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    Love Unrequited

    ENCOURAGING EXIT FROM


    UNREQUITED LOVE
    Unrequited lovers have always
    enjoyed a special kind of
    attention and sympathy from our
    society. We mostly never worry
    about how uncomfortable
    unrequited love is, for the
    rejecter.
    A MESSAGE FOR UNREQUITED LOVERS
    Don’t let your insecurities get the better of you.
    Desperation is an ugly little thing that can damage
    relationships. Desperation will drive potential dates away.
    Being confident and independent, prioritizing, and doing
    what’s best for you will pay off. Be proud of who you are
    and don’t change yourself for someone just to get another
    date. Be honest with him and yourself. Confidence,
    however, is a proven trait that will get you more dates and
    will make you happier in many other aspects of life aside
    from dating. Confident people are less likely to be in
    unrequited love.
    Perhaps your beloved has a fear of commitment or this simply isn’t the right one. We all want someone to
    share life’s sorrows and joys day in and day out. If this person can’t do it, we need someone who will.
    Perhaps there is something more troubling such as narcissism or a personality disorder that you have not
    thought about yet. Too often people hold out hope that the person will change, see the error of their ways,
    go to counseling, and come back to the relationship. That’s a fantasy that usually doesn’t happen. It helps
    to see what may be keeping you stuck and to accept that it’s not changing any time soon. It’s time to let
    that one go. A person who walks out or puts you on hold or wants you only as a friend, is not that person.
    Anyone who has rejected you in any way, for any reason, is not for you.
    THE FLAWS OF UNREQUITED LOVE
    When we are able to give our love freely, when just to love
    someone feels like appreciation of self, without any strings
    attached; that is the state of loving detachment. It is very
    important for unrequited lovers to understand this form of
    love, because if you are able to love with detachment, the
    one-way love will not have as much negative impact on
    you. If you are able to love the unavailable object like we
    love the beauty of the setting sun, knowing that this beauty
    belongs to nature and we can only watch it, and let it have
    the calming effect on, without expecting anything else,
    then unrequited love does not encumber you. It does not
    pull energy from you. It simply Loves.
    APPRECIATING
    UNREQUITED
    LOVE
    If you are the one who fell and fell
    hard, there is nearly nothing worse
    than unrequited love. Things may
    seem grim, I’m not going to lie, and
    it feels like the world just tipped off
    of its axis and sent you hurdling, but
    there is hope and there is healing,
    after the pain. We have all felt it
    before, that hole in our chest that
    seethes with pain as you realize the
    object of your affection, the one
    you’ve bared your heart and soul to,
    does not return the feeling.
    UNREQUITED LOVE
    AND
    SELF-REALISATION
    Unrequited love is difficult to sort out,
    and confusing. I know. But trust me,
    you are not the only one who is going
    through unrequited love. Perhaps,
    there are more people in unrequited
    love in this world than in a complete,
    reciprocal relationship. While it is
    certainly going to take time, breaking
    the recovery process down into small,
    manageable parts will enable you to
    look at all of the pieces and find out
    exactly why you are suffering.
    Love Unrequited

    Just because you know that there is something like a soul companion, don’t start imagining
    that your beloved can become your soul companion.

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