor
occurs. Data-sharing efforts should the progress of individual prevention
consider issues of confidentiality, common strategies, assess how well they are
data elements, the integration of different working, and inform where changes are
information systems, and other factors. needed to improve outcomes. Some
communities are exploring the
■ Review and present data with a racial
development of community-level safety
equity lens, including consistently
and well-being indicators to provide
disaggregating data by race and ethnicity.
similar information about the success of
When disparity or disproportionality is
their collaborative efforts.
revealed, explore structural causes to
avoid perpetuating group stereotypes. ■ Include lived experience experts in data
analysis. Individuals who have been
■ Explore ethical uses of predictive
impacted by child welfare can shed new
analytics, which is the use of past data to
light on and provide critical context for
predict what will happen in the future.
data. They also can help ensure that data
Such approaches, when used mindfully,
are presented in ways that are easily
may improve the accuracy of decision-
grasped by all, including collaborative
making and help ensure scarce resources
partners who are not as familiar with
reach those who need them most.
research and child welfare. When
However, predictive analytics must be
interpreted and analyzed together, data
used with caution. Without ethical
can serve as the foundation of a stronger
oversight and careful attention to data
roadmap for collective efforts.
quality, child welfare agencies risk
interpreting results inaccurately and
exacerbating racism and disparities. Many
DCFS convened an advisory board of State and local partners to review the data.
Members of this group represent a cross-section of organizations related to children
and family services, including early childhood education programs, the Little Rock
school district, city of Little Rock employees, domestic violence shelters, homeless
shelters, the local children’s hospital, substance use treatment providers, and many
more. Predict-Align-Prevent also invited input from local faith leaders and worked
with a team at the University of Arkansas to conduct focus groups with community
members of high-risk areas. The advisory board assisted DCFS in conducting an
environmental scan to identify the programs already serving children and families in
high-need areas and pinpoint any gaps.
Once the analysis and environmental scans are completed, the advisory board
will recommend evidence-based strategies to address identified risk factors and
promote more protective factors for families. These recommendations will serve as a
blueprint for securing and deploying new resources as they become available.
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■ Shared measurement systems, with Collective impact efforts that center equity
agreement on how child abuse prevention utilize five strategies:
and family well-being will be measured ■ Ground the work in data and context, and
and reported for accountability target solutions.
■ Mutually reinforcing activities ■ Focus on systems change, in addition to
undertaken by participants in ways that programs and services.
support and coordinate with other partners
■ Shift power within the collaborative.
within an overarching plan
■ Listen to and act with community.
■ Continuous communication among
partners to develop trust and a common ■ Build equity leadership and accountability.
vocabulary
A critical element of this is meaningful
■ Backbone support provided by a separate engagement and leadership of youth,
organization and staff with specific skills in caregivers, and other community members.
facilitation, technology, communications, Without intentional community engagement
data collection and reporting, and logistics and involvement, proposed solutions may not
be appropriate, acceptable, or compatible
A 2022 article in the Stanford Social
with community needs, and changes may
Innovation Review refines the definition of
reinforce existing inequitable power
collective impact further. More than a decade
structures.
of observation and study has revealed that
centering equity is the most important Agencies focused on child and family well-
element of successful collective impact efforts. being and child abuse prevention may well
Therefore, the authors propose a revised find that their goals are consistent with a
definition of collective impact as “a network community group that is already employing a
of community members, organizations, and collective impact approach. If not, they might
institutions that advances equity by learning consider starting such a group.
together, aligning, and integrating their
actions to achieve population and systems- To find more information, visit the Collective
level change.” Impact Forum.
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Kania, J., Williams, J., Schmitz, P., Brady, S., Kramer, M., & Juster, J. S. (2022). “Centering equity in collective
impact.” Stanford Social Innovation Review. https://ssir.org/articles/entry/centering_equity_in_collective_impact
The “Pair of ACEs Tree” graphic, created by the Center for Community Resilience (CCR),
illustrates this as a relationship between ACEs and adverse community environments. In other
words, it is difficult to change the outcomes (represented in the graphic as the branches of the
tree) without addressing their systemic roots.
Violence
Discrimination
Poor Housing
Community Lack of Opportunity, Economic Quality &
Disruption Mobility & Social Capital Affordability
Ellis, W., Dietz, W.H., Chen, K.D. (2022). Community Resilience: A Dynamic Model for Public Health 3.0. Journal of Public Health
Management and Practice, (28)1, S18-S26. doi: 10.1097/PHH.0000000000001413
A second graphic shows, by contrast, how equitable and trauma-responsive systems support
the elements of community resilience, including safe and stable neighborhoods, social and
economic mobility, and healthy and supported individuals and families.
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CCR uses these graphics and other tools to
engage multisector groups of collaborators in
developing policy goals that better address the
forms of adversity rooted in inequitable systems “By asking the question,
and communities. ‘What’s in your soil?,’
CCR’s approach is based on four central
communities can begin
components applied as a continuous to set goals and
improvement model: implement policy and
1. Creating a shared understanding of childhood practice change that
and community adversity builds community
2. Assessing system readiness resilience.”
3. Developing cross-sector partnerships —Wendy Ellis, Dr.P.H.,
4. Engaging families and residents in a M.P.H., director, Center for
collaborative response to prevent and address Community Resilience at
the pair of ACEs the Milken Institute School
of Public Health at George
More information is available on the Center for Washington University
Community Resilience website.
Promising and successful primary prevention ■ Inclusive of concrete supports (e.g., limited
programs include services and resources that financial assistance, food assistance,
have the following characteristics: housing assistance, legal services, respite,
or child care), clinical services, and peer
■ Available to anyone who lives in the
mentoring
community, not just to families deemed to
be at risk ■ Provided through braided funding that
may include Federal, State, county, city,
■ Offered on a voluntary basis
and private dollars8
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U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families, Children’s Bureau. (2018).
Strengthening families through primary prevention of child maltreatment and unnecessary parent-child separation (ACYF-
CB-IM-18-05).
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For example, Family Connects is an evidence- ■ Nurturing and attachment: Mothers
based program (EBP) that connects all parents expressed increased responsivity to, and
of newborns in the service area, regardless of acceptance of, their infants.
socioeconomic status, to the community ■ Concrete supports: Home environments
resources they need through postpartum were improved, with homes being safer
nurse home visits. The model was first piloted and having more learning materials to
in Durham, NC, in 2008. support infant development.
Randomized controlled trials have shown that ■ Social connections: Connections to
Family Connects strengthens the following community resources and services
protective factors during the first 6 months of increased.
a child’s life:
In one trial, families who participated had
■ Parental resilience: Mothers were 30 44-percent fewer investigations for suspected
percent less likely to report postpartum child abuse and neglect through the second
depression or anxiety. year of life, compared with similar families that
■ Knowledge of parenting and child did not participate. These families maintained
development: Mothers reported a 39-percent reduction in child maltreatment
significantly more positive parenting investigations though age 5.
behaviors, such as hugging, comforting,
and reading to their infants.
The following are questions to consider as you build more supportive systems for children and
families. They were designed to be used for reflection about direct practice with families and as
a starting point for conversations within community groups, agencies, or jurisdictions.
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Questions to Consider in Collaboration With Community and Agency Partners:
■ What sources of data could help us better understand families’ strengths and needs at a population level?
– What prevents or impedes data sharing in our community? Who could help us address these
barriers?
– How might our community benefit from the use of predictive analytics or data mapping? (Check
out Casey Family Programs’ free, interactive Community Opportunity Map.)
– What do the data show about the outcomes that different races and ethnicities experience from
systems, policies, and programs? If disparities are present, which policies or practices (present and
historical) have contributed most to those differences?
– How can we increasingly employ people with diverse and lived expertise to collect and analyze data?
■ What collaborations already exist in our community to help families and children thrive? How can we
contribute? (Consider lending your voice and skills to an existing collaboration before starting a new one,
if possible. Places to look for collaborators with similar goals include the areas of public health, early
childhood education, and violence prevention.)
– What sectors are currently represented in our collaborative groups? Which are missing or
underrepresented? Have we reached out to philanthropic partners, the business community, and
faith communities?
– How are we engaging or inviting the voices and leadership of community members and persons
with lived expertise in our efforts?
– If we are not currently using collective impact, how could that model provide a helpful structure for
our efforts?
■ What are the primary prevention strategies in our community? How can we strengthen those supports
to help all families thrive?
– What evidence-based or evidence-supported child maltreatment prevention strategies are currently
available to all families in our community? Which could be expanded? Where are the gaps?
– How could our community normalize seeking and receiving support by families? Which families are
more likely to engage in family support and prevention services and why? What steps do we need
to take to ensure a more universal approach to engaging all families in prevention services?
Aligning Organizations
for Family Resilience
and Healing
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In working with the whole family, it is personal trauma histories and/or are exposed
important to recognize how trauma can to secondary traumatic stress (STS) through
impact children and their caregivers. Research their day-to-day work with families.
has shown that exposure to ACEs—including
Research is now identifying positive
domestic violence, parental incarceration,
childhood experiences (PCEs) that may
mental illness, and substance use—can have
reduce the long-term effects of ACEs. These
lifelong health impacts. These experiences
findings underscore the importance of
within families are often exacerbated by
focusing on the critical early relationships
adverse community factors such as inequity,
between children and their caregivers, while
discrimination, and violence. Recent
also suggesting evidence-informed ways to
discoveries in neuroscience demonstrate that
build resilience for children into adolescence.
a prolonged, unresolved “toxic” stress
We know that changes in the brain continue
response triggered by ACEs and other
to occur at key periods throughout our
traumatic experiences can physiologically alter
lifetimes. Healing is possible at any age, and
the structure of the brain, particularly in the
there is always room for hope. Understanding
absence of a nurturing adult to help the child
the factors that support well-being, including
process the experience and feel safe.
protective factors and other PCEs, helps
Becoming more trauma responsive and organizations develop and maintain a positive
healing centered helps organizations and focus.
systems meet parents and caregivers where
This chapter highlights examples of strategies
they are and support them in building
that value children’s families and culture,
capacity to protect and nurture their children.
recognize and address the effects of trauma
Becoming more trauma responsive can also
on both families and their own workforce, and
help organizations better understand and
promote PCEs to build resilience in the next
support their own staff, many of whom have
generation.
The protective factors framework has long by intentionally and simultaneously working
recognized the interdependence of child and with children and the adults in their lives.
family well-being, noting the importance of
For example, at the onset of the COVID-19
parental resilience, concrete supports, and
pandemic, many jurisdictions faced a choice in
social connections to the prevention of child
how to respond to a sudden decline in child
abuse and neglect. However, many human
protection hotline calls and accompanying
services organizations still offer support in
concerns about child safety. Some took a
exclusively a child-focused or parent-focused
strictly child safety-focused approach by
way. 2Gen approaches build family well-being
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Ascend, Aspen Institute. Advancing family economic mobility. A 2Gen approach.
The books provide an opportunity for bonding between children and their older family members as they
read together, while supporting the whole family in connecting with their cultural identity to foster well-
being. This strategy is part of a larger language revitalization effort that also includes the creation and
distribution of a deck of playing cards with cultural designs, as well as revival of traditional sports and more
formal language instruction.
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The Prevention and Early Intervention (PEI) Division of the Texas Department of
Family Protective Services launched the Fatherhood EFFECT (Educating Fathers for
Empowering Children Tomorrow) program in 2015. Fatherhood EFFECT, which is
supported with CBCAP funding, encourages healthy father engagement through
Community-Based
evidence-based programs in seven communities across the State.
Child Abuse
Prevention Fathers and father figures most frequently join the free parent education program to
Texas gain tools to be the best dad they can be to support their child. However, once
Prevention there they also enjoy personal support from facilitators and fellow participants. The
and Early listening and positive regard from program facilitators, in particular, contrasts with
Intervention negative interactions fathers frequently report having with other social programs,
Division where they may feel excluded or devalued.
The Child and Family Research Partnership (now the Prenatal-to-3 Policy Impact
Center) evaluated the success of the Fatherhood EFFECT program through a
mixed-methods approach. The evaluation noted that participants felt the facilitator
support and connections to other community resources were as valuable to them as
the parenting curriculum. In 2020, PEI expanded Fatherhood EFFECT’s scope to
include collaborating with community coalitions, encouraging other family-serving
organizations to increase the quality of supports targeted specifically for fathers, and
pivoting to explicitly include and support fathers across multiple programs in an
organization or community.
PEI worked with the Prenatal-to-3 Policy Impact Center to create and publish a
fatherhood website called the Fatherhood Resource Hub. The website recognizes
the important role fathers play in the lives of their children, families, and
communities. Resources include research on father involvement, tools to help
family-serving organizations with their efforts to serve fathers, and tools for
communities such as how to build a fatherhood coalition.
PEI also sponsors localized annual Fatherhood Summits. In 2022, five Fatherhood
EFFECT grant recipients held summits to mobilize the community around the
importance of fathers, amplify father voices, and offer unique community events,
including father-child and family-oriented activities.
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The NCTSN Trauma-Informed Organizational ■ Addressing, reducing, and treating STS
Assessment is a tool to help organizations ■ Partnering with youth and families
assess their current practices in the context of
serving children and families who have ■ Addressing the intersections of culture,
experienced trauma. Results from the race, and trauma
assessment can drive change to facilitate the The assessment will contribute to the body of
recovery of the child and family, maximize evidence around the importance of being
physical and psychological safety, provide for trauma informed. If you are interested in using
the needs and well-being of staff, and support this tool, please contact [email protected].
the child’s and family’s ability to thrive.
Created by NCCTS, the assessment is Another example of a tool funded by NCTSN
arranged by domains and maps onto the is the Intermountain Healthcare (Utah) care
NCTSN definition of a trauma-informed child process model, Diagnosis and Management
and family service system. of Traumatic Stress in Pediatric Patients. The
guide cites the high prevalence of traumatic
The following domains are included in the experiences and their disproportionate impact
assessment: on children of color and poor health and
■ Trauma screening mental health outcomes as the reasons for
developing the guide. It offers best-practice
■ Assessment, care planning, and treatment
recommendations for primary care and
■ Workforce development children’s advocacy center settings, age-
■ Strengthening resilience and protective appropriate screening tools and road maps
factors for care, and specific guidance for immediate
in-office interventions for specific trauma
■ Addressing parent and caregiver trauma
symptoms. Care providers are urged to follow
■ Continuity of care and cross-system up with children and families at regular
collaboration intervals.
When the Salt River Pima-Maricopa Indian Community recognized that its social services programs were
seeing recurring struggles in multiple generations of the same families, the Tribal Council undertook a new
initiative to become better informed as a community about historical and intergenerational trauma.
They began with focus groups, an organizational survey, and interviews with staff in three departments (social
services, the family advocacy center, and health and human services) that encounter many of the same
families. All staff, as well as all members of the Tribal Council, received training on trauma, historical trauma,
and developing a healthy racial and ethnic identity.
The community’s behavioral health services and family advocacy center now employ trauma-trained
therapists who offer evidence-based, culturally responsive treatment. They use the Medicine Wheel, familiar
to many American Indian/Alaska Native people, to explain the impact of trauma on families and encourage
healing. The Department of Social Services created the Circles of Support program, which accepts referrals
from multiple Tribal departments, including education, to identify and wrap services around families at risk
before they reach a crisis. When a crisis does occur and CPS are needed, a trauma-response team provides
advocacy and support to the family involved.
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■ Constructive engagement and social Creating Trauma-Responsive
connectedness. We all need to know that Organizational Cultures
we matter to other people and to our
Community-based organizations, including
communities. That starts when children
schools, FRCs, and shelters, interact with
are given responsibilities for family
children and families every day, yet their staff
chores. Older children and teenagers
may receive minimal training on the impact
benefit from opportunities to volunteer in
of trauma or the building blocks for well-
their communities and participate in their
being. In addition, staff in human services are
school activities, faith communities, and
more likely than the general public to have
cultural traditions.
experienced trauma in their own lives,
■ Opportunities to develop social and including financial stress and racial trauma as
emotional intelligence through playing well as secondary traumatic stress.10 This
and learning with peers and collaboration trauma, if unaddressed, can “snowball” into
in art, drama, and music. Social and organization-wide problems such as
emotional competencies like self- decreased efficiency, job dissatisfaction, and
awareness and self-regulation are high rates of absenteeism and turnover.
key to lifelong resilience and social
support as adults. Massachusetts aims to address these
concerns through its Center on Child
The Children’s Bureau Learning and Wellbeing and Trauma. The center is a
Coordination Center offers a training module partnership of the Massachusetts Office of
called Transforming Experience Through the Child Advocate and Commonwealth
HOPE, which is grounded in the work of the Medicine, a division of the University of
HOPE National Resource Center. Massachusetts Chan Medical School.
Launched in 2021, it supports child-serving
organizations in multiple disciplines to
10
See for example Bryce, I., Pye, D., Beccaria, G., McIlveen, P., & Du Preez, J. (2021). A systematic literature review of
the career choice of helping professionals who have experienced cumulative harm as a result of adverse childhood
experiences. Trauma, Violence, and Abuse. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/15248380211016016
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Questions to Consider
CHAPTER 4
The following are questions to consider as you align your work with a whole-family, trauma-
responsive approach to child abuse prevention. They were designed to be used for reflection
about direct practice with families and as a starting point for conversations within community
groups, agencies, or jurisdictions.
■ In what areas has our organization become trauma informed and responsive? (See the list of domains in
NCTSN’s self- assessment, referenced on page 34.) What are some opportunities for growth?
– What are the roots of trauma in our communities? In what areas has our organization become
involved in preventing trauma? Are there times when our organization may further traumatize
children or families?
– How does our agency recognize the role of race, culture, ethnicity, and inequality in family and
caregiver experiences of trauma and healing?
– How does our agency partner with families and youth in planning, selecting, and evaluating
trauma-responsive and healing-centered services and supports?
– How do our agency’s training, supervision, and policies help to prevent and address STS among
our workforce?
■ How might we create or support PCEs through our programming and outreach?
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CHAPTER FIVE
Embracing Community
and the Wisdom of
Families With Lived
Experience
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FEDERAL FOCUS: HEAD START/EARLY HEAD START
POLICY COUNCILS
Head Start and Early Head Start are national structure. The Head Start Program
models of early care and education with Performance Standards describe what policy
strong foundations in family engagement and councils do and who can be a member.
community partnership. The founders of Head
Policy council members make decisions about
Start viewed parents as essential partners in
how the program operates and give important
the agency’s work to educate young children
input related to program funding and human
and ensure their health and well-being. They
resources, for example. Parents who serve on
believed that parents receiving Head Start
the council receive training and support to
services should help decide how those
ensure they are prepared to make those
services could most benefit their family and
decisions. Serving on the policy council
other families in the community.
strengthens parents’ leadership and advocacy
As a result, Head Start created a formal skills as well as their connections to their
leadership and policymaking role for parents peers and the community.
and community members, referred to in Head
Head Start offers a number of useful policy
Start/Early Head Start programs as a “policy
council resources for both organizations and
council.” Today, every Head Start and Early
parents.
Head Start agency is required to have a policy
council as part of its shared leadership
■ Providing direct services, such as through 1. Strong partnerships begin with self-
parent partner programs reflection. Before engaging parents,
caregivers, or youth, organizational leaders
■ Participating in governance and hiring
are encouraged to reflect on why the
personnel
partnership is important; what strengths
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Parents and Children Together-St. Louis (PACT-STL) is a 5-year initiative funded by
the Children’s Bureau in 2019 through a Community Collaborations to Strengthen
and Preserve Families grant. The project aims to reduce entries into foster care by
linking families to the services they need before stressors become crises. PACT-STL
Community
Collaborations to maintains a strong commitment to centering the voices of parents with lived
Strengthen and experience in all aspects of the project.
Preserve Families
PACT-STL uses a parent-facilitated café model to encourage dialogue about the
Parents and community’s most pressing issues and concerns. Gatherings include traditional
Children parent cafés and dad cafés that focus on building the protective factors within
Together-St. families, as well as vitality cafés (focused on individual growth and well-being) and
Louis (MO)
community cafés (focused on positive community change). Participant outcomes
include improved communication skills, increased patience with children, and
strengthened community support and connection.
When PACT-STL began to see a decline in participation in its café offerings, it turned
to its Parent and Youth Advisory Council (PYAC) for insight. Open to all parents and
caregivers who have experience with the child protection system, PYAC provides
feedback on proposed activities, identifies systemic changes needed to better serve
families, and helps promote PACT-STL activities. This group identified several
strategies that were implemented in 2022 to increase café engagement, including
more flexible scheduling, the use of social media and ambassadors to recruit
participants, and a hybrid networking model.
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■ Be open to transformative change— set of theme-based discussion prompts and
truly doing things differently. activities and is organized into five principles:
Transformation is more likely when ■ Context centers on truth and
meaningful community engagement reconciliation, which requires leaning into
occurs because community members may this work from a place of humility and
be less attached to the status quo.11 acknowledgement of harm done. It asks
Organizations and systems will benefit leaders to reflect on their role in the system
most from community engagement when and use that as a starting point for change.
they do their best to engage diverse
members of the community, actively seek ■ Compassion prioritizes psychological
out new and different perspectives, and safety and well-being to support the
are willing to engage in difficult human and emotional needs of leaders,
conversations. staff, and families.
■ Change requires personal and
Dear Leaders: Establishing Trust to professional development in new
Support Meaningful Cocreation ways. Change-oriented leaders reflect on
the power they hold as individuals and the
“Cocreation” or codesign is a participatory areas they need to grow to nurture their
process of designing programs, services, teams and their community.
and systems in which community members
■ Consistency centers around follow up and
with lived expertise collaborate equally with
follow through and talking less and doing
program leaders and staff.
more. Consistent leaders are brave in the
Agencies that wish to engage parents, youth, face of discomfort and affirm their
and community members in codesign efforts commitment by taking action despite
often face a common challenge—a lack of challenges that stand in their way.
trust. In 2021, Alia convened a group of lived ■ Collaboration is about sharing power and
experts and child welfare leaders in a human- creating ways to actively amplify and
centered design process facilitated by the design with people with lived
global design and innovation company IDEO experience—without tokenizing
to help child welfare systems connect with them. Collaborative leaders strive to build
communities as they rebuild after COVID-19. relationships of mutuality and solidarity
The how-to guide to community codesign with their teams, families, and those
became a how-to guide for systems to impacted by the system to move the work
become more trustworthy partners. The result forward.
is Dear Leaders.
You can find more information or download
Dear Leaders is a resource designed to help the tool on the Alia website.
systems create the conditions for bringing
family voice and power to the system by
guiding leaders and workers in systems to
listen deeply without agenda, recognize harm,
plan for accountability, and communicate with
transparency. Dear Leaders comprises a
11
Smart, J. (2017). Critiques of collective impact: Need for policy and systems change. In: Collective impact: Evidence
and implications for practice. CFCA Paper No. 45. Child Family Community Australia.
Ohio Children’s Trust Fund (OCTF) received an FSPP grant in September 2021 to
support cross-sector approaches to primary prevention at the State and local levels.
Leaders from multiple State departments come together regularly to discuss how
families are experiencing State systems and explore strategies that can be tested in
Family Support county demonstration sites.
Through Primary
Prevention Intentional engagement of people with lived experience has been central to Ohio’s
Ohio approach. The State cross-sector group has a trichair structure that includes a
Children’s representative from OCTF, one from the Governor’s Children’s Initiative, and a parent
Trust Fund representative. In one of its earliest meetings, the group participated in a full-day
retreat facilitated by Alia, drawing from the Dear Leaders toolkit (as previously
described on page 48).
OCTF has been laying the groundwork for a high level of parent leadership for several
years, through the creation of regional prevention councils and implementation of a
parent advocacy training throughout the State. Providers and parents complete the
training in pairs and then work together to train other parent and provider teams to
advocate effectively for change within public systems. Ohio is also working to create a
centralized lived-experience advisory council at the State level that would be charged with
lifting up the perspectives and recommendations of various local and regional groups.
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Questions to Consider
CHAPTER 5
The following are questions to consider as your organization enhances its partnerships and
power sharing with people with lived expertise. They were designed to be used for reflection
about direct practice with families and as a starting point for conversations within community
groups, agencies, or jurisdictions.
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CHAPTER SIX
Protective Factors
Conversation Guides
for Partnering With
Families
The innermost layer of the social-ecological model represents ways that we can support
individual families in protecting their children and helping them thrive. The conversation
guides in this chapter were created to help you engage parents and caregivers in personalized,
constructive conversations about how the protective factors contribute to positive outcomes for
families. Each guide targets one of the six factors:
■ Nurturing and Attachment: “We love each other”
■ Knowledge of Parenting: “I can choose what works best for my children”
■ Parental Resilience: “I deserve self-care”
■ Social Connections: “We are connected”
■ Concrete Support for Families: “I can find help for my family”
■ Social/Emotional Competence: “I help my child learn social skills”
3 Review key points with the caregiver, using the Guide for Professionals that
accompanies each conversation guide.
4 Build on strengths. Encourage caregivers to talk about what they know and
are doing well.
7 Focus on the positive, but don’t minimize real concerns. Families’ openness
to these conversations will vary. Sometimes, overwhelming stressors will make it
difficult to think beyond a present crisis. Address those concerns first.
These conversation guides are intended to stimulate thinking—not to represent all possible ways
to discuss each factor. Feel free to adapt this approach and language to suit your community and
caregivers’ needs. Then, tell us about it by taking our survey at https://bit.ly/resourceguidesurvey.
We would love to hear how you’re using this information in your community!
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Nurturing and
Attachment
Strong early bonds with caregivers build healthy brains. Nurturing and attachment with caring adults in early
life is associated with better grades, healthier behaviors, stronger friendships, and an increased ability to cope
with stress later in life.
Nurturing is important at all ages. Parents nurture their children as they grow by making time to listen to them,
being involved and interested in their child’s school and other activities, staying aware of their interests and
friends, and being willing to advocate for their children and youth when necessary.
Trauma and stress can interfere with parents’ ability to nurture their children. Daily or acute stressors, such
as financial stress, family or community violence, past traumas, or caring for a child with special needs, can make
taking time to focus on nurturing more challenging for some parents. They may need extra reassurance that
showing their children love and affection makes a difference.
Showing love for your ■ Ask: What gets in the way of nurturing?
children matters a lot! ■ Prompt for acute and/or daily stressors and challenging child behaviors.
Talk about how children’s ability to show affection can also affect
parenting.
■ Ask: Did you know that the love you show for your children actually
grows their brains and makes them smarter? Little things every day
add up.
Families show affection in ■ Set the tone: I’m interested in learning how love and affection are
different ways. A variety of expressed in your family.
factors—including how our own ■ Go through the list and ask parents to circle or check the ways they like
parents showed affection to us to show affection to their children.
or didn’t—can affect how we ■ Encourage parents to add other ways that aren’t on the list.
nurture our children.
Some days are easier than ■ Ask: What gets in the way of nurturing? (Prompt for acute and/or daily
others. stressors and challenging child behaviors.)
■ Ask: What do you do to care for yourself so that these things don’t get
in the way of showing the love you feel for your child?
Children need nurturing ■ Encourage parents to write one thing on the calendar they could do
every day. each day to show their children how much they are loved.
Los fuertes lazos tempranos con proveedores de cuidado construyen cerebros saludables. La crianza afectiva
y el apego a adultos afectuosos en la vida temprana se asocian con mejores calificaciones, comportamientos más
saludables, amistades más fuertes y una mayor capacidad para enfrentar el estrés en el futuro.
La crianza afectiva es importante en todas las edades. Los padres promueven el desarrollo de sus hijos al
dedicarles tiempo y escucharlos, participar y mostrar interés en la escuela y actividades de sus hijos, estar al tanto
de sus intereses y amigos, y estar dispuestos a abogar por sus hijos y jóvenes cuando sea necesario.
El trauma y el estrés pueden interferir con la capacidad de los padres para cuidar a sus hijos. Para algunos
padres, los factores estresantes diarios o agudos (como estrés financiero, violencia familiar o comunitaria, traumas
pasados o cuidar a un niño con necesidades especiales) pueden hacer que sea difícil enfocarse en la crianza
afectiva. Pueden necesitar reconfirmación de que mostrarles amor y afecto a sus hijos marca una gran diferencia.
Es importante explorar y reconocer las diferencias en cómo las familias muestran afecto.
¡Mostrar amor por sus hijos ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué impide el cuidado afectuoso?
es muy importante! ■ Pregunte sobre factores estresantes agudos o diarios y comportamientos
difíciles de los niños. Explique que la capacidad de los niños para
mostrar afecto también puede afectar cómo los padres crían a sus hijos.
■ Pregunte: ¿Sabía que el amor que muestra por sus hijos en realidad
hace crecer sus cerebros y los hace más inteligentes? Las pequeñas
cosas se acumulan todos los días.
Las familias muestran afecto ■ Establezca el tono: Me interesa saber cómo se expresan el amor y el
de diferentes formas. Varios afecto en su familia.
factores, incluyendo cómo ■ Repase la lista y pídales a los padres que marquen las formas en las
nuestros propios padres nos que les gusta mostrar afecto a sus hijos.
demostraron o no el afecto, ■ Anime a los padres a agregar otras formas que no están en la lista.
pueden afectar cómo criamos a
nuestros hijos.
Algunos días son más fáciles ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué impide el cuidado afectuoso? (Pregunte sobre factores
que otros. estresantes agudos o diarios y comportamientos difíciles de los niños).
■ Pregunte: ¿Qué hace para cuidar de sí mismo para que estas cosas no
le impidan mostrar el amor que siente por su hijo?
Los niños necesitan cariño y ■ Anime a los padres a escribir en el calendario una cosa que podrían
afecto todos los días. hacer cada día para mostrarles a sus hijos cuánto los aman.
Knowledge of parenting and child development is an important protective factor. Parents who understand
the usual course of child development are more likely to provide their children with developmentally appropriate
limits, consistent rules and expectations, and opportunities that promote independence.
No parent can be an expert on all aspects of child development or on the most effective ways to support a
child at every age. As children grow, parents will need to continue to learn and respond to children’s emerging
needs.
Parenting styles need to be adjusted for each child’s unique temperament and circumstances. Parents of
children with special needs may benefit from additional coaching and support.
Children have reasons for ■ Work with the parent to identify a challenging behavior they have seen
behaving the way they do. recently.
■ Ask: What do you think your child is feeling or needing from you?
Parenting is a tough job! ■ Ask: What is going well with your child? What is not working as well?
Every parent has strategies ■ This is an opportunity to explore the parent’s perspective.
that work and areas where they
■ If a strategy is harmful (e.g., spanking), suggest positive alternatives.
struggle.
How we were parented ■ It is natural to parent our children the way our parents did or to try to
affects our parenting. avoid repeating our parents’ mistakes.
■ Ask: How do you think the way you were parented influences your
parenting decisions?
No parent can know ■ Ask: Where do you go when you have questions about parenting?
everything. All parents need (e.g., family, media, teachers, friends, books)
advice at times. ■ Offer resources where they could get expert advice, such as parenting
classes or online sources (e.g., CDC, National Parent and Youth
Helpline, healthychildren.org, or Abriendo Puertas/Opening Doors).
Being a great parent is part natural and part learned. All parents face challenges and need
advice along the way.
Tener conocimientos sobre la crianza y el desarrollo de los niños es un factor de protección importante. Los
padres que entienden el curso usual del desarrollo de los niños son más propensos a proporcionar a sus hijos límites
apropiados para su desarrollo, reglas y expectativas consistentes y oportunidades que promuevan la independencia.
Ningún padre puede ser un experto en todos los aspectos del desarrollo de los niños o en las maneras más
eficaces de apoyar a un niño en cada edad. A medida que los niños crecen, los padres necesitarán continuar
aprendiendo y respondiendo a las necesidades cambiantes de los niños.
Los estilos de crianza necesitan ser ajustados según el temperamento y las circunstancias únicas de cada
niño. Padres de niños con necesidades especiales pueden beneficiarse de ayuda y apoyo adicionales.
Los niños tienen razones para ■ Trabaje con el padre para identificar un comportamiento difícil que ha
comportarse de la manera visto recientemente.
que lo hacen. ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué cree que su hijo está sintiendo o necesitando de usted?
¡La crianza de hijos es un ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué está funcionando con su hijo? ¿Qué no está
trabajo difícil! Todos los funcionando tan bien?
padres tienen estrategias que ■ Esta es una oportunidad para explorar la perspectiva de los padres.
funcionan, como también áreas ■ Si una estrategia es dañina (por ejemplo, dar palmadas o nalgadas),
que les causan dificultades. sugiera alternativas positivas (enlace en inglés).
La forma en que fuimos ■ Es natural que criemos a nuestros hijos de la manera en que nuestros
criados afecta nuestra forma padres nos criaron, o de tratar de evitar repetir los errores de nuestros
de criar. padres.
■ Pregunte: ¿Cómo cree que la forma en que fue criado influye en sus
decisiones de crianza?
Ningún padre puede saberlo ■ Pregunte: ¿A dónde acude cuando tiene preguntas sobre la crianza? (por
todo. Todos los padres ejemplo, familiares, medios de comunicación, maestros, amigos, libros)
necesitan consejos de vez en ■ Ofrezca recursos donde puedan recibir asesoramiento experto,
cuando. como clases de crianza o fuentes en línea (por ejemplo, los CDC,
healthychildren.org en español o Abriendo Puertas/Opening Doors).
Se necesita tiempo para ■ Anime a los padres a comprometerse a hacer un cambio pequeño.
cambiar los hábitos, pero ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué cree que funcionará mejor para su hijo y familia?
nunca es demasiado tarde
para probar algo nuevo.
Ser un gran padre es en parte natural y en parte aprendido. Todos los padres enfrentan
desafíos y necesitan consejos de vez en cuando.
Cosas para ■ ¿Qué es una cosa que podría probar antes, durante o
probar después de que ocurra el comportamiento?
■ ¿Dónde podría encontrar apoyo adicional, si lo
necesito?
I Deserve Self-Care
GUIDE FOR PROFESSIONALS
Resilience is the flexibility and inner strength to bounce back when things are not going well. Parents with
resilience are better able to protect their children from stress and can help children learn critical self-regulation
and problem-solving skills.
All parents have strengths and resources that can serve as a foundation for building their resilience. These may
include faith, flexibility, humor, communication, problem-solving, caring relationships, or the ability to identify and
access needed services.
Self-care is important, but it is only part of the picture. Families experiencing multiple life stressors—such
as a history of trauma, health concerns, marital conflict, substance use, or community violence—and financial
stressors—such as unemployment, financial insecurity, or homelessness—face more challenges coping effectively
with typical day-to-day stresses of raising children.
Addressing stressors in the family, community, and society will ultimately create stronger, more resilient
families.
Parenting is stressful, and ■ Ask: What do you notice when you are under a lot of stress? How is
some situations are more your parenting affected when you are stressed?
difficult than others. Too ■ Share some common effects of stress—such as changes in eating or
much stress can make it harder sleeping habits or feelings of depression or hopelessness—if they are
to parent effectively. having trouble coming up with ideas.
Stress affects children, too. ■ Talk with caregivers about how children can pick up on family stress and
show many of the same signs.
■ Ask: How can you tell when your child is feeling stressed?
Everyone has strengths that ■ Ask: What kinds of things do you do to take care of yourself and
they draw on during difficult manage stress?
times. ■ Encourage them to circle items on the guide or write their own answers
in the category where they fit.
■ Then, prompt caregivers to think of and record other self-care strategies
that they could use, would like to use, or have seen others use.
■ Ask: What is one new self-care activity you can commit to this week?
The National Parent and Youth Helpline may also be a valuable resource for families.
Mind Spirit
Body Community
Me merezco el autocuidado
G U Í A PA R A P R O F E S I O N A L E S
La resiliencia es la flexibilidad y la fuerza interna para recuperarse cuando las cosas no van bien. Los
padres con resiliencia tienen más capacidad para proteger a sus hijos del estrés y pueden ayudarlos a aprender
habilidades esenciales de autorregulación y resolución de problemas.
Todos los padres tienen fortalezas y recursos que pueden servir como base para desarrollar su resiliencia. Estos
pueden incluir su fe, flexibilidad, humor, comunicación, capacidad para resolver problemas, relaciones afectuosas o
su capacidad para identificar y acceder a los servicios necesarios.
El autocuidado (cuidar de sí mismo) es importante, pero es solo una parte del panorama. Las familias con
múltiples factores de vida estresantes (como un historial de trauma, problemas de salud, conflictos matrimoniales, uso
de sustancias o violencia comunitaria) y factores estresantes financieros (como el desempleo, la inseguridad financiera
o la falta de hogar) enfrentan más dificultades para lidiar de manera efectiva con el estrés típico de criar hijos.
Abordar los factores estresantes en la familia, comunidad y sociedad creará familias más fuertes y resilientes.
La crianza de los hijos ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué nota cuando está muy estresado? ¿Cómo se ve
es estresante, y algunas afectada la manera en que cría a sus hijos cuando está estresado?
situaciones son más difíciles ■ Mencione algunos ejemplos de efectos comunes del estrés (como
que otras. Demasiado estrés cambios en los hábitos alimenticios o de sueño, o sentimientos de
puede dificultar la crianza depresión o desesperanza) si les cuesta pensar en ideas.
efectiva.
El estrés también afecta a los ■ Hable con los proveedores de cuidado sobre el hecho de que los
niños. niños pueden detectar el estrés de su familia y mostrar muchos de los
mismos signos.
■ Pregunte: ¿Cómo sabe cuándo su hijo se siente estresado?
Todas las personas tienen ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué tipo de cosas hace para cuidarse a sí mismo y manejar
fortalezas a las que recurren el estrés?
en tiempos difíciles. ■ Anime a los proveedores de cuidado a que encierren en un círculo los
elementos en la guía o que escriban sus respuestas en la categoría
correspondiente.
■ Luego, pídales que piensen en y anoten otras estrategias de
autocuidado que podrían usar, les gustaría usar, o han visto a otros usar.
■ Pregunte: ¿Cuál es una nueva actividad de autocuidado que puede
comprometerse a hacer esta semana?
El National Parent and Youth Helpline (en inglés), una línea de ayuda nacional para padres y jóvenes, también
puede ser un buen recurso para familias.
Mente Espíritu
Cuerpo Comunidad
We Are Connected
GUIDE FOR PROFESSIONALS
All parents need emotional support. Social connections (supportive friends, family, neighbors, and community
groups) help parents care for their children and themselves.
Social connections support children in multiple ways. A parent’s positive relationships give children access to
other caring adults, model important relational skills, and increase the likelihood that children will benefit from
involvement in positive activities.
Building positive relationships may require extra effort for some families—including those who are new
to a community, recently divorced, or first-time parents. Additionally, some parents may need to develop self-
confidence and social skills before they can expand their social networks.
All parents need ■ Explain that this conversation guide is a tool to help the parent “map” their
support sometimes. sources of social support.
■ Emphasize that there is no wrong way to complete this worksheet.
■ Have the caregiver put their name or family name in the center circle.
Support can come ■ Ask: Who are the people in your circle of support?
from family, friends, ■ If needed, prompt for names of friends, family, neighbors, and helping
neighbors, or other professionals.
helpful people. ■ Add their names in circles or other shapes around the center circle of the ecomap.
Social support ■ Ask: What groups or organizations are part of your family’s life? (e.g., faith
can be found communities, schools, workplaces, community centers)
by belonging to ■ Add them in the circles where they belong.
groups.
Not all connections ■ Ask: How well do each of these connections support you as a parent?
are equally ■ Invite the caregiver to show differences with different colors, solid vs. dotted
supportive. lines, or arrows indicating which direction(s) support flows.
■ Ask: Looking at this map, what do you notice about the connections in your life?
■ It may be important to take some time to help caregivers process their feelings
about the current amount of social support in their life.
Making new ■ Ask: Would you like to have more support? How do you go about making new
connections can be connections? What are the challenges?
challenging, but it is ■ Ask: What is one thing you can commit to doing this week to strengthen your
possible. social connections?
All families need support. Connecting with others helps to build a strong support system.
‘s
Support System
Estamos conectados
G U Í A PA R A P R O F E S I O N A L E S
Todos los padres necesitan apoyo emocional. Las conexiones sociales (amigos de apoyo, familiares, vecinos y
grupos comunitarios) ayudan a los padres a cuidar de sus hijos y de sí mismos.
Las conexiones sociales apoyan a los niños de varias maneras. Las relaciones positivas de los padres con otras
personas dan a los niños acceso a otros adultos que se preocupan por ellos, modelan habilidades relacionales
importantes y aumentan la probabilidad de que los niños se beneficien de la participación en actividades positivas.
La creación de relaciones positivas puede requerir un esfuerzo adicional para algunas familias, incluidas
familias que son nuevas en una comunidad, familias recientemente divorciadas o padres primerizos. Algunos
padres pueden necesitar desarrollar su confianza en sí mismos y sus habilidades sociales antes de poder expandir
sus redes sociales.
Todos los padres ■ Explique que esta guía de conversación es una herramienta para ayudar a los
necesitan apoyo padres a identificar sus fuentes de apoyo social.
de vez en cuando. ■ Enfatice que no hay una manera incorrecta de completar esta hoja de trabajo.
■ Pídale al proveedor de cuidado que ponga su nombre o apellido en el círculo central.
El apoyo social se ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué grupos u organizaciones forman parte de la vida de su familia? (por
puede encontrar ejemplo, comunidades de fe, escuelas, lugares de trabajo, centros comunitarios)
uniéndose a ■ Añádalos en círculos donde pertenecen.
grupos.
No todas las ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué tan bien le apoyan cada una de estas conexiones como padre?
conexiones ■ Invite al proveedor de cuidado a mostrar diferencias usando colores, líneas sólidas
ofrecen el mismo o punteadas o flechas indicando en qué dirección(es) fluye el apoyo que recibe.
nivel de apoyo. ■ Pregunte: Mirando este diagrama, ¿qué nota sobre las conexiones en su vida?
■ Puede ser importante tomar tiempo para ayudar al proveedor de cuidado a
procesar sus sentimientos acerca de la cantidad actual de apoyo social en su vida.
Hacer nuevas ■ Pregunte: ¿Le gustaría tener más apoyo? ¿Qué hace usted para formar nuevas
conexiones puede conexiones? ¿Cuáles son los desafíos?
ser difícil, pero sí ■ Pregunte: ¿Qué es una cosa que puede comprometerse a hacer esta semana para
es posible. fortalecer sus conexiones sociales?
Todas las familias necesitan apoyo. La conexión con otras personas ayuda a crear un sistema
de apoyo fuerte.
Sistema de
apoyo de
Una cosa que haré esta semana para fortalecer mi conexión a otras personas es:
Caregivers whose concrete needs are met have more time and energy to devote to their children’s safety
and well-being. When families do not have steady financial resources, lack a stable living situation, or cannot
afford food or health care, their ability to support their children’s healthy development may be at risk. Partnering
with parents to identify and access resources in the community helps them protect and care for their children.
Caregivers may need more than just a phone number. Consider providing support during initial calls, introducing
them directly to a personal contact, or otherwise offering a warm hand-off to a fellow service provider. Be sure to
refer families to providers who speak their language, are culturally competent, and are committed to equity.
All families need help ■ Ask: Can you think of a time when you asked for help in the past? (For
sometimes. example, when they connected with your organization.)
■ Point out how brave they were to accept help and ask what made that
experience successful for them.
Unmet basic needs like ■ Review the basic needs in the first column of the conversation guide.
nutritious food and safe, Talk with the family about other needs not mentioned in that list. Add
stable housing can be harmful those to the empty row(s) in their own words.
to children’s development ■ In column 2, ask parents to circle the response that best fits their family
and ability to learn. for each need.
There are many places to go ■ In column 3, give caregivers as many options as possible so they can
for help in our community. choose what is right for their own families.
They include government ■ Ask: What is one small step you can take this week?
agencies, as well as nonprofit
organizations and faith
communities.
Consider: What resources are available in your area to help caregivers meet their families’ basic needs for
food, safe housing, transportation, child care, health care, and employment?
One simple way to learn more about local organizations that support families is by calling 2-1-1. (Visit the 211
website to ensure availability of this service in your area.)
These things are important This is true for my family… A place I can go for help if I need
for my family... it is…
2-1-1 is a service that connects people all over the country with helpful services where they live.
Los proveedores de cuidado cuyas necesidades concretas están satisfechas tienen más tiempo y energía
para dedicar a la seguridad y el bienestar de sus hijos. Cuando las familias no tienen recursos financieros
constantes, carecen de una situación de vivienda estable o no tienen los medios para comprar alimentos o pagar
por atención médica, su capacidad para apoyar el desarrollo saludable de sus hijos puede estar en riesgo. Trabajar
junto a los padres para identificar y acceder a recursos en la comunidad les ayuda a proteger y cuidar a sus hijos.
Los proveedores de cuidado pueden necesitar más que solo un número de teléfono. Considere brindar
asistencia durante las llamadas iniciales o presentarles directamente a un colega proveedor de servicios.
Asegúrese de referir a las familias a proveedores que hablen su idioma, sean culturalmente competentes y estén
comprometidos con la equidad.
Todas las familias necesitan ■ Pregunte: ¿Puede pensar en una ocasión en la que pidió ayuda en el
ayuda de vez en cuando. pasado? (por ejemplo, cuando se conectaron con su organización)
■ Señale cuán valientes fueron para aceptar ayuda y pregúnteles qué hizo
que esa experiencia fuera exitosa para ellos.
Hay muchos lugares para ■ En la columna 3, ofrézcales a los proveedores de cuidado tantas
buscar ayuda en nuestra opciones como sea posible para que puedan elegir lo que es mejor
comunidad. Estos incluyen para sus propias familias.
agencias gubernamentales, ■ Pregunte: ¿Cuál es un pequeño paso que puede tomar esta semana?
organizaciones sin fines de
lucro y comunidades religiosas.
Considere: ¿Qué recursos están disponibles en su área para ayudar a los proveedores de cuidado a
satisfacer las necesidades básicas de sus familias (alimento, vivienda, transporte, cuidado para los niños,
cuidados médicos, empleo)?
Puede aprender más sobre las organizaciones locales que apoyan a las familias llamando al 2-1-1. (Visite el sitio
web de 211 para asegurarse de la disponibilidad de este servicio en su área).
Estas cosas son importantes Esto es cierto para mi familia… Un lugar donde puedo buscar
para mi familia… ayuda si la necesito es…
Mis hijos tienen un lugar seguro para □ Siempre □ Algunas veces □ Nunca
ir cuando no puedo estar con ellos.
2-1-1 es un servicio que conecta a personas de todo el país con los servicios donde viven.
2023/2024 Prevention Resource Guide
Social/Emotional
Competence
Children who exhibit social and emotional competence are likely to have better relationships and greater
resilience to stress as adults. Social and emotional competence refers to children’s ability to form bonds and
interact positively with others, self-regulate their emotions and behavior, communicate their feelings, and solve
problems effectively.
Helping children to develop these skills can result in stronger parent-child relationships that are mutually
rewarding. Parents grow more responsive to children’s needs—and less likely to feel stressed or frustrated—as
children learn to say what they need, rather than “acting out” difficult feelings.
Children’s delays in social-emotional development can create extra stress for families. It is important to
identify any such concerns as early as possible and to provide services to children and their parents that facilitate
healthy development.
Social skills are important for ■ Give some examples of social skills, such as taking turns, sharing,
children to become successful or using manners.
adults. Social skills are defined and ■ Ask: Which social skills are most important in your family/
prioritized a little differently for each community/culture? Why?
unique family and community.
Children and youth develop ■ Help the parent connect important social skills with typical child
social skills gradually. Share some development. (For example, I hear you saying that sharing is
information about social skills that really important to you. Most children develop the ability to share
they might expect to see at their their toys around age 5.)
children’s current ages. ■ Ask: Which of these skills do you see your child doing well?
Which would you like to help them improve?
Our children learn by watching us. ■ Ask: What are some situations where your child might see you
using [chosen skill]?
■ For example, how does the caregiver use this skill with their
coparent, family members, or friends?
Parents can help their children ■ Ask: When have you seen your child do [action/behavior] well
learn social skills. One great way to recently? How do you let your child know you like what they’re
teach children is by “catching them” doing?
doing something well. ■ Ask: How else could you encourage this skill?
Children with strong social skills get along better with others. You are your child’s first and
most important teacher.
One social skill I would like I encourage this skill by:
to help my child improve:
□ Praising them when they do this well
□ Reading books about emotions and/or social situations
□ Pointing out when characters on TV use the skill
□ Naming feelings (my own and/or my child’s)
□ Setting up play dates for practice
Los niños que muestran capacidades sociales y emocionales son propensos a tener mejores relaciones y
una mayor resiliencia al estrés como adultos. “Capacidad social y emocional” se refiere a la capacidad de
los niños para formar vínculos e interactuar positivamente con otras personas, regular sus propias emociones y
comportamientos, comunicar sus sentimientos y resolver problemas eficazmente.
Ayudar a los niños a desarrollar estas habilidades puede resultar en relaciones más fuertes y
enriquecedoras entre padres e hijos. Los padres pueden responder mejor a las necesidades de los niños (y
sentirse menos estresados y frustrados) a medida que los niños aprenden a expresar sus necesidades, en vez de
“portarse mal” para expresar sentimientos difíciles.
Los retrasos en el desarrollo social y emocional de los niños pueden crear estrés adicional para las familias.
Es importante identificar tales preocupaciones lo antes posible y proporcionar servicios a los niños y sus padres
que faciliten un desarrollo saludable.
Las habilidades sociales son ■ Dé algunos ejemplos de habilidades sociales, como esperar su
importantes para que los niños se turno, compartir con los demás o usar buenos modales.
conviertan en adultos exitosos. ■ Pregunte: ¿Cuáles habilidades sociales son más importantes en
Estas habilidades se definen y su familia, comunidad y cultura? ¿Por qué?
priorizan de manera diferente para
cada familia y comunidad.
Los niños y jóvenes desarrollan ■ Ayude a los padres a conectar habilidades sociales con el
habilidades sociales gradualmente. desarrollo típico de un niño. (Por ejemplo, Le escuché decir que
Comparta información sobre las para usted es importante que su hijo sepa compartir. La mayoría
habilidades sociales que podrían de los niños desarrollan la capacidad de compartir sus juguetes
esperar ver según las edades alrededor de los 5 años).
actuales de sus hijos. ■ Pregunte: ¿Cuáles de estas habilidades cree que su hijo hace
bien? ¿Cuáles le gustaría ayudarle a su hijo a mejorar?
Nuestros hijos aprenden ■ Pregunte: ¿Cuáles son algunas situaciones en las que su hijo
mirándonos. podría verlo a usted modelando [habilidad elegida]?
■ Por ejemplo, ¿cómo usa el proveedor de cuidado esta habilidad
con su pareja, familiares o amigos?
Los padres pueden ayudar a ■ Pregunte: ¿Cuándo ha visto a su hijo hacer [acción o
sus hijos a aprender habilidades comportamiento] bien recientemente? ¿Cómo le hace saber a su
sociales. Una excelente manera de hijo que le gusta lo que está haciendo?
enseñar a los niños es “pillándolos” ■ Pregunte: ¿De qué otra manera podría fomentar esta habilidad?
haciendo algo bien.
Los niños con fuertes habilidades sociales se llevan mejor con los demás. Usted es el primer
y más importante maestro de su hijo.
Una habilidad social que me gustaría Fomento esta habilidad:
ayudar a mi hijo a mejorar:
□ Felicitando a mi hijo cuando la hacen bien.
□
□
Una cosa que haré esta semana para fomentar las habilidades sociales:
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
The Prevention Resource Guide’s content has benefitted greatly from the collective wisdom
of many of the top practitioners, thinkers, and subject-matter experts in primary prevention
and community collaboration. OCAN specifically recognizes the contributions of the following
people who were interviewed for this guide:
■ Kiersten Beigel, M.S.W., U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for
Children and Families, Office of Head Start
■ Kristin Bernhard, J.D., Ounce of Prevention Fund
■ Paula Bibbs-Samuels, FRIENDS Parent Advisory Council
■ Melissa Brodowski, Ph.D., U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for
Children and Families, Office of Early Childhood Development
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■ Heather Stenson, National Parent Advisory Council - Montana
■ Audrey Smolkin, M.P.P., Center on Child Wellbeing and Trauma
■ Catherine Taylor, Ph.D., M.S.W., M.P.H., Boston College School of Social Work
■ Amy Templeman, Alliance for Strong Families and Communities, Within Our Reach
■ Allison Thompson, Office of Children and Families, City of Philadelphia
■ Kristen Weber, Center for the Study of Social Policy
■ Miriam Westheimer, Ph.D., Home Instruction for Parents of Preschool Youngsters
■ Vadonna Williams, FRIENDS Parent Advisory Council
■ Melissa Zimmerman, FRIENDS Parent Advisory Council
Thought partnership, concept development, and writing provided by Jill Currie Consulting.
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